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Yes, I'll be there till mid May. I have an apartment down on Surawong.

I arrive back in Bangkok next week for a month. Hero will be my first stop. The mamasan there is very helpful. You can ask him anything about any boy. There are so many hot boys, you shouldn't have any problem finding one that will give you what you want.

Mailed my check yesterday, and leave for a month in Bangkok next week, to get over it.

And only 1-1/2 years to go with all this . I have been doing 30 days in Bangkok and 30 days in The U.S. I think I am going to start doing 60 days in Bangkok. They have a military dictatorship. The general in charge, makes long rambling speeches on tv each day. But there not in English. Just like our politicians , what they say today, they probably won't be saying the same thing in 1-1/2 years.

She really has no competition . Unless things change she can phone it in.

Most boys know what the going rates are as much as we do. Once in awhile they get a customer that is very generous, but they are not going to sit around every night hoping to get that again. They will happily go with you for the normal going rate.

These boys remember being with you once 3 years ago. Don't know how they do it, but they see you coming a mile away

While making your choice, talk to the Mamasan . Let them know exactly what your looking for . Then when you pick a boy, just confirm with him what you would like. You won't have any problem finding a bottom boy. There's usually plenty of everything to go around. It's important to discuss your specifics before you get started in the room though.

The massages at the Turkish Baths, may be a bit on the sensual side, but if your looking for erotic, probably not going to happen. They'll give you a towel to wear, and hands everywhere with strong massage, but they stop short of erotic. The Bath houses are usually very ornate, and in most places the massage will be a bit more public than your used to. But you get lost in the whole experience and you probably won't miss the erotic part.

Going alone I think depends on what your intentions are. If you want to bring boys back to your room, it's better to go alone. Then no worries about arranging schedules. If your happy with just massage palors then sharing you room with a friend wouldn't be a problem. If you were to go with a friend, it would be best to have the same thoughts about why your there. That way you don't need to sneak time away. Once you make your first connection with a boy, there will be no stoping you. You will see how easy it is and you won't be alone for long.

I use a apartment that I found on Airbnb.com. I rent a month at a time. There are a lot of great places all over Bangkok advertised here.

Fascinating city. I remember taking the ferry across to the Asian side of the river, just so I could say I have been on the Asian continent. Hope you get to try out a Turkish Bath.

Tell bf, life together is a comprise. So unless you want to sleep on a park bench, you can't refuse everyplace. It's one of the busiest hotel weeks of the year in Bangkok.

I use an apartment, but it has a 24 hour security desk. I've never had any safety issues.

No, I don't use aps. I have a couple of boys that I am very close to. When they have something to keep them busy, I use that time to stray. I really like massages. For me, I usually get more out of a massage boy than offing a boy at a club. I don't drink either, but still hang out at the beer bars a lot. Lots to drink besides alcohol . And I really enjoy the eye candy.

I have a habit of checking the slip everytime they put one in the bin. I have never had the wrong amount or wrong change given. But on my trip last month, I had a boy buy himself a drink. He tried to slip his slip into my bin. I caught him and he got into a lot of trouble from management. I sit at Hot Male and order food from Maxis often. It seems I never get charged the same from night to night. Usually within 10-20 baht, so I don't say anything .

I don't have any info on the building, but it is in an area where there is a lot of new construction. It appears to be a newer building. I looked at a couple of ads for rentals and they say, sparcly furnished. Make sure you find out for sure how it is furnished if you check it out. Good location. It's within walking distance of my apt.

Vinapu your exactly right. I have had high status with American Airlines for 13 years. This has kept me up front. I can handle economy for 10 hours, but then it all goes bad. As long as I can keep status, AA gives me 8 business class upgrades every year. But everyday I wait for my upgrade to confirm, I think is this the time I'm going to do 16 hours in coach. I just keep thinking of the rewards when the plane touches down. Doing 30 day trips really helps. Gives you time to recover between flights. When I lived in San Francisco it was no problem, but now living on the East Coast, that extra 5 hours takes the fun out of it.

I got home from this trip a few days ago. I really didn't have to much to talk about so got a bit lazy with posting. Now that I stay for a month, every other month, I don't go out every night to play. But I did finally hit up a couple of massage palors just before I left. First I went to Adonis. I have always done massages late afternoon. But this time I went over about 7:30. Most times there I've found upwards of 15-20 boys. This night only 8. A little older group than I usually like and only 1 boy that I found ok. So off we went. Good choice. We showered together. He gave a very good massage. Didn't miss any spots. When it was time to turn over, I wanted oral, he wanted to fuck, I got my oral and lots of handy work. I went home happy. I've been to Adonis many times, and only once left disappointed. Something that was different for me at both Adonis and Hero, the house wanted to be paid upfront. Is this new ? I've always paid leaving. Then last Friday I went to Hero. I made the mistake of taking a taxi. Friday night at rush hour crossing town, took almost an hour. Got there about 6. Hero, Friday night, WOW. Most of you know the boys sit behind a glass wall. There were at least 50 there. I sat down and told Mamasan I wanted a bit of time because there wasn't a boy there that wasn't worth taking. Hottest group of boys I have ever seen at 1 time. Mamasan whispers, gay or straight, top or bottom. Narrowed it down to gay, saw a boy I was drawn to a couple of time, so picked him. Couldn't have done any better. Stepped into the room and boy was out of his clothes before I got my shoes off. Showered together, and know after shower this was going to be a fun evening. It was. Massage was very good, but the extras were better than I have ever had in any massage place. He gave me his phone number and that paid off as I went back on Monday to see him. He didn't tell me till after, but it was his night off and he came in just to see me. Again Wow. I had a smile on my face all night. I ask him if next time when I get back if we could get a vip room and pickup another boy. He was all for it. Another plus was his English was quite good. Be interested in thoughts of some of you other guys, but I have been finding a lot more English being spoken. Seems every trip I find a few more boys that are speaking it better and better. Not just a few limited words, but quite conversational. Overall I had a good trip. The weather was great. Saw 1 quick rain shower in a month, though the heat and humidity were kicking in as I left. I don't know if you have heard about the larger taxis asking for more money than the meter. Say it costs more than regular taxi to run. I ran into this at the airport when I arrived. Got in, he started to pull out. No meter started, do I said turn on meter. He said I don't use meter, it's 600 baht to your hotel. I said stop, I will get another taxi. He asked my hotel name and I said, no hotel, I live here and have an apartment. So I know 600 is to much. He said ok, 500. I said no, grabbed my suitcase and got another taxi. Cost 375 . My apt is on a street that has an abundance of taxis. I never wait more than 1 or 2 minutes to get one. I use 2-4 a day. I only had 1 that wouldn't take me where I wanted to go and the airport incident . Not bad for a month. I head back the end of April for a month, and Hero is on the first day agenda. I wish we had affordable supersonic travel. These 30 hour trips are getting old.

I've never had any issue bringing back 1 or 2 boys to any hotel in Bangkok. I used to stay at the Tarntawan or Marriots. I now use an apartment so guests are not an issue at all.

And as much as we complain about the prices, Dreamboys has by far the highest prices and is packed just about every night. I admit I hadn't been there the last couple of years, but gave it a try earlier this week. The choice of boys is outstanding. I ended up biting the financial bullet and went twice this week. You have to pay for quality. But they do overdue it a bit.

I left my apartment at 4:30 on Friday. I knew it would be bad. But it was hot and if I had to take taxi to Skytrain, I might as well take taxi all the way if he is willing. He was. Cost with tip 150. I took tuktuk back to Nana station and then train to Sala Dang. Then taxi home. I live on a street where taxis are endless. It's a one way street that brings traffic to Surawong. I can see 5 empty taxis coming at all times. So I use them because of convince.

Tomcal, I also enjoyed your list of excuses. Most of my travel now is to Thailand. The boys here send messages with same excuses, sick relatives being #1. But the best one here is the water buffalo died. Try replacing one of those.

They don't show it in Bangkok so I have a bit of binge watching when I get home. I do get Ellen same day shows though.

Your last sentence says it all. Never fall in love. We are ATM machines. Coming up with a new problem and needing money is the easiest thing in the world for them. There are some really great guys out there and you can have a lot of fun. But it's your money, and it needs to be on your terms with no long lasting expectations. Nothing wrong with buying a gift or 2, but you can't solve all their problems.