Trip Report Pattaya & Bangkok SEP 2017

[Nasherich]

Day 1

 

Having had a great flight over with Thai Airways (a row of four seats all to myself is a rare wonder), I decided to take the bus to a Jomtien instead of my usual taxi.

 

It was a smooth process apart from the passengers, (myself shameful included) who did not realise the seats were actually numbered and reserved. So there was an awful lot of shuffling going on as people relocated to their correct seats. I'm not entirely sure why it mattered that much, although obviously some couples wanted to sit together.

 

But once underway, Jomtien was reached in two hours exactly, leaving a short walk to the Agate Hotel for my stay.

 

The welcome at that hotel is always fantastic: every member of staff conveys the same.

 

I started with a quick breakfast at Your Friend, and then followed with a two hour massage at the The Blind Massage Institute which never disappoints - if you want just a good massage.

 

I had in mind to visit Good Boys that evening after seeing some recent reports on here and having never really ventured far into Sunee previously.

 

Upon arrival, I didn't even have time to sit down before I was invited into the back to choose somebody for a private show. Drinks purchased, my chosen boy lowered his trousers to summon up some action. It wasn't really happening, so I offered to apply to some oral stimulation. This seemed to work just fine and we were in business. Alternating hand and month produced a reasonable cum harvest: one can only assume business is light.

 

I'm not sure I'd bother again to be honest (I've had much more fun for free elsewhere), so when another boy offered to do the same, I wasn't inclined to take him up on it. Not that it stopped him taking out his considerably-sized cock next to me and continually asking me to look at it. He finally put it away and tried his luck at the front of the bar.

 

I went to have a look around the massage places near tuk com and made a note to return to enjoy a session with a particularly cute guy in an orange shirt in Somjit massage.

 

I returned to Jomtien for a meal at Dick's (unusually disappointing as it turns out) and then jet lag began to kick in, so I went for a cup of tea at the Art Café in Jomtien centre (the lady running it is so sweet and they have a good job of making what is essentially a multi story car park look like quite calming and inviting).

 

The restaurant opposite the Agate has now closed and turned into Blue Angel massage. Quite a nice selection of friendly guys. I couldn't resist opting for a foot massage and made a mental note to return for more later in the week.

 

Having dozed a little during the massage I thought I'd take a walk down to the beach but I was accosted outside Boy Gaga (my favourite bar because it's quiet and relaxed) by a guy I've known for many years now. Many whiskies later I finally returned to my bed.

 

Day 2

 

I managed to make it down to breakfast. They've changed it from waiter service to a buffet on some days and I think it's a general improvement. They used to serve up so much a lot of it went to waste.

 

Most of the day I spent round the pool, fielding messages on various apps - so many I could have done with a personal assistant. Finally selected a guy to meet at La Baguette café. He was very nice and spoke pretty good English so we went back to the hotel. No issues with guests at the Agate.

 

One problem emerged almost immediately: kissing revealed he was a smoker. I should have asked but forgot. However he was quite passionate, tactile and athletic and we both ended up happy.

 

He seemed very keen for me to take a shower. I don't think this was a hygiene issue (before anyone says); I've read enough on this forum to be on my guard. I demurred and then he said he would go and smoke a cigarette on the balcony. Once he was outside. I took the wallet out of my shorts and took it in to the bathroom with me. While in the bathroom, I suddenly noticed in the mirror that he was back in the room fishing around where my shorts were. Now I might be wrong but I could see no reason why he should have come back into the room. He saw me and then moved to look at something in his bag. Knowing there was nothing of value lying around. I took the shower and got dressed.

 

He then announced he had to leave for some reason or other and then asked if I could help him out with some money. I really don't know if he was hoping to steal from me or not but I have no issue with someone asking for money directly so I decided to help him out but I won't be seeing him again.

 

More to follow...

[floridarob]

I too found the food disappointing at Dicks, just had lunch there today.

 

Agate has a safe, I put my stuff in right when I get to the room.

[vinapu]

 

Having dozed a little during the massage .......

 

 

it's my favorite way of fighting jet lag on the first day - taking 1.5 hr massage session and instructing boy to keep massaging even if I doze off and then spending last 1/2 hr or so quietly in his embraces.Seems to be working.

 

Congratulations on employing 6th sense with  that massage boy. No need to be paranoid but pays to be vigilant specially when boy is from apps and there's no place to go and report on him. Thanks God never had such an issue even if on occasion I left boy alone in the room for some time  but it's good not to be too naive and rosy eyed.

 

I never use a wallet to hold money and cash on me  is distributed among many pockets so stealing everything would be too laborious.

 

Good you came in the low season to help the boys to fight hunger but watch those who may be  trying self-service, waiting impatiently for  a next installment.

[vinapu]

I too found the food disappointing at Dicks, just had lunch there today.

 

 

I'd eat there daily, good way to lose some pounds is to patronize places with mediocre food

[Nasherich]

I'd eat there daily, good way to lose some pounds is to patronize places with mediocre food

Now THAT did make me laugh!

[Travellerdave]

I don't have much of an appetite when in Pattaya. Today I've just had the excellent Agate breakfast. Last nights boy decided he would go back to his room at about 8 am. Suited me as I had had enough sex for one night. On the beach at 3.00 pm I had a salad with potato. That's it !. Mind you I've had 5 SAN Miguel light beers and some tea in the room. At home I am a chocoholic but here none has passed my lips, despite being tempted in 7-11 whilst buying condoms, lube, and listerine last night. Maybe I will loose a few pounds whilst here or probably not.

[vinapu]

 whilst buying condoms, lube, and listerine last night.

I call it farang survival kit # 1 and do exactly the same on my first foray from hotel room after arrival.

 

Also noticed  my appetite in Thailand is greatly reduced and i credit it to adrenaline rush and heat in the air but loss of calories is minimal because all those beers consumed in LOS  which I drink very little of those at home

[reader]

There are some days when my only food intake (outside of a hotel breakfast) comes from 7-Eleven.  Love those <40 baht meals they'll heat up in microwave.  That and a beer will do...and maybe an icecream sandwich.

[Nasherich]

 

Day 3 & 4

 

In the morning, I fielded many messages on gay Romeo and eventually selected a good looking guy and invited him to have dinner with me. He turned up on time to the hotel and then we walked together to the restaurant. The second identical mistake of my trip: this guy was also a smoker. I think I just got confused with all the messages going back and forth and missed asking this question again.

 

He was pleasant and considerate enough to smoke downwind of the fan. His English was good and he was reasonably well educated. He seemed desperate to prolong the evening before going back to the hotel with three bars visited, so I began to think he was trying to extricate himself of having to be amorous later. I was almost prepared to say goodbye and end the evening there and then but eventually we went back to the hotel together.

 

Thereupon further prevarication: two cigarettes on the balcony, more chat, "shall we watch something on the TV?" etc. Then finally after showers, we got into bed together. Then a load of cock-teasing and cock-deflating crap whereupon he said I was clearly too tired to perform! At this point, mentally I decided to mark it up to experience and gave up. He slept very well (snored constantly) and I was awake somewhat frustrated for most of the night.

 

In the morning, my alarm went off for breakfast. I had already decided food was preferable to more playing around with this guy and said he could join me if he wanted to (which he did).

 

When we got back to the room, he suddenly became amorous and what followed was some of best sex I recall having. So why all the farting around the previous evening I shall never know.

 

He left around noon, asking if we could repeat everything tonight. I didn't have the heart to give him a direct answer so left it that I would message him when I had worked out my day.

 

In the afternoon, I popped back to Somjit Massage outside Tukcom. Of course, the guy I had espied previously was nowhere to be seen (a lesson I am learning is one should always strike when the iron is hot).

 

Nonetheless I was in the mood and selected another guy for an hour's oil massage. As it goes, it was a reasonable massage and got interesting when he was massaging my arms and I found my hand resting on a very nice hard appendage in his pants. This had a similar effect on me, and shortly afterwards he was naked and throwing himself in to the session with wild abandon.

 

The guy from last night messaged me saying he was bored. I didn't take up the bait and just sympathised. For one thing. I need to rejuvenate myself with a good night's sleep!

[bobsaigon]

Nasherich, I enjoy your reports for their "Everyman" nature, to which most of us can easily relate.

[vinapu]

Nasherich,

don't waste your vacation time on sleeping alone, no sense to come home and regret

 

When boy was asleep, I'd still use this time to molest him instead of being frustrated

[Nasherich]

Day 5 & 6

 

I was only half in the mood on day 5, and it seemed the same for many others too as I wasted a lot of time chatting on apps with no actual result. So nothing to report.

 

The next day, however, I contacted a guy on Hornet who looked promising, and within 10 minutes he was in the hotel reception.

 

I wasn't originally sure it was him as the photos were somewhat flattering, shall I say, but anyway I led him through reception.

 

It turned out he was a waiter at a good restaurant I had turned up at with the guy from day 2 (but all tables outside were full). He recognised me from that evening.

 

In the room, it became apparent his personal hygiene could be better. I really didn't want to kiss someone with breath like that. Although he did go to the bathroom first and clean his nether regions, he could have been more throrough with cleaning his cock too. So that was two activities down already.

 

Not being sure whether to call it a day (which seemed a bit harsh), I thought I would make the best of it. He seemed really interested in my armpits so I let him play with them a bit. Then I did a bit of sensual touch which did not seem to get much reaction. He just lay there motionless so I thought he might have gone to sleep. Not wishing to waste too much energy, I stopped to see what would happen. After a few minutes, by which time I had almost nodded off myself, he asked me if I was ok.

 

"Yes I'm fine", I lied, and then he actually moved and started to suck my cock. It was all teeth and all I could think about was writing this poor experience up in my diary for everyone. I did get hard despite the difficult circumstances, but I knew without intimacy it wasn't really going to work. So I decided to wank him off so at least he would have enjoyed it. This fortunately didn't take long, and I sent him on his way after about 20 mins or so. I did my best to be as polite and friendly as possible, because I think everyone should be treated with respect, but also because I will want to go to restaurant again at some point and don't want any awkwardness!

 

I am beginning to think paying is the best option... But then things look up. A line message from a guy who's free today.

 

I agree to meet him for coffee in Jomtien centre and it's not long before we're both in bed together enjoying quite an enthusiastic time. I wasn't sure if he was going to stay the night - as it happens I wouldn't have minded- but at around midnight he decided he was hungry and would go out for food and go home afterwards. I had to accompany him to reception anyway to retrieve his ID card so decided to go for a quick drink. The onset of rain made it impossible to leave the bar for the next couple of hours... Oh well, there's worse places to be stuck!

[reader]

Nasherich, I very much enjoy and appreciate your posts but I think you'd do well to heed Vinapu's advice and don't waste precious time. You may well fare better relying less on GR and other sites and do your shopping in person, especially since in your in Pattaya, one of the world's premier locations for hands-on, brick-and-mortar capitalism.

 

Wishing you the best of luck as you resume your pursuit.

[Boy69]

Hi Nasherich,

 

Instead of you if I see the boy that turned up is not my type I wouldn't take him to my room.I will sit with him for a drink somewhere a litle bit chating and then send him away politly.there is no point to waste your time in bed with a boy you clearly don't like !

[Nasherich]

Boy69, it wasn't that the boy wasn't my type (just not quite as attractive as his pics). The hygiene issues weren't immediately apparent so we were already in the room. I guess I find confrontation difficult!

 

Reader, perhaps for the same reason above, I like the ability to do selection online. I have sat in bars, sitting with a boy I have bought a drink for (as don't like sitting alone), only to find another boy far more attractive (maybe at the same bar or one opposite). I find it difficult to dump one for the other! Now I realise it's a business, but these guys are human and have feelings. That's my issue. Thoughts and tips welcome.

[reader]

I am beginning to think paying is the best option...

 

 

Sorry, but I missed this.  Now I'm beginning to better appreciate your predicament: you've been looking for free sex in Pattaya.

 

My best tip is to become a customer. That way your feelings come more into play.

[Boy69]

You don't have to feel guilt when dump one for the other you can tip the boy and move on to the other boy you prefer belive me that Thai boys do the same if they prefer other customer It's only business as you mentioned yourself. It's a win-win situation for everyone the first boy received tip from you the other boy you preferred was offed by you and you got the boy you really wanted so everything is fine.

Sometimes there are exeptions I met one boy via Grindr he was a little bit older then the picture he showed on his profile it turned me off first but decided to give him a try it turned to be great sex , very nice and polite boy with easy going personality and eventually we met everyday and we are still in daily contact through Whatsapp .for sure will meet him again in my next trip to Thailand.

[Nasherich]

Ha, well I have come to the conclusion that there's no such thing as free sex (and I'm more than happy to contribute towards the Thai economy). What I am trying to say is that maybe deep down I'm looking for something - don't laugh - a little more meaningful than a transaction in a bar

[Guest samebb]

Ha, well I have come to the conclusion that there's no such thing as free sex (and I'm more than happy to contribute towards the Thai economy). What I am trying to say is that maybe deep down I'm looking for something - don't laugh - a little more meaningful than a transaction in a bar

Pattaya would be my last choice of destination to find that. Good luck! It's very unlikely!

[Boy69]

Pattaya would be my last choice of destination to find that. Good luck! It's very unlikely!

I agree Pattaya is a total sex commercial place "give me money and I will give you sex" approach it's very hard to find there more meaningful relationship with local boy.

[Nasherich]

 

Day 7 & 8

 

I finally returned to the Blue Angel massage, after a bit of flirting by the guys when I exited the hotel. I selected the masseur using the 'most smiling boy' method.

 

I can only describe the massage as frenetic and alarming, and I'm sure if it hadn't have been for the gallons of excess oil lubricating my poor body, I could well have spontaneously combusted.

 

Personally I like a massage to be sensual and teasing throughout; this was nothing like, despite my suggestions. Towards the end, the 'masseur' removed his clothes. He was at least well endowed in the cock department if not massage skills. However, my fight for survival meant I didn't feel especially horny by this point. I did manage to make him cum all over my chest but didn't achieve the same goal myself. As with all massage places, it so depends on who you get or choose.

 

I tipped him a reasonable amount, and he asked how his massage was. I decided to give him some pointers for next time in the gentlest way possible. Hopefully someone else will benefit.

 

I then connected with a guy from gay Romeo who turned out to be from one of the Jomtien bars in the Venue soi. Tall and reasonably built, I went to pay him a visit and buy him a drink. A short while later, off fees duly paid, we were back at the Agate for a night of fun; I say fun but I have to admit the shape and girth of his cock was quite something to accommodate.

 

He didn't make it down to breakfast (we had already discussed the possibility that I would go alone if he didn't wake up in time) but when I returned we had a very satisfying round 2. Nice guy but I don't think I'll off him again.

 

Later in the day, having enjoyed an oil massage at TBMI, I received a message from a guy on Hornet offering a massage. Certainly our exchanges looked good, and his pics did too, so I invited him over to the hotel.

 

He exceeded expectations in every department. Massage was one of the best, sex afterwards was good and we chatted quite a lot in both Thai and English. I suggested we go and have some food together which was gladly accepted and we had a very enjoyable evening and night together. I'm only sorry it has taken eight days to meet the guy as I'd certainly like to get to know him better.

 

I received several messages from my off from the previous night asking where I was etc and inviting me to come to his bar again. I politely declined.

[Boy69]

Day 7 & 8

 

I finally returned to the Blue Angel massage, after a bit of flirting by the guys when I exited the hotel. I selected the masseur using the 'most smiling boy' method.

 

I can only describe the massage as frenetic and alarming, and I'm sure if it hadn't have been for the gallons of excess oil lubricating my poor body, I could well have spontaneously combusted.

 

Personally I like a massage to be sensual and teasing throughout; this was nothing like, despite my suggestions. Towards the end, the 'masseur' removed his clothes. He was at least well endowed in the cock department if not massage skills. However, my fight for survival meant I didn't feel especially horny by this point. I did manage to make him cum all over my chest but didn't achieve the same goal myself. As with all massage places, it so depends on who you get or choose.

 

I tipped him a reasonable amount, and he asked how his massage was. I decided to give him some pointers for next time in the gentlest way possible. Hopefully someone else will benefit.

 

I then connected with a guy from gay Romeo who turned out to be from one of the Jomtien bars in the Venue soi. Tall and reasonably built, I went to pay him a visit and buy him a drink. A short while later, off fees duly paid, we were back at the Agate for a night of fun; I say fun but I have to admit the shape and girth of his cock was quite something to accommodate.

 

He didn't make it down to breakfast (we had already discussed the possibility that I would go alone if he didn't wake up in time) but when I returned we had a very satisfying round 2. Nice guy but I don't think I'll off him again.

 

Later in the day, having enjoyed an oil massage at TBMI, I received a message from a guy on Hornet offering a massage. Certainly our exchanges looked good, and his pics did too, so I invited him over to the hotel.

 

He exceeded expectations in every department. Massage was one of the best, sex afterwards was good and we chatted quite a lot in both Thai and English. I suggested we go and have some food together which was gladly accepted and we had a very enjoyable evening and night together. I'm only sorry it has taken eight days to meet the guy as I'd certainly like to get to know him better.

 

I received several messages from my off from the previous night asking where I was etc and inviting me to come to his bar again. I politely declined.

Good for you that you finally managed to meet the right boy for you .

Are you planning to be long term

with him ? Did he agree to be with you longer ?

[floridarob]

Pattaya would be my last choice of destination to find that. Good luck! It's very unlikely!

hmmmmm

[aussie_]

Pattaya would be my last choice of destination to find that. Good luck! It's very unlikely!

Agreed but i have met a few tourists from China, Taiwan etc visiting Pattaya who are not money boys. I had a 20yo Thai Twink visit me four times last month during his holiday from Phuket, money was never mentioned. But i don't waste time looking for free sex, Pattaya is a pay for entertainment zone and that is ok with me.

[Nasherich]

Day 9

 

My last full day in Pattaya was spent relaxing round the pool. My off from Day 7 was messaging me seeking a second helping, but I had hopes of meeting the guy from last night again. When I took a different boy who I've been friends with for nearly three years now (just friends) to La Baguette as a kind of goodbye treat, I received a message from the day 7 off saying he'd seen me with someone else... I found this somewhat annoying; an off for one evening is just that surely? I don't really expect to have my movements tracked.

 

Later on, my new guy from last night messaged me asking if I wanted to meet him again. A definite yes from me, so we met early on at the hotel for fun, and followed it with dinner and a movie at central Festival. It's a shame I have to leave tomorrow but perhaps it's best not to entertain thoughts of having another boyfriend potentially and just keep in touch and see what happens until my next visit here.

 

So out of my 9 days here, I've had some mixed experiences, but the best of them not involving any money (at least not directly).

 

Now on to Bangkok.

 

Day 10 & 11

 

I thought I'd try a different hotel to usual, the Furama as it has a nice swimming pool on the roof. It's also near Arena which I had plans to visit for the first time. I booked for two people and said on check-in that my companion would be joining me later. I did this in the event that I found someone to stay overnight as I don't know what the joiner policy is there.

 

Arena did not disappoint. I arrived around 3.30pm and there were some 25 to 30 guys in the reception area, all nicely defined chests. Scanning the line up, I decided to go for the most enthusiastic. I was slightly short-changed on time, but the massage was good and the afters really couldn't be better. He really threw himself into making me have a good experience.

 

The following day I transferred to the Malaysia Hotel until it was time to go the airport. They're gradually upgrading this place; currently the restaurant is being refurbished but food is still being served outside.

 

I like to finish my trips with time at Babylon. I spent an hour or so round the pool swimming, and then headed into the jacuzzi. Some action there as usual, and got sucked nicely by a youngish Thai guy.

 

I then headed for a 90 minute massage. It's expensive but I've never had a bad experience here, and this masseur was great. Very sensual and erotic but a proper massage. I tipped him generously as business seemed light today and it really was very good

 

I returned to my locker and picked up a dry towel and went for a shower before heading back to the hotel. Coming out of the shower room, a truly stunning guy (who I initially thought was Cambodian) caught my eye and then he gently grabbed my arm as I walked past him. I began to say I'm about to leave but his invitation to join him in the Garden of Earthly Delights was too tempting.

 

Without doubt, to join him was the best decision I made on this holiday. All in all we spent just under an hour kissing, cuddling, sucking and fucking each other. It could not have been a better ending to my holiday.

 

So, duly spent, I returned to the hotel, grabbed a quick meal, and headed to the airport.

 

I know some members think I've wasted time on the apps, but in truth I've had some great sex on this holiday and wouldn't have wanted more (maybe my libido is lower than others' here!).

 

Thailand never disappoints me. And I will be back later in the year. I hope you've enjoyed reading my accounts as much as I enjoy reading those of other people.