Londoner Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Fascinating. I must record that it was young man at Amsterdam's Blue Boy who told me about Pattaya, leading to my first visit more than twenty years ago....the first of many. He was a black British student studying law. Time with the guys at that bar were always measured to the minute. We had twenty minutes to chat after the act and he told me about a client who had just returned from Thailand. I returned home and booked up a holiday there. I owe him a great deal. Quote
Guest ryanasia Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 I may have known that guy at the time the Blue Boy club was one of the most famous in the world. I bumped into some guys in Jomtien That sort of remembered me from there. You can private me but I can guess at the name already. Quote
firecat69 Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 I too have fond memories of Amsterdam and loved your story Ryanasia. Quote
Guest ryanasia Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Thanks for the kind words. I am capable of writing better than that but I prefer to write about sex more than my emotions for reasons I think most people here will find understandable. Quote
firecat69 Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Writing about Sex is easy but writing about human emotions especially your own are much harder. Your story will undoubtably change the way some people think about the Thai boys who give us such pleasure. I am fully aware that many of us treat the boys with respect and at least in some small part try to understand their hardships. But there are some who do not and your story will at least make them think! Quote
dellboy Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 I am not a Thai boy so can't speak as to what may go through their heads when they go with foreigners and get into relationships. However I myself back in the day met my current partner when I was a money boy in my younger years. So I can maybe shed a little light onto this topic as far as how the psychology on the other side of the business works. respect ! Quote
vinapu Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Time with the guys at that bar were always measured to the minute. We had twenty minutes to chat after the act ........ Sounds like very romantic arrangement, I rather spend all those hours flying to Thailand where boys have their antics and sometimes are rushing things but I never noticed they check their watch Quote
baobao Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 ...but I never noticed they check their watch Perhaps that's because they're checking the time on their cell phones Nice share, ryanasia... thank you. Quote
Guest ryanasia Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 Sounds like very romantic arrangement, I rather spend all those hours flying to Thailand where boys have their antics and sometimes are rushing things but I never noticed they check their watch Quote
ChristianPFC Posted August 4, 2016 Posted August 4, 2016 Sounds like very romantic arrangement, I rather spend all those hours flying to Thailand where boys have their antics and sometimes are rushing things but I never noticed they check their watch The previous years there was never a discussion about time, but this year I had at least two money boys telling me they only have 1 hour time (or similar, like arriving 20:10 and telling me he has to leave 21:00). When I messaged one back that I will take him another day when he has more time, he agreed to 1h 30min. With two straight boys obviously without any previous gay experience that I managed to get into my room this year, there was talk throughout about being hungry and wanting to go eating, some appointment in 30 minutes, motorbike was borrowed from friend and has to be returned soon and so on, that I had to cut the encounter short because I don't like rushing sex and I don't like talking during sex. But at 500 Baht, I can easily write the money off (with one body I didn't even get hard because rushing and talking totally put me off) and tell them upfront if/when I meet them again what I have in mind. DivineMadman and vinapu 2 Quote
vinapu Posted August 5, 2016 Posted August 5, 2016 because rushing... totally put me off agree 100 % +VAT although I can accept boy setting his alarm clock if he wants to leave early in the morning as long as he tells me about this up front Quote