first time hiring the escort, advise pls ?

[holycrap]

hi,

I'm thinking to hire a escort for 1 or 2 hours.....any advice what i should do before getting to bed ?

i mean, what should be avoid or don't and do ?

thanks !

[Guest PWIT]

welcome ardeni.

Since it will be your first time with an escort, do what you can to make it the best experience possible. There is always that nervous anticipation of a first time experience - but that can add to the excitement.

First piece of advice: do your homework. A first time is not for taking chances. Find a well reviewed escort. This could be through formal reviews on this or other sites, but also use the search capabilities on this and other message centers. When you have a list of possibilities, don't be afraid to post on the MC and ask for feedback. Or you can always post what you desire in an escort and you will usually find many helpful people that can offer recommendations.

As a first time experience, it is important to pick someone that will fulfill some desire, fantasy, or someone to which you have a strong attraction. It just makes the moment more memorable.

Communication is key. When you reach out and contact your choice, if you do not get that warm fuzzy feeling and the communication up front does not leave you with a sense of comfort and desire to move forward then move on. You can always see that escort at a later time, but for your first experience the communication needs to be right - easy and free flowing.

Communicate with the escort it is your first time - let him know what will make it a most comfortable experience for you. Also let him know what type experience your desire. Are you looking for romance, an aggressive experience, or something else.

For a seasoned escort, one that is well reviewed and proven to be a great experience, you may have to pay a little more. A first time experience is not a time to look for bargains.

Plan for adequate time. I would never recommend an hour visit for a first time experience. For the first time, you will find an hour goes by so quickly. I also would not recommend an overnight for a first time. Consider an evening experience - maybe include dinner in your plans to help break the ice.

My first escort experience was a great one. One that I remember vividly to this day. I hope you experience will be the same.

PWIT

[TotallyOz]

PWIT gives some great suggestions. Research is key.

My first hire was at the Gaiety. I met this guy and did not know privates even existed. When he invited me back to his room, I figured out it was cash based. Stupid boy from Deep South didn't know when he first sat by me that he wasn't hitting on me but my wallet. But, I figured it out quick.

I went to his room, sucked his cock and that was it. 200 later, I was happy as a lark as I did not know this was even possible. I cannot tell you the number of guys I hired from the Gaiety over the years and mostly it was just oral. One night a friend from the Gaiety took me to Stella's around the corner and it was full of my type of boys. Dark, Latin, sexy. And, they did much more than just oral. I sat in the back on bar stool that eventually had my name written on it. I don't think a week went by that I wasn't there for at least 5 nights. I had some bad times but mostly good ones.

When Hooboy started his site, it made things much easier for me. Now we have a plethora of reviewers that we can rely on. Hooboy’s legacy of reviews and information lives on and because of that, it makes your task of finding someone who will give you a great first encounter much easier.

[Guest CTDick]

ardeni, I think PWIT has given you great advice, with one exception.

I agree that one hour isn't enough and that two is preferable. However, I'm not sure I'd go for dinner. You are going to want to get down to business. There are too many chances for the ardor to cool at a restaurant (conversation doesn't flow, his politics are a turnoff, the food isn't right......) Just get him to your place and get on with it.

PWIT was right about telling the escort it is your first time. You might also consider what you have fantasized about (undressing him, having him do a slow strip for you, having him undress you, just getting undressed quickly, top/bottom/versatile, oral/anal, etc.) and tell him.

Enjoy. There is only one first time. :7

Dick

[Guest PWIT]

>I agree that one hour isn't enough and that two is preferable.

> However, I'm not sure I'd go for dinner. You are going to

>want to get down to business. There are too many chances for

>the ardor to cool at a restaurant (conversation doesn't flow,

>his politics are a turnoff, the food isn't right......) Just

>get him to your place and get on with it.

excellent point CTDick. In discussing dinner with my first escort in conversations prior to meeting, he actually suggested we do dinner after. He didn't want to bottom on a 'fully belly' (I still find it cute the way he expressed it). For me it was the perfect extension of the evening. I couldn't have asked for a better experience. From the moment he walked in the door of my hotel room, until the final moment goodbye he was very attentative to me. After some 80 odd escorts later, the experience still sets such a high bar that only a few have been able to attain.

[Guest rogerfromdc]

Hey, I've been hiring guys for a couple of months now, so I'm glad to offer some tips to make your experience enjoyable:

*I wasted lots of time in a relationship, and I am not going to hit the bars and date my way to happiness. Plus I am not turned on by someone who looks like me. (I'm not ugly, just not a stud.) I have been able to meet a couple of PERFECT, TOTAL FANTASY guys, including one dude whose porno shots have had me drooling for years.

I'm totally vanilla, so if you are wanting a more intense encounter, my advice might not apply to you.

*Don't rush in to just any encounter. Find a couple of guys who you think will be perfect and wait for one you are dying for.

*REVIEWS ARE ESSENTIAL. Don't take a chance on someone with just one or two reviews: sometimes they're too good to be true, because they aren't.

*RESPECT THE GUYS. They aren't what you're expecting. I've met some of the sweetest, kindest, respectful guys. Most are in this line of work because they really like giving a guy pleasure and they're great at it. Don't jerk them around, just be straight with them (so to speak).

*When you're in the middle of the excitement and all, try to remember what you enjoy and go for it. I've walked away from some intense encounters thinking about why I didn't worship some beautiful cock or ass.

*I've had only one bad experience, and he was a nice kid but not at all what I expected. I should have settled up with him and sent him on his way. And I've had two guys short-change me a bit but they were just in a hurry more than trying to cheat me. I should have been prepared to ask for my time, but I felt pathetic begging for it.

*The nicest time I had with these boys was cuddling after and talking. Being in some awesome dude's arms or holding him close can't be beat.

[blondeq]

I agree with the previous comments about communication. To expand, just slightly, be sure to think about any of your fantasies that you may want to occur during your time with the escort. Be open with the escort about your fantasies, even if you feel shy about this. Believe me, any escort that has been around a year or more has heard it all and will probably be receptive. Finally, I think PWIT's comment about your gut feeling is of paramount importance. After talking with the escort, you shouldn't have the slightest reservation about meeting the escort; if you do, you probably need to look a little more.

If you tell us which city you are hoping to hire in, and what you are looking for, in an escort, I am sure that the posters will have a suggestion or two. Good luck