TotallyOz

What kind of guys do you like? Do you like professional massage or a cute guy massage? If you like a really great massage, I suggest the Thai Blind Institute in Jomptien Complex. You will have a wonderful massage. Also, there are several guys at the beach that give great massages and several that give lousy ones. I suggest you get to Rit's Beach chairs, find a few guys that are regulars and ask their advice on guys. I have found some good massage guys at Blue House Massage in Day/Night 2. As for boys, are you sound like you are looking to pick up guys in cruising places and not the bars. Is this correct? If so, just so you know, Pattaya is not know for guys who are not working. Even the non-working guys are working. You may find a few and I know of many who do.

While I hate to say throw in the towel, I have to agree. While we like to think this is our home and we want things to work the way they do in our homeland, it is not. Thailand is a wonderful place but it is sometimes best to realize that our view of justice is not the same as theirs. If you feel it is a safety issue, and frankly, if the kid had 1,000 Yabba tablets, I would tend to think he is not the only one involved here, then it is best to move on. IMHO

For me, I like the security of a relationship or at least the impression of one. I have little belief that money is not the main factor but I do like to be friendly with several guys. I have 5 regulars that I have on permanent off. They don't work and they are well taken care of. I do this not because I am a horn dog or because I am in love with them. I do this because I much prefer to have some regulars that I spend time with and that I can get on a more personal level with. I also prefer to have a guy that is not often with other farangs. I much prefer the life of a butterfly and I like trying new things. Two nights ago, I met a great guy from BoyzBoyzBoyz that I adored and I spent some time with him. Last night, I met a guy from Krazy Dragon and spent some quality time with him. I have never been one to have only one guy. For me, this does not work. Everyone has different things that work for them. I know many farangs that are looking for that one special guy. I guess deep down, I am too. But, I am looking for a few good men and not just one. Life in Thailand is paradise and it is this because of the limitless possibilities.

Well, I have heard this in the past many times. I also have a good friend who has a family member convicted of the same thing. there is no reduction. However, for every month he paid 20k baht to the "people in charge" he was released and didn't have to stay in for that month. This happened for almost a year before the family ran out of money.

No not yet. I have contacted 4 law firms so far and have gotten no response from them on the issue. GayPattaya has been very helpful with advice and I am following up on some of his leads. Other than that, no one on this board gave any suggestions. I made a post to ThaiVisa and it the post was closed that day as they said they didn't want the censors closing them down. I am open to suggestions.

I am new to the dog world. I am looking for a good Vet that also speaks english. Any suggestions? Thanks.

haha. No dear. It wasn't your virginity, I told you to stop touching my breasts and saying, "big moo". I get that enough from the Thai boys. I hate to hear it from others! "It is one of the superstitions of the human mind to have imagined that virginity could be a virtue." Voltaire (1694 - 1778)

Ba Humbug! I have been told I was the weakest link on the Xmas tree as I hate holidays. I am a scrooge! It was my idea of a joke. My apologies if it rubbed you the wrong way. It was not my intent. Perhaps tasteless on my part. But, last night I got rubbed the right way and was in a cheery mood.

I have been to this bar several times in the last few weeks. I have always been happy with my time there. The guys are friendly and there seems to be a few guys for all tastes. The fee is now 250 bath which I don't care for but I guess "the times they are a changing." I have been most impressed with Jimy Jim James lately. I have been there on a regular basis and it is always full of boys and customers. The owner is doing something right. Keep it up Jimy or Jim or James or whatever your name is. I had a good time in Kaos a few nights back. They still seem a bit slow on numbers but the last time or two I have been in it has been picking up. I hope the mamasan keeps getting new guys in there as this use to be my favorite bar in Sunee. The waiters are great and the owner is quiet but very friendly. Krazy Dragon continues to amaze me. They seemed packed very night I go. Tons of boys and plenty of customers. They had a party 2 nights about for the sexy butt contest. I didn't win but I did get an eye full of some amazing ASS. ComeIn Bar has added some new wait staff and as always, they are fresh and friendly.

Big C Scam Pattaya Big C SCAM! A "heads up" for you and any of you who may shop at Big C. Over the last month I became a victim of a clever scam while out shopping. Simply going out to get supplies has turned out to be quite traumatic. Don't be naive enough to think it couldn't happen to you. Here's how the scam works: Two handsome 18 or 19-year-old guys come over to your car as you are packing your shopping in the trunk. They both start wiping your windshield with a rag and Windex, then take off their t-shirts to dry the windshield. It is impossible not to look at their lean muscular chest and ripped abs. When you thank them and offer them a tip, they say "No" and instead ask you for a ride to Beach Road You agree and they get in the back seat. On the way, they start having sex with each other. Then one of them climbs over into the front seat and performs oral sex on you, while the other one steals your wallet. I had my wallet stolen May 4th, 9th, 10th, twice on the 15th, three times just yesterday, and very likely again this upcoming weekend. Again - please beware!!

I have now had IP Star Satellite system for over a week. It is fast, reliable and I am very happy with it. The dish is small and the only time the net is slow is went it is cloudy and rainy. Other than that, I get very fast access and it has been excellent. It is not good for VOIP. I have tried both Vonage and Skype with it and neither work well. I think the delay time makes the phone conversation fuzzy. Downloading from Itunes and other places is lightening speed for Thailand. It works very well when downloading movies or music. I had ADSL before and since I don't yet have a phone line this was my only option that worked. Truth is, it works better than my old ADSL line from TTT.

I am with you Cat. I really don

The Bars in Boyztown and Sunee have been hit or miss lately.

We are trying to get more information on our closure and the site. We will need to hire a law firm in order to do this.

I was sitting at Lek

It seems we have been taken under by the Cyber Inspector in Thailand.

I had a conversation with my Thai "boyfriends" last night. They seemed to prefer the word boyfriend. However, after much talk, they came up with a new word that I think fit what I was looking for. Sponsor Yes, that is right. Sponsor. I like it. It does not have negative connotations for me and they seemed to agree it says more than just fuck buddy or friend. And, perhaps appropriate?

What I have seen done many times is to use a cell phone and bluetooth to connect to the internet. If you have a GPRS compatible phone, and your phone and computer both have bluetooth, simply go to the link the bluetooth together and you have instant internet. Often the speed is better than dial up. If you don't have this, get a PCMI care that allows you to put a sim in it. DTAC and 12Call both have internet packages. Then, you have the ability to have your computer use the network. The PCMI Sony Erickson card is good and is about 5k baht. The Sony Store on TutCom Floor 1 has these options. DTAC is on 2nd Floor at Carrofour and will set the sim up for you if you want. Good luck!

First off, I have not even met one of my neighbors. It is a very restricted community. The seem to come and go in cars and drive into their carport, shut the door and not come out again. I was beginning to wonder if I lived somewhere where there were no other humans. I still have not met any. I saw one coming home last week in a car and I chased it. Security tackled me before I got to their door. I would say the next day I looked like Rodney King did the day after. But, that may not be the case. I did break a fingernail. Jep. Also, while I am no Martha Stewart, I can bake just a little. Last night I cooked a mean spagetti. The Thai boys that live with me ate it with slow glee. After a few White Russians, they devored it to the last drop. It is amazing how much better things taste with a bit of alcohol.

I tend to agree with most of your statement. But, in this case, they came to an agreement. The agreement was breached by the Thai Boy. The agreement was then invalidated by the breach. I didn't see it as treating the boy like a piece of meat. I saw it more as a smart move on the farangs part. He knew there would be trouble ahead. Why spend more money in order to come to the same conclusion? That being said, the Thai boy was a great catch. It appears they both missed out on a good thing. But, what could have happened could have been easily avoided if the Thai boy had not wanted to try to get another 1k baht short time. But, that is just my opinion and I am sure it is not the popular one.

Very well put!

I was watching TV the other day and a mafia movie was on. The guy was in love but wanted to tell his new lover about his past life. She stopped him and said, "what happened in the past is the past. It is what happened since the day you met me that is important." If we all come to the table with this mentality I think we are a lot better off. People will become the person you treat them. If respect and love is shown, often they will respond accordingly. When I was into the NYC escort scene I had many customers tell boys that before they met them all they were was a whore. Once that is said, those words cannnot be taken back. If you treat someone like a hooker, that is what you will get. If you treat them like a friend you are likely to get that in return. My Thai friend was treated very well. But, it was new to him. The treatment was new. The possibility of a new life was dazzling. He made a bad choice. Hopefully, he will learn from that and not make others.

OMG Do you mean all these years of telling my family I had different roommates in a few different countries that they actuallly knew the truth? I hope I am now able to cope with the family Xmas party. Do you think when I took my ladyboy boyfriend home one year that they actually knew it was not a lady? I have to rethink my next trip home to meet the family. Thank you for the heads up Cat!

Last night I had a Thai friend I have known for a while to my place. He is sweet and adorable. He is also very sexy and intelligent. He is a great combination of many things. He came to me for advice. I was hoping he had come to me for more than just advice but I take what I can get. He is a student in Bangkok and only comes to Pattaya when he has a long vacation. He met a farang who he took a liking to and vice versa. They were only together for less than one week. The farang told him that he would take him off from the bars permanently and he would not have to work his regular job when he returned to university in 2 weeks. The boy was happy. The farang offered to pay for tuition of 80k baht per year, a monthly stipend of 30k baht and take care of all other expenses related to living in Bangkok. In return, the farange got weekends and the only requirement was for him to spend 2 days on weekends with him and to never go with another customer again. The deal was set and all was great with both parties. The boy went back to his bar to get his salary for the month as was told another customer was waiting for him and it was one of his regulars. He decided to see him one last time and went off from the bar. According to the boy, the farange that had offered to take care of him had paid his off for the bar for that night and had given him 3k baht to be with his friends. Since this was a regular customer he didn't want to be rude and say no. He went with the customer. The farang found out about it and said to him, "Here is 1k baht for you and I wish you a good life." The boy was heartbroken and the tears flowed. When I spoke to the boy, he was still sad and he said that this was the opportunity he had been waiting for. It was his chance for a good life with someone he had a good time with. When I asked him why he went customer after having such a sweet deal presented to him, he said, he did not want to be rude. He also confessed that he went to an area of town that he didn't think the new "boyfriend" would see him. In truth, the new "boyfriend" had someone see him and then confronted the boy the next day. He admitted his mistake and said he was sorry. To the farang, he was no longer interested in a relationship with someone he could not trust. To me, I have tried to instill the value of honest in all of my "boyfriends." It is a hard concept for many of them. The nature of the business is often to tell what you think others want to hear. When you run across an exception to that rule, you don't know what to do and you don't know how to handle the situation. I have one Thai boyfriend that has been living with me for one year now. He is not the perfect boy in any sense. He is sexy. He is funny. He is sweet and he has one of the biggest cocks in Pattaya. But, he is not gay and I much prefer someone with me that is gay. He has made it with me so long for one reason. When he tells me something, I believe it. He has proven this to me over and over. When he has something that I don't want to hear, he still tells the truth. To me, this is far more valuable than other qualities. I once asked him why he never lied to me. He said it was simple. When he first moved in with me I told him as long as he told me the truth that I would be OK. He said he believed me. I told him that he was right. I have been through my fair share of other relationships since and yet this one is still with me. Why? It is not the fact that when he shoots a load, it goes over his head and hits the wall behind the bed. It is not the fact he used to win big cock contests. It is not the fact the he is fun to be with. It is the fact that no matter what he does or says, what he tells me is the truth. I sat in a bar last year with an English man who wanted to meet a dancer. He looked to the boy and said, "my friend tells me you have a beautiful ladyboy." I had not told him any such thing. The boy nodded his head and said yes. The man then gave him 100 baht and said, "Go away. I don't want boyfriend with ladyboy." The boy was crushed. His honesty, even though by trickery, caused him to loose a potential client. I called him over and apologized and made it clear that this guy was not my friend and I had only met the guy that day and I did not tell him anything about the ladyboy. I tipped the boy well and looked at the man and said, "you are a asshole. I hope you get the "boyfriend" you deserve" and I walked out of the bar and never spoke to him again. I see him occasionally and he has a "boyfriend." The boyfriend has one of the most beautiful ladyboys in Pattaya. But, he said the right words to the man and the believed him. The game continues. It is often hard to believe what someone tells you. I have learned to believe little of anything I am told by Thai boys and by Farangs. Most of what comes out of their mouth is fabrication or fantasy talk. But, on that rare occasion when an opportunity of a lifetime presents itself, all the past games and lies will factor into what decision each party makes.

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