AdamSmith Posted December 27, 2007 Posted December 27, 2007 If you worry you spend too much time and effort chasing dick or otherwise, here's a benchmark... Married man: 'I slept with 13 women this week' Dr. Gail Saltz calls a troubled man a 'sociopathic sex addict' By Gail Saltz TODAYShow.com contributor updated 4:07 p.m. ET, Wed., Dec. 19, 2007 Q. I can’t get enough of women. I have to look at every woman who walks by. I watch porn, I flirt, I keep in touch with past girlfriends, I make new ones, I browse for women online. I get up to 30 e-mails a day from women. Once I have seduced them online, they are dying to meet me and usually sleep with me on the first date. Then I find the simplest flaw and use that against them to break it off. They are devastated. They feel I have used them sexually, and they are right. The kicker is that I am married. My wife is great, beautiful, intelligent and we have a good sex life. I am 41. We have been together for 25 years. I, however, still have a constant rotation of new women. I just can’t stop seducing other women and having sex with them. Nor do I want to, because I am having the time of my life. This is affecting my job, but only because it is so time-consuming. Typically, it takes three hours a day to write to women. Then I make phone calls to those higher on the rotation. Then I e-mail again for another three hours after my wife goes to bed. Then I do a few hours of research for new women... http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/22330315/?GT1=10645 Quote
TotallyOz Posted January 5, 2008 Posted January 5, 2008 Really? This qualifies as a sex addict? OM Not good news for me. Quote
Members KYTOP Posted January 5, 2008 Members Posted January 5, 2008 Really? This qualifies as a sex addict? OM Not good news for me. Hummm, I am trying to count how many guys I "slept with" in a week in Thailand, I think I got this guy beat Quote
Guest dicknla Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 Hummm, I am trying to count how many guys I "slept with" in a week in Thailand, I think I got this guy beat KY. 13 in a week in Thailand, I agree, with all the cute boys I think i would get to at least 14 and work on 21. But I must do this soon as even with the help of little blue I imagine this will be a lot of work on the 6th and 7th day, but on the 8th I would rest, with just one cutie..lol Oz and TY I hav no doubt you both would make me look feeble in my attemts. Quote
TotallyOz Posted January 6, 2008 Posted January 6, 2008 KY. 13 in a week in Thailand, I agree, with all the cute boys I think i would get to at least 14 and work on 21. But I must do this soon as even with the help of little blue I imagine this will be a lot of work on the 6th and 7th day, but on the 8th I would rest, with just one cutie..lol Oz and TY I hav no doubt you both would make me look feeble in my attemts. LOL. Damm, I resemble this remark. I did it but paid for the viagra hangover for days after. The plane ride was a bitch. Quote
Guest StuCotts Posted January 7, 2008 Posted January 7, 2008 If you worry you spend too much time and effort chasing dick or otherwise, here's a benchmark...Married man: 'I slept with 13 women this week' Dr. Gail Saltz calls a troubled man a 'sociopathic sex addict' By Gail Saltz TODAYShow.com contributor updated 4:07 p.m. ET, Wed., Dec. 19, 2007 Q. I can’t get enough of women. I have to look at every woman who walks by. I watch porn, I flirt, I keep in touch with past girlfriends, I make new ones, I browse for women online. I get up to 30 e-mails a day from women. Once I have seduced them online, they are dying to meet me and usually sleep with me on the first date. Then I find the simplest flaw and use that against them to break it off. They are devastated. They feel I have used them sexually, and they are right. The kicker is that I am married. My wife is great, beautiful, intelligent and we have a good sex life. I am 41. We have been together for 25 years. I, however, still have a constant rotation of new women. I just can’t stop seducing other women and having sex with them. Nor do I want to, because I am having the time of my life. This is affecting my job, but only because it is so time-consuming. Typically, it takes three hours a day to write to women. Then I make phone calls to those higher on the rotation. Then I e-mail again for another three hours after my wife goes to bed. Then I do a few hours of research for new women... http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/22330315/?GT1=10645 Assuming he's at all attractive, what a shame to squander all that single-minded lust on pussy. If he's not, he can take it out on barnyard animals for all I care. Quote
Members lookin Posted January 8, 2008 Members Posted January 8, 2008 A looker or not, I wouldn’t wish this guy on the worst of the barnyard animals. He’s a sociopath, plain and simple, with no compassion, and a crude desire to hurt others. Numbers for him are not about pleasure, as they are for the members here; they are about pain. I’ve never read a client here who didn’t wish the escort well, and I’ve never read an escort here who didn’t wish the client well, with mutual respect as part of the deal. In my opinion, this guy should be limited to self abuse. As often as he likes. . . . . . . . . . . “For me, it is not simply the sex, it is the seduction, and the mental games and pleasure I receive from this. To seduce a women to the point where she really wants to have sex with me is very stimulating to me. It is like I have scored a touchdown in the last few seconds of the Superbowl. I have gotten so good at the aftergame as well that I make only one call or e-mail. You are not what I was looking for, please don’t write me anymore. I never hear from them again. I find myself so manipulative it scares me sometimes. "Part of the game, too, is being so manipulative with my wife that it feels like directing an orchestra. Move her here, date the wife, sleep with the girlfriend, get a new girlfriend, slot her in for Tuesday. "Can you please give me some insight into what is going on?†Answer. “I think you are a sex addict and a sociopath. . . . . . . . . . . "What is so very disturbing is your complete lack of guilt, remorse or empathy for the other parties involved. You know intellectually that this is bad behavior, because you are aware you are betraying your spouse and hurting all the other woman you deal with. Yet it seems that you understand this only on a purely observational level. "It sounds as though you have no capacity for emotion. You lack any ability to hold yourself morally accountable for your dishonest and harmful actions. You are easily able to rationalize hurting and mistreating others, whether they are strangers or relatives. In fact, you take pleasure in it.†. . . . . . . . . . "To my readers: People like this are often charming and charismatic. As you can see, this man has no trouble duping people and racking up innumerable conquests. If you encounter somebody like this, I suggest you get away as quickly as possible." Quote
