Thanks for taking the effort to type this lengthy advice 😅 I'm sure I'll bear some of these pointers in mind when I'm there. I'm just worried if I were to stay there with just a drink and not ordering more, they will keep coming up to me to get me to order more HAHAHA. I do want to take my time to let my gaze wander around the boys etc. And part of the reason for wanting to be there earlier before the show actually starts is 1) the cute ones might get snatched up fast 2) their attention will be mainly on me (assuming I'm one of the first few customers for the night LOL? Of course, like what some of you pointed out, those off-able boys may not be there yet but I'm actually open to any one that catches my eye, be it the servers, the cook etc HAHAHA
While I understand that English is not their main language, I do have google translate readily available. However, I did encounter one boy (from Grindr) who promised to kiss but when he turned up, gave half-hearted ones and left it at that. I'm a sucker for kisses. Which is why I'm not sure if they will deliver what they promise even if you ask them upfront. If they don't deliver, do we take a cut from the agreed price? Is that ethical?
Once again, thank you for your inputs and I do hope I will find time to update here when I'm there. And if there are forumers out there who wants to have a drink when I'm there, we can always meet up