Curiosity: are boys aware of this forum?

[12is12]

Do they know/care we exchange info about them outside the bars?

Is it ok to tell them "I was told or I read that you ..... (something positive or negative)"?

Are they interested, or would they be interested, to use such a forum for PR?

Any chance some are eavesdropping?     (-:

 

[vinapu]

I'd say keep them out of here.

You can  tell ' i was told ......."  or ' I read..... ' but don't be specific where or by whom.

For sure they realize we gossip about them  and no doubt they do the same when familiar face comes to the bar or to get massage.

I'd not be surprised if some are eavesdropping here , the same goes with bar owners.

I know at least one guy who found this forum by chance when  looking for those guys above, I almost choked when he showed me this site on his phone but I guess I   did good job faking lack of interest

[DrimVoiz]

4 hours ago, 12is12 said:

Do they know/care we exchange info about them outside the bars?

Is it ok to tell them "I was told or I read that you ..... (something positive or negative)"?

Are they interested, or would they be interested, to use such a forum for PR?

Any chance some are eavesdropping?     (-:

 

Oh no no no 12...don't ever tell them you knew about them thru this forum, and what Vinapu said is totally right,...and you may never know his reaction, if he'll get angry, uneasy or shy bcoz he is being talked about...please what is discussed here stays here, this forum is a great guide but I don't think for a better PR...that's why when a member ask about a boy, I requested them never ever tell the boy that u found about him thru this forum...just tell the boy someone referred you...and if he keeps asking more, kiss him (if allowed), squeeze his butt or grab his bulge so he won't ask more (provided u already off him), ha ha  

[Boy69]

I doubt that Thai boys would be interested in this forum for most of them working at bars is just a job to earn money. I know for sure that they are gossiping about us and if a client is a cheap Charlie or behaved badly to a boy the gossip will spread quickly and boys will not be willing to go with such client, so you better be polite and respectful to the boy you are offing and pay what agreed between you too .

[vinapu]

3 hours ago, Boy69 said:

if a client is a cheap Charlie or behaved badly to a boy the gossip will spread quickly.....

and count on the same when he is opposite - generous , undemanding and of good heart.

[TotallyOz]

Most guys are desirous of making more money. I do not see this forum as a means for them to accomplish that. For them to read all these longs postings in a language other than their native tongue would take some skills. Perhaps reading a good book would be a better use of their time. There are some posters who share information about boys to others and that gets them business. This is a good thing IMHO.  I also see the Moonlight thread (among others) as a way to really promote that bar but not really all the boys. I think (and I may be wrong) but the forum does a good job at helping people find places and not specific people.

[12is12]

The last sentence is certainly true, though not sure why that should be so. Helping about specific people (in a respectful manner) would be very effective, as is done in review forums on other sites.

That said, when members here switch to PMs - they are more forthcoming about specific boys, which has helped me quite a lot.

[TotallyOz]

1 hour ago, 12is12 said:

The last sentence is certainly true, though not sure why that should be so. Helping about specific people (in a respectful manner) would be very effective, as is done in review forums on other sites.

That said, when members here switch to PMs - they are more forthcoming about specific boys, which has helped me quite a lot.

Yes, but there are so many guys here that are found by walking down the streets. I have rarely found that a guy someone likes or suggests is what I am looking for when I enter a bar, venue, etc. If I were in Milwaukee and there were professionals there, I'd take recommendations. But, when you have 100 meters of bar after bar with 30-100 guys, it is not hard to find someone who meets exactly what you want. IMHO

[Boy69]

3 hours ago, 12is12 said:

That said, when members here switch to PMs - they are more forthcoming about specific boys, which has helped me quite a lot.

Don't rely too much on recommendations about specific boys from others every person has its own taste and if someone on this forum had a good interaction with specific boy that doesn't mean necessarily you would have the same experience with him, Don't look for boys recommend by other choose the ones that you think are the best for you once you are there also I read in your other comments about your preference for the size of the dick boy and the shape of his body after some experience you will find out that it doesn't mean anything and what is more important is the chemistry between you two , politeness and attitude of the boy .

[DrimVoiz]

5 hours ago, Boy69 said:

Don't rely too much on recommendations about specific boys from others every person has its own taste and if someone on this forum had a good interaction with specific boy that doesn't mean necessarily you would have the same experience with him, Don't look for boys recommend by other choose the ones that you think are the best for you once you are there also I read in your other comments about your preference for the size of the dick boy and the shape of his body after some experience you will find out that it doesn't mean anything and what is more important is the chemistry between you two , politeness and attitude of the boy .

Just 2 be clear, of course its his choice, the decision is all on him, but he was only provided an option since its obvious he is a newbie, and a guide so he can have an idea on the boys he may choose.

[vinapu]

10 hours ago, Michael said:

. I think...... the forum does a good job at helping people find places and not specific people.

and that is  forum's true contribution to a community.

Pointing at specific people is risky as we have own preferences which not necessarily are matching those of other posters. Our stars may be no more than also runs for others.

If people know places they  can try and form their own opinion   ( and change it later to a tune ' where I had my eyes then )

[12is12]

I agree with you regarding taste and preferences, but it's always good to point out basic/general characteristics (attitude, honesty, passion, etc.) and warnings.

[vinapu]

9 hours ago, Michael said:

 I have rarely found that a guy someone likes or suggests is what I am looking for when I enter a bar, venue, etc.

but it's still fun to see and assess of what other members  like or dislike, specially if we know those members personally.

I tend to give this type of recommendation benefit of doubt and often it works that way.

Lets use real life example, few members over years recommended Tim at Senso and I always wondered what all noise is all about until for lack of better choices  I took him for massage and he turned out to be not only great masseur but even better in boiling one's blood. If I went just for looks probably I'd never know - nothing wrong with his look,   just not exactly my type.  

[vinapu]

15 minutes ago, 12is12 said:

but it's always good to point out basic/general characteristics (attitude, honesty, passion, etc.) and warnings.

true but guys , like us have their better and worse days and opinion based on one meeting may be kind of skewed  either way.

Sleepy guy tonight may turn to be roaring lion two nights from now, specially if he liked you at the first place and feels grateful for a repeat business.

 

[12is12]

Vinapu, with your permission I'd like to philosophize about this beyond BKK gaytown or sex.

I believe your position reflects one of the PC commandments of our era: Thou Shall NOT be Judgemental!

I adhere to this commandment regarding lifestyles / choices / preferences / opinions / etc. I do not adhere to it when somebody is ethically / morally / criminally wrong. 

It's one thing when a boy/escort isn't his best; it's quite another when he turns out to be a fake/fraud or dishonest or with a character/attitude that's obviously not temporary. Examples: a guy who goes back on his promises, a guy who keeps nagging for money, a guy who comes up with excuses to cut the session short, etc. I think it's our duty to warn, so other prospective patrons wouldn't fall prey, and so the boy learns the hard way. "Do unto others..." - you would want to be warned about such guys; why not warn others? 

Of course such a review should be factual and respectful, and of course each reader would draw his own conclusions.

Same same goes for accolades and recommendations: your fellow men here would like to hear about FANTASTIC guys, and these boys deserve free positive publicity.

(-:

 

[DivineMadman]

I really don't think the forum needs to change in this regard.  

[ggobkk]

The forum works  A number of those who write reports mention a working guy's club and number.  Others, will reference that they might have offed someone if he hadn't already been taken.  Those, in a certain way, are reviews and I know I've written down the number mentioned to check out the guy when I go to the club.  Can't say, I've ever offed someone from this kind of reporting.  Then again there is serendipity.  When Spoon, Vinapu, and I were exchanging stories, we all three laughed that we had a similar appreciation for one of the boys at Screwboys.

[reader]

23 minutes ago, ggobkk said:

When Spoon, Vinapu, and I were exchanging stories, we all three laughed that we had a similar appreciation for one of the boys at Screwboys.

+1

[pong]

No, boys are not really aware of this.

There is, but alas more used to be, another forum that went into much more detail but it is, at least for TH, also about dead. the cr...ng f s..x, then follow links to S-E Asia. Was mostly for long time expats daring venturing out of the tourist ghetto.

But yes, what others above write about personal exp, days off, etc. really does apply. And again: looks say nothing about skills, which is what you go for there, nah?

[vinapu]

8 hours ago, ggobkk said:

  When Spoon, Vinapu, and I were exchanging stories, we all three laughed that we had a similar appreciation for one of the boys at Screwboys.

and to make sure we were right I offed him next trip , month later

[vinapu]

2 hours ago, pong said:

. And again: looks say nothing about skills, which is what you go for there, nah?

nah !

I don't know about others but quite a few times I went and I guess still go in the future for a looks and feel even if I know / suspect guy may  be just silky sandbag.

Broadly speaking there are 3  components - looks , skills and personality and we may go for one of them  depending on our preferences but also our disposition on given day. One day we may feel horny and go for skills , two days later we may feel  more bluesy and may be looking for somebody warm and cuddly. 

[DrimVoiz]

10 hours ago, ggobkk said:

When Spoon, Vinapu, and I were exchanging stories, we all three laughed that we had a similar appreciation for one of the boys at Screwboys.

Yoyo?!

[vinapu]

1 hour ago, DrimVoiz said:

Yoyo?!

yes,. now I guess you are  next in line to join club of his admirers

[DrimVoiz]

4 hours ago, vinapu said:

yes,. now I guess you are  next in line to join club of his admirers

I just hope he's the 1 I'm talking about in Screwboys, I really like that boy I saw in Screwboys, unfortunately he was snatched by another customer, as I said his # to the mamasan, yikes!

[vinapu]

2 hours ago, DrimVoiz said:

I just hope he's the 1 I'm talking about in Screwboys, I really like that boy I saw in Screwboys, unfortunately he was snatched by another customer, as I said his # to the mamasan, yikes!

early bird gets the worm as they say