Guest rogerfromdc Posted May 29, 2007 Posted May 29, 2007 Hey guys. I've met this wonderful young kid (22) who has told me that he wants to stop escorting and hopes that I will be his regular hook-up. He's in grad school and from a really terrific family. Those who have had the pleasure of meeting escorts will see this as plausible, because so many are really great guys. I laughed to myself that several of these guys have been therapists helping me out of a very bad relationship. Anyway I think we've made a connection with this young man (but time will tell). I am 44, professional, and discreet. I am not filthy rich but I have means, and I really find myself wanting to help this kid. But I don't want this rent-a-date dynamic. I would much rather transform it in to more of a relationship where I can support him. Anybody have experience with this sort of thing? I would love to have some advice so I can try to make this work. Quote
Guest Conway Posted May 30, 2007 Posted May 30, 2007 My advice is...enjoy it while it lasts. There are lots of positives to having a younger boy in your life. There are also some incredible challenges to it. Be prepared to be flexible. Quote
Members blondeq Posted June 4, 2007 Members Posted June 4, 2007 I had a Daddy situation for about 2 years. I am 43 and my companion was 26. Similar situation, in that my companion was finishing a degree. I certainly made some mistakes, namely getting too emotionally involved, knowing all along that it is really a money issue. My advise is to go for it, but come up with an amount of financial support that you are willing to part with and NEVER EVER exceed that set amount; most importantly making sure that you are still able to plan for your future without your companion. Also, I would suggest that you clearly express what you expect for you assistance. I would imagine that your potential companion views this as a business relationship and you should as well. Good Luck! Quote
Guest Friendly Advisor Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 I know of several such situations. Go for it, just remember there is a GREAT probability that at some point he will no longer need a DADDY. I have seen this happen twice. If you can develope 'love' in the meantime; maybe it will can last. GOOD LUCK ! Quote
