Unfortunately, I only read your post today, I'm very sorry. I would be happy to give you some tips for your visit to Chiang Mai on the subject of the gay scene. I can particularly recommend Adam's Apple Club in the north of the city, in Santitham. But I'm happy to recommend other gay places in Chiang Mai, but unfortunately not many of them are left after the pandemic. However, we hope that this will change in the future and that more gay places in Chiang Mai will establish themselves again.