What is your public excuse to visit Thailand so often?

[steveboy]

Earlier on,I mentioned my REAL reason is food..well last night at a street stall in Central Pattaya, my prayers were answered. I had the tastiest KA moo ..

 

It's interesting that with such a love for food you don't have a belly.

But your food looks healthy.  Better than having a love for McDonald's.

[forky123]

I can't say I bother with making anything up, they can think what they like. Those that have been to Thailand themselves many times don't even ask and simply give me resorts and beaches I might like. Perhaps they suspect I partake of the local boys, perhaps not. I somehow think that it isn't even much of a thought to them.

[Guest abang1961]

Really where in the western world can one find a plate of meat, vegetable cooked closed to perfection for the price of 55 baht?

[steveboy]

Really where in the western world can one find a plate of meat, vegetable cooked closed to perfection for the price of 55 baht?

 

Such a nice plate for a (US) dollar and a quarter?  Sounds incredible!

I should visit and take advantage, even if I have to pay a thousand dollars to get there...

[Guest abang1961]

Well for those brave enough, you could show them my latest avatar.

Surely some will be turn on and so e puke instantly.

 

Back to the food topic..

This food stall is located in Silom, within minutes from Silom Complex. I think it has a sign with the numbers 12 on it. The shop front is small but there is a sitting area behind the food section that can sit 20 people. Just for your info, I asked to have my food microwaved. This gives me ample reasons to fly to Bangkok..the boys at the stall are quite cheerful and to some, very off-abletype..of course they are not commercial boys at the bar..but hardworking simple folks manning the stall.

[ChristianPFC]

I have visited many Asian cities, but I have good apparent reasons to fly to Bangkok over and over:

 

- There are many interesting places to visit in Thailand, even after repeated visits

- Thai people are very friendly, many understand English.

- Crime in Thailand is low, and I feel more secure than in other places.

- The exchange rate with the dollar is good, the cost of hotels, food, etc. is much lower than in other places

- After multiple visits I know my way around, so I don't need much preparation for a successful vacation.

- Thailand is a preferred land for tourism, and the reasons for this are real.

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My underline. There are many who will argue about that.

 

All my family, friends and work colleagues know why I'm going to Thailand.

 

But Thai embassy or immigration asking what I'm doing in Thailand for such a long time might become a problem in the future. Then I will pull out a map of Thailand and show the 42 provinces I have been to, and tell them which temples and national parks and other attractions I went to, and where else I want to go in the future.

[abidismaili]

 

 

All my family, friends and work colleagues know why I'm going to Thailand.

 

 

How did your work collegues and parents reply when you told them the reason you go so often is to pay Thai go go boys for sex?

[steveboy]

How did your work collegues and parents reply when you told them the reason you go so often is to pay Thai go go boys for sex?

 

If I were a colleague or parent of Christian I would say:  "you are smart by getting good value for your money in this country where the most seductive boys will do everything you want for a fraction of what you have to pay here.  Your choice is so much cheaper and pleasurable than having to pay for a wife and children ! "

[abidismaili]

If I were a colleague or parent of Christian I would say: "you are smart by getting good value for your money in this country where the most seductive boys will do everything you want for a fraction of what you have to pay here. Your choice is so much cheaper and pleasurable than having to pay for a wife and children ! "

True. But you think he really tells his parents he goes to Thailand so frequently because he wants to rent go go boys and other escort boys for sex?

 

Mother: "Christian, why you go again to Thailand, it is the third time this year, why not visit othger countries for a change"

 

Christian: "Because Thai boys are hot and I want to fuck every day one so I go to pay for them in go go bars etc".

 

Mother: "Ok, maybe better indeed then visiting other countries"

 

The reply of the mother I have difficulty to think how it could have been. That is why I ask the question. So curious how she would have replied (if she really knows why he goes, what he claims)

[paulsf]

Why do you have such a problem understanding that most of us don't care what others think or say when we go to Thailand.

What is the answer that you actually want to hear?

[abidismaili]

Why do you have such a problem understanding that most of us don't care what others think or say when we go to Thailand.

What is the answer that you actually want to hear?

I want to know the reply of family members when they hear why you really go. To rent boys from bars for sex. How is that reply?

Is it a silent look, no words being said? Very curious.

 

I have a problem understanding because of the many many people I know on this planet no one tells close family they go with whores frequently. As this thread proves.

[firecat69]

Maybe you just don't get it.  Most families are not particularly interested in the sex lives of their relatives. They are interested  in their health and well being.

 

Also I did not alert family members of every trip I took anywhere in the world nor did they always tell me about their trips.

 

Perhaps you just come from a family that is too nosey or you just are too generous with your travel information.

[tamtam]

What Abidismaili tries to say is that nobody on Sawatdee Gay Thailand would actually tell anyone back home that he pays for sex when he visits Thailand. This is partly because of the fact that paying for sex is illegal in some European countries and partly because of the stigma : having sex with a prostitute, be it a boy or a girl, is considered something one is not supposed to do unless one wants to be branded a sad, old man that cannot get it for free anymore. So why would anyone actually admit that paying for it is the only way elderly farangs ( and that is what most of us are ) can enjoy the favours of attractive young thais? Nothing to be ashamed of, but definately not something you would tell your friends and family about.

[abidismaili]

What Abidismaili tries to say is that nobody on Sawatdee Gay Thailand would actually tell anyone back home that he pays for sex when he visits Thailand. This is partly because of the fact that paying for sex is illegal in some European countries and partly because of the stigma : having sex with a prostitute, be it a boy or a girl, is considered something one is not supposed to do unless one wants to be branded a sad, old man that cannot get it for free anymore. So why would anyone actually admit that paying for it is the only way elderly farangs ( and that is what most of us are ) can enjoy the favours of attractive young thais? Nothing to be ashamed of, but definately not something you would tell your friends and family about.

Yes most families don't care. But Christian said his family does know why he goes. So this implies he must have told them about him buying many boys for sex. Then I want to know how did his mother reply when he told her. Because he told her. That is what he said. His family knows he said. So then it is normal to ask: how did they respond?

 

Edit: I see I quoted the wrong text.

[Guest ronnie4you]

Maybe you just don't get it.  Most families are not particularly interested in the sex lives of their relatives. They are interested  in their health and well being.

 

Also I did not alert family members of every trip I took anywhere in the world nor did they always tell me about their trips.

 

Perhaps you just come from a family that is too nosey or you just are too generous with your travel information.

 

Same with my family. They have never once asked me a question about my sex life, even when I had one

[steveboy]

What Abidismaili tries to say is that nobody on Sawatdee Gay Thailand would actually tell anyone back home that he pays for sex when he visits Thailand. This is partly because of the fact that paying for sex is illegal in some European countries and partly because of the stigma : having sex with a prostitute, be it a boy or a girl, is considered something one is not supposed to do unless one wants to be branded a sad, old man that cannot get it for free anymore. So why would anyone actually admit that paying for it is the only way elderly farangs ( and that is what most of us are ) can enjoy the favours of attractive young thais? Nothing to be ashamed of, but definately not something you would tell your friends and family about.

 

Paying for sex is not limited to "sad old men that cannot get it for free anymore".

 

All over the world young horny men pay prostitutes to satisfy their need to fuck.

Not every young man has a willing girlfriend (or boyfriend).

If I still had my old father or grandfather I would feel proud of them still getting it up to fuck whatever they can get.  I would think: "hopefully when I am as old as them I will have much health and money to buy me all the pussies or asses I desire".  

To my joy, this wish of mine as a young fellow for me as an older man... will materialize as soon as I start paying for sex  

[tamtam]

One thing is having the health and money to pay for sex with a much younger partner. Another thing is admitting that you do it. If you live in a western society where PC thinking decides which behaviour is acceptable, I doubt many men would stand proud and tell the world that they pay Thai guys in their teens and twenties to have sex with them. And I am aware of the fact that younger men also pay for sex just like we do when we come to Pattaya. And if any of this boards members have the courage to tell their families and collegues back home they pay for the sex they have in Pattaya   : Kudos to them! You are some courageous guys!

[TMax]

Delving into this one a bit late, my reasons for visiting Thailand are simple, I like the people, the culture, the food etc but sex is a side line for me in Thailand. Now it doesn't matter what I tell my family because they have formed their own view as to why I go and that's thanks to my brother who was being a smart arse one day and made a joke, now they think I only go there for sex no matter what I say. My friends know to a degree what I get up to because they did or do much the same only for them their play time is with the girls. One thing neither friends nor family know and will ever know is that when I do play it's with both the girls and the boys, as far as I'm concerned it's none of their business what I do behind closed doors and want it to stay that way.

[Guest abang1961]

I found a new reason..the other night there was this muay Thai competition at lumpini park. The photo speaks volume.

 

No I dislike violence but who can resist such hunks...not overtly muscular not in someone's word,grotesque..

[ChristianPFC]

How did your work collegues and parents reply when you told them the reason you go so often is to pay Thai go go boys for sex?

 

I did not tell them that I pay for sex, but they know I am gay and like Thai boys. I drop hints like (to a colleague in England who was eating a sandwich that had a price label of around 6 GBP):

 

"What, you just paid 6 Pound for a sandwich? In Thailand, you can get laid for that!"

He barely managed to keep the food in his mouth from laughing.

[kokopelli]

 

To my joy, this wish of mine as a young fellow for me as an older man... will materialize as soon as I start paying for sex  

Oh, you mean you don't pay for sex, same as me?

[kokopelli]

I did not tell them that I pay for sex, but they know I am gay and like Thai boys. I drop hints like (to a colleague in England who was eating a sandwich that had a price label of around 6 GBP):

 

"What, you just paid 6 Pound for a sandwich? In Thailand, you can get laid for that!"

 

6 GBP = 270 TB; now that would be a good deal.

[steveboy]

Why do you have such a problem understanding that most of us don't care what others think or say when we go to Thailand.

What is the answer that you actually want to hear?

 

Good for you !!!

You can skip this thread

[steveboy]

Oh, you mean you don't pay for sex, same as me?

 

I have only paid for gay sex once, in 2005 in Pattaya.

So far I have been satisfied with sex in gay saunas.

But thanks to having found this forum I realize

that sex as a commodity is perfectly fine, acceptable,

and that I am missing out on better satisfaction. 

[firecat69]

Give it a rest. We have heard enough from you on this subject! And now at the end of 4 pages you tell us it has never been a problem for you because you never pay for it.  What a waste of time!!