TotallyOz

I certainty hope that is not the case. And, if so, that is nuts. We have posters that post in both places for years. You are always welcome here.

I told him what he lost out on. But, have no intent on spanking him. BTW: I didn't consider myself a victim. I knew from the moment he brought up his father's accident 2 days before rent was due where it was going. I gave him the "loan" knowingly and knowing the outcome. It saved me more money in the end as I don't normally like a regular all the time and I didn't know how to let him down easy. Worth it for me!

Yes, it was a "loan" to pay for his father's funeral. Yes, I could have let him offer to pay off in time but I'd never trust someone who went through such an elaborate scheme to get money from someone. Just like he should never trust someone who would set up a fake LINE account, message him and ask for a date saying we had met at a bar just to test if he were in the same city when he was supposed to be in Chiang Mai. So, I don't think another meeting would be good for either of us. Trust and verify. But, never give money unless you are willing to loose it. IMHO

In the end, I thought if it was true and he had no one to turn to to help, I won't be able to sleep. 5,000 baht was a small price to pay for my guilty conscience if there was a real issue. I gave him 2500x2 times per week. So, the money just didn't add up for me but it was the end of the month and rent was coming due. However, I knew when I saw him the day his dad died and he told him that his dad had a motorcycle accident. I knew at that point. But, knowing and knowing are different.

Yep, all complete bullshit. The funeral. The trip. Everything. But, not smart on his end. I was seeing him 2 times a week for 2500. He got 5k for "the funeral." I caught him in the lie and he is now blocked. Yes, I loose out on seeing him but I am OK with that and it saves me money in the long run. But, the extent he went through to show me photos of the funeral, the flight info, etc. was amazing. Very planned out. I am sure I was the first one that he ever prepared all this info for.

So, he sent me photos from his father's funeral. Nice lad. He flew to Chiang Mai (emergency) and needed money for family. He will be there for a week. But, he forgot we met on Grindr and I watched him over the last 2 days log in 6 miles from me. So, I created a new LINE account and messaged him and tried to book him for a date in Bangkok tonight (although still in Chiang Mai). Guess if he was actually in Chiang Mai or is willing to meet a new date tonight in Bangkok?

Really? When the vast majority of any grade is the term papers? At least at the good schools.

That is kindness!

That is why I think it is our responsibility to each take in and care for 10 guys each! Who is with me?

We have all (most of us anyway) been there. I just ended a 16 year relationship with a great bullshitter! He was so good that I also miss him. But, so much BS that I'll never revisit it again. I sent him 5k instead of 10k and told him it was a loan and to feel free to message me when the loan is paid back. I don't expect it. But, I'm OK if I don't get it back either. It is always worth 5k to know someone's intent. (well, someone I'm sleeping with at least)

Tass, I have had over 20 friends from into the USA in the last month. There was no quarantine anywhere. Now, if countries are smart and not political, I would not allow an American in without quarantine. No need to risk it. IMHO

LOL His Daddy got him in. And, look, I was hired by all the rich kids to write essays, papers and law review articles. I was poor and a good writer. They were not stupid but lazy and often were in because of parents. I don't think everyone that graduates from college or law school are smart. I do KNOW that degrees can be purchased. From what I have seen of him, he can't even answer questions logically. I do not think he is smart. But, I do think he is a good salesman.

Regardless of what Bolton wanted, Trump bows to Putin because he is impressed, a dummy, or Putin has something on him. I don't see other options. But, this story is big news as it confirms the fact that Trump does not care about our soldiers at all. I don't think his supports give a rat's ass about that. But, I do.

IMHO, any President who is given paper for a briefing, got it. It was in the reports and he received it. Did he have someone sit and dumb it down for him? Most likely not. That is on him and the nuts that elected him.

No, he is just not smart enough to understand US intelligence briefings.

I hope all goes well. Keep us up to date. I hope the opening up of things goes well for the area. Does Mexico still allow Americans? Twins? Love it.

IMHO, the refusal to be briefed is reason enough to get this bastard out. However, not sure how much intelligence he can get out of any report.

And, the home-run just sent a message asking for 10k baht for funeral. Can I change the title of this thread?

This is a hard time for everyone. Those that have no money or job may be able to get some food but so many other things. They can't pay for their motorbike, rent, phone, etc. It is truly destroying lives all over. I can't do much for everyone but I have upped my tipping of every delivery person, maids, guys I meet online, any one else I come in contact with. Remember that most of the boys we meet still send money home to family and now that is stopped and they were depended upon.

I have been using them weekly for a year. I have also visited the shop (not big) as mostly take away or delivery. It is clean and well-run. Their food is excellent. Every American friend I know orders from them.

May I'll just send this image next time and ask 1 or 2 or both?

Here is a photo of their Gourmet Burger. YUMMY!

That works for me in a bar. But, not in an app.

I have to meet at reception but never want a scene in my building so I always bring to my room regardless.

Sometimes even with making things clear, it is not clear. Translation apps do not work well. Things get lost in conversations. I can't tell you how many times I ask top, bottom or both and they have no idea of what I am talking about. Zero. It takes a few times. I travel to Brazil and it is easy, Passivo, Activo, Total. But, harder on the apps here. At least for me. When I had a BF to travel with me they would always get it right as they would talk and tell them the expectations. Now, that he is gone, there is more confusion. And, partly my fault.