abidismaili Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 I watch Chaturbate a lot. It is free (if you want to) and can see many cute twinks. Everyone can. It is open. No log in needed if you only want to watch. Since porn is popular on the net I am sure many watch Chaturbate. Most guys in it are 100% recognizable. Only a few do not show their face. The bulk however is recognizable. Don't they mind their neighbour, friend, uncle, sister, collegue sees them there? The chance is almost 100% that someone they know also occasionally uses the Chaturbate website. So it is very very likely they will be recognized at least once during their usage of that site. This makes me wonder. Don't todays gay guys not care anymore that their parents, siblings, collegues, friends, find out about their online activities? The risk really is substantial you will be 'discovered' by an acquitance. Quote
firecat69 Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 Although I don't watch Chaturblrate , what would be the difference between that and many other sites such as Romeo and all the dating sights . IF you are on a Gay Site, The likelihood is you are Gay and why should you care if another Gay finds you unless you are totally not out which seems to be much less likely now. Quote
abidismaili Posted September 4, 2016 Author Posted September 4, 2016 Although I don't watch Chaturblrate Chaturbate is also for hetero's. In fact many women watch the same guys who are also being watched by gays. Quote
Guest 2guys Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 I watch Chaturbate a lot. It is free (if you want to) and can see many cute twinks. Everyone can. It is open. No log in needed if you only want to watch. Since porn is popular on the net I am sure many watch Chaturbate. Most guys in it are 100% recognizable. Only a few do not show their face. The bulk however is recognizable. Don't they mind their neighbour, friend, uncle, sister, collegue sees them there? The chance is almost 100% that someone they know also occasionally uses the Chaturbate website. So it is very very likely they will be recognized at least once during their usage of that site. This makes me wonder. Don't todays gay guys not care anymore that their parents, siblings, collegues, friends, find out about their online activities? The risk really is substantial you will be 'discovered' by an acquitance. Why you worry about others being recognized by friends/family/government (as for the Arabs)/... They are all adults and do as they please or want. No need for you to worry or scare them. Quote
abidismaili Posted September 4, 2016 Author Posted September 4, 2016 Why you worry about others being recognized by friends/family/government (as for the Arabs)/... They are all adults and do as they please or want. No need for you to worry or scare them. That is of course true. But there is in Western societies also the concept of taboos. Even while rationally it shouldn't matter, many people do adhere to these taboos. Because they grew up into that society. One taboo is that you keep it a secret if you are a whore. Or show yourself naked in front of a webcam to make money. That is not generally shared among your fellow students or collegues on the work floor or family.. It surprises me you are not aware of this concept of "taboo". So it is for me interesting to know why these Chaturbate guys don't mind being discovered. Are the taboos changing in society? Other reason? Quote
Guest cdnmatt Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 It's Chaturbate. Guy 1: "Hey dude, seen you jerking off on Chaturbate. WTF?" Guy 2: "WTF are you doing watching guys jerk off on Chaturbate?" Guy 1: "Uhhhhh... I should have kept my mouth shut". Quote
vinapu Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 I think they simply they don't think anybody they know would visit that site and if somebody does will keep quiet about what he saw. If one goes for vacations and leaves a key with friend to water his plants we expect that if that friend will see something he shouldn't he will keep it to himself Quote
Shonen Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 It's Indians that I see hiding their faces that believe in the taboo that you speak of. I think they should be more worried of a porno site stealing their video. I watched one night this cute Canadian Asian one night. I said to myself it was the best one I had seen. He would have a game where you had to answer questions and you would choose what clothing he would next remove. Well now that same video is on Hamster porn site for all to see. A permanent reminder for him. I used to spend a lot of time on CB, but it's such a scam I won't waste my money making the owners rich. I'm sure they are already. Quote
NIrishGuy Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 I'm assuming you watch sites like that with your own camera turned off ( or taped over even better !) as SO many of those sites ( or the people logging in to them ) are now using sites like that to rip off people video feeds who show on them, only for those same people to then find their clips of themselves "performing" all over porn sites on the net on numerous sex websites in no time. I was about to say personally I think I'd be safe enough as I'm guessing NO ONE would want to watch a video like THAT as sexy it is not I'm guessing ! However looking at some of the weird shit that's on the internet and what some people obviously ARE into I guess there's no accounting for taste and accordingly no guarantees about that of that either ! Ahhhh I see the poster above just beat me too it with a tale outling EXACTLY what I was referring to. Jerk off on cam AYOR it seems these days ! vinapu 1 Quote
abidismaili Posted September 4, 2016 Author Posted September 4, 2016 I used to spend a lot of time on CB, but it's such a scam I won't waste my money making the owners rich. I'm sure they are already. Why is it a scam? Quote
vinapu Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 . I was about to say personally I think I'd be safe enough as I'm guessing NO ONE would want to watch a video like THAT as sexy it is not I'm guessing ! However looking at some of the weird shit that's on the internet and what some people obviously ARE into I guess there's no accounting for taste and accordingly no guarantees about that of that either ! Jerk off on cam AYOR it seems these days ! you are on the roll today Nirish ! Quote
Gaybutton Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 Don't they mind their neighbour, friend, uncle, sister, collegue sees them there? Mind? The way things are these days, it's probably the neighbor, friend, uncle, sister, colleague controlling the web cam . . . vinapu 1 Quote
steveboy Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 Most guys in it are 100% recognizable. Only a few do not show their face. The bulk however is recognizable. Don't they mind their neighbour, friend, uncle, sister, collegue sees them there? The chance is almost 100% that someone they know also occasionally uses the Chaturbate website. So it is very very likely they will be recognized at least once during their usage of that site. This makes me wonder. Don't todays gay guys not care anymore that their parents, siblings, collegues, friends, find out about their online activities? The risk really is substantial you will be 'discovered' by an acquitance. While you wonder, I find that all this is a good sign. The less people care about being found out, the more they will be found out. And as this happens, it will become less of a big deal. Ideally, nobody should consider sex acts as something to criticize. Quote
abidismaili Posted September 5, 2016 Author Posted September 5, 2016 While you wonder, I find that all this is a good sign. The less people care about being found out, the more they will be found out. And as this happens, it will become less of a big deal. Ideally, nobody should consider sex acts as something to criticize. Yes I agree. But I do wonder why this taboo is going away. When I was 18-21 I would never have wanted my family to know I was a gay escort (I wasn't by the way, but for the sake of argument). Or I would never have wanted them to know I jerked off in front of a webcam for older men paying me. But looks then todays gay boys don't care less. These taboos are gone. A 19 year old gay boy can now tell his parents: "I had a client yesterday who was rich, he gave me 1000 EUR for fucking". Or: "I go upstairs to masturbate in front of my webcam to earn some money, please call me when dinner is ready". This are nowadays totally normal conversations in the households of gay boys. In my time that was absolutely out of the question. Quote
vinapu Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 This are nowadays totally normal conversations in the households of gay boys. You know for sure or you are just guessing? Just asking . For me is seems to be stretch since I guess that most of 19 y.o. gay boys are neither prostituting themselves nor jerking off in front of camera for a money. Quote
Guest cdnmatt Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 A 19 year old gay boy can now tell his parents: "I had a client yesterday who was rich, he gave me 1000 EUR for fucking". Or: "I go upstairs to masturbate in front of my webcam to earn some money, please call me when dinner is ready". This are nowadays totally normal conversations in the households of gay boys. In my time that was absolutely out of the question. What makes you believe that? If anything, it's the opposite. These gay boys don't care because they say, "my dad is a piece of shit alcoholic who beat me, so he can fuck off and die for all care", hence why he's not too worried about this parents finding out. Quote
a447a Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 "my dad is a piece of shit alcoholic" I wish I had a dollar for every time a boy has told me that story. Their dads tend to beat up their mums, too. That might go some way to explaining why some of these boys are so nice to us - even guys we don't pay to have sex with. Perhaps they appreciate a friendly father figure. I once had a guy tell me I'd be a great father, so who knows? Maybe there is some truth in that. traveller123 and vinapu 2 Quote
abidismaili Posted September 5, 2016 Author Posted September 5, 2016 You know for sure or you are just guessing? Just asking . For me is seems to be stretch since I guess that most of 19 y.o. gay boys are neither prostituting themselves nor jerking off in front of camera for a money. Just guessing. And I made this guess because I wonder why all these Chaturbate models apparently dont care their family will find out. Many people use Chaturbate. Maybe also their own neighbour. Yet all these boys are so recognizable in it. One explanation given here is that maybe these models we see come from broken families and they don't care anymore. Good point. Quote
vinapu Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 That might go some way to explaining why some of these boys are so nice to us - even guys we don't pay to have sex with. Perhaps they appreciate a friendly father figure. yes , that's my impression as well and sometimes even with boys who are fathers themselves. I have been asked if they can call me 'dad' to which at first I balked but when realizing excatly what you and matt said above all I could do was just to hug them stronger and closer. Quote
vinapu Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 Just guessing. And I made this guess because I wonder why all these Chaturbate models apparently dont care their family will find out. Many people use Chaturbate. Maybe also their own neighbour. Yet all these boys are so recognizable in it. One explanation given here is that maybe these models we see come from broken families and they don't care anymore. Good point. My guess will be they simply realize that probability of being recognized is minuscule and even if that happens person will keep quiet about where saw them as disclosure may be more embarrassing for them than for boy itself. What can be forgiven for student topping up his scholarship may not go that well for supposed pillar of community revealed as Chaturbate fan. Quote
Shonen Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 It's a scam because they make it seem to new recruits that they will make lots of money. This does not happen! They get their vibrating butt plug in the mail all excited but they soon realize they make very little in tips. CB makes half of all profits, so they add up, a little here, a little there.and they rely on new ones joining to provide the content. The new ones eventually quit but not until CB has made their money from using them. The proof is, I have about 300 favorites, but only about ten are active now. Because they all quit and realize they're wasting their time. I have a number one guy in Thailand who told me his dad died when he was five. So I told him I'll be his daddy. He did not like this idea at all and said he wanted a boyfriend. But I think that subconsciously he sells himself for the approval and love he receives from his customers. Quote
ChristianPFC Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 I sent my parents a link to my blog long ago, but when my mother opened it there was a OMG post and she didn't like it, so I think she never looked again. Maybe better so, than stumbling upon "gay activties of the month" post. Quote
vinapu Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 I sent my parents a link to my blog long ago, but when my mother opened it there was a OMG post and she didn't like it, so I think she never looked again. Maybe better so, than stumbling upon "gay activities of the month" post. then we have an answer to a thread's originating line Quote
Popular Post NIrishGuy Posted September 6, 2016 Popular Post Posted September 6, 2016 A 19 year old gay boy can now tell his parents: ....... "I go upstairs to masturbate in front of my webcam to earn some money, please call me when dinner is ready". OMG no, not in my parents house as my mother was VERY strict about such things and she made it very clear that there was to be no jerking off in front of cameras or otherwise until I'd finished dinner AND had cleared my plate, yes, she was very strict about that - and indeed insisted on those rules until I was at least 21, whereupon she did lighten up a LITTLE bit ( bit only mainly about the clearing the plate part not the timings - a strict religious and moral upbringing I had thats for sure. ChristianPFC, Alexx, a447a and 2 others 5 Quote
steveboy Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 A 19 year old gay boy can now tell his parents: "I had a client yesterday who was rich, he gave me 1000 EUR for fucking". Or: "I go upstairs to masturbate in front of my webcam to earn some money, please call me when dinner is ready". This are nowadays totally normal conversations in the households of gay boys. In my time that was absolutely out of the question. Well... I would not call these "totally normal conversations". The taboo that is going away is simply to be gay. Prostitution is still not looked at as normal. Quote
