Bangkok/Pattaya June-July 2016 Trip Report: To Butterfly or not to Butterfly

[Guest Reddragyn]

After that last report, I feel like I'm watching a plane fly overhead and one of the engines sounds a little funny... I'm bracing for it to spiral in at any moment. And, of course, I won't be able to stop watching We know you survived (or heaven has really good wifi...) but I hope both your relationships did too!

[paulsf]

I'm waiting for the movie version

[kaisernic]

Yes, i really would like to have pics of all that boys, They look so cute!

I wish to know them!

 

I am french and my English is not very good but you are a great story teller!!!

[vinapu]

Yes, i really would like to have pics of all that boys, They look so cute!

I wish to know them!

 

 

welcome to the forum.

 

All boys in the story are still in Thailand, just jump on the plane and chances of finding them are great.

[Guest]

Thanks for the great reports. Also, CB seems like an absolute gem:

 

But one thing I appreciate about CB is his quest to better his already good English. During the ride he would show me certain English words he doesn’t know how to pronounce, or does not know the meaning of. Still constantly learning. One of the many things I love about him.

I get back to the room and see CB naked on the couch, playing with his phone. I guess it never ends when you are in Thailand haha. I ask him why is he naked. He says its too hot for clothes, and the aircon is off and he did not want to turn it on without my permission. I

[bucknaway]

I hope the Cambodian guys are back when I am there in October.  I seem to have more fun with the Cambodian guys.  The guy in my avatar is from Cambodia.  I met him on the beach, he was working the massage scene for a single section of chairs.  I watched him long enough that I got out of my chair and asked him for his phone number and sent him a message later that night.  we made plans to meet in the morning.

 

We met in my rented condo.  In person he was the perfect balance of confidence, masculinity and sexiness poured into slim fit jeans and a well fitted shirt.  He offered me his massage services for the price of 1000 baht.  I accepted and we both stripped.  
For me, watching him strip away his clothes...  To me, it was like it was Christmas.  His body was awesome and his cock was respectable.  He later told me that he is a part time boxer and spars with the muaythai fighters and sometimes fights them for cash.

 

The massage was OK as I remember it.  I have had better and I have had worse.  The thrill was having a sexy and handsome man drag his hardening cock all over my body as he went about his massage. 

 

As if reading my mind, he climbed on top of me planting his sexy ass on my face as he massaged my arms and hands.  Next he went on to massage my hips and legs.  In this positing he had to lean forward and in doing so he directed his cock into my mouth.  He asked for a condom, yanked his cock from my mouth and I pointed to the condom.  He ripped it open, rolled it on and lubed it up with a lube packed from babylon that was next to it.

 

I wanted to lay face down on the bed but he positioned me on my back and my feet on his shoulders.  He positioned himself for entry and forced his way in and I placed his hand over my mouth to muffle my cries of passion.  I thought that was so hot.  After a short while he was finding his rhythm.   Next positing was ass up face down.  As some point he managed to place one foot on my head pushing the side of my face into the pillow as he continued to screw me as if he was possessed.

 

He was a rare find and hoped to have many more encounters with him.....  I did.  He never disappointed.

 

When I was back in the USA.  I was talking to a Russian guy who was looking for a masculine top guy.  I gave him my friends phone number and told him to tell him I gave him his number.  I did warn the Russian guy that the way the  Cambodian guy fucks is bordering on rape. Later, the Russian guy told me of all the hot sex they were having.  Many things

they did made me feel a little jealous.

 

On a return trip I was about to find the Cambodian guy again.  He was a little less masculine and was too willing to put on public displays of affection.  He was still a hot number but it was easy to tell that he was not living an easy life.

 

I looked for him when I was there this last April but no luck.  Maybe this October??

 

One thing is for sure,  on my next visit I will take a page from Numazu and consider a long time off with a quality guy instead of filling my time with a quantity of guys.

[orson]

I tried long time before. But it turns out either me or my partner can't sleep because of the snoring.

 

 

I wonder how tong's snoring volume is.

[numazu]

After that last report, I feel like I'm watching a plane fly overhead and one of the engines sounds a little funny... I'm bracing for it to spiral in at any moment. And, of course, I won't be able to stop watching We know you survived (or heaven has really good wifi...) but I hope both your relationships did too!

 

Ugh. It's not that bad, and you will read about it in a few days (busy at the moment), but certainly the grief that came out of it is my fault.

 

 

I'm waiting for the movie version

 

 

That would be a boring movie .

 

 

Yes, i really would like to have pics of all that boys, They look so cute!

I wish to know them!

 

I am french and my English is not very good but you are a great story teller!!!

 

 

welcome to the forum.

 

All boys in the story are still in Thailand, just jump on the plane and chances of finding them are great.

 

As vinapu has said, the boys are in Thailand, and half the fun is looking for the boys to have fun with. My reports depict my own  experience with the boys, and they might be different with other customers, maybe better or worse than how I was treated. The joy of Thailand is there are hundreds, maybe thousands of boys like this. Hopefully you can make your own great memories with your own boys.

 

 

Thanks for the great reports. Also, CB seems like an absolute gem:

 

 

He is. I think I was lucky to have met him, as I am with the others boys I've met this trip. He keeps in touch everyday on Line, often with photos.

 

I tried long time before. But it turns out either me or my partner can't sleep because of the snoring.

 

 

I wonder how tong's snoring volume is.

 

With my experience, Long Time is highly recommended. There is just so much you can experience about a good boy. My solution: sleeping pills and earplugs.

 

Never heard Tong snore. Had a very good night sleep with him. I heard from CB that I snore a lot. He says he doesn't mind.

 

[numazu]

I hope the Cambodian guys are back when I am there in October.  I seem to have more fun with the Cambodian guys.  The guy in my avatar is from Cambodia.  I met him on the beach, he was working the massage scene for a single section of chairs.  I watched him long enough that I got out of my chair and asked him for his phone number and sent him a message later that night.  we made plans to meet in the morning.

 

We met in my rented condo.  In person he was the perfect balance of confidence, masculinity and sexiness poured into slim fit jeans and a well fitted shirt.  He offered me his massage services for the price of 1000 baht.  I accepted and we both stripped.  

For me, watching him strip away his clothes...  To me, it was like it was Christmas.  His body was awesome and his cock was respectable.  He later told me that he is a part time boxer and spars with the muaythai fighters and sometimes fights them for cash.

 

The massage was OK as I remember it.  I have had better and I have had worse.  The thrill was having a sexy and handsome man drag his hardening cock all over my body as he went about his massage. 

 

As if reading my mind, he climbed on top of me planting his sexy ass on my face as he massaged my arms and hands.  Next he went on to massage my hips and legs.  In this positing he had to lean forward and in doing so he directed his cock into my mouth.  He asked for a condom, yanked his cock from my mouth and I pointed to the condom.  He ripped it open, rolled it on and lubed it up with a lube packed from babylon that was next to it.

 

I wanted to lay face down on the bed but he positioned me on my back and my feet on his shoulders.  He positioned himself for entry and forced his way in and I placed his hand over my mouth to muffle my cries of passion.  I thought that was so hot.  After a short while he was finding his rhythm.   Next positing was ass up face down.  As some point he managed to place one foot on my head pushing the side of my face into the pillow as he continued to screw me as if he was possessed.

 

He was a rare find and hoped to have many more encounters with him.....  I did.  He never disappointed.

 

When I was back in the USA.  I was talking to a Russian guy who was looking for a masculine top guy.  I gave him my friends phone number and told him to tell him I gave him his number.  I did warn the Russian guy that the way the  Cambodian guy fucks is bordering on rape. Later, the Russian guy told me of all the hot sex they were having.  Many things

they did made me feel a little jealous.

 

On a return trip I was about to find the Cambodian guy again.  He was a little less masculine and was too willing to put on public displays of affection.  He was still a hot number but it was easy to tell that he was not living an easy life.

 

I looked for him when I was there this last April but no luck.  Maybe this October??

 

One thing is for sure,  on my next visit I will take a page from Numazu and consider a long time off with a quality guy instead of filling my time with a quantity of guys.

 

This is an awesome story bucknaway. We fully expect you to post a trip report here when October comes. I'll be in Thailand and Cambodia or Myanmar in September.

[orson]

Sizzling hot report bucknaway.

[vinapu]

 

1.That would be a boring movie .

 

2.As vinapu has said, the boys are in Thailand, and half the fun is looking for the boys to have fun with. My reports depict my own  experience with the boys, and they might be different with other customers, maybe better or worse than how I was treated. The joy of Thailand is there are hundreds, maybe thousands of boys like this. Hopefully you can make your own great memories with your own boys.

 

3.With my experience, Long Time is highly recommended. There is just so much you can experience about a good boy. My solution: sleeping pills and earplugs.

 

 

1. numazu , you are way too modest !

 

2. When in Thailand I agree about half fun but after I return I have feeling that boy hunting itself was much more fun than enjoying the catch, many travelers know that being ob the road is more enjoyable than reaching destination already.

 

Benefit is even if destination is disappointing getting there was fun.

 

You are right about experience, not only depending of chemistry between two but sometimes phase of the moon and one may have different experience with the same man even two nights in row. Boy goes with your for money but likes you so next time is much better or opposite, first night wild and second subdued because you both tired or boy knowing you better becomes complacent. 

 

 

3.I'm great fan of long times best thing  about it being waking up and he is right there. It's also very cost effective with every kiss-hour costing much less than 1 hr meeting , even at 1/3 cost  of long time . Falling asleep makes me feeling guilty of wasting time and an opportunity. 

[bucknaway]

This is an awesome story bucknaway. We fully expect you to post a trip report here when October comes. I'll be in Thailand and Cambodia or Myanmar in September.

In the past I enjoyed writing trip reports but the forum responses didn't encourage it.  But here, on this forum, trip reports are truly welcomed and appreciated and I plan to share the highlights of my escapades, but until that happens I will be scanning this forum with greedy eyes for information and ideas from you guys here to feed my erotic hunger for Thailand.

[ggobkk]

I'll be in Thailand and Cambodia or Myanmar in September.

 

While the July trip is not fully written up, I take this statement as a notice of coming attraction.  I'll be in Thailand the first week in September splitting time between Pattaya and Bangkok.  Then hope to return for more Thailand and Laos in October - a way to avoid the "charm" of the American election.  Perhaps our paths will cross.

[vinapu]

....here, on this forum, trip reports are truly welcomed and appreciated.........

and strongly  encouraged

[numazu]

Busy weekend to be able to post continuation. But wanted to share tonight's activities. Here is a surreptitiously taken photo in a bar I was in (posted solely for the eye candy, nothing to do with Thailand), showing an example of the USA's paltry gogo boy scene. It doesn't compare to Thailand of course. Hahaha. Maybe it's better in your U.S. city.

 

Plus points if you can guess what U.S. city I am tonight

 

[numazu]

Day 16.4: The Crying Game

 

I did say at the beginning of this day that I was going to take it easy. I was going to coast through these next two nights just basking in the glow of the “love” of a cute boy. not looking for any fireworks or conflict, just a relaxing and calm time. Instead I get greedy and ask two cute boys to accompany me tonight. Let’s see how this goes.

 

I tell Cambodia Boy (CB) to prepare for dinner. I told him Dream Boy Thai Guy (DTG) was coming to the condo around 7 PM, so we better get ready.  It’s 6 PM now, and we just spent the rest of the afternoon just hanging out, having shallow conversation about pop culture and deep conversation about his horrendous customers. I tell him about DTG and what he was about. He was half listening and looking at his phone. I stop and go up to him and kiss him. We make out.

 

I try to tidy up the condo and then shower. I get done and wear a t-shirt and long jeans. I didn’t want to look like crap compared to both CB and DTG so I am at least wearing pants. CB sees this and comments on how cute I looked. I tell him it’s just pants. He says he doesn’t like me wearing shorts, but he understands I am used to colder climates. He asks if I am wearing this because of my boyfriend DTG (that’s what he said). I tell him he is not my boyfriend and I am actually wearing this for you because you always dress so nice. He kisses me and says that I need to wear long pants more often because it suits me. And then he disappears into the bathroom to get ready.

 

Pretty soon it is 7 PM and I get a Line text from DTG telling me that he at the condo lobby. I leave the room and hurry to get down to the lobby. I see DTG in his simple white shirt that hugs his muscular chest, long jeans and his boots that look old and in tatters. He flashes me his trademarked zillion watt smile and I immediately remember why I am drawn to him in the first place. The level-headed money boy.

 

We take the elevator to the room. I hug him and he lets me, but points to the camera in the elevator. I tell him they have probably seen worse things before. I then tell him that CB might be in a mood. I tell him I think CB does not want to share me with you, but is letting me anyway. I tell him that CB and I had a threeway with a straight guy and it was perfectly fine. And then we hung out with a straight bodybuilder and he got along great with him. But I attempted to have a threeway with him and the gay Thai twink and he had a problem. DTG says maybe he has a problem with me having sex with other gay guys, because gay guys have a possibility to get attached to me. I tell him its probable that is the case, and I think he doesn’t want to share.

 

DTG then tells me he doesn’t count because he is bisexual. I laugh and tell him it doesn’t matter. I can’t date any of you anyway because I already have a BF. We get to the room and CB is still in the bathroom. We sit down on the couch and I talk about my Pattaya trip. After 15 minutes CB emerges from the bathroom in a towel. He sees DTG and scurries into the bedroom. After 5 minutes he opens the bedroom door, in a one of my black t-shirts, his skinny jeans and boots. I ask him why he is wearing my tshirt. CB says he wanted to match DTG and myself in tshirts. He didn’t want to be the odd man out. CB looks infinitely better in my tshirt than I could ever look in it. Its funny we are the same size even if my build is more muscular than his.

 

I decide that we should go to G’s Bangkok, the German-Thai restaurant on Soi 4. I really like the food and the beers so we make our way to the Soi. On the way, DTG and I continue talking but CB does not join our conversation.  The restaurant was almost full on a Saturday night but we were lucky that one of the tables was vacant. We get seated and the owner is there again. He introduced himself to us, and he doesn’t remember me from earlier, but that’s ok. He probably has seen so many faces in two weeks between my visits, that he won’t recognize me anyway.

 

We look at the menu and I point to CB the Thai section so he can choose the food he likes. DTG also looks at the Thai section of the menu. I know what I want. We order the food (all seafood, excellent), and the owner asks if we wanted some beers. DTG and CB gamefully looks at the selection in the drink menu and asks questions about what tastes they will expect from the beers. I’m glad they can at least have a similar interest, even if it is beer.  I get a modest glass of IPA, DTG gets a large glass of pale ale, and CB gets a gigantic boot of German beer. You can take a Jomtien boy out of the Complex, but you can’t take the Complex out of a Jomtien boy.

 

DTG and I continue talking, and sometimes I ask CB a question and he responds. But CB mostly is silent, mostly on his phone, and is not participating in the conversation. DTG sometimes talks to CB as well but CB can’t just get into it. As we wait for the food, the owner comes to us and asks all of us where we were from. Los Angeles. Bangkok. Phnom Penh. He had stories about all three cities which made us laugh. He and I then talk about how awesome Thailand is. He talked about condos and I told him I was looking to buy one here. He had some suggestions for me. It was a pleasant conversation. Before he left, he told me that it is obvious that I was having fun, and pointed to the two boys. I tell him they are awesome boys, he says I am lucky because they are very good looking.

 

We get our food. CB then gets a phone call. He then proceeds to have a full-on conversation in Khmer while we were eating. DTG and I at first ignore it, and just continue talking. But towards the middle of the meal, it was getting to be rude. CB wasn’t loud, his voice was low enough that he wasn’t disturbing the other tables. But he was being rude to us, the two other people in his table. DTG was not saying anything about it but could see I was getting frustrated. He holds my hand to calm me down, and continues to talk to me. DTG is the adult in the table.

 

DTG and I finish our meal. Since CB was still busy yapping away it takes him time to finish his meal. DTG and I continue talking while we wait for CB to stop talking and eating. All of a sudden, the owner comes and takes out three mini glasses and sets them in our table in front of us. He then gets a bottle of something that tasted like Jaeger and poured the drink in the glasses, for the three of us. He said it was free, and hope I wasn't too frustrated about what was happening, pointing to CB. I laugh and tell him I am fine and i thank him for the free drinks. I wasn’t fine though, and was mad as a hatter inside, but was not showing it.

 

CB gets off the phone and slowly finishes his food and beer. I was glaring at him but he wasn’t paying attention to me. DTG continues to hold my hand and trying to calm me down. I never get mad at all. I’m so laid back and easy going. I think this is why some of the boys like me. But now I was angry. I was mad at CB for being rude.

 

I pay up (1700 baht), and as we leave, I tell DTG I will talk to CB about his behavior. DTG whispers in my ear, don’t be angry. I kiss him and then as we leave the restaurant, I take CB aside and tell him what was on my mind: that I was really angry at him for taking a phone call for the length of our meal. For not talking to us, and for not paying attention. I tell him if you don’t want to be here, just go back to the condo and DTG and I will continue through the night.

 

CB bursts into tears. I did not expect this. We have had angry words before. We bring out the worst, as well as the best from each other. I was expecting him to fight back, to tell me why I invited DTG here, why was I not true to him. But no, he starts crying. He then tells me: “So you are like this. Now I know you. You are bad man. I think you good, but no you bad.” I ask him what he is talking about. Why am I bad? You were the one that was rude. “I was talking to my mother in Cambodia. Is it wrong? Now you are kicking me out of the condo. Where am I going to go? I have no money?”

 

I was taken aback. I was not kicking him out. Its clearly a misunderstanding of my English and they way I said it to him. I made it clear to him, in simple english phrases, that I said that if he wanted to go to the condo and stay there, it is fine, instead of being miserable with us. I told him I would never kick him out. I could be angry at him, sure, but never would kick him out and leave him high and dry. He says “I can stay? You want me to stay?” Yes, I never asked you to leave. I just think you are unhappy with me and DTG. He hugs me tight, on Soi 4, in full view of others. And cries some more. In between he says “Thank you. I want talk to my mother. I am jealous of Thai Guy. I’m sorry.” I hug him back. This is clearly deeper than just misunderstanding of what I said. He was kicked out of a situation before, without money, without options. And it was his dad, when he was 15, because they found out he was gay. I suddenly remember this story he told me last year, about being kicked out of his home. Having to fend for himself. Sell himself. And then having them go back to him and ask for money. Soul-crushing poverty.

 

I stop hugging him to look at his tear-stained face and tell him that I would never abandon him. I will always treat him right. Even if he infuriates me sometimes, its just anger. I can be angry. I tell him maybe because I care for him a lot that I get angry. I never get angry with any other boy. I get angry because I have feelings attached to his actions. I tell him this, and make this promise to him.

 

He calms down, and then smiles and says that he is “crazy boy.” I tell him yes, he is, but I love his crazy. He wipes away the tears and composes himself. He then tells me he will go to the bathroom at the restaurant. I then see DTG, standing about 10 feet away, just waiting, with a look of worry in his face. I go to him and he asks if CB was alright. I tell him he will be and everything is fine. I smile, genuiniely this time. DTG says if he needs to just go, since there is something obviously going on between CB and I. I tell DTG that I’ve known CB for a long time. There is history, and this has happened before. I assure DTG that I want him to stay.

 

CB comes out of the bathroom, looking like nothing happened (they have their youth to thank for this!). He is smiling widely, knowing that I will never abandon him. I meant it too.

 

Now, the night can begin.

 

To be continued.

[aussie_]

We nearly all learn a lesson at some stage when dating Thai and other Asian guys about their insecurities, jealousy and other emotions. Dating two guys at the same time on the same night who have some feeling for you, whatever that may be will usually cause problems. A beautifully written report and more to come hopefully. That last entry really made me think about past experiences in Thailand and a few tears shed by Thai friends and myself over the years. Probably more in the future but sometimes a part of the experience if you want more than just a quick sex session on your travels in Thailand.

[kokopelli]

Day 16.4: The Crying Game

 

 

I try to tidy up the condo and then shower. I get done and wear a t-shirt and long jeans. I didn’t want to look like crap compared to both CB and DTG so I am at least wearing pants.

 

To be continued.

Tres chic,T-shirt and jeans. I must be getting too old. Otherwise too much drama. Why date two guys at the same time?

[Travellerdave]

 

3.I'm great fan of long times best thing  about it being waking up and he is right there. It's also very cost effective with every kiss-hour costing much less than 1 hr meeting , even at 1/3 cost  of long time . Falling asleep makes me feeling guilty of wasting time and an opportunity.

 

I very much go along with the advantage of engaging boys long time. During my recent trip to Pattaya the best sex I had was from offing boys (usually twinks) from gogo's. Ok I have sex on first getting the boy in bed but I love waking up next to his brown smooth body and feeling my cock hard. Gently wake him up by soft kisses and stroking and then gradually work towards lubing and getting my cock in. Great way to start another day !.

[ggobkk]

You began with "To Butterfly or...".  A butterfly moment is just a moment in one's trip for both (all) participants.  Going beyond butterfly involves one in the guy's back story and often a sharing of emotional vulnerability.  You capture this in stepping us through the meeting of your two comrades, the dinner, the phone call, the pent up anger, it's being dumped all at once, the reaction, the call was from his mother, remembering the father rejected him, that he's been rejected before, the misunderstanding, the reflection, the walking back. Masterful!  A reminder that intimate transactions reverberate.

[colmx]

 I tell him if you don’t want to be here, just go back to the condo and DTG and I will continue through the night.

 

CB bursts into tears. I did not expect this. We have had angry words before. We bring out the worst, as well as the best from each other. I was expecting him to fight back, to tell me why I invited DTG here, why was I not true to him. But no, he starts crying. He then tells me: “So you are like this. Now I know you. You are bad man. I think you good, but no you bad.” I ask him what he is talking about. Why am I bad? You were the one that was rude. “I was talking to my mother in Cambodia. Is it wrong? Now you are kicking me out of the condo. Where am I going to go? I have no money?”

Wow this is so Deja Vu to a similar incident that happened to a friend of mine with another Phnom Penh guy last year...

 

Its funny that i always imagined that CB might have been this particular boy whilst reading your reports... but the waterworks and drama have now convinced me that its probably him!

[Guest ryanasia]

I hope the Cambodian guys are back when I am there in October.  I seem to have more fun with the Cambodian guys.  The guy in my avatar is from Cambodia.  I met him on the beach, he was working the massage scene for a single section of chairs.  I watched him long enough that I got out of my chair and asked him for his phone number and sent him a message later that night.  we made plans to meet in the morning.

 

We met in my rented condo.  In person he was the perfect balance of confidence, masculinity and sexiness poured into slim fit jeans and a well fitted shirt.  He offered me his massage services for the price of 1000 baht.  I accepted and we both stripped.  

For me, watching him strip away his clothes...  To me, it was like it was Christmas.  His body was awesome and his cock was respectable.  He later told me that he is a part time boxer and spars with the muaythai fighters and sometimes fights them for cash.

 

The massage was OK as I remember it.  I have had better and I have had worse.  The thrill was having a sexy and handsome man drag his hardening cock all over my body as he went about his massage. 

 

As if reading my mind, he climbed on top of me planting his sexy ass on my face as he massaged my arms and hands.  Next he went on to massage my hips and legs.  In this positing he had to lean forward and in doing so he directed his cock into my mouth.  He asked for a condom, yanked his cock from my mouth and I pointed to the condom.  He ripped it open, rolled it on and lubed it up with a lube packed from babylon that was next to it.

 

I wanted to lay face down on the bed but he positioned me on my back and my feet on his shoulders.  He positioned himself for entry and forced his way in and I placed his hand over my mouth to muffle my cries of passion.  I thought that was so hot.  After a short while he was finding his rhythm.   Next positing was ass up face down.  As some point he managed to place one foot on my head pushing the side of my face into the pillow as he continued to screw me as if he was possessed.

 

He was a rare find and hoped to have many more encounters with him.....  I did.  He never disappointed.

 

When I was back in the USA.  I was talking to a Russian guy who was looking for a masculine top guy.  I gave him my friends phone number and told him to tell him I gave him his number.  I did warn the Russian guy that the way the  Cambodian guy fucks is bordering on rape. Later, the Russian guy told me of all the hot sex they were having.  Many things

they did made me feel a little jealous.

 

On a return trip I was about to find the Cambodian guy again.  He was a little less masculine and was too willing to put on public displays of affection.  He was still a hot number but it was easy to tell that he was not living an easy life.

 

I looked for him when I was there this last April but no luck.  Maybe this October??

 

One thing is for sure,  on my next visit I will take a page from Numazu and consider a long time off with a quality guy instead of filling my time with a quantity of guys.

 

 

Jomtien certainly has no shortage of Cambodians from when i was there a few days ago.

[Guest abang1961]

Numazu and other farangs,

Don't you think that this CB is high-maintenance? 

Yes granted his age, he should learn the basic social etiquette of treating others properly.

I do understand that he needs to talk to his mother but do it at the appropriate time.

 

Think of it this way.. if we are at work, do we behave unprofessionally by answering our personal calls in front of our superiors and sub-ordinates?  This, to me, is simply poor upbringing and bad attitude.  Behaving like a princess (with all that crying) after that was the nail to the coffin.  

 

If I were to be Numazu, CB will be evaporating from my radar faster than Usain Bolt!

[numazu]

That last entry really made me think about past experiences in Thailand and a few tears shed by Thai friends and myself over the years. Probably more in the future but sometimes a part of the experience if you want more than just a quick sex session on your travels in Thailand.

 

I love the sex, don't get me wrong, but I'd take these great experiences over quickie sex sessions any day. Even if tears are in the equation.

 

Tres chic,T-shirt and jeans. I must be getting too old. Otherwise too much drama. Why date two guys at the same time?

 

 

Haha, well I was always in shorts, so long pants was a step up. Why not date two guys? Drama is not welcome of course, but the resolution, I think, made it worth it. To me, it's all worth it in the end. Again, it's all about the experiences. While I do not look to create conflict, it happens, and I make every effort to diffuse it. Maybe I am naive, but it always works out in the end.

 

 I love waking up next to his brown smooth body and feeling my cock hard. Gently wake him up by soft kisses and stroking and then gradually work towards lubing and getting my cock in. Great way to start another day !.

 

 

Damn it, with this visual, its going to be a long 5 weeks for me before my next trip . I agree though, there is no feeling like it in the world.

 

You began with "To Butterfly or...".  A butterfly moment is just a moment in one's trip for both (all) participants.  Going beyond butterfly involves one in the guy's back story and often a sharing of emotional vulnerability.  You capture this in stepping us through the meeting of your two comrades, the dinner, the phone call, the pent up anger, it's being dumped all at once, the reaction, the call was from his mother, remembering the father rejected him, that he's been rejected before, the misunderstanding, the reflection, the walking back. Masterful!  A reminder that intimate transactions reverberate.

 

 

Thanks for the kind words. I am not a good writer (I wish I was). I just narrate what happened. The way you distill it made me realize how close i was to having a ruined night with my anger. Glad I am easy to forgive.

 

Its funny that i always imagined that CB might have been this particular boy whilst reading your reports... but the waterworks and drama have now convinced me that its probably him!

 

 

Probably! It is totally possible. You are not the first one to say this, I've had other guys tell me that they have met DTG, or CB or Xboy Guy, based on my description of them. I guess since I am very descriptive and vivid with my narration, my naivete that i can protect the boys' identities probably is probably in vain. I hope this doesn't get the boys harassed. Again, your mileage may vary, and my experiences with these boys may be different from yours (better or worse).

 

Jomtien certainly has no shortage of Cambodians from when i was there a few days ago.

 

 

Agreed, no shortage of Cambodians, sometimes into a lot of drama and waterworks, in Jomtien, like CB .

 

Numazu and other farangs,

Don't you think that this CB is high-maintenance? 

Yes granted his age, he should learn the basic social etiquette of treating others properly.

I do understand that he needs to talk to his mother but do it at the appropriate time.

 

Think of it this way.. if we are at work, do we behave unprofessionally by answering our personal calls in front of our superiors and sub-ordinates?  This, to me, is simply poor upbringing and bad attitude.  Behaving like a princess (with all that crying) after that was the nail to the coffin.  

 

If I were to be Numazu, CB will be evaporating from my radar faster than Usain Bolt!

 

abang1961, yes, maybe he is high maintenance. But I let him, because I want him, as well as any other boy with me, be themselves while with me. Yes, I am paying them to be with me, but they are also not robots, and I'd rather have them be themselves than just grin and bear it around me. I am rewarded with a certain trust and openness that they don't usually expose to a typical customer, and more often than not, I actually get much better sex out of them this way (again, your mileage may vary, just my experience). Yes social etiquette is important in a lot of situations, but if you are with friends, as I think I am with the boys, sincerity and authenticity, to me, is more important.

[vinapu]

....... I am not a good writer (I wish I was). I just narrate what happened. 

don't be so modest , actually you are good