ChristianPFC

I think 30 minutes would be right. If you do it longer, boy and/or mamasan will pester you for drinks. When I have a boy sit with me, I rather quickly either off him or dismiss him (when I give him 100 Baht and say thank you, the boy leaves).

Did you lose it or was it stolen? Not clear from your post.

Entry to DJ station is 150 Sun-Thu, 300 Fri-Sat. I haven't been Fri-Sat for years as it's too crowded, I want to be able to freely move around. Entry to GOD is 300. Smoking inside allowed, for this reason I haven't been for years. There are money boys in DJ station, and last time I went to GOD one offered his service to me. My success rate in DJ was poor, and as I don't like disco environment (too late, too loud), I gave up going to discos (DJ station as well as Thai discos, except for the few - all places combined - recce visits per year).-

Storing data online gives easy access to security agencies, and to hackers as well? Anyway, I would want all data twice, so deleting from my hard driving and having only online would not be an option for me. When I travel, I log out of all accounts, so whoever get the device, at least doesn't have access to social media and others. Anyway a good idea to limit social networks, emails and other stuff, and log out after use. This way you use password regularly and don't forget it. A "travel device" is probably best solution.

To me it's not clear what's going on. The waiting hall is closed at night anyway. Outside, still under a roof but open to the side, passengers with early/late arrival/departure are sleeping in large numbers, let's say 100 passengers and 10 homeless. I have to take a look some day, paying attention to this issue. It might be a brain fart and nothing actually changes.

Dr. and PhD is the same, German and English abbreviation. I didn't want to put my family name here, so I used my artist's name. Another book I might write: "How I got rich from taking toilet paper from hotel rooms and picking up paper clips from the floor".

"make themselves more presentable" but certainly not justifying 500 Baht more (1000 last time I took a boy from Super A versus 1500 last time I took a boy from Soi Twilight or Screwboys, both cases about 2 years ago). And anyway, everything they do to "make themselves more presentable" is rather detrimental. In 2014-2015, I tried to get boys I had offed from bars to come to my room for 1000 (when I paid them 1500 when I offed them from the bar), with limited success, the problem probably not so much the money than space-time coordination (instead of a sure customer before or after work, but independent travel involved, they rather wait for a new customer who might pick them up at the bar).

You got off lightly, if I were in charge people who throw cigarette butts away would be whipped in public. Tourism attracts scammers. In Bangkok (Silom, Sukhumvit, Khao San), Pattaya, Phuket Patong, density of scammers is much higher then rest of the country. So far, I had 5 cases of theft (and one more attempted, and more that I didn't realize?), one successful and one attempted short-change at money exchange, many attempts at scamming, plenty of cases of money lent and not gotten back (here you could argue, at the time of borrowing they might really have intended to pay it back), one forgotten bag in taxi that was not returned. On the plus side, you can count the about 50 hitchhikes I did in 2014-2015.

A friend goes to Phnom Penh once per year, visits one of the all-male massage places and has all the boys at once, for 20 USD each. I forgot if he sucks all of them or if they all cum on him.

I write about a lot of stuff, but the OP's question is a subject I can not help with.

Daytime activities in Pattaya http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/03/daytime-activities-in-pattaya.html

Go to naked days in some saunas, e.g. 39 underground on Sunday, in the afternoon you have daylight. Unfortunately, most activity is in darkrooms (not my style). The place to watch naked shapely guys (but no activity in public) would be the gay hot spring(s) in Taipei.

The only gogo bar in Saphan Kwai, Be High, closed last year. Now there are several karaoke left. There are several threads on the forums. Saphan Kwai gets a tentative recommendation from me. In Sukhumvit there is inter-moustache, I have been about once every year 2012-2013-2014, then gave up because there was nothing for me. Don't even know if it's still open. http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2014/12/inter-mustache-december-2014.html http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2013/10/inter-mustache-sukhumvit-soi-10.html

In Sun City gay sauna in Paris, the wristband with locker key had a pocket for condom and lube. I have been to Sansuk several times over the years, it's clean and well maintained, but I didn't get much action, so now my visits are rare.

I'm thinking about writing a book "The public transport in Thailand. Volume 1: Bangkok Volume 2: Provinces by Dr. ChristianPFC" but that's probably not what you had in mind. Well, I'm just reading a book about gay life in south-east Asian and found myself thinking "Boring. I could do better.".

I liked 22 Walks in Bankgok, Bangkok found and Mysterious Bangkok much better. Details here: http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/04/books-about-bangkok-history-and.html That indeed is a well-researched and presented article. I finally read "My Bangkok - City of Spirits" and it's not much better than the book. Similar inaccuracies as in the book, and I don't like the writing style. Hadn't it been a subject I'm interested, I wouldn't have read to the end.

I read the book and didn't like it. http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2016/04/books-about-bangkok-history-and.html That offer still stands.

Further on addresses: when I check into a hotel, I get their name card, better two, one to put in my left back pocket and one in my wallet. I once almost locked myself out of my room: changed trousers and left key in old trousers. Subconsciously, when leaving, I touched where the key would be, but it wasn't there. Now I put my key always in right back pocket and touch it with my right hand, before closing the door with my left hand.

Thank you for sharing your boyfriend's preferences. Now I know I'm not alone with my peculiarities. You boyfriend's peculiarities are purely mental, mine are purely physical. I don't care with whom, where, when, how often my sexual partner had sex with, but pay close attention to skin tone, temperature, body hair.

Interesting story and congratulations, could have made the trip impossible (if passport had been lost). I was not that lucky. I once forgot my bag in a taxi (Simplified, full story is that I was travelling with a farang friend, and I had umbrella, back pack and tote bag, and gave tote bag to FF and he forgot it when we got out. I never forgot or lost anything of importance.), and noticed minutes later, called their lost and found number, but didn't get the bag back. There was nothing of financial value in it, the most valuable item a 5000 mAh power bank. Opposite story. A Burmese friend who speaks very little English, but good Thai, came to stay with me over night after visiting Babylon sauna. He found a credit card there and gave it to me. I was pondering what to do, my friend was already sleeping, then I had an idea to search for the name on facebook (when I search my name on facebook, dozens come up, that's why it took me so long to get that idea). One name came up, and there were recent pictures from south-east Asia. I messaged him, and got a reply within minutes. He is in Silom Soi 4 and will go to Krabi tomorrow. I sent him my location and shortly later we met and I returned the credit card. On all my data carriers I have a file readme.txt in the root directory that has my contact details. When I fly, I put a paper with my address and travel details in my luggage. For everything else I should do the same, put information that allows to identify and contact me in everything that could get lost. Putting your own picture in your wallet, I read that somewhere on the internet and have been doing it since.

But there are plenty of Thai boys who have sex with others than their partners, and they all are doing it for the fun (+bonus money, those who have the money even pay to have sex outside their relationship). I can't follow your bf's argumentation. I don't care at all if my sexual partner is straight or gay, in a relationship or not. He can fuck his girlfriend/wife and I watch/touch and I pay 1000 for him/her/them. Or he fucks his girlfriend/wife and not get paid. Paying both is not an option I would offer.

I never looked at their website before, only now do I find it's well organized and visitor's questions are answered (precise answer in good English). They deserve praise for that! Usually, such websites are difficult to navigate and neglected.

If there ever was a recommendation, this is it! You mean Health Land Massage with several branches? The twinks, which branch?

Watch "boy fuck girl" is on my list as well. There seems to be a market for this. But I have read that prices for girls are higher than for boys (whereas drinks in girl bars are cheaper then in boy bars). But Thai boys probably don't have to pay tourist prices. Of course best would be to watch boy fuck his gf or wife, and just pay boy. I wonder how many gfs and wifes are up to this.

I have been twice, and for someone who isn't interested in beaches, the most interesting part of Koh Larn is the giant garbage dump. http://christianpfc.blogspot.com/2015/11/koh-larn-revisited-nov-2015.html