First of all the thread is veering off course, which is ok with me.
Secondly, above was not being directed at Steveboy, rather just my opinion on sex in Thailand. I have friends who say they want to visit Thailand, and some have, but would never, ever consider paid sex with a Thai guy. Some are put off with thought of sex with someone with brown skin and others "don't pay for it" although they might when they get old. This was from a 60yo!