What a total hypocrite/liar Benjamin Nicholas seems to be.

[TownsendPLocke]

Over at daddys place BN posted the following

"I think there's a side to all escorts that remains hypercompetitive: We're in a business of choice and that selection is wide, causing us to (either publically or privately) make judgement calls, good, bad or indifferent, about our fellow rentboys.

Is this wrong? Hell yes. If done with mal-intent.

I admit to sharing my fair share of opinions on situations in the past, but have really tried to clean up my act and realize that in the longrun it's truly meaningless. In concentrating less on outside drama and more on myself, i've found greater maturity and ultimate solace. I'm nowhere near perfect, but as always, do try to walk that line in the most upright way possible.

Scott, i'm glad you brought this to light: There is no room in this microchasm of gay-dom for anything less than face-front opinions. We (escorts) all take our fair share of criticism, but it's always easier to deal with when we know who it's coming from."

And this is from the hooker that has delighted in exposing HIV status in other hookers,as well as dishing out whatever other gossip he can find including stuff on Scott Adler-in whose thread he post this pile'o self serving crap.

POT MEET KETTLE

btw-just between us BN also loves to spill on his clients-so any high profile clients be warned that your little secrets will be blabbed.

Please, no personal first names. TY

[Guest mhwestpb]

All the Ted Haggards of the world who have experienced the indescribable joy of a BN blow job should be worried about not only what BN has already shared about his clients' private lives with other clients(yes, names, credit card numbers etc.) but what plans he might have for more widespread disclosures. Knowing BN , his ambition, his hunger for fame and recognition and feigned sincerity, I expect a tell all book from him within the next five years.

He perceives himself as a talented and clever writer and story teller. I can barely make my way through two sentences of his cliche ridden self righteous rumor-ramas. However, BN is a careful and meticulous record keeper, and like Santa he knows who has been good to him and who has not. And escorts, unlike doctors. lawyers, priests and psychologists, have only a de facto set of ethical guidelines that they might adhere to at their whim and pleasure. Escorts have total freedom(eg Mike Jones) to write or speak about their sexual encounters with congressmen, movie stars, Nobel Prize winners, etc, as long as what they are saying is actually the truth. Their former clients have no recourse whatsoever. The book would sell not because it will have any literary value, but because we will all jump to the index in the back to be sure that our name is not mentioned.

My advice to all you former or current BN clients who are serious closet cases , start contriving your stories for the wife now and maybe hide some assets from her and her divorce lawyer before you see your photo on the bargain bin at Borders.

[Guest ActingUp4U]

It wasn't all that long ago, when over at MER, the following linked

post was made about Benjamin Nicholas. It was met with sniper fire

and assassination type diatribe against the OP, which would be me,

by weak minded fags that were/and perhaps still are, incapable of

taking a stand against the hypocrisy of those who sell their cock

and ass to those incapable of getting it on their own. The following

linked post remains today, the highest viewed posting on the MER

website today. Ain't it sad?

http://www.maleescortreview.com/dcscript/d...19&topic_id=164

Today, Townsend P. Locke, a poster over at MER, with apparently some historical credibility, posts this commentary about his distain

about the Nicholas whore.

http://www.maleescortreview.com/dcscript/d...8&topic_id=2025

Here's my question. Why aren't all the helpless bitches that

attacked me, for communicating and exposing the same type hypocrisy in the above link attacking Townsend?

Perhaps, it's because, when it comes to getting a cock up their ass

or down their throat, credibility means nothing. Yet they all rely

on the credibility of a stranger's review to make their hiring

decisions. Hello?

Why are so many gay men who hire whores for sex so needy for other

people's positive experiences before they will hire them outside of

that strangers thumbs up and experience? Does anyone really believe

that one mans positive experience with a whore is another mans

guarantee of the same?

If you're all looking for something that will guarantee your own

personal satisfaction in life when it comes to hiring someone to

have satisfying sex with you, someone who never would have sex with

you to begin with, unless there was a hefty payoff, as it obviously

is here; then stop relying on everyone else to make that hiring

decision for you, and make it on your own. It's clear, you have no

balls to make it on your own and it's equally clear that whores like

Benjamin Nicholas and Scott Adler rely on their clients (real or

made up) to further their business transactions.

I really wish that someone would have the balls to "revive" the MER

posting "The Hypocrisy Of Benjamin Nicholas" and connect it to this

and Townsend's thoughts. That probably, however, will never happen.

But it should.

[TampaYankee]

There is no need to revive that thread. It ran its course.

[KYTOP]

Ben Nicholas and Scott Adler are both very good at marketing themselves, but not as good as Talvin DeMachio. Talvin charges top dollar for a limited experience but he pleases his clients. That is what matters to them. Their marketing allows them to charge top dollar for what they do. Many people have strong opinions about them both, positive and negative. But as for the job they are paid to do, which is to please their clients they seem to do a good job from what I hear "most" of the times. No one is making anyone hire either of these 2 guys and if anyone famaliar with either escort review site has not formed an opinion about these guys by now I would be very surprised. Even though I've hired many escorts, I've never hired either of them. Of course discretion is a priority for me and I must admit that concerns about that is what has kept me from hiring BN. But he and Scotty boy are on my list, out of curiosity and I might take the leap, I'll just try to be careful about how much personal info I give them. I actually dreamed about a 3-way with Ben and Scott in Chicago a few days ago...Hot dream.

As for using reviews from total strangers to make a hiring choice. There are many escorts that are ripoff artist, don't match their pictures, or don't do what they advertise. Some have turned out to be thieves. There are no guarantees but for those of us that hire, for whatever reasons we have to do so, the review helps us make a reasonable choice for the amount of money we are willing to spend.

As for me, I've had sex with some of the sexiest men in this world. Yes they would not give me the time of day if I wasn't paying them but I'm not looking for a lover or boyfriend. I'm looking for hot sweating fucking sucking sex with a hot stud and I have happily gotten what I've paid for 100+ times.

So whatever anyone thinks of Ben or Scott you don't have to hire them because of their persoanally, rates, not your type, you don't trust them or whatever. But if someone decides to hire them more power to them and I hope they get what they pay for.

IF I ever get the chance to hire them I probably will and I promise to write an honest open review if I do.

[Guest twinklover]

Very well stated KYTop. Let me just add that I'm a "mean girl" and I would never hire BN period. I would only hire SA under circumstances that are not mutually agreeable, at least it seems this way for now. I do in fact dislike these escorts with some passion, not because of anything they have done to me but because of what they have said and admitted and done to others. And yes, because I don't find them attractive in the least bit. They are so plain, and for them to demand the fees they do, is just fucking insulting. I'm sorry to call a spade a spade. IMO, that's it--these "hobby hoes" are not worth it.

Now just to prove I'm not a cheapskate or anti-working boy, I'll let you in on a little secret. I have the WORLD'S two best escorts cumming to see me for the holidays, begiining tomorrow for a few days. They J and T (first name escort initials) for thoise on the know. These boys are real escorts and worth every penny that I'll shell out for both of them. Absolutely incredible boys that I continue to hire time after time. Hmmm. Why? Why would I do that?

[Buddy2]

"Ben Nicholas and Scott Adler are both very good at marketing

themselves, but not as good as Talvin DeMachio. Talvin charges

top dollar for a limited experience but he pleases his clients."

Great observation.

Whatever you think about Ben Nicholas and Scott Adler, both have made numerous comments on both forums and their respective blogs. Clearly, the goal is to impress possible clients, but they have also revealed much about themselves both good and bad.

Talvin DeMachio seldom posts, except to annouce his busy travel schedule.

He choses to communicate with his clients through his newletter. That's fine, but it is a style that doesn't interest me. Talvin gets all the benefits of the travel section, while making very limited contributions to any discussions. Who knows anything about Talvin, except his clients?

[marcanthony]

They J and T (first name escort

>initials) for thoise on the know. These boys are real escorts

>and worth every penny that I'll shell out for both of them.

>Absolutely incredible boys that I continue to hire time after

>time. Hmmm. Why? Why would I do that?

Because you can?

Hehe. I know you'll have a GREAT time with those two. They are really special.

Have a wonderful time (and yes I am jealous)

[Guest twinklover]

"Because you can?" lol

I guess that's part of the equation--the capability to do something. I certainly "can" indulge in my lusts. But you know the point I was making. Those two are very special boys. That's why I hire them repeatedly and don't get bored. It says something about them, not me.

The "dynamic duo" emailed me this morning. They're on the way as I type this. We're going to a few clubs and the energy 92.7 anniversary party. http://www.energy927fm.com/

Marc, too bad you're not in San Francisco to join us for this. Not the same as Unity but I know you'd enjoy it. :-)

[Guest epigonos]

The only statement made by KYTOP with which I disagree is the following: "There are no guarantees but for those of us that hire, for whatever reasons we have to do so, the review helps us make a reasonable choice for the amount of money we are willing to spend." I would change that statement to read: There are no guarantees but for those of us that hire, for whatever reasons we CHOOSE to do so, the review helps us make a reasonable choice for the amount of money we are willing to spend. I find it hard to believe the KYTOP has to hire and I know for certain that I don't. My sincere belief is that we both CHOOSE to do so.

Now as far as Benjamin Nicholas and Scott Adler are concerned: I can readily understand that some guys might not CHOOSE to hire either or both of these guy for reasons of their own. Thus far most of the posters in this thread freely admit to NOT hiring either. Well I have hired BOTH - Benjamin Nicholas once and Scott Adler several times and for the record let me state that BOTH of these guys are great companions during a meal and hotter than hell in bed. Am I concerned about being "outed" by Benjamin Nicholas certainly NOT. I crossed that bridge of fear before I hired my first escort five years ago. Anybody who hires escorts and doesn't accept the possibility of being exposed for doing so is a FOOL. If one cannot stand the consequences of being outed one shouldn't be hiring. Does Scott have an ego -- you bet your ass he does and that is what, in part, makes him who he is and as much fun as he is. Both of these guys are good at what they do, they know it and they make no apologies for being who they are.

[Guest funseeker 22]

Towny,

Do we have to start this all over again. Yawn !!!!.

Know them both and like them both- maybe one more than the other.

[Guest TreyThurston]

East coast and West coast have converged and we've made quite an explosion as a group last night.. if i do say so myself...lol.. This dynamic duo kicks ass T and J can't wait for the festivities tonight! watch out SAN FRAN!!!!

xoxox

[Guest twinklover]

I dion't know about BN--Geez, how in the hell did we start posting on a thread about BN--lol?

I can say this, which cums as no surprise to those of you who have them hired before. These two special boys--fuck it, I'm naming them, Jonathan Bubblebutt Lowe from Ft. Lauderdale Fla and Trey Thurston from Raleigh, NC--have no problem KISSING, CUMMING or doing anyjhing else you might imagine, including all varieties of butt play. Did I mention CUMMING, my own particular amusement. I repeat, to all the deaf ears on the various escort sites, there are still a few. really HOT, GENUINE escort boys out there. They are typically not one hour hookers, though. You have to seduce them for a longer session.

Isn't that ironic or perhaps what is real today? I feel this is real: a good boy is incredibly hard to find and the good ones are worth their weight in gold. That's my reality. The boys I'm with certainly meet this stardard. I appreciate and applaud Scott Adler, I didn't think I could say that, except forScott Adler on Daddy's forum prompting this post about KISSING. Now there are lots of other things,sucking rimming, fucking and many other fetishes. But I certainly agree with SA and now like him for this--if they don't kiss, leave them--LEAVE them on the spot, don't even bother fucking them except in words--FUCK YOU!

[KYTOP]

> These two special boys--fuck it, I'm

>naming them, Jonathan Bubblebutt Lowe from Ft. Lauderdale Fla

>and Trey Thurston from Raleigh, NC--have no problem KISSING,

>CUMMING or doing anyjhing else you might imagine, including

>all varieties of butt play.

Hope a review is in our future!!!

[KYTOP]

> My sincere belief is that we both CHOOSE to do so.

I agree with the correction in my statement

> Am I concerned about being

>"outed" by Benjamin Nicholas certainly NOT.

But the question is should others be?

>I crossed that bridge of fear before I hired my first escort

>five years ago. Anybody who hires escorts and doesn't accept

>the possibility of being exposed for doing so is a FOOL. If

>one cannot stand the consequences of being outed one shouldn't

>be hiring.

A LARGE part of the Escort hiring market are people that fear being "outed", that is why they hire escorts instead of cruising gay bars. These people include entertainers, actors, politicians, clergy, teachers, lawyers, doctors, police officers, judges, sports figures, TV news personalities etc... Start outing all these people and see how much of the escort market dries up, especially in certain areas of the country.

For me being outed as gay is not a big deal. Being outed that I break the law by hiring escorts and doing what the majority of our society considers immoral does. It could affect me in my profession and my livelihood. Hiring an escort in my state can cause you to lose your professional license or certification in many cases. I am not saying this is right, but as long as morality is legislated we must deal with it when we "choose" to hire. Hiring an escort that has outed anyone just gives certain people a reason to move on to someone else they hope they can trust or confide in.

Ever wonder why client names, and escort real names, are not allowed to be posted on the Escort review sites?

[Lucky]

Say what you will about Benjamin Nicholas, but on his every blog I enjoy his eye candy, and, this week, to top it off, I actually enjoyed reading his very funny spin on car buying.

(Ben- I bought an Infiniti, but they suckered me with a drop dead cute eye candy salesman making his very first sale! How could I say no?)

[KYTOP]

As I read his take on car buying and about "negotiating" a price I was also amused. But, I couldn't help but think of his possible reaction when a client tries to bargain down his sticker price.

For anyone that needs it here is a link to his blog entry on car buying:

http://www.benjaminnicholas.com/blogger.html

[Guest TreyThurston]

LOL...

THANKS MARC!... u know me and johnathan are awsom together.. the chemistry somtimes is just so perfect! what a blast we had.... again.. again.. and again....... need i say more!

[Guest chuck50]

Yes I was outed and still remain. I enjoy life, still think of the many fun times I have had sorry for any bad times from those who may not like it. hUGS Chuck50 HUGS