spoon Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 It is rude to ask about money everywhere, unless u are asking your child/parents/siblings/spouse. Lol even MB doesnt really asked me how i make my money as long as i have the money to pay him. Some other legal way people can make money passively, rental income, dividend from investments, trading online all of which doesnt require you to be in your country, or have a job. Obviously u need money to have those. If someone asked me about my finance i wouldve just ignore them, and if they are persistent like this abid guy, if he is living in my country, i would report him for harrasment. Also if you really want to discuss private matter, u could just send him a private message. No need to hijack a discussion board where obviously you are the only person who reaalllllllyyyy want to know about this. A lot of people might be curious but no one as thick as you who would boldly asked, interrogate and probe about them. eurasian 1 Quote
spoon Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 Also a rare occurance to have such a person who is that thick on someone else finance source. Lol Quote
PeterRS Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 Also a rare occurance to have such a person who is that thick on someone else finance source. Lol Thick? Wooden headed in my view as well as rude and bordering on harassment. Abidismaili has already pursued this on one board under a different name and got nowhere. So now he brings over to this one. IMHO all his probing and all the veiled suggestions (nod nod wink wink) that christianpfc probably gained his income from some unsavoury and possibly even illegal source is totally ridiculous. Yet he goes on and on and on... Yawn yawn! So boring Quote
abidismaili Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 Sir, there is only 1 person being harassed in this thread and that is me. If you asked a random reader on this planet "read this thread, who is being harassed here", I am quite sure the majority will say it is me. I am called 'weird', I need a 'psychologist', 'I harass' etc. I think that classifies for harassment and you should be ashamed of yourself. I stay relatively polite and well mannered in my posts. When you compare the posts of some other members with those of me, then mine stand out as an example of civilization and descency. Most of my posts are in defence to questions like: 1) it is not of your business? 2) why you ask it? 3) what does it matter? They are not harssesment towards Mr. Christian. They are in defense to forum members who think I am an idiot for even pondering the question. And then your bad reading that I somehow suggest it may be illegal. In fact I clearly state I do not believe at all in that option. I only mention it as one of the very few options that are left. Out of completeness. The others being social security or monthly support from parents. And I make very clear I think it is one of the last 2. Will you now stop harassing me please? Quote
kokopelli Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 They are in defense to forum members "who think I am an idiot for even pondering the question". Thou sayest it. Alexx 1 Quote
PeterRS Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 And then your bad reading that I somehow suggest it may be illegal. In fact I clearly state I do not believe at all in that option. I only mention it as one of the very few options that are left. Out of completeness. And that is not a veiled suggestion? That certainly is a veiled suggestion! The idea that it is you who is being harassed is ridiculous! If you stop your one man crusade to find out another members source of income Im sure youll be left in heavenly peace. Quote
firecat69 Posted January 7, 2017 Posted January 7, 2017 Wake up Members. Stop replying to him and the thread will die and Chrisitian can go on his merry way. He naturally will reply to me but let that be the end. He is now dead to me. aussie_ 1 Quote
steveboy Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 I have this question also for Christian. How a relatively young man can stay so long in Thailand without a job. How does he do it? I know he travelled last year back to Europe because I understood his savings were gone. But I think he still visits a lot. But now funded via a job? I don't know about Europe, but with an average paid full-time job and being a reasonable spender like Christian one could make a ten day trip to Thailand every month. Of course this would not be possible working full time, but it gives an idea of the acquisitive power of foreign money in Thailand. I know several retired people in the US who manage to live on $900 a month from Social Security. They probably could have the same standard of living on TH for $300 a month, which would be the 10,500 baht a guy can make in some modest job. Quote
steveboy Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 Wake up Members. Stop replying to him and the thread will die and Chrisitian can go on his merry way. He naturally will reply to me but let that be the end. He is now dead to me. Ohhh I thought I had some exclusivity! Now it seems that there is another guy who is target of your witch hunt. Is there a limit of how many guys you can put on "ignore"? abidismaili 1 Quote
vinapu Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 even MB doesnt really asked me how i make my money and I noticed they don't like being asked of how much they are tipped , usually just pretending they did not hear the question Sir, there is only 1 person being harassed in this thread and that is me. even it that's a case you asked for it mightily Quote
jason1975 Posted January 8, 2017 Author Posted January 8, 2017 Back to the OP. In one bar I found the rules posted in Thai on the way to toilet, here translation in short: boys get 3000 Baht per month, in bar before 19:30 additional 80, between 19:30 and 20:00 additional 60, between 20:00 and 20:30 no additional, after 20:30 100 will be deduced, absent on Fri-Sat-Sun-days with concert or Mor Lam 600 will be deduced when sick have to present sick note from doctor thieves will be reported to police boy get 50 for each off and 40 for each drink 2 days off per month Quote
jason1975 Posted January 8, 2017 Author Posted January 8, 2017 I am curious about bars asking boys to report before 7:30pm and giving incentives. Why do they do it when customers only come in at 9pm onwards? Quote
Guest DThump Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 I am curious about bars asking boys to report before 7:30pm and giving incentives. Why do they do it when customers only come in at 9pm onwards? The guys help setup, and Thais are not very timely so asking them to report early insures they will be in the bar for openning time. Quote
ChristianPFC Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 Some bars open at 8, so 7:30 is reasonable. I have been in bars (Eros, Screwboys) shortly before opening, because I find the boys entering in street clothes and undressing/changing in the bar under good light, not paying any attention to me, more arousing than later during normal operation. (I deliberately did not name the bar, as this insight is only possible by negligence of the person who posted the rules, not assuming a customer would be able to read it or care.) ishfahan2 and vinapu 2 Quote
baobao Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 Sometimes there are other chores to be done before the club opens, too... Double Duty On Soi Twilight (3) Quote
Guest ryanasia Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 Is it rude to be asked about money? No, not really people even do it here. Just make something up. Quote
vinapu Posted January 8, 2017 Posted January 8, 2017 Some bars open at 8, so 7:30 is reasonable. I have been in bars (Eros, Screwboys) shortly before opening, because I find the boys entering in street clothes and undressing/changing in the bar under good light, not paying any attention to me, more arousing than later during normal operation. I did the same at Screwboys and I also found being there before everybody else quite entertaining. No to mention that early bird catches the boy of his dreams so at times being early may be even very advisable to seal the deal. One can always pick up boy later , it's why sometimes you see boys in bars without numbers , most likely they are booked already. ChristianPFC 1 Quote
ChristianPFC Posted January 9, 2017 Posted January 9, 2017 Is it rude to be asked about money? No, not really people even do it here. Just make something up. I share how much (or little) I tip and sometimes ask others on the forum, but my financial situation does not belong here. traveller123, DivineMadman, santosh108 and 1 other 4 Quote
faranglaw Posted January 9, 2017 Posted January 9, 2017 Thank you for sharing this info, Christian. This bar treats boys fairly. I would love to visit it! Really? Two days off a month? Would you like those working conditions? Yes it's the Third World and in many ways the boys have it better than in an office job, and in just about every way, better than in a construction job, but still... Quote
vinapu Posted January 9, 2017 Posted January 9, 2017 Really? Two days off a month? Would you like those working conditions? Yes it's the Third World and in many ways the boys have it better than in an office job, and in just about every way, better than in a construction job, but still... fact that bars are opened 8-1 or so leaving plenty of room for the rest and another job if desired softens that indignity. Not to mention that boys are interested in offs so more presence , more chances. It's like every job when one is paid by the piece made, it's always powerful incentive to roll the sleeves a bit more. I wonder how many days off a month escorts in our countries are allowing themselves. Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted January 9, 2017 Posted January 9, 2017 If I'm a sex worker in Thailand, any dayoff means lost opportunity. Considering that I am just a sex provider, the job may not be that physically-demanding..(sorry, no pun intended) And because they are young, their recovery period is much, much shorter than me, the old Asian. It probably takes them an hour to cum again but for me, once a day is more than sufficient. Back to the off-fee topic.. Please be generous to these boys/men. After all, most of you guys, the farangs, spent so much on flight tickets and hotels that is would be a shame and a major regret to be stingy with the boys. Give them what they deserved and what you are willing. Remember, it is a bilateral arrangement. **Just a fantasy. How I wish I am a Thai boy. Older farangs can shower me with your care and concern and in return, I provide them with lots of strenuous sex... mutual benefits! Quote
Guest DThump Posted January 9, 2017 Posted January 9, 2017 Meant as a reply to "infatuation"...opps! Quote
Myboby Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 What Boy Togo did you go to ? All that I go to, boys earn money from drinks. I have seen a couple of reports that some Mamasans request a fee, but I know none of my working friends have had to do this. Mamasan in Cupidol ask from boys 100 - 200 after boy getting off and boys pays to her. Last night customer offer tip to boy 500 for sex in hotel - if boy pay 100 - 200 to mamasan then he earn 300 only for unlimited farang game with him - boy reject it and mamasan wonders! Some days ago customer ask young boy for everything and without condom, when boy reject off in this way mamasan are angry, because not earn off fee to bar and not earn fee from boy. That is actual situation. Some mamasans push boys to make money however. Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 So the mamasan is in fact do multi-level marketing.. I won't want to "contribute" to the funds if I'm a Thai boy... Imagine the mamasan taking an almost 40% cut when the tip offered is only THB 500. Guys, be generous.. Quote