TotallyOz

Well, I did a boo boo today. I let my little head think too much. I had a guy I have wanted to see from a massage service WAY across the other side of town and the rate was 2k to him plus 1k to the shop. Fine for me. But, he would not come and asked for 3k. I said OK. Now, tomorrow I'll see him and see if he has the smile in person that he has in his photos!

BTW: this was at least 8 Vietnam boys I met. @paulsf are you hearing this? I think they are calling your name... can you hear it softly... paul..paul...paul....

I went to the area early last night to have time to visit every bar and see how things were. I started out at Screwboys and I enjoyed it. They had some twinks and I had some fun. They had one guy I liked and had for a drink and he was straight and said I could watch him JO. I passed but tipped him well. The place had an NBA theme which I enjoyed and a lot of boys. Not many fem boys that I saw but everything else. Next was the bar upstairs Fresh Boys and they had even more boys and lots of twinks, gays, and fems. I found a guy I liked who spoke good English and we chatted for a bit but I knew he was not for me for the night. Another on stage caught my eye and I had him over for a drink as well. They were both Vietnamese. The 2nd one I wanted to stay with me for the night and I took him home with me and my plans to visit the rest of the bars were put on hold. Oh, well, at least the places I visited were packed with boys and lots of variety.

Place is not listed well on their Twitter. Here is the location: https://maps.google.com/maps?q=13.812847,100.657851

How is it possible that there are so many beautiful guys in Thailand. I don't have enough time in the day or energy to see them. If you have not been to Thailand before, get off your ass and get on a plane to visit. You can't go a day without finding someone that will blow your mind!

I found them on Twitter and fell in love with the wide variety of guys there. Actually, I found them as one of the guys I met worked there and he suggested their Twitter and I started following. I have not been to the massage house yet, but it is on my agenda. Here are some of the offerings today. https://twitter.com/bantai_men

LOL. Always. But, under 35. I have places to go, people to see, and things to do. I would like to say I need them to be able to keep up with me. But, truth is, I need them to push me to barely keep up with them. On a recent trip to Dubai with a few Thai friends, I just sent them out to do touristy things on their own a lot. I find I enjoy less travel the older I get. I took a trip back to USA over Xmas last year and it exhausted me. Now, I like to stay close to Thailand and that saves me money as well. The cost for a business class ticket to USA right now is over 200,000 baht. I use to make that trip 2x per year. I don't like it anymore and save it for when needed for family only and not just visiting or to eat Christmas dinner.

To be clear, I would rarely offer someone 3500. I do usually not go above 2k in Bangkok for short time. The same is true for my 2 guys. I always separate things. They ask for 2k. I give them that 2k. I then give them 1k afterwards and tell them that is for them to buy a present. Then, I give 500 and tell them that is for a taxi. Yes, I know in the end it is the same, but I always like to be clear and would not agree to 3500 up front for most. I also consider this saving money. When I go to the gay bars I usually go to three or four to find what I want. By the time I buy drinks for me and sometimes a boy or waiter, find a boy and pay his off and then his tip, I have now spent 6-8k for something that might be good. I know 100% of the time the two lads I see on a regular are going to be good each time. I have one lad who works at a dentist office nearby me who asks for 1500. I pay him that plus 500 baht tip. He is average sex but sweet and comes after his office closes. I will also see him anytime he needs money as he normally is not working for money and on the apps but only to hookup. When he needs, he asks.

I may be in the minority, but I do think the rate does have correlation to better performance. I do often tip more than the minimum and the first time a guy is with me they are usually OK or good because I tell them exactly what I want in advance. However, if they are repeat performers, they know I tip well and they know it is a great deal for them and they try to achieve. For example, I have two guys for a threeway each week. I tip them both 3,500 thb. They are consistently wonderful and I think deserve every baht for the long distance and the great massage and sex. A few weeks back, one of the boys was unavailable and he brought a friend who was not up to part and suggested just a jo. I looked at the new boy and said, no problem but only 1k baht. To that, he changed and delivered a slightly better performance. He was a one time change of a guy and when both gone, the boy I had been seeing wrote and apologize and said that would never happen again. Just to be clear, it did not and he knew if he ever brought someone like that again, his own reputation was on the line. This week, he was away and his friend who comes with him brought another boy who IMHO, is one of the best I have had in ages (yes I say that a lot). But, he also got the same tip and was extraordinary. I found the same thing in Brazil saunas. I use to tip a bit more than others and the boys knew this and catered to my needs a bit more and looked out for me. Last example, in LA once, I met a Japanese lad from Craig's List and he was not good at all. But, I still gave him more than he asked for. He said he hoped to see me again and I told him he was sexy but the sex was not good so it would be a pass for me. He said, you see me again, and I promise it will be amazing. I did and he was. I saw him weekly for the time I was in LA (over 6 months).

Definitely the boys! I think the late Firecat introduced me to this place years back. I was leery but it was good.

I think not a good place. But, cute guys so I keep looking. The manager told me yesterday, the rate is now 2k to the sauna and 2k minimum for the boy handjob only. I laughed and moved on. Frankly, I don't see how they stay in business.

Solution when this happens, say to the boy: Hey, I like you and I want to know your HIV status. I'll give you 5,000 baht and pay for the test if we go together to be tested.

Please tell me it ain't so!

You have known me longer and knew this was a sensitive subject for me. I think Reader realized it was sensitive when I hit the down-vote (I rarely do that). But, I guess we all have our days and nights. Lessons: 1. Oz is sensitive about this boy (not sure why) 2. Oz is sensitive about the fabulous color of his nails this week.

The first lad in the threeway was someone I hired through Ogasms Spa. He was great! See this thread from 2020. I kept seeing him but asked him to bring a friend. He did and I have seen the two of them almost weekly since this post. This week, Boy1 was away in Laos and Boy2 asked to come but I told him I wanted him to bring a friend. He said he had this 20 year old who would be good so I said OK. He was 29 and Thai. His dick was strong and he came fucking my friend and then never got soft and then spent time with me and came again. Jeeze, I can't believe I liked him so much. I thought I would hate him as he was so tattooed and looked like just got out of prison. Yeah, OK, @floridarob probably just my style. So, glad I found these three lads as they are always ready to come over. They work in a restaurant in the day and always will be on time and with a great 1 hour massage and then excellent sex. Admittedly, I do pay more than normal, but they come from way far away to get to me and it takes them over an hour.

I am plain and usually go for vanilla but today was an adventure.

I loved my Nespresso machine and used it often. I hated the cost of the capsules. I decided to try a new coffee machine that grinds it own coffee and froths the milk and it has been delightful. Do I miss the Creme Burlee coffee? Yes. But, I'll be OK.

Well, I finally made it there today. I had to go to the Apple store to test something in person and the Shack was calling my name. No line for me at 1PM and got my order pretty fast. The burger was really good. I opted for the Salted Caramel shake and it was good too. All in all, I'm glad I gave it a try. It is a good stop if you are in that area.

Reader, I'm a pretty good reader myself. I just disagree with the statement.

You are right. I had a trip planned to Brazil pre-covid and I want to get back there again. No interest in Panama again. I have not been to Jomtien in ages but I may look like one of those old men sitting in a bar so long that people think I died and became a statue.

Pimping: the action or practice of controlling prostitutes and arranging clients for them, taking part of their earnings in return. The lad was not a prostitute. Not sure what part of the post you missed. Perhaps I should not have said I gave him a gift at the end. But, he is in one of the toughest programs for semi-conductors and he needed a good computer. The father had no idea we were sleeping together. He just knew that we became friends. Just like I became friends with the father.

Well, I was able to spend one week in gay Taipei and had a blast. This site helped me prepare for the itinerary. I had the week all mapped out and ready to go and see the saunas and massage places and I had 3 dates pre arranged from the apps. I worked hard to prepare. Like all things in life, things did not go as planned. I visited nothing I had planned. I took a taxi from the airport to my hotel. The driver was very talkative and I was too. I told him I was there to see the gay scene and he said his son was gay and just finished Freshman year in University. He said his English was not as good as his but he could give me a tour. I thought this was a bit odd, but I'm an odd man so I agreed. That night the son appeared to take me out to dinner but instead was very sexy and we ended up in bed and ordering room service. He was not a money boy, he was just into foreigners (his dad did not know). Anyway, we spent the entire week together and I got to know very little of what I wanted to see and a lot about my new friend, his family, the island, the touristy non-tourist locations and tons of food with his friends. They accepted me wholeheartedly and was happy he found a guy nice to him. He was a bit nerdy but so am I. He did not leave my side for 7 days and the sex was amazing. He will travel to Thailand this summer for a week or two but he is not looking for a forever love. He is young and I don't expect anything other than fun and a good friendship. I have to say, it was most definitely the best week I have had in years. As he came to the hotel to see me away, I gave him a gift to say thank you for his touring. (he never asked for money or for me to buy him anything). He was in tears when I gave him a new computer for his studies. I told him I was being selfish as I wanted him to use Facetime to talk to me and he can't do that on his windows. I'll plan another trip to the Island in the future. But, this trip was amazing. I do appreciate all the detailed information in this forum as it helped me plan. But, best laid plans are often laid to rest for another day.

While I agree with part of what you say, I think the way to go is to elect a democratic President with balls who will change the SC. It is possible, just no one with the balls to do it.

I think things would have been very different if we did not allow Trump to appoint multiple SCOTUS judges. However, people sat home (Bernie forever) and did not vote. The result is the shit we now have and the mess it has and will continue to make for us (gays) and others. There is one main reason to vote every 4 years. The appointments. Little other reasons. But, as rights are taken away and we move toward a more conservative Christian nation we have no one to blame but those that sat home and did not vote many years back.