manuelmendez Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 Im planning to visit bangkok this year. Just for holiday purposes. Since im going there for bangkok men experience, i just need advise from members of the forum. how long should i stay there? im planning for 2-3 days. think enough for me. im going to visit interesting places and try some foods there. im not shopping type. what i wait for in bkk is... im interested with muscular bodybuilder man and hoping to stay one night with them. doesnt mind about the pay, satisfaction important. i heard tawan bar got this bb type of guy, wish i got my dream man. any advice about tawan man? i don't want to miss my chance to get hunky muscular man when i reach there. somehow, i would like massage, yeah, my back pain hurt always, need good massage. i read in this forum, some massage parlor called HERO fitness, anyone been there? uh.. no idea to discuss for my plan visit, any help is appreciated. thanks. Quote
firecat69 Posted January 1, 2016 Posted January 1, 2016 Use the search function first. You will find mountains of information available. After that if you still have questions I 'm sure many will help. As far as how long. No way anyone can answer that. Depends how far you are travelling, how much you have to spend etc etc etc. manuelmendez 1 Quote
manuelmendez Posted January 2, 2016 Author Posted January 2, 2016 Use the search function first. You will find mountains of information available. After that if you still have questions I 'm sure many will help. As far as how long. No way anyone can answer that. Depends how far you are travelling, how much you have to spend etc etc etc. Thanks firecat69, plan to stay bkk for 5 days. bkk so huge, im not sure where should i start 1st my journey. tawan and hero my priorities. Quote
Guest naughtybutnice Posted January 3, 2016 Posted January 3, 2016 At the risk of being repetitive and if you are looking for an interesting day out then take a leisurely wander around Chinatown. Lots of fascinating little family shops and if you want a 'real' massage there are traditional massage shops there. I have lived in Bangok for more than 30 years and I still take a walk around Chinatown every month or so. Absorb yourself in the atmosphere as this is one part of Bangkok that over the years has not been charged for the worse by tourism. Quote
Guest ronnie4you Posted January 3, 2016 Posted January 3, 2016 Chinatown in Bangkok is huge and very interesting. I love taking the water taxi there and walking around. thanks, naughtybutnice, for bringing that memory to me.. Quote
paulfort Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 As very correctly pointed out before me you need to provide a little more information and a lot of answers to your questions can be found searching this forum, however some of your questions relate to my initial interest and concerns when first visiting Thailand so I will try and help you further... Length of stay in Bangkok - yes five days should be fine, but really depends on how far you are traveling to reach Bangkok, if long haul depending on how used to the time changes you are remember you might need a bit of time to adjust, I would also then suggest you need longer in Thailand, perhaps consider about 5 days Bangkok and then head down to Pattaya - a lot of what you want, ( though perhaps not so much on the more muscular massage front), but plenty of muscular boys in the Boys Town GoGo Bars can also be enjoyed there? Hotel choice in Bangkok - if your first time be careful of hotels that perhaps wont be that welcoming to any guys you bring back, Tarntawan Place is only a minuets walk maximum from Tawan Bar and very convenient for all the other gay bars and whilst a bit dated depending on what you want a very decent 3 to 4 star standard especially in their superior "Surrawong Rooms" extremely welcoming and I always feel an excellent choice. The Rose Hotel very nearby has smaller rooms, is cheaper but has the benefit of a pool & excellent Restaurant again no issue in brining guys back - you will find loads of other suggestions on this forum. Just be conscious of distance and getting back late at night if not in the "Gay Bar area" all be it half the boys have a motorbike to hand and motorbike or normal taxis are plentiful. Also importantly for me consider how welcoming your hotel will be with your new friend, unless your happy to be pulled to one side and forced to pay a "Joiners" fee! Also be aware that most hotels will want to ensure (for your own protection) that your friend is at least 18 years of age and then hold "your friends" ID card until his departure, the boys are familiar with that and its for your own protection, but bear that in mind when you "off them" and double check if they look very young! Bars with more muscular boys - there is no doubt that Tawan Bar is the specialist on the more muscular side, the bar is very friendly, normally loads of guys, really welcoming, not in anyway pushy but depending on what you are looking for a lot of the guys are pretty mature and perhaps not always in their former most ripped condition (to be polite!) though often still a few great muscular/bodybuilder types and very much depends on what you are looking for, you will find younger but also well built/muscular boys at Jupiter and then just try all the main bars as each at some time will offer what ever turns you on. Perhaps during the day take a wander through Lumpini Park, have a look at the outside gym and you will find a few of the guys who work in Tawan Bar training there, smile and watch them and then - well who knows.... Massage - Hero is excellent, you can get there easily on the Sky Train from the above hotels, just work out your journey first and I would suggest be clear on the final directions or have a decent map to hand, also worth trying is The Prince and also V Club 7 as with many others they also have a good selection of more muscular boys if you have a look at this site Hope my contribution is of help to you and enjoy the many pleasures of my favourite city! Quote
Guest abang1961 Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 I had a very short 3 days stay in Bangkok in Nov 2015. I was an early riser - yes 7am at Lumpini Park for Taichi and people watching. Some of the topless joggers were worth ogling at. Remember to stand at attention for a minute at 8 am (National Anthem) before heading for breakfast at the food court. The roast pork stall is my favourite. Actually on the way to the food court, I walked past the open gym - most of the gymmers were too big for my liking. After that, walk around the gardens and thereafter at 9 am, took a taxi to Yaowarat, the epicentre of Chinese chaos. The aroma from the cooked food, the array of items - including the now defunct shark fins amazed me. Not forgetting the rows of goldsmith shops funny they all had the same surname, Chen. After browsing around and stopping for a drink, I took a taxi to Hualamphong Train Station, just to check out the architecture of the iconic building and the surrounding temples. This took about 45 minutes before I took a tuk-tuk to Erawan Shrine. This is the (in)famous venue of worship that caught the media's attention in Aug 2015. I really enjoyed the short dancing items there. After that, walk on the link bridge to Siam Square/Siam Paragon/MBK for some air-conditioning and retail therapy. Lunch at the food court at Siam Paragon while ogling at the crowd once more. This brought the time to 2.30 pm before returning to the derelict Hotel Malaysia for a swim and the cheapest massage. Yes, the "clean" meaning no sex massage is only THB 350 for 2 hours. I slept like a log - try to get the middle-aged woman to do the massage. They need the tipping. So the damage for a full-day was less than THB 2000. Quote
Nikom Posted January 4, 2016 Posted January 4, 2016 Yes, Tawan is where you find 'your type' BUT service from the guys at Tawan is some time great and some times a failure. BEFORE you agree to take a guy tell exactly what you want and get his agreement that he can - will provide AND discuss the fee again before you leave the bar Quote
vinapu Posted January 10, 2016 Posted January 10, 2016 As for massage HERO is great but boys there trend to rush things to the next step, at least that's my experience. If you are looking for less rushed massage by muscular hunks I'd try Arena and Senso. about bars - I second opinions above, Tawan and Jupiter is your best choice but be prepared for an attitude problem at Jupiter sometimes. Tawan boys are friendly and will approach you. If boys plants himself beside you and you kind of like him, touch his thigh or knee and your hand may be moved THERE pretty fast, don't be shy williewillie, ggobkk and tatar 3 Quote
manuelmendez Posted February 2, 2016 Author Posted February 2, 2016 can I bring tawan boy to my room and stay overnight together? or need extra tipping? big muscle man is my taste Quote
firecat69 Posted February 2, 2016 Posted February 2, 2016 Of course you have to tip and agree on amount before leaving! manuelmendez 1 Quote
manuelmendez Posted February 2, 2016 Author Posted February 2, 2016 Of course you have to tip and agree on amount before leaving! thanks. if i go to tawan, how do we get the right boy? is it first come first book? Quote
vinapu Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 can I bring tawan boy to my room and stay overnight together? or need extra tipping? big muscle man is my taste rest assured not only yours ! You can take boys for overnight , it's called ' long time' but you need to make sure he is willing to do it , not all of them are doing long time / wife is waiting or they have day time job or whatever reason/. As firecat mentioned make sure you agree on terms beforehand, after all you don't want to face big man angry over under-tipping! They may want 2500-3500 if not more for long time, I never paid more than 3000 but had a boy we agreed on 3500 and he still dumped me and went with another customer. thanks. if i go to tawan, how do we get the right boy? is it first come first book? go to the bar, buy yourself a drink and start assessing who is right for you. Boys may be approaching you , if you are not interested just say ' not yet" or something to this effect and he will go away. They are very friendly and not pushy but for newbies due to their size may be intimidating at first time. If you see man you fancy you may wave him over or if you are shy ask mamasan to bring him to you. You may buy him a drink to have a small talk over it and a chance of 'accidentally' placing your hand on his bicep or thigh. If he means a business he may even move your hand THERE. Most popular boys may be taken early but sometimes they go home without off. If boy is sitting with you highly unlikely another customer will call him over, this is where drink comes handy. But if boy will sense you are reluctant to off him he may move to another customer. If you fast decision maker you may save on the whole drink ceremony, bring the boy over , discuss terms and off you go. If you are planning to off boy later in the evening I'd secure he will be waiting for you by paying off fee right away and telling him you will pick him up later on. When you are looking at the boys on the stage and not sure who is your dreamboy look who is smiling at you or at least making eye contact - this is indicator he may be interested in you or at least in your tip. DivineMadman, tatar and ggobkk 3 Quote
TomNg Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 If you are planning to off boy later in the evening I'd secure he will be waiting for you by paying off fee right away and telling him you will pick him up later on. Hi Vinapu, If you paid off the fee before hand, did they give you a receipt or something similar so that you would present it when you come back to pick up the boy ? Has it ever happened that even though you already paid the off fee, the boy was not available for you to pick up when you came back later? What would you do in that case ? Quote
a447a Posted February 3, 2016 Posted February 3, 2016 If you pay the off fee in advance, you may indeed return later to find he has gone with another customer. In that case, you'd get your money back. The real danger in paying in advance is that the boy will use that time to go off with another customer (or more than one ) and then return to the bar to wait for you. If he's already had sex earlier in the evening, he may not be very good in bed. Quote
vinapu Posted February 4, 2016 Posted February 4, 2016 If you are planning to off boy later in the evening I'd secure he will be waiting for you by paying off fee right away and telling him you will pick him up later on. If you paid off the fee before hand, did they give you a receipt or something similar so that you would present it when you come back to pick up the boy ? Has it ever happened that even though you already paid the off fee, the boy was not available for you to pick up when you came back later? What would you do in that case ? I did pay up front few times, never receipt was given but deal was always kept. Sometimes I wanted to pay in advance but bar did not want, again boy was waiting. It happend twice that I came for boy and he was still with client , both times in massages in soi Twilight and both times I told them in advance that if they will have client I will wait and I just did. Honestly I don't know what I would do in a case when I paid off fee and boy was not there but knowing me probably I'd select another boy instead of asking for refund. Last trip I started another experiment , paid boy's tip up front , right away when we entered room. Still he did not try any excuses and soldered on until late morning. But this was boy I offed before at least 2 times and had few massages with. In short neither boys nor bars screwed me ever on money , but they did on time few times / I hate when boy leaves before agreed time / The real danger in paying in advance is that the boy will use that time to go off with another customer (or more than one ) and then return to the bar to wait for you. If he's already had sex earlier in the evening, he may not be very good in bed. you are correct but if you off them long time like I mostly do, they recover till morning gymnastics which I prefer by the way DivineMadman, ChristianPFC and tatar 3 Quote
manuelmendez Posted February 6, 2016 Author Posted February 6, 2016 what if many boys interested to you? well, i choose buff muscular guys, hope i can get to THERE Quote
tatar Posted February 6, 2016 Posted February 6, 2016 How can you tell who the mamasan is? And do you call him "mamasan" or "captain"? I also look at the website and there is a link to Tawan massage too. Do the boys from Tawan bar also work at Tawan massage? Quote
vinapu Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 what if many boys interested to you? well, i choose buff muscular guys, hope i can get to THERE well, you either need to choose or take more than one with you , just make sure they will perform together. As for intimacies is bar generally they are no-no's , it's why I'd wait for boy to make a move. But Tawan boys are quite adventurous even in the bar, so there's hope for the shy types. manuelmendez 1 Quote
vinapu Posted February 7, 2016 Posted February 7, 2016 How can you tell who the mamasan is? And do you call him "mamasan" or "captain"? I also look at the website and there is a link to Tawan massage too. Do the boys from Tawan bar also work at Tawan massage? No, massage is right beside Tawan and it's called SUN / Tawan means sun in Thai/ but I never saw Tawan boys doing massages or loitering in front of the shop so most likely answer is no. But if you need short time room , they will lead you to Sun rooms beside. Mamasan will find you, it will be a guy who will lead you to your seat and takes your order for drink. In some bars mamasans are nuisance but luckily not a case for Tawan where mamasans are leaving you alone and boys are actually taking care about themselves by circulating freely and trying to plant themselves beside you hoping to start conversation leading to drink and off. tatar 1 Quote
manuelmendez Posted February 7, 2016 Author Posted February 7, 2016 well, you either need to choose or take more than one with you , just make sure they will perform together. As for intimacies is bar generally they are no-no's , it's why I'd wait for boy to make a move. But Tawan boys are quite adventurous even in the bar, so there's hope for the shy types. i afraid the popular tawan boys only 1st serve the client who off them more bahts. btw, they also earn for living. hope i get the lucky one and maybe can get THERE Quote
vinapu Posted February 8, 2016 Posted February 8, 2016 i afraid the popular tawan boys only 1st serve the client who off them more bahts. btw, they also earn for living. hope i get the lucky one and maybe can get THERE generally speaking if they agree to go with you they will , in Tawan and elsewhere but exceptions from this rule exist which I learned painfully in May 2014 but this is very rare that boy reneges on a deal once off fee is paid. So it is first come first serve, keep in mind there are no fights for the boy's company and often even most popular go home without off, I was couple times there at closing to witness it. Quote
