Guest RR Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Ok guys, odd post and if you need to take it down please do. I am strictly a top. Well, I wanna try being a bottom. Do I really have to use a fleet enima? I have heard of people doing it and people have been asked to do it I know before. What is the real story? Thanks Quote
AdamSmith Posted October 19, 2006 Posted October 19, 2006 Some people report horror stories about bottoming without cleaning out first. But I don't, and have never had trouble. Not through any feats of sphinctal prowess either. I was all but an anal virgin until Andre took me to this new place 7 months ago. If your experience is anything like mine, a whole new world awaits. As Leslie Nielsen commanded in Forbidden Planet, "Stand by to reverse polarity!" P.S. You might, if you haven't already, experiment with a dildo and see how your netherworld reacts. Quote
Guest StuCotts Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Fleet enemas are a bit drastic because of the wear and tear to the rectal mucosa. If you feel uncomfortable not doing anything, try an infant syringe full of comfortably warm water. Adam Smith's suggestion about doing a test run with a dildo makes sense. More important, he alludes to an important consideration for imminent converts from top to bottom. The whole experience will be much more rewarding if you are initiated by someone you REALLY like, that you want this new intimacy with. It will help if he knows his stuff to the extent of sensing your needs during the act and not hurting you out of clumsiness. I can't guarantee anything, but I can tell you it worked for me. Quote
Guest TNTTed Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Not sure how qualified I am to comment, because I'm relatively inexperienced. Not only that, every time this issue has come up (at the M4M message board, in particular) no one seems to have the definitive answer. Here's what www.gayhealth.com says about it: "No matter how hard you try, your anus will always be an anus. You can't sterilize it. You can, however, gently wash the outer skin with a moist cloth or pad (try Tucks) to remove any fecal residue stuck to your skin. Avoid wet toilet paper or tissues because they flake and leave behind annoying bits of paper. If necessary, try to move your bowels prior to. I do not advise enemas or douching, which may increase the risk of HIV transmission. Enemas -- even if they are just plain water -- irritate the lining of your colon and make it easier for HIV to get in or out. The motion of the sex toy, your partner's hand or penis also stimulates colon contractions. Frequently you won't evacuate the entire liquid enema before sex, and the remainder is forced out during sex by increased colon contractions, making a bigger mess than the one you took the enema to avoid. If you feel like there is still some stool in your rectum, try a gentle washout. Fill an ear syringe with warm water and insert it into your rectum. Give a couple of squirts and hopefully you will wash out any remaining feces; the volume you put in won't irritate your colon. This small amount is also more likely to be fully expelled before sex. A towel is probably your best protection for those thousand thread count sheets." From my limited experience, that's good advice. Fortunately, I'm very regular, (Is this too much information?) so I know how full my bowels are and I know whether or not I need to use the syringe and water. Only once did I have a minor mishap -- I didn't evacuate all the water and it expelled during sex. Fortunately, it wasn't that much, and the escort remained cool about it. Still...... I've yet to read from an experienced bottom escort about the specific method(s) he uses in prepping for a client. I think that would help a lot. Good luck Russianrob. Quote
Guest Funseeker22 Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 >I've yet to read from an experienced bottom escort about the >specific method(s) he uses in prepping for a client. I think >that would help a lot. Athan, it`s time to repost your prep work. ;-) ;-) Quote
Members seaboy4hire Posted October 20, 2006 Members Posted October 20, 2006 > >Here's what www.gayhealth.com says about it: > >"No matter how hard you try, your >anus will always be an anus. You can't sterilize it. You can, >however, gently wash the outer skin with a moist cloth or pad >(try Tucks) to remove any fecal residue stuck to your skin. >Avoid wet toilet paper or tissues because they flake and leave >behind annoying bits of paper. If necessary, try to move your >bowels prior to. I do not advise enemas or douching, which >may increase the risk of HIV transmission. Enemas -- even if >they are just plain water -- irritate the lining of your colon >and make it easier for HIV to get in or out. The motion of the >sex toy, your partner's hand or penis also stimulates colon >contractions. Frequently you won't evacuate the entire liquid >enema before sex, and the remainder is forced out during sex >by increased colon contractions, making a bigger mess than the >one you took the enema to avoid. If you feel like there is >still some stool in your rectum, try a gentle washout. Fill an >ear syringe with warm water and insert it into your rectum. >Give a couple of squirts and hopefully you will wash out any >remaining feces; the volume you put in won't irritate your >colon. This small amount is also more likely to be fully >expelled before sex. A towel is probably your best protection >for those thousand thread count sheets." Speaking for myself there is no way I'd take much into the suggestions from the above quote plus I am compulsive when it comes to keeping inside and outside clean as a whistle. For myself and realising everyones body is diferent I have to go with the fleet enima route and do it a couple times. There is no way I'd have a partner insert their finger or cock up my hole to move things around. Sorry that boarders on scat play to me and I'm not having it. I understand how enimas in general can be bad for you but I think from my understanding if you are doing it more then a couple times a month or so then ya it's bad since you are also washing out bacteria that is needed up there. As for starting out to btm start off small. Don't go for the Stryker dildo right off the bat. Fingers are a great way to start as are small butt plugs. Hugs, Greg Quote
Members marcanthony Posted October 20, 2006 Members Posted October 20, 2006 > >>I've yet to read from an experienced bottom escort about >the >>specific method(s) he uses in prepping for a client. I >think >>that would help a lot. > >Athan, it`s time to repost your prep work. >;-) ;-) I don't know about now... but Athan used to go everywhere with his attachable shower nozzle (it looked like a garden hose). Now THAT was what you call a prep! Quote
Guest RR Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 Thanks guys for the advise. I think that it is a matter of when and where from what I have read here. I myself an regular and have tried but plugs with no problems. Hopefully all will go well tonight! Plus I agree the idea of switching only came up because I am so into this guy. Again thanks for the advise. I will give you a post game recap. Russianrob Quote
Guest TNTTed Posted October 20, 2006 Posted October 20, 2006 "For myself and realising everyones body is diferent I have to go with the fleet enima route and do it a couple times." How do you know when you've evacuated all the liquid? Isn't that difficult, especially with two enemas? "I think from my understanding if you are doing it more then a couple times a month or so then ya it's bad." Are you saying that you bottom only a couple times a month? Quote
Members seaboy4hire Posted October 21, 2006 Members Posted October 21, 2006 >"For myself and realising >everyones body is diferent I have to go with the fleet enima >route and do it a couple times." > >How do you know when you've evacuated all the liquid? Isn't >that difficult, especially with two enemas? I give myself plenty of time just in case and really when ya think about it there isn't that much liquid in the bottle. It's not like your putting 2 litters of water up there. It's only I think maybe a few ounces. >"I think from my understanding if >you are doing it more then a couple times a month or so then >ya it's bad." > >Are you saying that you bottom only a couple times a month? Yup. I rarely have sex. At my age I've become a bit picky and don't grab just any cock when I am out on the hunt for something recreational. Besides with the stuff that is floating around especially during the spring and summer months it's best to keep it zipped most of the time. Quote
Guest SouthernMan Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 Nothing is "necessary" to ensure a "shitty" experience for all concerned. x( Quote
Guest RR Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 Well guys, I guess we are all differnt. I know body and knew my bowels were not full so I chose to do nothing side of making sure I had just showered. All went well, and my was it an amazing flip flop sesssion of crossing over new lines. Quote
Members seaboy4hire Posted October 24, 2006 Members Posted October 24, 2006 >Well guys, I guess we are all differnt. I know body and knew >my bowels were not full so I chose to do nothing side of >making sure I had just showered. All went well, and my was it >an amazing flip flop sesssion of crossing over new lines. > > YEAH!!! I'm glad to hear things went well for you. Like you said everyones body is a bit different and well no one will know your body like you. Sometimes it takes some self prodding and just listening to what it's tell ya, which it sounds like you may have done. Being a btm can be just as fun if not more fun then topping. I am slowly discovering my top side and still up in the air on which I like better. Although I do know I make a better bottom but with practice I know I can master being a top. Good luck and happy bottoming Hugs, Greg Quote
Guest jessedane Posted October 24, 2006 Posted October 24, 2006 I think it is important to learn to respond to what your body is telling you. I know that I generally clean out before bottoming, but there are times when I can tell I don't need to at all and I don't. But I have to say when it comes to cleaning out, I am not a fan of fleet enemas at all. The solution they use in them burns for me and causes irritation. I use a standard douche from a porn shop (it's red and most stores carry it), fill it with luke warm water, and use a little lube to slide it in. That has always done the trick for me and keeps me clean as can be with no problems. Quote
AdamSmith Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 > All went well, and my was it >an amazing flip flop sesssion of crossing over new lines. It will only get better. Quote
