New to Hiring Escorts

[Guest mineallmine]

Hello,

This is my first post. I have been reading the posts for awhile getting a feel for the place.

I am new to hiring an escort. It has always been a fantasy of mine. I have been doing alot of reading of ads, posts, and reviews. It seems to me there is alot of conflicting ways of doing things.

I do understand this is an individual based business and so there are a hundred and one ways to run your business. Some examples I have noticed that some say it is bad if the escort asks for the money up front. I have also heard that you should have the money laid out in plain sight so that all parties can see it.

It might be helpful if for new people to the escorting scene if there was a list of suggestions, protocols, or information that one could look at. I understand it would only be a guideline cause no one situation is the same as another but it would be a starting point. It might help erase the nervousness and give a person looking to hire an escort and the escort a place to start from in talking. Not to mention it might give a new escort a source to look at how to frame their business as well.

Maybe if we start posting suggestions for the list here someone can work on compiling them. Just a thought.

Thank you for listening!

J.

[Guest epigonos]

Hi mineallmine and welcome to the board. At one time we were all in your situation. You have most definitely started out correctly by reading posts on this site and if you haven’t already read www.mc.daddysreviews.com as well.

In my opinion your major concern needs to be which escort you select for your FIRST plunge into this crazy, fun and enjoyable world. If you let us know in which market you intend to hire and what type of escort you are seeking we might offer some suggestions. It is critical that you get started with a sympathetic, experienced, and understanding escort. He will be the one who can really answer your questions. One of the really great things about hiring an escort is that there is simply NO question or request you cannot present. Believe me these guys have heard it all and you will not shock or offend them. There are really only a couple of things to keep in mind initially. First, always approach any escort you select politely and respectfully. Yes these guys are businessmen but there are also human beings and they will respond very positively to being treated with respect and kindness. Second, if your make a certain request and the escorts says no then accept his NO and hire him with that reservation or thank him for his time and move on to the another guy.

I have always used sites like www.rentboy.com and www.men4rentnow.com as much for eye candy as for sources of possible hires. If I do find a guy who interests me on one of these sits I ALWAYS return to this site or to www.mc.daddysreviews.com to look for reviews. If I find no reviews I will likely post a question on the escort forum of both sites requesting information. If information is not forthcoming I then must decide whether or not to make a leap into the unknown and hire the guy. I will hire a guy without reviews BUT very seldom. At this point in your escort hiring adventure I strongly and sincerely don’t recommend that you take that chance.

Keep asking question on both sites and you will get answers. If you are judicious in your choice of escorts I assure you that you are in for lots and LOTS of great FUN. GO FOR IT!!!!!

[Guest StuCotts]

As you say, there are as many ways of doing things as there are people doing them. As to payment, an escort's request for cash in advance is considered by many clients a sign of an unsuccessful encounter ahead. Some clients volunteer their cash up front. I think more don't. My practice is to pay as I'm getting dressed. Yours will be whatever you eventually decide is comfortable for you.

You'll be talking on the phone with any escort before making the final hiring decision. Don't hesitate to tell him you're new to this thing for as long as you feel you are. At some point he'll probably ask what you expect of the encounter. Tell him. If he doesn't bring it up, you do it. If at the end of the dialogue it doesn't sound like a meeting of the minds to you, bow out gracefully.

Epigonos mentions respect. Indispensable, and a two-way street. Neither one should feel obliged to take attitude from the other. Any escort you can't have a comfortable conversation with you probably won't feel comfortable taking to bed.

Reading reviews can be as chancy an art as reading tea leaves. That said, your likelihood of finding actionable info on an escort is vastly better here than at Daddy's. A goodly percentage of my hires have been unreviewed escorts. As I recall, my rate of successful encounters has been at least as high with them as with the reviewed and hyperreviewed ones.

Just follow your instincts. I wish you a ton of beginner's luck and lots more after.

[Guest voke]

My advice would be nearly the same. I was in your shoes just two months ago. I did the research, etc. Decided on a pair of escorts thinking there was safety in numbers.

Also, not ever having hired before, I had no idea what was good.....or not so good. The only measurement I had was theI the reviews I read hear at MER. So after much research, and reaching a degree of comfort that I made the right decision, I contacted a pair, thinking that most of their raved reviews were with men in/or near my age. Don't make the same mistake. If you're hiring for the first time, my advice would be do a solo,...you and the escort.

[TampaYankee]

If you're hiring for the first time, my advice would be do a solo,...you and the escort.

I agree with Voke. The dyamics are completely different for one-on-one, double teaming by a pair of boyfriends or two-on-one with two independent escorts in tandem. Best to be the only focus of your service provider. The dynamics of boyfriends can be weird and sometimes escorts working together for the first time can suffer inhibitions or competitive issues or loose sight of the clients as focus.

In the beginning keep it simple, see a single guy.

[Guest mineallmine]

Thank you all for the Sage replies. I am actually going to vegas, cause as you know what happens in vegas stays in vegas, to try my first escort. I already have kind of chosen whom shall be my first. I really am rather excited.

I do hope that this post helps any other newcomers out there who are lurking and thinking about hiring. There are some really great guys out there.

Thanks

J.