firecat69 Posted July 11, 2016 Posted July 11, 2016 So, you just took your own statements and marked them as "correct" - quite simple way to have a discussion, isn't it? Or maybe you become experienced when you suggest to a boy to start cheating in the app, because all other cheat (that was your own words)? [really?! All?! Cheating?!!] Or maybe you become experienced when you say "you [Firecat] have idea about 90% of the money boys lives ." [really?! You have spoken with 90%?!] Or maybe when you start to speak ภาษา ไทย นิด หน่อย? [never saw a Thai word in your posts] Anyway, that's not very fruitful discussion - you have your own opinion, I have my own, and they sometimes the same (no good to pay 300 baht), sometimes they are different... No idea what you are talking about boy cheating. Please provide the supposed sentence. Just another time you are wrong! น่าเบื่อมากทีเดียว Quote
witty Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I'm enjoying this current discussions with a chuckle every time when someone makes a nonchalant post to be immediately rebutted with a fiery and dogmatic tirade from another poster. Three cheers for the moderators for the environment that encourages healthy debates. TotallyOz and vinapu 2 Quote
vinapu Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I have a problem with are the ones who pay a lot of money for the airfare, stay in good hotels, eat in good restaurants, drink like there's no tomorrow, and then try to save money by offering cheap tips to the boys - and the boys are the reason these people come here in the first place. but there are ones to counterbalance: flying cheap at end or aircraft, staying in cheap hotels, eating barely edible food, drinking only beer from 7/11 at most and then throwing money saved this way at the boys by paying generously because boys are the reason they come there in the first place. But even those cheapskates have their indulgences from time to time and feast on chicken with cashew nuts Brummbaer and traveller123 2 Quote
vinapu Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I find the guys are adapt at saying the things they need to say to bring about the results they hope for it means they are smart and it's always better to deal with smart people than dummy ones Quote
Jasper Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 They never make 3000 in their entire lives for 1 night and are ecstatic if they can make that in a week. Your revelation simply shocked me. I had no idea. I assume you are talking about Pattaya money boys right? As I cannot see Bangkok moneyboys, barboys surviving on so little money considering higher rent and general cost of living. I had once wondered in Tawan someone like Mr Porn how he could make a living in the bar. He makes very few offs- once I witnessed when he dressed in street clothes and went with a customer 5-6 boys clapped. I have been told his majority of income is made up by appearing shows, Tawan pays 200-400 per show to a performer and can make 700 per night. I don't know if it's true or not. Since then I started contributing more to their jerk off show. orson 1 Quote
Gaybutton Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I had once wondered in Tawan someone like Mr Porn how he could make a living in the bar. In most cases they can't. Many of these boys share a tenement, cheap room, often three or four boys in the room. They share the cost of the rent. Often it's 700 or 800 baht per person. Also, the bars are not necessarily their only job. Many of these boys work all day, then work in the bars all night. vinapu, TotallyOz, DivineMadman and 1 other 4 Quote
williewillie Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I had once wondered in Tawan someone like Mr Porn how he could make a living in the bar. He makes very few offs- once I witnessed when he dressed in street clothes and went with a customer 5-6 boys clapped. I have been told his majority of income is made up by appearing shows, Tawan pays 200-400 per show to a performer and can make 700 per night. I don't know if it's true or not. Since then I started contributing more to their jerk off show. Most customers will not 'off' boys after they jerk off. Even though at their age, they can revive fairly quickly. Some boy bars pay far less to the boys in the shows. One boy at Xboys in Pattaya told me he got 20 B. per show to do the bigcock show. Three shows a night, he made 60 B. a night, excluding tips of course . TotallyOz 1 Quote
Londoner Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I'm not convinced by Bucknaway's views on "experience". Some people haven't got many trips experience of Thailand; they have one trip's experience repeated over and over again. Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Wow I like this sort of discussion. To be fair to the wonderful objects of desire aka Thai boys/men, we should set a bare minimum sum for the various activities.. The list include (not exhaustive) - In a massage shop - Hand job alone - Hand and blow job - Hand, blow job with extra toppings (sounds like having Ben and Jerry ice-cream) - For short time - For long time - Meals - Taxi/Transport fee Extras - medical and dental fee - clothings - electrical items Song Dedication for those old miser.. Liza "fabulously" Minnelli in the theme song from Cabaret.. Sing along .. what's good is sitting alone in your room..come where the music plays..Life is a cabaret old chum.....and all the Thai Elsies will thank you... Quote
abidismaili Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 And now we are at it, how many of you send monthly money to one or more boys? And which monthly allowance is considered descent for your special boy(s) you want to sponsor? 4000 baht? 10.000 baht? Quote
bucknaway Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 I think this may be my last trip to Thailand and I hope to make it special. I don't send monthly cash to anyone but I have helped when asked. Last trip I purchased 2 phones for guys I like as friends.... just friends... no sex. In pattaya I purchased a Samsung j2 for my friend Beer in pattaya. And in Bangkok, i purchased a Samsung J3 for my friend Tea. I wanted to give beer a phone because his friends were becoming annoyed with him borrowing their phone to log onto planet romeo and face book. I wanted tee to have an android phone after the iPhone 4s I gave him was near death. I hope never to buy another phone for anyone in thailand again which won't be hard since this may be my last trip for a long time. The sad thing is that I enjoyed going from bar to bar, buying the guys drinks and leaving them a tip. Now that is difficult to do with the high prices of drinks and everyone begging for higher tips. Read8ng this forum has given me some new ideas on how to enjoy my time in the kingdom. I've been trying to nip emotion in the bud, maybe I'll let it grow just a little..... TotallyOz 1 Quote
firecat69 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Your revelation simply shocked me. I had no idea. I assume you are talking about Pattaya money boys right? As I cannot see Bangkok moneyboys, barboys surviving on so little money considering higher rent and general cost of living. I had once wondered in Tawan someone like Mr Porn how he could make a living in the bar. He makes very few offs- once I witnessed when he dressed in street clothes and went with a customer 5-6 boys clapped. I have been told his majority of income is made up by appearing shows, Tawan pays 200-400 per show to a performer and can make 700 per night. I don't know if it's true or not. Since then I started contributing more to their jerk off show. Although recently my experience has been in Pattaya, I lived in Bangkok for 2 1/2 years. I took many boys from Soi Twilight from all the Bars and never paid more then 2000 for an overnight at least the first time . Sometimes for regulars during tough times I would give a little more. In that time there were many repeats but I easily saw a hundred different boys. Not one of them owned a car or even a motor bike and used public transportation to get around. Many times an extra 100 for taxi home was given. Now I have only been in Tawan once in my life so I have no experience with that type of boy. Pattaya has always been priced lower for many reasons but the going rate for short time is 1000 and overnights 1500. This has not changed for 15 years . During the very high season boys might be able to get offed twice depending on what time their first off occurred and thus harder to get an overnight without paying 2000, Although I have been in BBB many times and ABomb a few times I have never offed from there and it is my understanding boys ask for more. Maybe they get it all the time and maybe they get it sometimes . i don't know. What I do know is that the slim younger boys in the Bars have to compete with boys on the Apps. A large % of the boys in the Bars are on the Apps and thus the crossover of knowledge of minimum tips. Transportation is so cheap and distances short that boys can easily get to farangs Hotels or apartments. BKK much different. I run into boys where travel to meet me can easily be 2 hours and at some point that does effect the price. Although my last stay in BKK, there were boys on the Apps happy with 1000 . There are even Bars other then Soi Twilight where 1000 is still acceptable. Bottom line there are some boys who can get 3000. They represent a small % of the total boys who are in the trade and their customer certainly has far fewer choices in terms of Bars. Of course when I uses %'s of boys , I am generalizing . But it is not so hard to go on Hornet, Grindr, Jack'd , Romeo and realize that the vast majority of boys are not Tawan types and will rarely if ever see the 3000 and more prices we have seen in this thread. I am happy for them and would love to hear from Vinapu what % of his offs drove their car to or from his Hotel or even their expensive motorcycles not motorbikes. My guess is , it is EXTREMELY small but maybe not. ct2005 and TotallyOz 2 Quote
vinapu Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Now not all of those refer to you but they do refer to statements made by posters here in this thread. All of those sentiments are wrong and if you don't have enough experience to know that then the poster should be asking questions instead of making statements. what this is supposed to mean? This is open forum and everybody can make any statement he see fit, even after just i night in LOS nothing stop him from pretending he is an expert.And we have own brains to assess if he is right or wrong. Sometimes fresh look brings new view overlooked by those who are way too attached to their own opinions to see that another point of view is possible and even shockingly may be accurate. I'm fascinated by heat talking about other people's money always generates. Going rate is one thing but means nothing to somebody who is desperate to get some cash because rent is due or loan shark is threatening and he did not have an off for long time. What we and rightly so, may find is despicable he may consider somebody throwing him half or even third of what is supposed to be, his savior at the moment . What is so difficult to understand this? Perhaps some so experienced , by God's grace never really were in such dire situation to it's so hard to grasp that. What amazes me is that some extolling virtue of 1000 baht going rate are condemning cheap charlies and that's right but scream at those who pay well over but say that at times boy may be happy to receive half of that due to circumstances. Quote
firecat69 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Have no idea who you are talking about and you are off the rails. I certainly have never criticized anyone for what some consider overpaying. There is nothing inconsistent about saying that everyone should pay the generally accepted minimum but recognizing that sometimes the boy may have to accept less due to circumstances . His choice not the client who can afford to pay the minimum but is to cheap. As usual you have no replies to pointed questions put to you. How many of your Tawan Boys drove to your Hotel in their own fancy car or motorcycles. That is just one of many ridiculous statements made in this thread. You are right everyone has a right to post anything ridiculous and likewise I have a right to tell them they don't know what they are talking about so that some new member who has never been to Thailand does not believe some of that Drivel. Too bad if you don't like it. You are great at taking both sides of an argument even when they go against your own actions! Someone who spends thousands on flights, Hotels and meals has no business offering 300 baht to the boys. Period ! Quote
Gaybutton Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 What amazes me is that some extolling virtue of 1000 baht going rate are condemning cheap charlies and that's right but scream at those who pay well over but say that at times boy may be happy to receive half of that due to circumstances. I think what it all boils down to is being reasonable with these boys. While I would rather see the boys overpaid than underpaid, in my opinion 1000 to 1500 baht for short time is reasonable. 300 to 400 baht is unreasonable. On the other hand, I believe giving the boys 3000 baht or more for short time is also unreasonable, assuming you're with the boy as a customer. TotallyOz and ChristianPFC 2 Quote
gerefan Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Waiter, waiter...one more box of popcorn. Make it the cheap stuff please! firecat69 and TotallyOz 2 Quote
witty Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Apparently these are the sacred numbers: 300, 1000, 3000. 300 belongs to the Cheap Charlies 1000 for those with morals, just enough 3000 is exclusive for those who are indifferent to the fate of 98% of moneyboys that don't make it to their esoteric tastes ChristianPFC 1 Quote
bucknaway Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 None if this will change my tipping habits but it does make for good entertainment on a slow work day. Come to think of it, i dont think anyone on a message board soapbox has ever persuaded me in anything.... Quote
firecat69 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Then possibly you are wasting your time here? Quote
bucknaway Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 No, im here for the reports and experiences reported. When others start telling me what I must do.... I take it with a pinch of salt. And when their "Facts" don't match up to my reality, i just shake my head vinapu 1 Quote
firecat69 Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 That's fine as long as you realize that your reality of lots of free sex is not the reality of the overwhelming number of members here most of which have never submitted a post. That is your good fortune that you are young , apparently in good shape and an interesting person to have Sex with because of your ethnicity which is very seldom seen in Thailand Gay Bars.r That is good for you but is not the experience that most members here will have and thus your knowledge of the Rent Boy scene is extremely minimal. Quote
bucknaway Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 That's fine as long as you realize that your reality of lots of free sex is not the reality of the overwhelming number of members here most of which have never submitted a post. That is your good fortune that you are young , apparently in good shape and an interesting person to have Sex with because of your ethnicity which is very seldom seen in Thailand Gay Bars.r That is good for you but is not the experience that most members here will have and thus your knowledge of the Rent Boy scene is extremely minimal. You have a point and I think that all of is will have different experiences. That is what makes trip reports so entertaining to read. Quote
Alexx Posted July 12, 2016 Posted July 12, 2016 Or maybe when you start to speak ภาษา ไทย นิด หน่อย? [never saw a Thai word in your posts] With all due respect, people who really know how to write Thai instead of just copying & pasting words do tend to know that it's unusual to separate words within the same sentence by spaces. Which makes me wonder if you're the best candidate to question other members' proficiency. Quote
vinapu Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 Tawan pays 200-400 per show to a performer and can make 700 per night. I don't know if it's true or not. Since then I started contributing more to their jerk off show. In May last year I was about to off boy from there when Mamsan brought him chits for performing in two numbers in the show, total 280. I doubt it changed. I wonder how much boy who bottoms in fuck shows gets but I doubt it would be more than 200-300 plus tips from the audience. Then one may wonder if 300 offered by chap skate is really such a bad deal in boy's eyes. At least he will be fucked in privacy , not in front of everybody and his neighbor. Before Crucifixion starts I haste to add that that in all my trips only once I paid as little as 1000 for short time and I don't practice "Pattaya discount" and pay the same there and in BKK. TotallyOz 1 Quote
vinapu Posted July 13, 2016 Posted July 13, 2016 Also, the bars are not necessarily their only job. Many of these boys work all day, then work in the bars all night. and as far as I know this is reason many are refusing long time off or are taking off under any pretext Quote