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So, I've been in Singapore for several days. Today I happened to notice that there was a big dragon boat regatta taking place on the river just a couple of blocks from my hotel. So once the ran more or less stopped I headed out and spent a couple of hours there. Tons of cute college boys. I really like it here for the most part. The men are generally very handsome. I think it's that whole melting pot things. Lots of really bad body odor though. There are lots of photogenic places to see. I will need to come back to see more. Less hot than BKK, but even more humid. Grindr and Jack'd are pretty popular here as well. The twist here though is that I have been directly solicited by a number of "masseurs". One of them a very hot 21 yo guy from Kazakhstan. But I didn't ask how much he wanted. I am here one more day though...

Not just Thai guys, all guys. I prefer no facial hair. But don't mind hair anywhere else. Those pathetic little "mustaches" Thai guys sport these days are just sad.

My three days here are at an end. Got a massage at Hero but otherwise it's been a quiet visit for me. Too damn hot. I did spend last evening doing some sightseeing which was fun. And I've spent some time shopping. Staying right at Ratchprasong makes shopping easy. I had planned to go over to Soi Twilight this evening but in the end just couldn't be bothered. Dealing with expensive drinks and the usual gogo bar BS just didn't have enough appeal. If I was staying in the neighborhood I probably would have gone out there though. Lots of guys online and on jack'd and grindr. But I guess I am just not in the mood.

Probably not until I get back to civilization. Typically when I am traveling there isn't much time to go through the pictures, do the edits, etc. I prefer to do that on my real computer at home. But I'm not sure I really have any better pictures than what aussie_ already posted.

Here's a link to the official photos posted by the organizers http://www.flickr.com/photos/twlgbtpride/sets/72157636961870896/

I tipped 1000 for a 2000 dollar massage. He seemed happy enough with that. I didn't see any tipping guidelines anywhere. A total of about US$100 for a 90 minute massage + seems pretty good to me.

Those are a good representation. I need to go through all of my photos yet. The parade was kind of chaotic and I think the route is probably too long. It is definitely a young crowd or I have simply lost my ability to tell anyone's age. The guy in the pink suit was marching with a group from Macau. Definitely lots of folks in town from around Asia. Lots of Singaporeans, Japanese, HK, and plenty of white people too. It was fun though. I stopped by Sun Yat Sen Memorial Hall before the parade. It is a funky place. There's a changing of the guard so if you like little Asian soldiers all dressed up it is worth a visit. But for me the most interesting part is that all of the high school boys practice their b-boy dancing all around the place. It seems like an odd place for that. That's probably where you would see some 6 packs. Had a massage tonight at In Touch. Definitely recommended. Very sensual. My masseur, "Josh", is very hot. He's tiny at probably 5'4" or so but very strong. Smooth almost everywhere. Sweet guy. Maybe 22 or 23 but looks 18. The place is a bit hidden on a little side street by the City Hall MRT station. It's half traditional massage which is a lot like traditional Thai massage in that they really use a lot of pressure so it hurts a bit. Then the second half is "body to body" massage which is exactly what you think it is.

For those who here for the festivities, the parade route has been changed http://twpride.org/twp/?q=active/map Just one route now instead of 2 with the east route having been eliminated.

I think that's the right way to think of it. You're basically paying a cover charge for the entertainment not just for the drink. I haven't been up there in a little while, but IIRC the strip clubs in Montreal do not charge especially inflated drink prices. But the clubs there are allowed by law. So maybe that makes a difference. Of course if you make a plan to see one of the guys outside of the bar you'll pay a lot more than in Thailand. And even their "private" lap dances are somewhat pricey. So I suppose things even out a bit. But if you just want to go to the bar and have a couple of drinks while you watch the show I believe it's a good bit cheaper. Then again the show is very different as well. And I know some of the clubs up there don't pay the dancers much (if at all) so the guys make their money in tips. I believe Remington's in Toronto used to charge the guys who worked there a fee for the opportunity to dance in the club. So, completely different business model.

My new camera will be here Monday, just in time for my trip. :-)

Need a rest? We expect more from you! :-) That does look nice. I'm staying at the Grand Hyatt Erawan when I get to town. I get 1 free night in any category 1-4 Hyatt per year plus platinum status just for holding their co-branded credit card. So I'm using my free night there plus one night on points and one night I am paying for. So it works out to about $80/night. I am looking forward to it.

Those dancing boys look very hot indeed...despite the iphone video. :-) Thanks for sharing. I'm not a big fan of "cabaret" shows.

Here's the map of the parade route http://twpride.org/twp/?q=node/94 Looks like the main starting point (and ending point?) is the big square/park in front of City Hall near the Grand Hyatt and 101. The whole two route thing seems a little confusing to me. Any ideas on the best location to be? Parade starts at 14:00

I agree that pushing a camera in some one's face and photographing them is rude. I think in general it's possible in most places to take some one's photograph if you first develop a rapport without having to pay them...unless you plan to make money off of your pictures in which case you'd likely need a model release anyway. Of course with telephoto lenses you can do the paparazzi thing too. But I think it's fair enough to pay a little if necessary as long as it's agreed up front. I was traveling in Bhutan a couple of years ago. I was walking down the road alone and passed a yard with a couple of little kids. They saw my camera and asked me to take their picture so I did. I showed them the picture on the camera and they demanded a dollar. I deleted the photo on principle.

I guess it's not just sex I'm looking for. :-) And I only have a couple of days so it didn't make any sense for me to go down to Pattaya this time around. I'm sure I will find enough boys to keep me occupied.

Nice report. Glad you had a good time! And also glad that you enjoyed Le Meridien BKK. I also stayed at the ICON when I was in HKG last year. I really liked it. I had a big room with a nice harbour view. I liked the fact that it is attached to the technical university's hospitality program so everyone (almost) that works there is also a student. Some VERY hot boys working there when I visited. It is definitely not cheap though. And not my favorite city either. No one looked happy or smiled.

all of these reports almost make me wish I had planned to visit Pattaya on this year's trip after all. But I'll have to make do with 3 days in BKK between Taiwan and Singapore... In your last set of photos I know I have seen the second boy listed on GR.

Yeah. I have T-mobile's $30/month prepaid plan (100 voice minutes plus unlimited text and data). But it appears that you need to have at least their $50/month plan to qualify for this. I think there's going to be a lot of confusion. I got a Nexus 4 partly because it comes unlocked. As Firecat notes, it's still cheaper in Asia to just get a local prepaid SIM.

Nice report. Cute boys. I really like Central Festival too. I tend to spend a lot of my daytime hours there when I am in Pattaya.

There's plenty to do in Myanmar that doesn't involve having sex with anyone. If you're bringing some one with you, then I am sure you have nothing to worry about. But stay away if you want to. They've got too many tourists these days anyway

All sorts of things are illegal in Thailand, but that doesn't stop us from going there. Plenty of other reasons for concern in Burma like the continuing discrimination against ethnic and religious minorities. The endemic corruption that's not really getting any better. Political prisoners still in jail. But it's a fascinating country. The people are extremely friendly and hospitable. Some truly amazing sights. I became convinced that contact was preferable to boycott.

I have stayed at the Sukhothai but not Banyan Tree which is right next door. Sukhothai is a very nice hotel. But the location is not ideal in my opinion. It is closer to Babylon though for your sauna adventures. It's not as close to Silom (time wise) as you might think due to the road configuration. MRT is about 10 or so minutes walk away. Sathorn is a very busy road especially during rush hours. If you want to be in the middle of it all then Le Meridien would be a better choice. It's extremely close to the gogo bars for example and Suriwong Rd has a lot to offer. And probably 10-15 walk to BTS skytrain. Or you might consider somewhere like the Dusit Thani which is in a very good location on Silom right across from Lumpini Park. Very close to BTS and MRT and there's a ton of street life right there on Silom. One problem with staying at the Sukhothai is that there's nothing right around the hotel as far as food for example. I used to stay at the Siri Sathorn all the time. It's a serviced apartment place run by the same company as the Sukhothai. You get a lot more space, your own kitchen, etc. The location is not the greatest as it is 10 minutes or more walk to Silom Rd but they have a shuttle van during the day that can drop you off on Silom and you just have to walk back or take a taxi. Probably a good 20 minute walk the gogo bars. One problem with Bangkok is that there are just too many great choices of places to stay at reasonable prices. I think it can lead to some paralysis in making a choice. Service is almost uniformly gracious and friendly wherever you stay.

Afraid I am not really able to answer some of your questions as I am not a beach person at all. You are young. If you are also good looking I would think that finding non-paid hookups should be easy. It is my understanding that Grindr is also popular in Thailand. When hooking up there I think I would assume in general that he's not a moneyboy unless he makes it obvious that he is. There are tons of nice hotels in Bangkok and elsewhere. The non-chain places tend to be cheaper. I think hotel recommendations would depend on your budget. Bangkok always has something going on so I wouldn't be concerned about being there on a Sunday.

I've never had any problems except with the taxis that park along Suriwong and wait for unsuspecting people. They quote some crazy fare and I just laugh and close the door, then walk s few yards down the street and hail a moving taxi who always turns on the meter. I've long thought that Bangkok taxis are probably too cheap. I don't know how any of those guys makes a living.

3.5 hours! I don't think it's ever taken me that long except for the days before the expressway was finished. I've used TheLimoPattaya for the last several years. Always a fine experience at a reasonable price. And never more than 2 hours from Silom to Pattaya and vv.