From ST to LT to a nightmare

[vinapu]

 nowadays my Line ID is all that casual encounters get from me.

from me all they get is their tip, only once I gave my contact (e-mail address )  to a boy and came to regret it.

[vinapu]

 

Also, the phone is set to not ring during sleeping hours. 

 

A lesson I learnt the hard way (at night shortly before falling asleep, or in the morning half awake I had calls that were not important).

 

 

thank you both for a good laugh since your stories reminded me an adventure of one of my straight friends entertained by one of soi Cowboy ladies and in the moment of passion not only his and lady's phones rung at once but also somebody knocked to the door. 

 

He took it as serious sign of being in trouble for debauchery and went as far as e-mail me asking if I know any church in the area.

I directed him to one on Ruam Ruedi chastising in in the answer claiming accurately that i was in Bangkok so may times and never went to the bed with girl. Still laughing

[steveboy]

 

I directed him to one on Ruam Ruedi chastising in in the answer claiming accurately that i was in Bangkok so may times and never went to the bed with girl. Still laughing

Hilarious.  Last time I went to bed with a girl it was with... my wife!

Twelve years since first visit to BKK, and I still cannot describe how Thai girls are different from any other Asian ones.  I only go as far as looking at them when they are cute.

[Boy69]

A lesson I learnt the hard way (at night shortly before falling asleep, or in the morning half awake I had calls that were not important).

 

As for Line or phone number, I prefer texting to calling, so I give out or ask for Line anyway. But a few boys I know have only basic phone without Line, or they don't have data all the time, and in these cases I ask for their telephone number so I can call them when I want to meet them and can't reach them on Line.

I don't mind to give my mobile phone number it's really not an issue for me.This particularly boy didn't bother to apologize or to make another contact with me I guess he understood that there is no point for that.

[vinapu]

I don't mind to give my mobile phone number it's really not an issue for me.This particularly boy didn't bother to apologize or to make another contact with me I guess he understood that there is no point for that.

sure , we say there are other boys, boys I guess say , there are other farangs

[Boy69]

sure , we say there are other boys, boys I guess say , there are other farangs

Well you right !

 

I am almost a week in Phuket found lovely 20 y.o. boy via Grindr, polite, modest, very easy going personality and handsome too.he works till very late and every day after finishing his work he come to me for a couple of hours sometimes we hung out and sometimes just staying in my room and then he goes back to sleep in his room. Very comfortable arrangement for both of us with no complications at all.

I guess I learnt my lesson from Pattaya.

[Gaybutton]

I guess I learnt my lesson from Pattaya.

 

Your "trial by fire" was quite common for gay farang new to Thailand.  What you went through was difficult for you, but thankfully not devastating.  Now you know what so many of us, including me, learned the hard way.

 

Many farang ended up not only heartbroken, but financially devastated too. Reading your posts I believe you are a very nice person.  I'm glad you found your way out of the trap and I'm glad you did not let that boy ruin your holiday.

 

I think it's appropriate for me to repeat what I have posted so many times before - what I call "The Richard Burk Philosophy."  I think now you will far better understand why he said it:

 

"If you want love in Thailand, rent it."

[Guest]

"If you want love in Thailand, rent it."

 

Not only that, but rent 1 day at a time.    

I generally rent the best ones up to about 4 times in a 2 week visit, but that's rarely on consecutive days.    The idea would be to try about 7 different ones in the first week, then think about a mixture of new & repeat offs for the remainder of the visit.  Ideally finish the trip with a proven performer.

[vinapu]

I used to butterfly religiously not only offing boy only once but visiting the same bar or massage only once per trip and keeping them in rotation ( with exception of Arena which I always visit ).

 

But then I decided not to fix something which is not broken and now if I like  him I don't see reason not to indulge  even in several consecutive nights, 5 being my longest stretch.

 

Having try both approaches I have some comparison for my use and both approaches have their pro and cons but for now I like second approach better as sadly boys are disappearing from the scene next trip so I may not have a chance to hug him anymore.

 

My advice would be do whatever rocks your boat now. And as soon as you notice buy is trying to manipulate you to his agenda say good bye as it will lead to disaster sooner or later.

[Boy69]

I used to butterfly religiously not only offing boy only once but visiting the same bar or massage only once per trip and keeping them in rotation ( with exception of Arena which I always visit ).

 

But then I decided not to fix something which is not broken and now if I like him I don't see reason not to indulge even in several consecutive nights, 5 being my longest stretch.

 

Having try both approaches I have some comparison for my use and both approaches have their pro and cons but for now I like second approach better as sadly boys are disappearing from the scene next trip so I may not have a chance to hug him anymore.

 

My advice would be do whatever rocks your boat now. And as soon as you notice buy is trying to manipulate you to his agenda say good bye as it will lead to disaster sooner or later.

I am not a butterfly by nature and I do believe too not to fix something which is not broken. the boy in Phuket is solid and quiet come and go after couple of hours ,speak reasonable English and the sex is really great he is very horny and seems to enjoy every moment and because he likes me he never qouted a rate I give him whatever I want to.

 

Regarding the boy from Pattaya You're right he did try to manipulate me to something which I don't know exactly what but it's certainly not a good one that's for sure.