Guest mgluyas Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Hi Guys will be there in 17sleeps. I contacted someone on stickyrice and basically sought someone to spend a couple of days as a guide and friend. They responded with a very descriptive sex available, fine, however this was followed by a long story of family tragedy. What should i do. As callous as it sounds I am going on my first ever holiday for fun and relaxation not to be saddened by Tragedy. I was looking foremost for a guide for the day, if fun happens at night so be it. I will only be in BKK for 4days then Pattaya for 9, when i will travel out extensively Michael P>S Steff what is your advise as well Quote
Guest Boxer Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Hi Guys will be there in 17sleeps. I contacted someone on stickyrice and basically sought someone to spend a couple of days as a guide and friend. They responded with a very descriptive sex available, fine, however this was followed by a long story of family tragedy. What should i do. As callous as it sounds I am going on my first ever holiday for fun and relaxation not to be saddened by Tragedy. I was looking foremost for a guide for the day, if fun happens at night so be it. I will only be in BKK for 4days then Pattaya for 9, when i will travel out extensively Michael P>S Steff what is your advise as well Dont fix things before you arrive and dont commit yourself tell him clearly 'for a day or 2 max. then you want space to meet others' treat him well cash wise too, then go Butterfly see what is here and enjoy with clear open mind and no commitments just enjoy your holiday to many get hooked first day and dont find good fun or true love. Quote
Guest mgluyas Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Dont fix things before you arrive and dont commit yourself tell him clearly 'for a day or 2 max. then you want space to meet others' treat him well cash wise too, then go Butterfly see what is here and enjoy with clear open mind and no commitments just enjoy your holiday to many get hooked first day and dont find good fun or true love. Hey thanks for the advise, what is generous? Michael Quote
Guest stef Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Hi Guys will be there in 17sleeps. I contacted someone on stickyrice and basically sought someone to spend a couple of days as a guide and friend. They responded with a very descriptive sex available, fine, however this was followed by a long story of family tragedy. What should i do. As callous as it sounds I am going on my first ever holiday for fun and relaxation not to be saddened by Tragedy. I was looking foremost for a guide for the day, if fun happens at night so be it. I will only be in BKK for 4days then Pattaya for 9, when i will travel out extensively Michael P>S Steff what is your advise as well Yes I agree, you don't want to get involved with such things. For me, it is a warning you might just need to find someone else. Might be hard to find someone that will fit your life style right away. Not easy to find someone with whom you will be compatible right away. I know people that takes a couple of trips out here, and then find a great match. But it takes times. It took me at least 4 trips to find someone I like to be with and that i also can trust and that also speak good english. The previous were just all about monney but did not do much. ( Which I understand somehow , but I wasn't in the mood to only deal with such philosophy at that time ). I also did not need someone , so the urge wasn't really there. There are more choices of guys in Pattaya I think ( that's my guess ), so you might just find someone in the first few days with whom you are going to spend severals days with. Just take it easy, don't commit yourself with one person only cause you never know. Also if you do commit with one person and then realize you aren't of any good match, you don't want the guy to be going a little nut on you, because you aren't keeping your promises. I know it sounds strange, but I have had that one time a guy that just became a " Stalker " and could call me like 30 times a day. Anyway .. just take it easy and meet those guy for few hours, over a drink or dinner and see how it goes. Stef Quote
Guest Kregger Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 This Thai guy has given you the red flag that he is a professional money boy who traffics in most likely fictional tragedies to extract large sums of money from kind hearted, naive, lonely farangs. To him, you are a "buffalo." My advise is do not even meet him. Quote
bedbugy Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 lock your cash away beware what you drink if it was me i would forget him and not bother Quote
Gaybutton Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 I know what I would do, if I were you, Mgluyas. The first thing I would do is forget about this guy. He sounds like definite bad news to me, especially is he is already talking about the family tragedies, which translates into "give me money," before you even get there. You're right. You don't need that and you really don't need a guide either. However, I can certainly understand why you might want one on a first trip. I have a few suggestions for you. The first is to have your hotel arrange a reputable guide for you. Your hotel can also book you for guided tours of the city. The second is to talk to an English speaking taxi driver and make an arrangement. Quite often, people do that and are greatly satisfied. The third, and I think best choice, is to arrange a good, competent, professional gay guide via the Tarntawan Place hotel. That hotel would be an excellent place to stay, especially during your first trip. It's a gay hotel, located within easy walking distance to all the gay action in the Silom, Suriwong, Patpong area and they can arrange excellent guides at reasonable prices who are professional and trustworthy. I guarantee you won't end up with some guy giving you a bunch of sob stories. The URL for the Tarntawan Place is: http://www.tarntawan.com . Quote
Guest travelerjim Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Enjoy your trip to Thailand... And may I urge you to forget the Thai fella you have been in communication with already ??? The advice shared by others on this board is very good advice! There are so many other fine Thais who can and will provide you with a most enjoyable trip in Thailand. ...And they won't be already setting you up for the "sick buffalo" speech ; "grandmama is very sick" syndrome; or the countless hundreds of other stories played over and over each day by Thais working the internet shops. Those of us experienced in Thailand have heard them all at one time or another..and have fallen for some too :-( If you are in Pattaya - might I suggest you stop by "Memories Cafe" in Sunee Plaza. I can assure you that several of the Thais who work there can provide you with a most memorable and happy Thailand experience. (PM me if you wish "names"). There are many more fine clubs in Pattaya and Bangkok as well which can assist you have an enjoyable Thailand holiday. TravelerJim Quote
Guest buaseng Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 This Thai guy has given you the red flag that he is a professional money boy who traffics in most likely fictional tragedies to extract large sums of money from kind hearted, naive, lonely farangs. To him, you are a "buffalo." My advise is do not even meet him. Spot on advice! Avoid this guy like the plague. Quote
Guest Geezer Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 You have no reason to have any further contact with your Thai correspondent whatsoever. Don Quote
Guest mgluyas Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Thanks for all the good advice, I will definetly give him the wide berth. I have already booked at the pinnacle 10th to 15th and cafe royale 15th to 24th. Michael Quote
Gaybutton Posted January 24, 2007 Posted January 24, 2007 Thanks for all the good advice, I will definetly give him the wide berth. I have already booked at the pinnacle 10th to 15th and cafe royale 15th to 24th. Michael That's perfect. There is a tour desk in the lobby at the Pinnacle, although if it's a gay tour that you want, you're probably better off booking that through the Tarntawan Place Hotel. You're about a ten to fifteen minute taxi ride from the Tarntawan Place Hotel from the Pinnacle and the taxi shouldn't cost you more than 40 baht. That's slightly more than US $1. Also, as Geezer suggested, you're also perfectly welcome to contact me directly when you come to Pattaya. I'm always glad to help people new to Pattaya and will be happy to come to Le Caf Quote
Guest paulg Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 Just followed a link on sawatdee to gayrice.com and then browsed the personals This guy is a mediacal student who see below does not sell sex if he looks interesting you might have to join gayrice. I copied his details and there is a photo there Up to you To Contact joebangkok, or to add joebangkok to your favorites, you must be a registered user. If you are a registered user and seeing this notice you are not logged in. Please log in here. If you are not a registered user, Register your free profile here. View Large Image Contact Me GENERAL STATS Origin Asian Country Thailand City Bangkok Age 23 Height 5' 8" or 173 cm Weight 55 kg Age is not important to me I am looking for (White Guy) Description: I am a medical student studying and living in Bangkok.I work part time as a tourist guide and do Thai treditional massage also.I can show you around Bangkok and the nearby provinces.4,000 Bahts a day for tour guidance and 1,500 Bahts an hour for Thai massage. PS. I do not sell sex Quote
Gaybutton Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 I can show you around Bangkok and the nearby provinces.4,000 Bahts a day for tour guidance and 1,500 Bahts an hour for Thai massage. PS. I do not sell sex If he's getting prices like that for being a tour guide (and most likely that does not include the price of taxis, food, admission, etc, that you would have to cover for him) he doesn't need to sell sex. He doesn't need to become a doctor either . . . Quote
Guest travelerjim Posted January 25, 2007 Posted January 25, 2007 If he's getting prices like that for being a tour guide (and most likely that does not include the price of taxis, food, admission, etc, that you would have to cover for him) he doesn't need to sell sex. He doesn't need to become a doctor either . . . Yep! Your are right on!! An experienced Thai Doctor who I know of in a government hospital - the Doctor is of full Professor Status - and was earning 30,000 baht monthly - that was about 4 years ago. Again...my suggestion is PASS on the Med Student...he is really a "money boy" in a white coat or maybe in med school ??? And, if he is in Med School - where does he find the time to take full day tours of the provinces at 4,000 baht daily guide fee? Let alone part-time in Bangkok - Med School students are "students" first - study - study - study! Welcome to Thailand...and when you are in Pattaya - pm me and let's have lunch or dinner together - if you would like. TravelerJim For affordable international health & travel insurance Please visit http://www.tjinsurance.com . TravelerJim Quote
Guest damien500 Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 That's perfect. There is a tour desk in the lobby at the Pinnacle, although if it's a gay tour that you want, you're probably better off booking that through the Tarntawan Place Hotel. You're about a ten to fifteen minute taxi ride from the Tarntawan Place Hotel from the Pinnacle and the taxi shouldn't cost you more than 40 baht. That's slightly more than US $1. Also, as Geezer suggested, you're also perfectly welcome to contact me directly when you come to Pattaya. I'm always glad to help people new to Pattaya and will be happy to come to Le Caf Quote
Guest mgluyas Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 as i advised you some time ago,i check in to the Cafe Royale on the same day for 3 weeks,though im sure GB and Travler Jim have far more knowledge than im ever likely to have,i would maybe be able to point u in the right direction.And only for the cost of a stubbie of Singer(optional)I wish i was lucky enough to have had the offer of GB and Traveller Jim on my first Trip. Hey i tried to respond however i couldn't find your profile Michael Quote
Gaybutton Posted January 26, 2007 Posted January 26, 2007 Hey i tried to respond however i couldn't find your profile Michael You don't need to find someone's profile if you wish to send a personal message (PM) in response to a post. Simply click on the recipient's user name to the left of the box that contains the post. A menu will pop up for that user and you will see that one of the items you can select is "Send a personal message." Click on that and the rest is easy. Quote
