Guest spooky60 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 I have met the boy of my dreams on hornet and we plan on spending a week together in Pattaya.. my question ... is there a reputable clinic we could both get tested at to feel reassured about negative HIV status? And what do you think the cost per person would be? Thank you Quote
TotallyOz Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Take him to Bangkok Pattaya. They do it and give a report to the person taking the test. If you both get the test, then you can both show each other the results. They will also allow you both to sit in on the results. It is a quick test and cost less than 30 USD I think. kokopelli 1 Quote
Guest whall Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 Id still be safe, though. There is still a certain amount of time between when you have it and when it will show up. Plus all the other stds you could get. But that's just me. I'm always safe. Quote
NIrishGuy Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 So, just out of interest then ......this boy of your dreams.....so, if he ( or you) test positive for Hiv or many of the other STI's floating around Pattaya I take it you'll still be staying with each other - as he is the boy of your dreams after all and I'm sure if you're the older richer farang you'll be the man of his ? khaolakguy 1 Quote
Guest spooky60 Posted May 13, 2016 Posted May 13, 2016 I met him on Hornet and he is a student in Bangkok. He is from a fairly well-off family I gather, since there is a family automobile and a home that the entire family still lives in. He is a 20 year old and admits to one romance with a German that has now ended.. after scouring Hornet for over a month this one is definitely different... English is fantastic... we talk over the phone a lot.. I admit he has changed my entire vacation plans. if you could get a look at the private photos that he has sent me, all the warnings in the world of what could go wrong would be ignored. That's why I at least want some kind of test before I dive in Head Over Heels...ps.. and wouldn't you know it his family is from Issan.. why are most of the gorgeous ones from that area? Quote
Guest dale1 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Short answer ..... play safe and use condoms .... then you do not have to embarrass each other sharing test results .... keep in mind issues that will arise if one of you turns out "positive". Quote
NIrishGuy Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 You didn't answer the question I note........ Quote
Guest FatRichard Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 So, just out of interest then ......this boy of your dreams.....so, if he ( or you) test positive for Hiv or many of the other STI's floating around Pattaya I take it you'll still be staying with each other - as he is the boy of your dreams after all and I'm sure if you're the older richer farang you'll be the man of his ? I'm not sure but I guess this is similar to a pre-nup health screening that is becoming more and more popular all over the world, and in some countries a mandatory requirement. If one or both parties have a serious medical issue then perhaps a review of the relationship might be in order? Not an easy question to answer and depends on the couple concerned, their circumstances, financial situation, degree of commitment, etc. Whatever they decide is really not a matter for me to judge as they know best how to cope (or not) with any challenges to their relationship. P.S. Instead of just a HIV test, the OP might want to do a health screening package for couples. Enquire with some of the private hospitals. Quote
vinapu Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Love and infatuation used to create relationships but it seems to be replaced by positive results of health screening for couples. What's next? allergy test for each others sweat? faranglaw and williewillie 2 Quote
Guest spooky60 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Thank you all for you are comments and advice... I do not know where all this is going to lead to, but thanks to line app when we finally meet I feel that we will have an established relationship already formed.. I have been in the closet for 20 years so this is one of the most important moments in my life. I have been in the closet since my last trip to Thailand and I'm finally divorced from her.. I know he does not work at bar now but I cannot say he never has. That's why an HIV test would ease my mind... thanks again for all of your help guys. Quote
kokopelli Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Tell him that you want an HIV test for you and him. If he says No, then forget him. TotallyOz 1 Quote
vinapu Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Thank you all for you are comments and advice... I do not know where all this is going to lead to, but thanks to line app when we finally meet I feel that we will have an established relationship already formed.. wherever it leads to we wish you good luck and peace of mind, whatever tests results will be Quote
anddy Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 In Bangkok, go to www.sathornclinic.com, small clinic in Soi Suan Phlu, just opposite of Soi 8. This is a good place for a gay couple as it is owned and run by a gay doctor, thus specializing in "gay medicine" including HIV and all other STDs. The doctor is young and a very nice guy (and in fact very cute and sexy lol). numazu and ChristianPFC 2 Quote
forky123 Posted May 14, 2016 Posted May 14, 2016 Have fun, play safe. Whether it ends being true love, a holiday fling or a one night special, I'd start off playing safe as HIV and other tests all have various incubation times before they will show in a test. Quote
Guest ronnie4you Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 Thank you all for you are comments and advice... I do not know where all this is going to lead to, but thanks to line app when we finally meet I feel that we will have an established relationship already formed.. I have been in the closet for 20 years so this is one of the most important moments in my life. I have been in the closet since my last trip to Thailand and I'm finally divorced from her.. I know he does not work at bar now but I cannot say he never has. That's why an HIV test would ease my mind... thanks again for all of your help guys. Sometimes I think we fail to recognize how important the situation is to the poster. For one of the most important moments in your life, I wish you well. But that does raise the stakes, so I hope you recognize that these situations don't always work out. Quote
Guest spooky60 Posted May 17, 2016 Posted May 17, 2016 Some good news for anybody interested... I finally got the courage to ask him if we could go to a Clinic and get tested and he agreed right away. So that problem is solved and he also wants me to meet his mother... That's what really gets me nervous haha Quote
traveller123 Posted May 18, 2016 Posted May 18, 2016 Some good news for anybody interested... I finally got the courage to ask him if we could go to a Clinic and get tested and he agreed right away. So that problem is solved and he also wants me to meet his mother... That's what really gets me nervous haha Spooky, you will almost certainly be feeling your life is on the up and you'll be looking forward with great anticipation to your holiday. I sincerely hope everything lives up to your dreams but come with a certain amount of caution and don't leave your brains faculties at home. Enjoy Quote
Guest Posted May 18, 2016 Posted May 18, 2016 We're getting a little carried away here...... Whilst I hope it works out for you, if you haven't met, well who knows if you get on, or if the sex is crap and you're looking for another boy a couple of hours after meeting. One thing is sure, if you get on, I'm very happy for you. If you don't get on, or feel something is missing, go looking for the other fish in the sea. Don't tie yourself down via Line chat with someone you have not met.. Also, a car does not imply wealth. They might have borrowed money to buy this liability and income derived form their offspring might go towards repayments. I remember meeting a gogo boy in Funny Boys a few years ago. He was the only one I ever saw going directly to Tuk Com and paying the first 1000 baht of his long time tip in to the bank paying in machine. Every time. Apparently helping to pay off the car loan. His banking the money was very responsible, but borrowing money to buy a car beggars belief. Don't presume you are the only one he chats to either. Quote
Guest spooky60 Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 We're getting a little carried away here...... Whilst I hope it works out for you, if you haven't met, well who knows if you get on, or if the sex is crap and you're looking for another boy a couple of hours after meeting. One thing is sure, if you get on, I'm very happy for you. If you don't get on, or feel something is missing, go looking for the other fish in the sea. Don't tie yourself down via Line chat with someone you have not met.. Also, a car does not imply wealth. They might have borrowed money to buy this liability and income derived form their offspring might go towards repayments. I remember meeting a gogo boy in Funny Boys a few years ago. He was the only one I ever saw going directly to Tuk Com and paying the first 1000 baht of his long time tip in to the bank paying in machine. Every time. Apparently helping to pay off the car loan. His banking the money was very responsible, but borrowing money to buy a car beggars belief. Don't presume you are the only one he chats to either. I have no false illusions here..I am basically looking for a short boyfriend experience...I am almost 40 years older and I'm not naive about what goes on in a 20 year olds brain.. I plan on giving him lots of baht for a lot of great companionship and sex.. physically he is everything I could ever want.. teardrop ass and 7 inches of pure solid cock.. and I have used line app video so I know it's not BS.. we both are meeting each other's needs but he does want me to meet his parents so I don't know what to think about that.. anyway if anybody is interested I'll let you know how this all plays out.. I will be there June 12th...anybody who wants to go out have a drink with him and myself let me know.. oh yes I am an American, but not an ugly one haha Quote
Guest spooky60 Posted May 19, 2016 Posted May 19, 2016 What I meant was if you are in pattaya and you have a young man to accompany you, maybe we could go out together for some drinks and good time... just a thought but who knows what it might lead to haha... I'm staying at the sansuk Guesthouse and it is pretty casual and adventurous from what I understand Quote
steveboy Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 I have no false illusions here..I am basically looking for a short boyfriend experience...I am almost 40 years older and I'm not naive about what goes on in a 20 year olds brain... oh yes I am an American, but not an ugly one haha Good for you! A 60 year old American does not need to be ugly. It all depends on how you live your life. You can look 10 years younger and have the energy to match. Enjoy all the sex you want, in your upcoming trip and throughout the next decade, at least. Quote
Guest spooky60 Posted May 20, 2016 Posted May 20, 2016 Yes I am taking good care of myself.. workout 3 times a week... taking vitamin supplements and still weigh what I did in high school. Sixty only a number not a death sentence haha.. going to have one week of paradise I can tell you that Quote
