How long does your average sex session last?

[abidismaili]

I was wondering. When I off a boy for short time in 99% of the cases I am finished within 30-45 minutes. 

Of course excluding the showering afterwards and the shower, chat and drinks before. The pure sex act takes me rarely longer than 45 minutes. 

 

How is this for your guys? Sometimes I get the impression some of you have sessions going into 2 hours. But isn't giving a blow job starting to bore you afer a few minutes? In porn movies a guy can blow another guy for 15 minutes in a row but in real life it very fast gets very boring (for the giving side, receiving side is different story).

[Guest cdnmatt]

The actual sex?  Maybe 30 mins.

 

The session?  Can range from 1 - 3 hours, due to cuddling, talking, etc.  Usually on the shorter side, because these days I'm always at a curtain motel, and am worried my dogs will start howling like idiots and wake all the neighbors up, so I generally rush home pretty quick.

 

I've had a couple 24+ hour sessions in my life though, and those were awesome.  Just hanging out in bed naked, talking, cuddling, kissing, watching a movie on the laptop, etc.  Find the energy to get up for a quick 20 minutes to grab a coffee and sandwich, then it's back to bed.  Good times.

[abidismaili]

The actual sex?  Maybe 30 mins.

 

 

That's a relieve. I am normal!! :-)

Started to get worried if something was wrong with me. In another forum Latintop has hour long fuck sessions so he claims.

[Guest cdnmatt]

Latin has lots of stories.  I don't know about you, but it only takes me about 5 minutes to jerk off.  Considering that, how long do you think I can withstand someone sucking on my cock?

 

I don't know, for me at least...  yeah, the sex in and of itself is about 30 mins usually.  Of course there's the before and after stuff, and that can range widely all depending.

[abidismaili]

Latin has lots of stories.  I don't know about you, but it only takes me about 5 minutes to jerk off. 

 

Yes if horny (but not if it is the 4th day in a row). But fucking I can cum very fast (even if it is the 4th day in a row), much faster than with jerking off. So when I fuck a boy I need to control myself a lot, else I cum too soon. So I make it last longer.

[witty]

The actual sex? Maybe 30 mins.

 

The session? Can range from 1 - 3 hours, due to cuddling, talking, etc. Usually on the shorter side, because these days I'm always at a curtain motel, and am worried my dogs will start howling like idiots and wake all the neighbors up, so I generally rush home pretty quick.

 

I've had a couple 24+ hour sessions in my life though, and those were awesome. Just hanging out in bed naked, talking, cuddling, kissing, watching a movie on the laptop, etc. Find the energy to get up for a quick 20 minutes to grab a coffee and sandwich, then it's back to bed. Good times.

[witty]

Wow!

 

Marathon sex!

[TotallyOz]

Shower 10 minutes

Foreplay 5 minutes

Sex 10 minutes

Shower 10 minutes

 

35 minutes until out the door and I can get back to reading my book.

 

If the boy is really good, the shower can meet all 4 of the requirements and he can be in and out in under 15 minutes.  The good part of that is I get to read an extra few chapters that night.   I'm happy and he gets paid and can go back to bar for another off.

[biguyby]

Shower 10 minutes

Foreplay 5 minutes

Sex 10 minutes

Shower 10 minutes

 

35 minutes until out the door and I can get back to reading my book.

 

If the boy is really good, the shower can meet all 4 of the requirements and he can be in and out in under 15 minutes.  The good part of that is I get to read an extra few chapters that night.   I'm happy and he gets paid and can go back to bar for another off.

Those timings sound absolutely perfect to me Michael!

[Guest Ethanstone]

I've heard that the average is 13 minutes, but it really depends on what your partner likes. Some people only like it for about 5-10 minutes. So really it's not the length but a number of factors   

[forky123]

Really depends who I'm with. Usually 30 minutes to 3 hours. At the longer end it isn't solid sex but 3 or 4 hours of fun with 3 or 4 sex sessions in that time. I'm always bottom on those sessions and it takes a really good top.

[kokopelli]

For me, about one hour from time they arrive till they depart for a fee of 1000 Baht + 200 for food and travel. 

Some of the gay boys seem to enjoy more foreplay and then linger and chat afterwards. On a few occasions, after a late night encounter, one of them may ask to spend the night. 

[Vessey]

That so depends - even on an 'average'.

 

If I am having a basic ST, then its all about passion and sexual urgency with sweaty, horny sex and it can be all washed-up and concluded within the hour. My sessions with a boy I know in Toy Boys can take even less time - we can both cum in about 20 minutes - but they can be a pretty exhausting 20 minutes - especially for me at my age.

 

On the other hand if they are staying with me overnight, then it can be more relaxed, with lots of play and cuddling, with small breaks to pee (him), or get a breather (me) and can extend an hour or two before our balls empty. Same in the morning, gently wake-up, stroking, kissing and foreplay before a further round to build an appetite for breakfast. 

[Guest cdnmatt]

Wow!

 

Marathon sex!

 

You mean the 24+ hour sessions?  No, not sex.  Just love.

 

Just hang out in bed naked together, cuddle, talk, and block out the world and all of life's problems for a little while.  I've only ever been able to do it with one person in my life, but it was awseome.  It's one of those things you only do once in a blue moon, but they are memorable.

[firecat69]

Shower 10 minutes

Foreplay 5 minutes

Sex 10 minutes

Shower 10 minutes

 

35 minutes until out the door and I can get back to reading my book.

 

If the boy is really good, the shower can meet all 4 of the requirements and he can be in and out in under 15 minutes.  The good part of that is I get to read an extra few chapters that night.   I'm happy and he gets paid and can go back to bar for another off.

 

 

Tell the truth. You meant get back to your TV program!

[firecat69]

 

Shower 10 minutes

Foreplay 5 minutes

Sex 10 minutes

Shower 10 minutes

 

35 minutes until out the door and I can get back to reading my book.

 

If the boy is really good, the shower can meet all 4 of the requirements and he can be in and out in under 15 minutes.  The good part of that is I get to read an extra few chapters that night.   I'm happy and he gets paid and can go back to bar for another off.

 

Tell the truth. You meant get back to your TV program!

 

Tell the  truth. You meant get back to your TV program!.  

[TotallyOz]

Tell the  truth. You meant get back to your TV program!.  

 

My TV shows are normally based on a book.  Isn't that the same same?

[numazu]

I was wondering. When I off a boy for short time in 99% of the cases I am finished within 30-45 minutes. 

Of course excluding the showering afterwards and the shower, chat and drinks before. The pure sex act takes me rarely longer than 45 minutes. 

 

How is this for your guys? Sometimes I get the impression some of you have sessions going into 2 hours. But isn't giving a blow job starting to bore you afer a few minutes? In porn movies a guy can blow another guy for 15 minutes in a row but in real life it very fast gets very boring (for the giving side, receiving side is different story).

 

I'd say stop worrying about the length of the sex and focus on getting the most out of your sex partner, regardless of the time you spend doing it. Free or paid, the length of my encounters range wildly from 10 minutes to 10+ hours or more, depending on the boy, on what i needed at the moment, and current circumstance (is it a weekend? holiday? only a quick morning blow and go?). Sometimes I can't get enough of a boy's cock and suck on it for hours, sometimes a lick is all I need. Feeding off each other's energy is key for me, and this will mostly determine how long the sex will be.

 

In Thailand, on average I probably take 30 minutes to an hour with a boy, regardless of short time or long time, not counting showering and other non sex things. But I do like making out and foreplay, so this eats up some of the time. Gone are the days that I can fuck a guy for an hour or more straight, though I endeavor to do so once in while.

[ggobkk]

Good question, one I haven't seen asked before.  I agree with the general timing.  But when it has gone longer it has involved something the boy I've offed has decided to be creative.  Note, this is someone I've offed more than once.  For example he's arranged a special event in the bathtub and, another time, a sandwich threeway with another boy.

[anddy]

Never really measured the time of actual sex, but like others said it varies with the guy and what we like to to. Can be hot steamy and quick, or prolonged with lots of kissing etc (which I love). I had one good friend (Thai) once fuck me I think for 45 minutes, during which I went from hard to soft to hard again and finally cum, at which point he came too, incredible stamina and control. With this same guy I also had a 24-hour-experience like cdnmatt, which was one of the best I've ever had. There was this unskpoken closeness we both enjoyed immensely and which was better than any sex ever can be...

 

 

You mean the 24+ hour sessions?  No, not sex.  Just love.

 

Just hang out in bed naked together, cuddle, talk, and block out the world and all of life's problems for a little while.  I've only ever been able to do it with one person in my life, but it was awseome.  It's one of those things you only do once in a blue moon, but they are memorable.

 

 

 

I'd say stop worrying about the length of the sex and focus on getting the most out of your sex partner, regardless of the time you spend doing it. Free or paid, the length of my encounters range wildly from 10 minutes to 10+ hours or more, depending on the boy, on what i needed at the moment, and current circumstance (is it a weekend? holiday? only a quick morning blow and go?). Sometimes I can't get enough of a boy's cock and suck on it for hours, sometimes a lick is all I need. Feeding off each other's energy is key for me, and this will mostly determine how long the sex will be.

 

In Thailand, on average I probably take 30 minutes to an hour with a boy, regardless of short time or long time, not counting showering and other non sex things. But I do like making out and foreplay, so this eats up some of the time. Gone are the days that I can fuck a guy for an hour or more straight, though I endeavor to do so once in while.

Couldn't agree more!