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Yes, you do. But, I show you as a Free member. Can you tell me what provider you used to upgrade to Silver?

For me, I was lucky. There is a park in Sao Paulo, Brazil that is known for gays and I use to go there often. I met a wild and crazy guy and we got inside his car to mess around. No cops. But, his BF walked up and needless to say, I either left a bit afraid or it ended up in a fabulous 3 way. Hint: I didn't go back to the place for many years.

Sorry Vinapu, but it sounds like you may know this from first hand experience. Can you share the story with us?

What am I missing in that link? All is shows for me is google ads.

Nice profile and sexy photos! http://www.boytoy.com/boytoy-profile/XXXKingXXX/

Joey Arias. That is a name from the past. I saw it with him also. But, I use to frequent Bar D'O in the Village when he ran it with female impersonators. It was a fun time!

I have been to Turkey 6 times. Each time has been great and I love the country, the people and the guys. I have always had plenty of sex and no issue with meeting guys online. As for Malaysia, the same is true. I have had great experiences there. Z, why is Sweden so intolerant?

1. No, he does not have that right. 2. No, it is not protected. 3. I have made a full back up of Alen's old site. It took me less than 2 minutes per issue. I'll be posting it here soon. If you want, I give you permission to them take it and use it as neither of us have the right to do that.

If it is used in this way, is that OK?

I disagree. But, I like the word. I have no issue with it.

I am glad these charges were dropped. I hope they also decide to drop things against Jeffrey.

I remember my first trip to Thailand and I took a boy from Future Boys to Pattaya and Chiang Mai with me. I met him at the bar and I paid his off for each day of my vacation. But, (newcomer stupidity) I paid the off to him to give to the bar so he would not get in trouble. This is what I thought I should do. Whether or not he paid the bar for the time was totally up to him. There have been many times when I have taken a boy from a bar to live with me for a long period of time and I paid the off for 10 days and then stopped. I figured they introduced me and they deserved some fee for this. But, I have not done that in years as I found out that often when I paid those fees that the manasan would keep the money and not even give to the bar. So, I have learned some things over the years. Today, if I met someone from a bar and saw them in the afternoon or even or even for a long time, I always give them enough money to say, if you like your bar and want to give them the off fee that is fine, but up to you and I tip them enough to cover that cost. This way, they can make the decision as to pay the bar, go in that night, take a night off, or whatever. I have become less worried about the bar getting their share as they often screw over the boys any chance they get anyway.

Maybe they just liked me better than they liked you?

And, as now I have dragged you into the gutter with me and we have rolled around for a bit throwing shit at each other, let me say once again: I am OK with what the boys do. If you are OK with taking Alen's work and using it, go for it. Why even care what I have to say? That said, I still believe everything I said. I know you believe everything you said. We disagree. So, in the desire for peace, I really hope you didn't take this disagreement personally. I hold no ill will at all for being called a fucker and a fool. I felt like getting into a taxi in NYC and only giving a 3 dollar tip. Best of luck to you in all your endeavors. Seriously!

I've seen less per hour. If you do a 1500 baht short time for 10 hours, can you tell me what the rate per hour is? I know you don't speak English well. But, math is usually done the same around the world. (to help even further, 150 per hour) Damn, your boys are charging a premium. They must be high end!

You are a fool. Every escort agency in NYC has the same terms. Do you honestly believe that 400 an hour is just for time and companionship? Get real! You are most welcome to mention your sites as you seem to in your signature anyway. Why would that bother me in the least? I want your friends to get work and to ply their trade. I am all for that as well as every act that gives a Thai boy the chance to earn money. It is good for them. I want that to continue. Your guys work in bars for sex. Your sites advertise them as tour guides. I know people who have hired them and fucked them. I am OK with that. But, don't tell me you are uncomfortable with the word fucking.

p.s. you lost any moral high ground you thought you had with your last 2 posts. Welcome to the gutter.

No, but I do think if the word is rude for you then you do not need to be creating websites that deal with moneyboys (or moneyboys fucking) in Thailand. Isn't that fucking simple? I mean, hey, you create sites for prostitutes and what do they do for money? They fuck. I don't find it fucking offensive at all. But, if you do, may I suggest the Betty Crocker website?

How about? "but cause you are just fuckin rude." Is that called pot calling kettle black? And, just as a side note, I use the word fucking all the time. I'm a New Yorker for most of my life and using that is not offensive to me. And, again, I do not think I was being rude until I was asked are you kidding? How many times do I need to repeat myself before it is acceptable to use the word fucking? 2 times? 4 times? 6 times? Guidelines please. I fucking want to know!

I tried to have a very peaceful and calm discussion with you. But, you didn't like my answer. And, I am rude for that? LOL Rude and ignorant? Well, it is good to know that you put in unreasonable in there as well. Might I inquire as to whether or not you are in the GOP? You seem to have developed some of their debate skills.

You said, "you think I should pay to BF? Are you kidding on me?" My answer is simple. No, I am not kidding you. You fucking asked a question about paying for his works. I gave what I thought he would want. You may accept that or not. Up to you. But, don't get upset when you get an honest response from a question you asked. My mother always said, "don't ask a question to something you don't want an answer for." That said, your statements about boyfriend are absurd. You honestly think a Thai boy would know how to keep any of that up? Really? If so, you are really in need of some Thailand shock therapy. The fact that you feel no obligation to the BF is understandable. You feel under no obligation to anyone apparently. If you can find something and recover it and profit from it, it is OK in your mind. That is up to you (spoken in Thai accent). Tells me what I need to know. And, I hope you don't think I'm being rude as I am not trying to be. But, I hate when someone asks a question and then gets upset when they don't get the answer they wanted. Perhaps I should have said, "Oh, Moses, you are so wonderful for doing this. Thank you. I am sure Alen would love you bringing back his reports. You are so kind to do this so selflessly. You are wonderful and kind. You are a true asset to the gay Thailand community. I know you want nothing in return for this and the week you spent on this could have been spent doing other important deeds. You are amazing. Thank you for being so great." LOL Nope, that is not my response. But, others will tell you that I'm sure. Just not me. So, don't ask.

Not every farang would be at the Thai friend's bedside. I would for sure. But, please don't think we are in the majority. When the going gets tough, many get going really fast. I have seen many many Thai boys died in the hospital and their farang left them when things got rough. I have even had to help pay for a few of those hospital stays. So, while I know you may think you are right, I politely disagree.

GB, I am so sorry for your loss. I think I know the one you are talking about and he was a very nice young man. As for my situation, I support 2 boys full time and have for over 10 years. Both are great and wonderful to me and I choose to give them money every week and pay for school and all the other shit I do for them. When I am sick, one of them looks after me. The other one is a little shit and does only what I ask. But, I can look at both of them and say that if I were sick and dying that I hope that someone would not look at them and expect them to do more than they do. I pay them. It is a salary. I do this as I adore them. But, I would never expect them to be 24/7 caregivers for a long period of time. Most of the boys we are all with are country boys. They do not have good examples of what is the right thing in these situations. I would roll over in my grave if someone were upset with one of the 2 boys that I have truly loved and cared for for so many years based on the fact they didn't want to change my underwear or clean me or whatever. My life with them has been wonderful and that is the end of it. The rest is not important to me. And, I would not expect anything of them. That does not mean I don't think they won't be there. I think they will. But, only for what they can do and when they can do it. And, if my friends get upset with them based on what happens then, I'll be disappointed in them. But, I am a realist. I know what my money is good for and what it isn't and I'll be sure to have enough money to cover myself in my time of need. A good friend once owned a very successful escort service in NYC and he always told his clients, "never fall in love with a boy based on money as that will always be what the relationship is about." I am no fool. Anyone who think that the boys stay with someone 2 or 3 times their age because they like older men or someone out of shape because they like fat men, well, they are the fools. It is a relationship based on money. The end.

Not to be rude, but who wants to take care of someone in their dying days? Not many. I had an aunt died a few years back that was beloved by the entire family and only 3 out of 15 of us took time to help her in the last years of her life even though she helped every one of us. Many could not do it and it did not mean they didn't love her or she them. Some are just incapable of watching this happen to someone and I don't begrudge them what they had when they were livelier.

He never wrote for profit. But, look, your sites are not for free either. Yes, they are free to look at. But, they are selling services and other things and thus for profit. You may not make cash off of them, but your intent is for others to make cash. Your new site SGT is not a profile making site but it has been sold for thousands of dollars in the past in order to make a profit for someone. Your new partnership may enhance their ability to make a profile. Great. I applaud that. I have no problem with capitalism, socialism or communism. Mr. Briggs had a boyfriend who ran a local restaurant. I think a good gesture for his memory would be just giving him 20,000 baht. I know that would make Mr. Briggs happy!