December trip (20 to 24)

[jason1975]

I went to Freshboys, T's bar at 11pm to meet him and pay for his off fee. This being my last night in Bangkok for this trip, I didn't want to be tied down with T. We had spent the previous 3 nights playing pool, massage and drinking and eating. I wanted to be free. I passed him one of my two hotel room card keys. I told him he could go first and lounge in the room. He said he would go for a foot massage. 'Ok, see you in the room after 12,' I said. Then I remembered that there was no more water in the room as Laos boy and P had drunk the two bottles of water that the hotel provides daily. So I asked T to drop by at the mart to get water. We were behaving like a couple.

 

From Freshboys, I walked to the end of the soi to visit Classic. It was not empty surprisingly. There were customers, including a group of girls who had been persuaded to step in to watch the water show. Unfortunately, the show only starts at 12. The earliest it would start is 11:30pm provided the place is filled with customers. I ordered a drink and looked at the boys on stage. Not a single one was I interested in. At 11:15pm, I decided to leave and went to Boys 66. I entered in the middle of the show. I was ushered to a front row seat, very close to the performers. The ladyboy's lip synching was spot on and her two dancers were energetic and smiling throughout. I love such shows where the performers are obviously having fun and enjoying themselves.

 

There was a big cock item where 4 boys were dancing in towels. At the end of that item, one boy walked up to 3 lady customers and removed his towel briefly for them to see. Lucky bitches. The last item was a shower show with 4 boys in the glass shower. The show ended at 12 and it was time for the boys to come back on stage (in their signature tanktop and jeans). To my surprise, only 8 boys appeared. When I visited Jupiter on Wednesday night, there were 30 boys at 10pm. The crowd at Boys66 headed for the exit. It was obvious that they were there only for the show. Among the 8 boys on stage, there were 2 boys I liked but I couldn't take them off because I already had T for long time back at the hotel.

 

When I got back to the room, T was busy playing his game on his phone. It is a multiplayer shooting game that connects people from all over the world so there's lots of communication. T was shouting commands to his teammates excitedly and loudly! I was afraid the neighours in the other rooms would complain. I saw two bottles of water together with instant noodles that T had cooked for himself. He really made himself at home in my room.

 

We didn't do much that night. I had to pack. We played a bit then I fell asleep. I was tired. T stayed up the whole night alternating between his game and watching Youtube. At 6am, I woke up. We then had our last session for this trip. After his shower, I paid his long time tip and off he went. I had to get ready to go to the airport.

 

And that's my account of my latest trip.

 

Summary:

1) One threesome experience

2) Two 'boyfriends' (T and P)

3) Three massage places (Baan Tewa, Nine Spa, Arena)

4) Four nights long time with a boy.

5) Five gogo bars (X-Boys, Freshboys, Jupiter, Boys66, Classic)

 

Would love to list 12 things in the spirit of the 12 days after Christmas but first I must stay in Bangkok for at least 12 days. Something to consider for next year!

[ggobkk]

Thanks for your report and your style in touring and treating the guys - including the Hot Male promotor.  

[vinapu]

. He was very affectionate and I enjoyed his smooth young slender body. We showered together and soaped and washed my back very well. I tipped him very generously (1500 baht) despite his inexperience and lack of skills in massage. A variety of reasons

1) I was moved by his story

2) Christmas was near and I was feeling generous

3) He gave good after-massage service

4) I had a great conversation with him about Singapore

5) He showered for me (which the guy from Arena didn't do the previous day!)

 

( my underscore ) that was reason good enough to tip him generously

 

You have a good heart.

 

Massage was less then perfect but whole experience was obviously very pleasant so being generous was just fair payout.

 

If I liked his body I'd just hug him tightly for that  1/2 hr even if session was done and over, this is in fact why I prefer 1.5 hr sessions, I tell them 'we have still 1/2 so lets have a rest", very few complains.

 

I like your reporting style - every sentence carries some useful message. Not a minute wasted on vacation, I like it even more. Hope our paths will cross in future in a soi Twilight express lane like paulsf says.

[vinapu]

 a Chinese customer had gone into X Boys and invited interested boys to drink with him. He would pay their off fees to the bar but he would not pay any short time or long time because no sex was involved. It was just drinking. 6 boys ended up with this Chinese customer and P was one of them. They went to 3 different bars (one in Thaniya and two in Patpong) from midnight until 6am. 

that's fair if he told boys up front that he will pay for drinks but no extra tips will be paid. I understand he did and they agreed. Their tips was their  good, whisky soaked,  time

 

Otherwise I think  boy / boys should be tipped as they were removed from var losing their earning potential for the night and even , if you did not wait for P as you did , for the following night.

 

I think this is  quite common among Asian customers to take boys out just for drinking binge without tip if no sex is involved and boys happily oblige, I heard similar stories from boys before including my last night stand  in Sept when boy told me can stay past certain hours because his Indonesian client is taking him to bar for drinking as he usually does according to boy, never taking him to the hotel.

 

It seems some people just want to have somebody to talk to and willing to expense it.

[vinapu]

 he didn't puke. But he had a massive hangover 

you should tell him that was reason for his hangover, keeping all that poison inside

[steveboy]

If I liked his body I'd just hug him tightly for that  1/2 hr even if session was done and over, this is in fact why I prefer 1.5 hr sessions, I tell them 'we have still 1/2 so lets have a rest", very few complains.

 

Hug him tightly for 30 minutes ??  Can he be resuscitated after that?

[vinapu]

Hug him tightly for 30 minutes ??  Can he be resuscitated after that?

you know nothing about love but Merry Christmas to you anyways

[Jasper]

that's fair if he told boys up front that he will pay for drinks but no extra tips will be paid. I understand he did and they agreed. Their tips was their good, whisky soaked, time

 

Otherwise I think boy / boys should be tipped as they were removed from var losing their earning potential for the night and even , if you did not wait for P as you did , for the following night.

 

I think this is quite common among Asian customers to take boys out just for drinking binge without tip if no sex is involved and boys happily oblige, I heard similar stories from boys before including my last night stand in Sept when boy told me can stay past certain hours because his Indonesian client is taking him to bar for drinking as he usually does according to boy, never taking him to the hotel.

 

It seems some people just want to have somebody to talk to and willing to expense it.

I usually tip even for drinking only session on top of off fee to the bar.

 

The trouble with taking boys out from the bar for drinking is that even you took a couple of boys from the bar, the news spread quickly as boys take selfies and send the photo to bar friends that they are drinking in the so so bar, their friends come and join the drinking party too.

In my November trip I ended up with 8 gogo boys, two waiters, 3 of their friends in the end. Obviously I didn’t pay tip for the boys that joined later voluntarily.

[DivineMadman]

I usually tip even for drinking only session on top of off fee to the bar.

 

The trouble with taking boys out from the bar for drinking is that even you took a couple of boys from the bar, the news spread quickly as boys take selfies and send the photo to bar friends that they are drinking in the so so bar, their friends come and join the drinking party too.

In my November trip I ended up with 8 gogo boys, two waiters, 3 of their friends in the end. Obviously I didn’t pay tip for the boys that joined later voluntarily.

I do this a few times a year (so it's not a particularly Asian customer thing), usually with a guy who is a regular of mine (at that moment) and a handful of his friends.  I enjoy these trips to Isaan dancing or a Morlam more than the BKK nightclubs.  When I started doing this I just asked my bar guy/co-host what to do and his advice seemed fair to all concerned.  Obviously pay the off fee, but also give each 300 for the night for cab fair and to be nice and make it a special evening for all concerned.  He may have said 200-300, but 300 is a good number.   And of course pay for booze and food, but outside of the nightclubs it seems hard to run up a big tab.  I don't mind the occasional extra person going.  I've never felt like I'm being taken advantage of.  And last time the guys insisted on paying for half the food/bar bill.  

 

All-in it's still cheaper than buying a round of drinks for friends in NYC.  

[faranglaw]

What was the name of the boy at Baan Tewa? I might go there soon. He sounds lovely.

[steveboy]

you know nothing about love but Merry Christmas to you anyways

 

Merry Christmas to you too.  I don't hold tightly anyone for 30 minutes because... I love myself!  My arms would hurt in much less than 30 minutes.

[DivineMadman]

Kudos to jason1975 for a great report, for venturing to some of Bangkok's more boutique massage shops, and most of all for such a great attitude.  Really an inspiration on how to enjoy the good and not get derailed if something is a little less than fantasized.  

 

And a special respect for being man enough to admit enjoying Unicorn Cafe.  I'll confess I enjoy the spot, but could never say so in public.  

 

Bravo all around.

[jason1975]

What was the name of the boy at Baan Tewa? I might go there soon. He sounds lovely.

I am so sorry. I heard his name at the beginning of the massage but it didn't stick in my mind and it was my mistake not to ask him again before leaving. It's one of those one syllable Thai name. He actually works at the counter but he is available for massage. I hope that helps.

[jason1975]

Thank you all for your appreciative and encouraging responses and comments. Thank you, Divine Madman for your info on boutique massage shops. I enjoyed writing this report as much as experiencing the encounters during this trip.

[vinapu]

 

 

And a special respect for being man enough to admit enjoying Unicorn Cafe.  I'll confess I enjoy the spot, but could never say so in public.  

 

 

now you got me curious about the place