Boys have no secrets anymore for their family?

[steveboy]

OMG no, not in my parents house as my mother was VERY strict about such things and she made it very clear that there was to be no jerking off in front of cameras or otherwise until I'd finished dinner AND had cleared my plate, yes, she was very strict about that - and indeed insisted on those rules until I was at least 21, whereupon she did lighten up a LITTLE bit ( bit only mainly about the clearing the plate part not the timings - a strict religious and moral upbringing I had thats for sure. 

 

She didn't let you take the dinner plate upstairs and finish it up while you masturbated in front of the camera?

That is really strict!

[Guest FossilGay]

 - a strict religious and moral upbringing I had thats for sure. 

 

It shows.

[Guest FossilGay]

Mind?  The way things are these days, it's probably the neighbor, friend, uncle, sister, colleague controlling the web cam . . .

 

Well, if there's anyone who knows about control, it's you.

[Guest abang1961]

I was raised in the cocnventional/traditional Asian family where sexual orientation is NOT discussed at all.  My parents "detected" my preference as young as 7 but none bother to confront/correct me.  

 

During my college days and my earlier years of working when I was still beautiful/attractive/young, I brought my better friends home for meals. My parents treated them with respect although they were unable to communicate in English.  I think my mother was quite proud of me as the men I'd brought home were mostly Caucasian expats.  The onus was mine to educate my parents to the world of bromance! 

 

So unlike those Thais with irresponsible father/wife-beater, my parents were, generally, more receptive to the idea of me being a BIG potato queen.  And also unlike the Thais, I did have a better opportunity to be fed and schooled by my parents.  I respect the Thai commercial boys/men for their courage of defying the norms.

[Guest McGarty]

Don't they mind their neighbour, friend, uncle, sister, collegue sees them there? The chance is almost 100% that someone they know also occasionally uses the Chaturbate website. So it is very very likely they will be recognized at least once during their usage of that site.

 

Performers on Chaturbate can switch off their home country to prevent themselves being viewed by friends or family (though whose Mum watches Chaturbate??). A lot of hetero male performers bar other men from viewing. These are often exhibitionists who perform for free, for the thrill.

Many performers, male and female, make good money, enough to upgrade their apartment and they often talk about this and show you their new accom on cam. But these are the superstars.

Of course, performers in countries like Columbia can make the dollar go further- hence the high numbers from that or other third- world countries

[vinapu]

 (though whose Mum watches Chaturbate??). 

you could be surprised.

 

Years ago , in VCR era, I went for late evening stroll in my neighborhood.

 

In  one of the houses which is still standing in side alley and is shown to every visitor to my place,   through the window somebody forgot to draw curtains on,  I saw   grandmotherly figure watching VERY x-rated straight porn on her TV screen, likely hooked to VCR. It was fascinating, watching her , not a porn. 

[abidismaili]

Don't they mind their neighbour, friend, uncle, sister, collegue sees them there? The chance is almost 100% that someone they know also occasionally uses the Chaturbate website. So it is very very likely they will be recognized at least once during their usage of that site.

 

Performers on Chaturbate can switch off their home country to prevent themselves being viewed by friends or family (though whose Mum watches Chaturbate??). A lot of hetero male performers bar other men from viewing. These are often exhibitionists who perform for free, for the thrill.

Many performers, male and female, make good money, enough to upgrade their apartment and they often talk about this and show you their new accom on cam. But these are the superstars.

Of course, performers in countries like Columbia can make the dollar go further- hence the high numbers from that or other third- world countries

 

Thanks. Didn't know that. But how does Chaturbate know I am male? I use the site without logging in. So these hetero males can block males, but I guess I will still be able to see them.

 

Also I notice Columbia is a very popular country indeed. I often think performers from Columbia are part of a porn company, they are not in their room but in a small room of some porn company who is making money via Chaturbate.  I guess they pay these performers a salary?

 

So if I connect via a vpn server in say America I will be able to see performers from my own country?

[abidismaili]

you could be surprised.

 

 

Most hetero women love sex as much as males. I also notice many hetero women are into twinks also. You would be surprised how many women prefer a twink above a 35 year old muscled alpha male.

[Jasper]

Really? I think most Asian girls prefer young muscled good looking Jupiter boys than Classic Boys twinks.

[vinapu]

Most hetero women love sex as much as males. I also notice many hetero women are into twinks also. You would be surprised how many women prefer a twink above a 35 year old muscled alpha male.

 

Really? I think most Asian girls prefer young muscled good looking Jupiter boys than Classic Boys twinks.

I saw Asian  girls offing boys from both places so likely they are not different than their farang sisters. 

[Guest abang1961]

Ok Lesson Time

In Aisa, we have different names for different age group

 

Twink - Xiao Xian Rou - Young fresh meat

Older than Twink - Bao Xian Rou - "Frozen" fresh meat meaning that they still look good even in the 30s and 40s

 

This one talks about gay sizes

 

Pig - Zhu - for obese man

Bear- Xiong - for plus size man without much muscle definition

Tiger - Hu - Gym-toned man - broad shoulders and narrow waist

Ox - Niu - Body builder

Monkey - Hou - Under-nourished, slim man (most Thai twinks fall under this category)

Horse/Stallion - Ma - those very endowed..

Leopard - Pau - Gym-toned man with an effeminate streak

Wolf - Lang - Slim guys with bad boy image with much tattoo on the skin

Cat- Miao - Slim, cute and probably happy-go-lucky guys

Dog - Go - Gym-toned man with that "homely" feel - like a dog which you want to pamper

 

Friends, do tell me what is your preference...

[vinapu]

I go for Tiger but not one in the picture above. But one from Tawan ? yes, yes , yes

[Jasper]

Let's all calm down a bit, shall we?

[Guest ronnie4you]

Consider the seemingly endless supply of guys posing naked on the internet. Probably in the millions! That wouldn't have happened when I was that age, but then, neither would the internet!

[abidismaili]

Ok Lesson Time

In Aisa, we have different names for different age group

 

Twink - Xiao Xian Rou - Young fresh meat

 

etc

 

Very interesting post but I not really understand it :-)

 

In China they speak Chinese, In Thailand Thai, In Cambodia Khmer, in Japan Japanese, etc.

So how can there be a common Asian gay terminology?

 

A Thai, a Japanese and a Lao gay know the term "Xiao Xian Rou"? Or only Chinese speakers do?  But then it is not universal Asian.

And if they know then Chinese gay terms have become universal knowledge in Asia like non-English speakers in Europe refer to 'twink', even while they are not themselves native English speakers? Is it like the last? So Chinese is for Asia what English is for the West? Some terms just everyone knows, even if you are not a native Chinese speaker?

[witty]

Chinese is for Chinese.

There are more than 3,000 languages other than Chinese in the whole of Asia

[abidismaili]

I know but he said Asians use the following terms for types of gays. He didn't say "Chinese speakers use the following terms for type of gays". That is why I asked the question. To understand what he exactly meant. Maybe some Chinese terms are used universally throughout Asia? Not impossible. Lets see what he will answer.

[Guest 2guys]

Very interesting post but I not really understand it :-)

 

In China they speak Chinese, In Thailand Thai, In Cambodia Khmer, in Japan Japanese, etc.

So how can there be a common Asian gay terminology?

 

A Thai, a Japanese and a Lao gay know the term "Xiao Xian Rou"? Or only Chinese speakers do?  But then it is not universal Asian.

And if they know then Chinese gay terms have become universal knowledge in Asia like non-English speakers in Europe refer to 'twink', even while they are not themselves native English speakers? Is it like the last? So Chinese is for Asia what English is for the West? Some terms just everyone knows, even if you are not a native Chinese speaker?

Chinese isn't a language.

In China you have many different language of which Mandarin is the most common. Cantonese is also common, but there are many more others used.

[abidismaili]

Ok, then please read Mandarin where I say 'Chinese'. 

[Guest 2guys]

Ok, then please read Mandarin where I say 'Chinese'.

 

 

[Guest abang1961]

Well I didn't expect my earlier post of classification of gays brought several feedbacks. 

Of course, Mandarin is NOT the only language in Asia but if I am not wrong, it is the most widely used/understood language in the world by population.  And English, Spanish and Mandarin are the 3 widely used languages in the world.

 

My intention for the post is to enlighten Western farangs, that's all (sounds like Miranda Priestly in the Devil wears Prada).  Well with the influx of Chinese visitors from China, Taiwan and Hong Kong (who speak limited English) to the Land of Smiles, would it be fun if we start labelling them, just like while we ogle at cute guys?

 

Now how about these Tigers?

[vinapu]

all elements above definitely offable