I figured this was worthy of its own topic.  [The thread title is a bastardisation of a book title] Some of us look for eye contact in a gogo bar.      Others point out this is not a golden rule, which of course is correct, as eye contact cannot be a 100% reliable indicator.   Whether it tips the odds in your favour is the question.     I'm sure this is right.   However, if a boy cannot bear to look at me, I am naturally thinking it's not going to get any better in the ho