Search the Community

Hi, I'm a newbie here. I hope it's ok to post about this here, and hope that I do not violate any rules or offend anyone. Your comment or advice is welcome, though. I'm also new to the scene of muscle worship/fetish thing, even though as long as I remember I am helplessly attracted to muscle men. I have never acted upon this, though, which is a shame. It's hard to explain why or how come, but I suspect the old Superman, Hercules, Tarzan TV shows/films, and the like, may have something to do with it. It just imprinted me earlier on. Those WWF (WWE these days) and NWA (now defunct I believe) wrestling TV programs played a great role in this as well. I reckon the attraction is just beyond what many people generally find in men in great shape. I suppose you can say it's Achilles' heel for me in terms of sexual desire. My 'philia' (for a lack of a better term I can think of right now) is quite specific, though, in that it does not usually involve the sexual act or intercourse. I just love the aspect of strength and muscularity display of it. I find the allure of men displaying their cockiness and confidence in their muscularity (but not to the point of arrogance and condescension on others less disciplined than they are) and their heroic poses extremely sexy. I'm positively, and helplessly, attracted to male bodybuilders participating in bodybuilding competitions, specifically during the comparison and prejudging call-out rounds, because this feels closer to competitive sports than any other stages of bodybuilding competitions. It's like they have to 'outmuscle' their competitors to be the god among gods. If these muscle men happen to practice combat sports as well, such as wrestling or kickboxing, my fascination with them is simply skyrocketing. What can I say; nothing displays strength better than putting those big muscles to good use to dominate each other. Anyway, let's get back to our topic here where I want to ask for some advice/recommendation from anyone who has experienced this type of activities/services. I finally decide that, as life is short and before I kick the bucket (which we never know when), I would love to experience and enjoy muscle worshipping someone at least once in my life. This would definitely be one of my bucket list, so to speak. This may sound idiotic (and I admit I'm mostly clueless about this), but where and how can I go about finding a willing bodybuilder who enjoys showing off his hard earned muscles and is game for this kind of worship in Thailand? I have heard of Tawan Bar in Bangkok. It's not really my scene, but considering this is Thailand, do I have any other choices? What about online service? Any recommendation (and can it be trusted)? I'm not even sure this is exactly illegal in Thailand, since I would assume that some kind of monetary compensation may be required, but I'm not looking for sex or sexual exploitation or anything like that. And if I manage to find such a person, what kind of negotiation and rule/etiquette should I expect? I'm generally attracted to muscle men of European descent, but I think this is simply because men with bodybuilding physique are historically more prevalent in Europe/North America/Australia/NZ regions. I'm drawn to men as long as they are physically pleasing/imposing, regardless of race or ethnic background. In Thailand, I guess this may not be easy to find (?) as general physique of East Asian men is not genetically huge to begin with, but I suppose it would not be too hard to find either, considering young Thai men are now more into fitness than ever before. I would certainly and sincerely appreciate your tips or recommendations to help me fulfill my wish. Thanks for taking your time reading this.