Guest epigonos Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 I have to admit that I am fascinated and a little perplexed by the fact that, more and more, escorts who are willing to suck my cock, fuck my ass, or even have me fuck theirs are NOT WILLING TO KISS ME. Now I understand that some of these guys have partners and that kissing is not permitted in that relationship but really!!!!! If an escort’s profile states that he doesn’t kiss I move on immediately and no matter how hot the guy is and what else he will do he is off my list of potential future hires. How do some of you other clients feel about this issue? Quote
Members flguy Posted December 3, 2006 Members Posted December 3, 2006 Completely Agree, No Kissing, No Deal Quote
Members Lucky Posted December 3, 2006 Members Posted December 3, 2006 I agree. The better the kiss, the better the bang! http://www.actuacine.net/Poster/kiss.jpg Quote
Guest Barry Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Absolutely agree. And none of this "dry" kissing. I like to make out. Quote
Guest epigonos Posted December 3, 2006 Posted December 3, 2006 Damn good point Barry!!!!! I want, I insist, and I demand that kisses be wet and sloppy. Furthermore while kissing I expect the guy to swab my tonsils while I swab his. Quote
Members marcanthony Posted December 4, 2006 Members Posted December 4, 2006 For me... it's a "depends." Kissing is definitely one of the main things on my list, and definitely a high priority in hiring decisions. But if I see an ad of a guy who is SO HOT that he gives me a raging hard on just looking at his pic on a computer, and he says that he'll let me fuck him for $200 but won't kiss. I think I won't pass. For me, hiring is multifactorial. Lots of things are important and get to me... like looks, personality, reliability, horniness, willingness to kiss/bottom, being affectionate, willingness to be adventurous in certain fetishes (bottoming for toys/spanking). If someone is a big plus in every category and just doesn't kiss, it's not enough to kill the deal for me. Quote
Guest Funseeker22 Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I`m with Barry and Epignos. Kissing can be so hot and is requiredas far as I am concerned. I`ve found some hot `scort kissers too. :-) Quote
Guest ScottAdler Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Ha ha ... it's funny this came up when it did. Here in Boston I invited this INCREDIBLY hot boy over ... I dunno what's in the water here but I guess they recruit all the A&F catalog boys in Boston. He says he's very versatile and has no problem getting fucked ("although he doesn't usually do that at a first meeting but since I'm only in town briefly ...") so I think I've died and gone to heaven. He's beautiful ... totally gorgeous everything his pictures were supposed to be. He was stopping over before going to his friends place. We get on the bed and chat a little and then he starts groping and I lean over to kiss him and he moves his head, "Sorry I don't kiss ... just one of my things ... too intimate. It's no big deal though." "Yeah, it kind of is ..." and I rolled over. He then spent the next 10 minutes or so groping and trying to start something. Finally I asked him if his friends are waiting on him suggesting he should leave. I dunno ... kissing is ROYALLY big for me and I literally dont think I could have enjoyed fucking him without it. He's willing to have my dick in his ass, put his mouth all over my dick or eat my ass but kissing is too intimate? LOL. Quote
Members KYTOP Posted December 4, 2006 Members Posted December 4, 2006 >I have to admit that I am fascinated and a little perplexed >by the fact that, more and more, escorts who are willing to >suck my cock, fuck my ass, or even have me fuck theirs are NOT >WILLING TO KISS ME. I have always found that one of the more confusing things about some escorts. Kissing is important to me, because it is definitely my turn on spot, but not a deal breaker in a few occasions. If a guy has a really hot body and will at least suck I can go for it but, I find few guys that would fit the bill. An Example would be Brock Penn/DC http://www.maleescortreview.com/index.php?...er_id=106101061 I find his body to be so hot I would be willing to try him w/o the kissing and even though he is a top, since he will suck. I think his body could keep me hard for any time with him. Of course if he doesn't look like his pictures the session would probably crash and burn. I also find it fun when "straight" guys will suck cock. Quote
AdamSmith Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Kissing is the first must for me. As Andre put it on the other forum, "sex without kissing is boring." To say the least. And Barry has the rest of it absolutely right: >And none of this "dry" kissing. >I like to make out. Few things are more frustrating to me than dry or very shallow kissing. Quote
Guest Johnnybrk25 Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I think thats the most bizarre thing ever. I can't imagine working as an escort if I didn't kiss. It moves a session beyond something mechanical to something real for me. While this is a business it is still a personal one that requires escort and client to connect. I would be super uncomfortable being with a guy who wouldn't kiss. I've had a rare few clients who don't and I was extremely uncomfortable the entire time. Quote
TotallyOz Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 >He's >willing to have my dick in his ass, put his mouth all over my >dick or eat my ass but kissing is too intimate? LOL. Well, I wake up at 3AM to read this post. 2 sexy guys fucking and rimming. Geeze. Thanks alot for starting my day out on the right foot. Quote
TotallyOz Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 I agree. Kissing is a big deal for me. I know that many don't like to kiss and it is a total turn off by some. I had a Latin boy in NYC that I saw for over 6 years. He was an escort and I met him at Stella's. He was totally versatile, oral and great sex. He hated to kiss. Not just me but anyone. We had more than a few 3 ways over the years with other hot escorts and some of them called him out on it. One even refused to do anything with him. He would put lips together but no tongue. I let it slide as we became best of friends for many years and I adored him. He is now a top porn star and has done very well for himself. I have not seen all of his videos but one that I saw there was no kissing in it either. Looks like he has stayed the course. BTW: I talked to his boyfriend of 4 years and he did not kiss him either. It was just not his thing. Personally I hate rimming. I have no desire for my tongue to go into someone's ass. But, there are always exceptions. I had one flight attendant I met and he was divine. His ass smelled like strawberries. I love strawberry cake and I could not get enough of that ass. I think I spent the first hour with it. There are always exceptions. Quote
Guest westcoaster Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Add me to the kissing is a must gang! A kiss as an initial greeting sets a far more sensual stage for what is to come than a handshake. Quote
Guest CTDick Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Here's an interesting article on Hook.com written by Miguel Leonn (http://www.miguelleonn.com/g001.html): http://www.hookonline.org/articles/10_A_01.htm Dick Quote
Guest comment Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 Kissing is not a deal breaker for me however when hiring it's an activity I seek in the escort. In fact, its rare that I will hire someone who doesn't kiss. If an escort will poke me or get poked, rim, suck, lick me then he has already crossed the threshold of intimacy. Kissing really should not even be an issue at that point. Quote
Guest Oliver Posted December 4, 2006 Posted December 4, 2006 >I want, I insist, and I demand that kisses be wet and sloppy.< I totally agree and don't understand an escort that will do everything else, but not kiss - like the "other" things aren't intimate??? I believe we have been with many of the same guys who do the "wet and sloppy"! And not just at the beginning of a session. The kissing must continue throughout as a part of everything else. The more intense it gets, the more I need the kissing. :* :* :* Quote
Guest RR Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 No kissing no meeting. Plain and simple. I test them out when they walk in the door and great them with a handshake and a kiss to gauge them. Quote
Guest Anton Posted December 5, 2006 Posted December 5, 2006 Hey guys, It may surprise you all, but here's a reaction from an escort who demands that his clients kiss. I always kiss the client at the start of a meeting. And if the client doesn't want to kiss, then that's where the meeting stops. So far it happened two times to me that a client didn't want to kiss. :-( First of all I think that sex without kissing is like a pie without whipped cream, but ... ... someone who doesn't want to kiss might just as well be a police officer or tax inspector. x( (And they definitely don't want to kiss. ) Nevertheless it's also big fun, to kiss a client when he least expects it ... :9 Happy kissing everybody !! :* Best, Anton/Amsterdam ps: I will be travelling in the US in February/March 2007. Check my website or the "business travel" section if you want to know more. Quote
Guest stef Posted December 9, 2006 Posted December 9, 2006 Well , I agree that kissing is important for me as well but I also believe that Hygiene is more important. If there is no good bucal hygiene, there won't be much kissing. Same for the rest of the body Stef http://www.steflacoste.com Quote
