My first long trip to BKK with special thanks to people of this forum.

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Before I start, first I would like to thank you all for sharing your experience and views on this forum, this seems to be the blog everyone should read before coming to Thailand no matter how experience they are. I now feel so stupid not having done so before my travel but mistake corrected and now I do and therefore thought to share mine too.

 

Second, a very special thanks to DivineMadam and Vinapu, you guys seem to have lot and lot experience and thanks to all your posting and recommendations, not only I was able to correct my mistakes (details will follow later) but was able to enjoy the time after having, which I call not a healthy start.

 

Okay, now little background about my trip, last year I traveled to BKK with my friend from Singapore who kinda introduced me to Soi 4 and after bar hopping and having splendid time at DJ Station & GOD, I gathered some courage to offer one boy on my second night at Dream Boys, it was so so experience but not bad for a one-night fun. This all led me to plan my next trip and knowing my friends can’t spend so many days with me here in BKK we planned our itinerary as below.

 

Trip Date:

27^th till 29^th (3 nights of my own)

30^th till 1^st (me and my friend)

2^nd till 4^th (3 more nights of my own)

 

Continue...

[vinapu]

Welcome to the forum, in your trips remember that  regardless how you value our recommendations here  lots of fun can be had by finding your own way.

 

Waiting patiently for your trip report and impressions

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27^th December-17: First day in Bangkok, after resting whole day and dealing with my jetlag, started my night at Patpong night market, ate some street food and tried coconut water before starting a crazy but fun filled night or so that I thought would be.

First destination, the last place I remembered from my previous trip, so went straight to Dream boys, paid 550 bhat for an entry, the show started at 10:30pm and the place was almost full, though mamassan found me a nice spot hence I was able to enjoy the show, so far so good.

 

On the stage, many many boys, though majority of them were not to my liking except very few who I would like to offer, so I called mamassan and asked who can do bottom and she pointed me to the guys who would and who wouldn’t.

 

After getting #no’s from mamassan, I started looking into the guys and to my disappointment none of them were who I would like to offer, the one who I liked were either with some customer already or were picked up very quickly before even I make up my mind.

 

Coincidentally, one guy who was sitting with Chinese couple, got free and came on stage with his number on and that was my chance, I kinda jump straightaway before anyone else does and called mamasssan to call the guy for me. Now was the time to find the connection, offered the guy a drink, paid 450 bhat and chatted a bit, after knowing he had been to Australia before and speaks decent English, I was like fine, no additional information required (first mistake).

 

After the show ended, we headed out and since my spirit was high (after picking the guy on my first night), I needed some place to dance, so we headed out for DJ station. Entry 600 bhat with 4 drinks (300 for each). The show was ending so we went straight to the first floor to get our drinks and enjoy the time from upstairs and later go to downstairs once music has evolved and shirts are off, only to find out the guy doesn’t like dancing and particularly at DJ station (bummer ☹).

 

After staying for a while at DJ, I realised there was no point as the guy didn’t like it, so no point staying longer, so we headed out to our Hotel at Silom. After having nice shower and quite a good fun at bed (boy was pretty good at his job) we called it a night at 3:00am.

 

Not knowing what’s the decent amount, I paid 3000 bhat plus 100bhat for taxi to see what the guy says though to my surprise he accepted the amount happily and left the hotel to start his early morning class that he needed to attend.

 

So far, one set back, no dancing on my first night but at least the rest of the night was fun so I was satisfied with overall event and went to bed afterwards.

 

To be continued…

[DivineMadman]

thanks for the kind words and you're off to a great start.  

[vinapu]

 I was like fine, no additional information required (first mistake)......

 

After the show ended, we headed out and since my spirit was high (after picking the guy on my first night), I needed some place to dance, so we headed out for DJ station. ........., only to find out the guy doesn’t like dancing and particularly at DJ station (bummer ☹).........

 

After staying for a while at DJ, I realized there was no point as the guy didn’t like it, so no point staying longer

taking boy to a place he did not like to be in   was mistake but don't feel bad about it as it was not easy to avoid.

 

Had you asked boy " do you want to go dancing to DJ station ?" ., likely answer would be " yes" or ' up to you " as  boys  generally are keen on giving you an answer  they think you expect. Only after you know boy better and he knows you better too i.e. after successful off session you may get or feel a bit more honest answer.

 

Good for you that you sensed his discomfort and cut it  , rest assured he was grateful.

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taking boy to a place he did not like to be in   was mistake but don't feel bad about it as it was not easy to avoid.

 

Had you asked boy " do you want to go dancing to DJ station ?" ., likely answer would be " yes" or ' up to you " as  boys  generally are keen on giving you an answer  they think you expect. Only after you know boy better and he knows you better too i.e. after successful off session you may get or feel a bit more honest answer.

 

Good for you that you sensed his discomfort and cut it  , rest assured he was grateful.

 

Thanks Vinapu and yes, you are absolutely right, and to the fact I couldn't agree more, It did happen and I will write the whole story about it cause that led me to search about was I alone or these things happen and l came across to this forum

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Day-TWO – After spending very long night a day before and not having much of a sleep I decided to take a chilled afternoon and what else could be better than a nice massage, especially when you are in Bangkok and staying at Silom.

 

Unlike me who usually likes to read the review first and then try the place, this trip was more about being spontaneous and see how it plays out so I decided to take a walk and see around what’s available and choose based on what catches my eye.

After 30 minutes’ walk and looking around what’s open and how the ambiance is, I noticed a nice-looking guy standing outside the shop, so I thought to give it a try, when approached the guy, I was directed to a reception which was just around the corner.

 

The shop seems to have two premises, very close to each other and the establishment is called “Prime”. Though before I could enter, the guy with walkie-talkie stopped me and said, “We are full”. First, I couldn’t understand what he was saying but when he kindly repeated for me 3 times and with some gesture, I realized he is saying they are fully booked. It was only 5:45pm in the evening, so I was like really??  Okay, what time should I come then or can I book the session now? I tried to be as slow as I could while saying these words but I was pretty sure he wouldn’t understand. To my surprise he actually did pick up few words and got the gist of what I was asking and said, “Choose a massage” and I said, good, where’s the menu and he pointed me to the gate where the printout was with all the prices on it.

 

I had “Foot and Thai” massage in my mind before, so, when I found that on the menu, I was like this one, but when I looked at the price and hours i.e. 2 hours at 500 bhat, I thought, really? This cheap? Does this mean the service won’t be good? Is this a dodgy place or what? But then I stared at the reception where 6 people were sitting, 4 hot guys and 2 cute girls and the receptionist who looked professional enough, I thought no, this seems like a decent place and with this kind of price, no wonder they are fully booked at this hour.

 

So, after this very thoughtful 2-3 sec deliberation with my inner self, I told the guy, No#4 on the list, he immediately called someone from inside or may be his colleagues but told me “wait a minute”, this time no confusion, I got what he said “he wants me to wait” not too long, may be a minute or so, he opened the door and said, “Please” and I went in. I looked at the receptionist and pointed out the massage that I needed and asked when, she said, “now??” And I was like yeah, now is good, (earlier I thought they were going to book me for later session since they are fully booked but apparently, they had a spot, works for me). She also pointed out the note at the bottom which reads “minimum tip 100 BHAT” and I said, ohh yes, that’s not a problem, I was going to give more anyway.

 

I asked can I choose the therapist? but she completely ignored what I said or maybe I was fast spoken but then she asked me boy or girl, and “I was like definitely a guy” but to her, I politely said, a boy please and before I could repeat myself and ask for the guy I liked outside, the door opened and the person with walkie talkie asked me to come with him.

Now inside the second premise which is very close the one I was in, I was settled on a chair, offered pair of floaters (not my size BTW) and again before I open my mouth and ask what I wanted to ask, a guy came over and greeted me with the smile and I thought, “I missed the train, better luck next time” but then again, I wasn’t looking for any tryst, so what difference does it make “who”, as long as person does his job and was good at it, it should be fine.

 

One hour gone by with splendid foot massage, it was time for my first time “THAI massage” having heard so much about it, I was looking forward for some stretches and some tolerable pain. The guy who had given me delightful foot massage pointed me to the tiny room, I could hear other people a little bit but the place was very quiet otherwise. Mats on the floor, the room smells fine and there was a pair of clothing, so I changed into that, though I was not sure which way I should, so I sat for a minute until the guy arrived and asked me to lay flat on my back.

 

He started with my left leg and slowly moved to the crotch on both side, slowly pressing my thighs and my “sleeping baby”, he pressed once, twice and thrice with few seconds gap and I thought, Oh man, he is gonna go all the way. This is the part I have heard about. No, I don’t need it now, I have full evening ahead of me and I don’t want any HJ or any other service, that was the worse thought considering the situation I was in, cause now, I was little aroused and it was very much visible.

 

To my surprise, he pointed, look look and pressed a little more and I said, be careful (with the smile of course) and he laughed and asked me where I was travelling from and how long I was here. I replied with a smile again careful of my surrounding so that not disturbing others but was very pleased with his technique to calm someone down, a little conversation and things get back to normal, he asked me to change the sides so I was relieved nothing funny happened and everything went the professional way I needed it to be. After the session was done, he brought me a cup of green tea (I guess) and stayed outside, I took a sip and headed to the door, and paid the guy 300 BHAT, he seems pleased with the tip.

 

I was really happy with having spent 800 BHAT, 2 hours delightful massage in a professional environment. Time for a quick dinner and then the night starts.

 

To be continued…

[vinapu]

Thanks Vinapu and yes, you are absolutely right, and to the fact I couldn't agree more, It did happen and I will write the whole story about it cause that led me to search about was I alone or these things happen and l came across to this forum

yes those things happen , at times we forget that it takes two to tango  and we try to drag boy along to a places he rather would not be or even worse to be with people he rather not be with.

 

Like everything it works both ways - sometimes boy is trying to drag us to a place we don't want to go / i.e expensive restaurant or girl bar / and / or to drag his friends along and then it's our turn to remember  about tango and if necessary resist and say 'no'.

 

I even once was with boy who had nerve to tell me " I want you to tip this waiter because he is my friend" .

 

so in short , both  us and a boy should be always smiling

[vinapu]

 

Unlike me who usually likes to read the review first and then try the place, this trip was more about being spontaneous and see how it plays out so I decided to take a walk and see around what’s available and choose based on what catches my eye.

 

that's the best and recommended way - go and see yourself

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Recommendations are precious but need to be taken with grain of salt as our priorities may wary and handsome for one may mean ugly for other - enough to read some comments on our model thread.

 

Some may like massage with strong and long strokes, others will enjoy more slow and gentle motions etc

 

PRIME , by the way is very popular and oft recommended place for real massages so by sheer luck  unknowingly you shoot for the best 

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that's the best and recommended way - go and see yourself

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Recommendations are precious but need to be taken with grain of salt as our priorities may wary and handsome for one may mean ugly for other - enough to read some comments on our model thread.

 

Some may like massage with strong and long strokes, others will enjoy more slow and gentle motions etc

 

PRIME , by the way is very popular and oft recommended place for real massages so by sheer luck  unknowingly you shoot for the best 

 

Yes, I was reading DivineMadam's post about the place and noticed PRIME is mentioned there, I was happy to have chosen there for the type of massage I needed, it would have been fabulous if I could have got the service from the guy I was attracted to but nonetheless enjoyable session. 

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yes those things happen , at times we forget that it takes two to tango  and we try to drag boy along to a places he rather would not be or even worse to be with people he rather not be with.

 

Like everything it works both ways - sometimes boy is trying to drag us to a place we don't want to go / i.e expensive restaurant or girl bar / and / or to drag his friends along and then it's our turn to remember  about tango and if necessary resist and say 'no'.

 

I even once was with boy who had nerve to tell me " I want you to tip this waiter because he is my friend" .

 

so in short , both  us and a boy should be always smiling

 

Hahaha, yeah, it's very true, I am sure I would remember this trip as there were quite a few experiences (some good and some not so good) and I do have an update on Vietnamese boys too, which I will post soon as I red few very negative comments about it and was little wary of hiring one again but as you rightly said, unless you try you wouldn't know so I did

[Boy69]

Nice report newscene, please keep us update regarding your experience with the Vietnamese boys .

[ggobkk]

Very enjoyable reports...the Prime "floaters" never fit.  But Prime massage is almost always a winner.  

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Day Two – Evening: After having quick shower and a light dinner, it was time to start the night with the hope that it goes better than the last one. Since I had already been to Dream boys last night, I decided to check out other places and explore a bit.

 

At usual 10:30pm, first stop "Fresh boys", quite a few people but not full as Dream boys. Drinks 400 BHAT, show was pretty okay with 2 guys performing on the stage, one of them was to my liking and as expected, he is damn top and doesn’t like kissing, so it was a letdown. Since there weren’t many customers, boys were hanging around the place, either chatting themselves or sitting idle enjoying the show. One of the guy who serves the drink was pretty good looking, coloured hair in Japanese style, pretty sleek and seems to enjoy the place, unfortunately he isn’t available for offering.

 

One drag show and then they installed the poll, so I got excited to see if they gonna do the pole dancing (I like good pole dancing where guys take their cloths off one by one and know how to make good use of the pole) it turns out to be nothing like it, still enjoyable though. While I was enjoying the show one of the guy who was sitting little far from me came over and sat besides me and asked me how I was doing. Pretty looking twink with a very cute smile though not someone I would fancy.

 

He seems to be from Laos and anyone who fancy twink, I would recommend giving him a go as he definitely knows how to please a customer. While I was there, he shared no shyness touching me or guiding my hands touching him or his assets, pretty smooth skin and very talkative, speaks fairly decent English so the conversation isn’t a problem. After the show ended, I offered the guy 200 BHAT tip for sitting and chatting with me and while I was about to leave mamassan asked me where is her tip so I gave her 100 BHAT (not sure if that happens with everyone but again 100BHAT is not a big deal)

 

While I did had a light dinner, I was feeling little hungry and thought a quick bite or two wouldn’t hurt and since no more shows were on until mid-night anyway so I had a good 25-35 minutes at hand and therefore why not make a good use of it and feed your belly. Went to 7 eleven nearby, got myself coconut water and a snickers bar and that did the trick.

 

Back to the same street I came from although before I cross the lane, a guy from “Hot male 2” came over and said, sit at his place and he has better prices for drinks 200 BHAT cheaper and since the guy was of my liking I said, okay. I thought, since I still have time, wouldn’t hurt having a drink or two and maybe I can ask this guy about some of the massage guys who were sitting across the street and get to know about this area more.

 

After I settled down, I called the boy and said, would he have time to come and sit with me for a while and he was like “yes”, since I was drinking beer, it wouldn’t look good if someone else who is sitting with me has nothing to drink so I asked the guy if he would like a drink too? so he brought himself a juice of something but overall bill 400 BHAT so far, I looked at the bill and thought not bad. While the boy didn’t speak that good English like the other two boys I met earlier but still conversable.

 

After a while I asked him about the massage place I was interested in and he said, it’s a boom boom place but the way he said it was kinda funny, so I laughed a bit, he then asked me, do I like “boom boom” and I said “Yeah I like it”, he asked me “do I like him” and I said “Yes, you are very cute unfortunately you don’t work there” and suddenly he came very close to me and started caressing me and I was like, wow, this is good, is it not the normal bar or something?? 

 

The guy was fully dressed, so I thought it was just a drinking place but since the guy made his first move, it piqued my interest hence I asked him, does he like "boom boom" and he said “yes” and then he added “You and I can go boom boom tonight”, at this point, I was like “sure” I didn’t know this place is same as others, the drinks are cheaper, guys are fully dressed but guys can still be offered huh? how wonderful!! Or wait, it's not the bar but the boys want to make some extra cash and may be they go with the customers. Let me ask “When you will be free”, he said, usually “2:00 am” but you can pay bar fine of 600 BHAT and I can leave now, things confirmed, the bar was like other places, so I did pay 600 BHAT and asked him to join me.

 

1:00am, back to my hotel, he drank water and then took his shirt off, while he was folding it, I was admiring his lean body as this was the first time, I had a good look at him, I moved a little and touched his torso while he was opening his jean’s button. He moved his head a little and briefly kissed me, as he guided my hands into inside his briefs, I could feel he was already tuned on, and I thought "THIS IS GOOOOOD"

 

He came out wearing bath towel, I could still see he was still in a mood , I smiled a bit and kissed him briefly on his neck before heading out for shower, 8-10 minutes later the fun started, he asked me if I needed a BJ and I was “you got it”, oh man, he did his magic, he really knew how to make a man happy. He was going slow and fast, slow and fast again, I needed to keep up with his pace as I don’t want to come just by BJ after playing for good, it was my turn, I started with few kisses and moved to his nipples, man I need to suck these, slowly moving to his cock to his sweet little sexy ass (the rest is censored haha)

 

At 2:30am we are finished playing and it’s time for a sexy bath. After the shower, I was hoping he could stay a night but unfortunately, he couldn’t as he had to go for some work in the morning. Since he was very nice to me and I enjoyed our time together, I did same thing like last night, paid 3000 BHAT for his time and 100 BHAT for a taxi. He didn’t seem pleased but wasn’t unhappy either, he kissed me one more time and off he goes.

 

Now it's time for my beauty sleep

 

To be continued…

[ggobkk]

Enjoyed your narrative of discovery about the availability of the boys at HM2.  I've off'd one of the "waiters" there on each of my last two trips.  Both times they were affectionate and accomplished between / on top of  the sheets.

 

Surprised he didn't seem pleased with 3000 bhat + taxi money.  Maybe the high season is spoiling the boys.  

 

I note that the off fee has increased by 100 since November.  

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Enjoyed your narrative of discovery about the availability of the boys at HM2.  I've off'd one of the "waiters" there on each of my last two trips.  Both times they were affectionate and accomplished between / on top of  the sheets.

 

Surprised he didn't seem pleased with 3000 bhat + taxi money.  Maybe the high season is spoiling the boys.  

 

I note that the off fee has increased by 100 since November.  

 

 

Thanks, yeah, it was quite new thing for me, I always thought it was just a bar but it tuned out to be more than that which is really good. One more place added into my visit list for next time

 

Re the amount, I think, it's pretty fine to offer about 3000 BHAT or little more if the guy was really good and did beyond their service, I had delightful and not so delightful experiences during this trip but no one seems to have exceeded my expectation, to whom I offer more than 3500 BHAT.

 

Hopefully during my next trip, I can find someone better who is available during day as well at night time 

[Boy69]

Thanks, yeah, it was quite new thing for me, I always thought it was just a bar but it tuned out to be more than that which is really good. One more place added into my visit list for next time

 

Re the amount, I think, it's pretty fine to offer about 3000 BHAT or little more if the guy was really good and did beyond their service, I had delightful and not so delightful experiences during this trip but no one seems to have exceeded my expectation, to whom I offer more than 3500 BHAT.

 

Hopefully during my next trip, I can find someone better who is available during day as well at night time

You'll need to find a boy for long-term and than part of the commitment he will be you

during the day as well .

BTW 3K Baht is very generous fee for the boy.

[vinapu]

I agree with chorus above that your tip was extremely generous, nothing wrong with that as you seem happy with that boy.

 

Taxi money on top of tip was not neccesary, sometimes boys say " I need small money for taxi ' hoping to extract that 100 extra but I have surprise in store - 'give me that 1000 note and I give you 10 red ones so you have small money" 

 

Looks that you are learning secrets of BKK scene very fast.

 

If you intend to off boy long time it's always better to clear it in advance as you learned , sometimes they  can't or don't want long time although often money speaks and does the trick of changing mind.

 

My favorite excuse was ' I can't  do long time because I need to take my son to school"

 

100 tip you gave to mamasan at Fresh Boys is price of tutorial, after all he did not do anything for you in comparison to boy you molested a bit who got 200 , crying injustice although boy's tip is in line with what is fair.

 

Good to know you had fun day after day 

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100 tip you gave to mamasan at Fresh Boys is price of tutorial, after all he did not do anything for you in comparison to boy you molested a bit who got 200 , crying injustice although boy's tip is in line with what is fair.

 

Good to know you had fun day after day 

 

Hahaha, I wouldn't say "molested", I would rather use "appraise" as we were appraising assets of each other, plus the key point was, he came and sat down with me, which I am very glad he did because I am little shy and new to this wonderful world of Bangkok so if someone else makes their first move, it makes it easier on me to open up and lead the way afterwards

[vinapu]

 he came and sat down with me, which I am very glad he did because I am little shy 

boys are quite good on appraising our shyness and I agree that it's good sometimes that they make first bold move.

 

It was my case on my first ever visit in BKK go-go bar, mamasan spotted my wide opened eyes and told me boldly " take this boy, he knows where short time room is, give me XXX baht for the bar and you will pay 2000 to the boy" , before I managed to say 'aaa' , boy was already sitting on my lap , all in smiles. This was my entry to paradise. Without that I'd probably run empty handed , eyes covered from shame.

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Without that I'd probably run empty handed , eyes covered from shame.

 

hahaha, I can't imagine you ever being in this situation Vinapu Specially not after reading your blogs and knowing how experienced you are now

[Alizizou]

Seems like you always pay 3000 baht for guys u offed even the twink type..i never pay more than 2500baht for guys i offed..only once i pay 3000baht for former mr thailand who i offed from tawan..

 

Twink?..i dont think they deserved more than 1000baht LOL...

[Guest]

It was my case on my first ever visit in BKK go-go bar, mamasan spotted my wide opened eyes and told me boldly " take this boy, he knows where short time room is, give me XXX baht for the bar and you will pay 2000 to the boy" , before I managed to say 'aaa' , boy was already sitting on my lap , all in smiles. This was my entry to paradise. Without that I'd probably run empty handed , eyes covered from shame.

 

I'm fairly shy, but 10 years ago, on my first ever trip, managed to select my first ever lad from the stage without any pressure & off we went to the Rose hotel.

The following week, I was taking my first ever Pattaya off back to the Ambience & there was a concert on the stage at the top end of Boyztown, with seating all the way down the street.  The concert cannot have been that good, since a good proportion of the audience were more interested in my lad walking up the raised area outside the Ambience. 

[vinapu]

, since a good proportion of the audience were more interested in my lad walking up the raised area outside the Ambience. 

That's the usually case in Boyztown and soi Twilight - whole soi sees who is walking with whom and presumably next day everybody knows our attributes , size of tip and in case of long time , if we snore or not.

 

That's the best medicine to cure our inherent shyness 

[vinapu]

hahaha, I can't imagine you ever being in this situation Vinapu Specially not after reading your blogs and knowing how experienced you are now

believe me , I rather be that inexperienced like then , 16 years ago. There's noting like exploring  Silom / Suriwong neighborhood for the first time.