Catering to the Asians

[steveboy]

The same boy  may expect more from me , prematurely grey haired farang than from say ChristianPFC, much younger guy. More from American or Japanese than from fellow Thai or Chinese.

 

I apologize for this comment about something that is personal.

But why would a farang stay "prematurely grey haired"?

There are today products that easily do away with grey and white hair, like "just for men".

It is understandable that young guys may want to look older.

But why would I as an older guy let myself look old?

[vinapu]

I apologize for this comment about something that is personal.

But why would a farang stay "prematurely grey haired"?

There are today products that easily do away with grey and white hair, like "just for men".

It is understandable that young guys may want to look older.

But why would I as an older guy let myself look old?

no need to apologize, nothing offensive in your comment . Don't treat my response as offensive either.

 

I'm one of those you read sometimes about who turned grey almost overnight and for a reason.

 

I keep it that way because I like this new color. I always thought it's funny when people are trying to beautify themselves not to look better but to look younger so no way I'd be doing it to myself, rather I keep what I like.

 

But as you noticed this is personal preference. I'm fortified in that mindframe ever since  one of our younger members charitably commented that I still look presentable.

 

I'm pissed off though when one of my regular masseurs calls me 'papa' which I read as 'grandaddy"  but he can be easily silenced by severe reduction of tip with explanation why. LOL

[Guest]

in market economy no wonder if one of best looking boys in Pattaya, whatever it means, requests triple of going rate and gets it.

 

Fortunately for all , there are plenty of still very good looking boys who may be less demanding.

 

I accept that completely.  The "superstars" are going to be able to ask for higher tips. In some cases, they are receiving those tips from Asian customers. 

[vinapu]

I accept that completely.  The "superstars" are going to be able to ask for higher tips. In some cases, they are receiving those tips from Asian customers. 

not only , not only Asians.

 

There are two stunners  ( to my eyes of course ) I never offed and I'd be willing to offer 50% bonus to my highest rate if they requested and one I'd be willing to double usual tip but somehow he disappeared when I was there last time but my previous experience with him warrants  another run IMNSHO. He was not greedy.   

[gerefan]

 

I'm pissed off though when one of my regular masseurs calls me 'papa' which I read as 'grandaddy"

I thought it meant "Sir".....so a compliment, rather than an insult.

Am I wrong?

[vinapu]

I thought it meant "Sir".....so a compliment, rather than an insult.

Am I wrong?

I have no idea, I don't take that ' papa ' as insult at all, I like that boy and his place of work so can take abuse if any,  LOL

[steveboy]

no need to apologize, nothing offensive in your comment . Don't treat my response as offensive either.

 

I'm one of those you read sometimes about who turned grey almost overnight and for a reason.

 

I keep it that way because I like this new color. I always thought it's funny when people are trying to beautify themselves not to look better but to look younger so no way I'd be doing it to myself, rather I keep what I like.

 

But as you noticed this is personal preference. I'm fortified in that mindframe ever since  one of our younger members charitably commented that I still look presentable.

 

I'm pissed off though when one of my regular masseurs calls me 'papa' which I read as 'grandaddy"  but he can be easily silenced by severe reduction of tip with explanation why. LOL

 

Well, I was thinking that maybe to look younger IS to look better, but it is all in the eye of the beholder.

 

Maybe you feel better if you find that in large sections of the world "papa" means "father", not grandfather. 

[ChristianPFC]

Regarding jumping from "Asian" (in the op) to "Chinese", this is justified by statistics (number of Chinese visitors to Thailand).

 

I have read that some bars in Soi Thaniya don't let Whites in, only Japanese. When walking through Thaniya, ladies don't even look at me.

 

Ignoring white customers in Hero is news to me. However, every time I go to Super A (which is every other month), the boys shortly look up from their phones and then go back to playing with them. I have to wait for another customer to come in to see the boys standing on stage. (That is partially because I only have one drink, don't buy drinks for boys and rarely tip. A vicious circle: boys don't pay attention to me because I haven't offed a boy for a long time, I don't off a boy because they don't pay attention to me. But Super A remains best value for money in Bangkok, and one day I might take one off.)

 

I have never to Prince but might go some day. A friend reported (Mar 2015) there is one boy who demands 2000 Baht minimum tip because he has big dick. Such attitude is a bad start in my eyes. I want the boy to thank me for choosing him.

[ay709394]

I have never to Prince but might go some day. A friend reported (Mar 2015) there is one boy who demands 2000 Baht minimum tip because he has big dick. Such attitude is a bad start in my eyes. I want the boy to thank me for choosing him.

The boy who demands 2000 had made some photo shoot in magazine and also acted in a few porn too. So thats why he charge more tips.

[vinapu]

 

 

I have never to Prince but might go some day. A friend reported (Mar 2015) there is one boy who demands 2000 Baht minimum tip because he has big dick. Such attitude is a bad start in my eyes. I want the boy to thank me for choosing him.

You sound like latin from SGT forum. Not to say boy shouldn't but best outcome is when  both sides are grateful , boy to us choosing him and us to   boy for giving us good time.

 

When at Hero in May I was warned by guy I was with not to take one of their boys because he  demanded the same premium for the same reason so obviously some boys are pricing themselves by the inch. Nothing wrong as long as somebody is willing to pay such a premium for such a reason - not me. 

[vinapu]

The boy who demands 2000 had made some photo shoot in magazine and also acted in a few porn too. So thats why he charge more tips.

If you are talking about Pong I'd pay premium but not because dick size but overall good masculine look.

 

Not all porn stars are that  demanding, I found  M at Senso great masseur with great body and not talking about tip at all / tipped him handsomely though but because I wanted not because he requested anything/ .  

[ay709394]

If you are talking about Pong I'd pay premium but not because dick size but overall good masculine look.

 

Not all porn stars are that demanding, I found M at Senso great masseur with great body and not talking about tip at all / tipped him handsomely though but because I wanted not because he requested anything/ .

Not pong, that's another guy with name start with "W". Actually I am fine if the boy demand higher tips for specific reason as long as u know this before u choose him. Just like when u go to a hair salon the more senior stylist charge a higher fee than others even they are in the same shop.

[Guest Prakanong]

Love this thread!  Pissing contest among westerners as to who the prostitutes like better: Asians/Chinese or 'farang' and who gives out bigger tips.  LOL.  Roll on, guys!

[Guest Prakanong]

completely agree although expected minimum not necessarily is linear.

 

The same boy  may expect more from me , prematurely grey haired farang than from say ChristianPFC, much younger guy. More from American or Japanese than from fellow Thai or Chinese.

 

I don't think so.  There may be expectations of tips based on outdated nationality stereotypes that are no longer or were never true, but there is a numerical baseline, regardless of the nationality or the age of the customer.  In some of the massage venues, this is even indicated on their service menus.  Young customer doesn't mean anything; he could be young and ugly, young and fat or young and anal.  If he is young and cute, but has a flawed personality and/or doesn't tip the market rate, word will get around quickly and he will be ostracized.  Besides, if the working boy starts to accept a lower tip for whatever reason, his co-workers will see it as undercutting and he will be booted out of the venue.  Generally the working boys prefer customers who are clueless, timid and for whom they have to do the least work, who in turn reward them generously for doing almost nothing.  Usually, these are the older customers who are quite happy with a grope and feel, some kissing and maybe a hand-job.  Wham, bham and 2000 Bt later and they're out the door, and on the town to with their friends, girlfriends, boyfriends or wives.

[vinapu]

Just like when u go to a hair salon the more senior stylist charge a higher fee than others even they are in the same shop.

gee, one learns something new every day but it makes sense I guess

[vinapu]

Generally the working boys prefer customers who are clueless, timid and for whom they have to do the least work, who in turn reward them generously for doing almost nothing.

this would cover workers in any service industry in the whole wide world

[firecat69]

Good luck to the Boys asking for more. If they get it good for them. If they have to accept less, they are used to it.

 

Last time I checked lawyers, doctors,dentists, hospitals etc all have different prices . Sometimes the higher prices are warranted and sometimes they are not.

 

It is after all a market economy these boys have and they are free to do as they wish. Refuse insulting offers (hopefully), trying to get above normal rate and yes even refusing certain kinds of service or service at all.

 

And we should be thankful that such a high % accept the normal rate and in most cases provide the services promised.

[brall3]

BRAVO BRAVO BRAVO firecat69, well said. People need to realize that prostitution is a business and the basic rules of business apply to prostitution.

 

I love going to Disneyland and despite all of the special effects, Disneyland is not reality. It is a business. Years ago visiting Disneyland was a lot cheaper than today and a lot less Asians visitors. Sounds familiar? Now the cost of visiting Disneyland has sky rocketed and watch out for the masses of rude pushy Asian visitors. Again, sound familiar? Thank goodness they are not that rude or pushy in Sexieland (oops, I mean Thailand, ha-ha).

[Guest Prakanong]

People need to realize that prostitution is a business and the basic rules of business apply to prostitution.

 

 

 

Eggxactly.

[colmx]

Generally the working boys prefer customers who are clueless, timid and for whom they have to do the least work, who in turn reward them generously for doing almost nothing.  Usually, these are the older customers who are quite happy with a grope and feel, some kissing and maybe a hand-job.  Wham, bham and 2000 Bt later and they're out the door, and on the town to with their friends, girlfriends, boyfriends or wives.

 

And thats why a lot of us prefer Pattaya over BKK

The gay boys of Pattaya are rarely in a hurry to leave compared to the cut-throat mercenaries of Bkk!

[vinapu]

And thats why a lot of us prefer Pattaya over BKK

The gay boys of Pattaya are rarely in a hurry to leave compared to the cut-throat mercenaries of Bkk!

I'm not so sure and can't confirm using my personal experience but what do I know?

 

It's still BKK for me

[firecat69]

Anyone who likes massages as much as you would prefer BKK.  Other then that Pattaya wins in all categories IMHO.

[witty]

Nowadays many Asians(from far eastern, south, south-east, to west Asia)have money to travel far and wide. The ones traveling in group tours are sometimes loud, but not all of them are rude, only loud, like some but not all Americans, who can be similarly annoying. Inconsiderate behaviour can be seen amongst Asians as well as Caucasians. Tourists on group tours can overwhelm the individual travellers, but they contribute as much as others to the tourism industry.

[vinapu]

I like watching evening procession of Chinese tours through Boyztown, they clearly look uncomfortable and out of place, most of them don't even look sideways but if they do they smile knowingly.

[Jasper]

Wham, bham and 2000 Bt later and they're out the door, and on the town to with their friends, girlfriends, boyfriends or wives.

I was at Tawan last month and saw a boy coming back from a short time off. 3-4 boys were laughing and I asked why. Apparently the boy came back within 30 min. " Customer cum too quick"