Olddaddy

Krazy Dragon? Long closed if that's the one?

I guess in all or your right especially when it's a Daddy Son type relationship.

Respect to you 💙💚💚

I am of the understanding that many ,not all,but many farangs in Pattaya those living & visiting that are in long distance relationship are with commercial boys ,what is the probality of that ? I was at a few beer bars last month in Pattaya watching a few boys taking live to their long distance farang on these video chat sites WhatsApp & Line etc ,I'm guessing these are involving some financial

I'm confused Peter ,are you saying you don't believe in carrying a gun there? I guess they would have a law that you apply for a licence though first checking criminal history?

Your right Scott, very hard job to do working in aged care, and a lot of foreign workers take these jobs , but I'm so glad because Filipino nurses were wonderful to my late mother,they have so much patience 💙

It's always best not to have a opinion about anything,it gets you out of being involved in anything and most importantly...keeps you out of trouble 👍

Scott, As far as I know the owners of The Corner Bar went back to the USA ,can't remember their names lovely guys ,seem to be a father & son but they were there 2009-2011, bought it off another American guy who was also a nice social guy, fantastic guys and great bar 💙👍👍 Neal died April 2014 ,who used to own a Go Go ( can't remember the name) died it's rumoured on a plane back to America,he was around 180kg and used to own another gay forum board which I believe still operates. Monty who owned various businesses in around Sunee always reminded me of Fagin in Oliver Twist,often street type guys he had around his bars , he ended up dying in 2013 in Pattaya ( there were some rumours it was chicken poisoning delivered by another bar owner😂) and I believe he is buried in a temple somewhere. Another guy (john) was a real real character, from England originally he was a regular on gay forums I think he had the handle LMtu ? Or similar a real character,you new guys would of loved him ,he would of found you ,he would be walking around Sunee Plaza a lot ,a very very funny guy , life of the party 😂 But I always checked my pockets after shaking his hand 😂 There was a lot lot more "characters" in that era 💚

😂Neal He was always very polite to me,but they the bar owners were characters in those days you must admit ,must be 2014 he left? Now I guess you really couldn't name any bar owners. Times change ,there was a lot more "social" among farangs 15 years ago It started more or less to go when The Corner Bar changed hands,and a few other bar owners disappeared and of course many of the friendly farangs died TJ , Richard ,Monty, , etc a lot more The corner bar was great place to meet many farangs ,I forget the owners name now, lovely guy always used to buy me a wine in the bar next door for some reason 😂it was a fantastic social bar ,I remember him and his younger friend who I heard got married later in the Philippines.

Yes I'm too afraid to travel to America on what I see on TV I'm thinking if I lived there would I carry a gun, and I'm against guns but that may be a turning point living there 😳

That's true , I think Filipino boys are more patient and skilled than Thai guys who seem to be very inpatient, "how much you pay me" attitude . You see living alone can be lonely in places like Pattaya too Some of you live alone now in farang land and are older and not much family left and some of you say "oh I'm happy to be alone",but are you really ,don't you crave some one to really love, Getting back onto Filipino boys as boyfriends they seem to be more caring,a lot are nurses in the West in nursing homes etc caring for elderly and great at housework and hardworking Thais seem to not go for those sort of jobs and in my opinion not as hardworking,I could be wrong 😊 But if I was old lonely ( which I am😂) I would concentrate more on Philippines. But anyway who wants a boyfriend 🙂 not all of us I guess

Do any of you guys have boyfriends as in real love? Be it open or closed relationship where by open I mean you both can have sex with other guys . After being in Thailand millions of times I have come to the conclusion it's more impossible to find a real boyfriend there compared to somewhere like the Philippines. I got lonely in my last few weeks in Thailand (jomtien complex) I started to feel like I wanted a real companion not a money boy . I guess you guys who are loners are sort of "accepted" that,that you will be alone and maybe even trick yourself that you don't need anyone I don't know if I could live alone without a companion again,I did it for years before though. But let's talk about a real BF , not a paid BF . I always remember listening to a Pattaya expat last June who spoke to me about this . He told me some of the expats were lonely and had money boys live with them for free and called them boyfriends,I guess because they needed a companion to be with them. But that's not real love I wonder how many of you can move to say somewhere like Pattaya and retire there before you crave real companion (boyfriend) and then anyone will do as you don't wish to be alone sitting on a balcony in jomtien by yourself after finishing with the moneyboys . I think Bangkok maybe different if your looking for a boyfriend,I don't know but I know Pattaya is not the place Like I said if I wanted love ,I probably look at the Philippines again where it seems to me going by my experience Filipino young guys are really into Daddies. Now maybe I'm wrong ,maybe Filipino guys maybe just more patient than Thai guys ,but many Filipino guys seem to really luv older farangs Many of you must be lonely though,as you get older and your preference is younger guys .

I saw "HOME" bar in jomtien seemed to be popular among farangs so that maybe worth going to , friendly crowd, friendly owner

Ben yes, I prefer Pattaya as it's less "chaotic" ,but some guys on here just love the hustle & bustle of he City of Bangkok. I think the Bangkok boys are more full time student types rather than the usually full time money boys of Pattaya. Yes prices are usually cheaper in Pattaya ,of course depending where you shop at

Shocked at the report Salman Rushdie has been injured in a attack. Regardless of his beliefs I really despise violence,just because someone has a different opinion to yours is no excuse to use violence to hurt someone. Apparently he had a 4.2 million bounty on his head so money may have been the motivation for the attack rather than beliefs . He is reported to have lost a eye and on a ventilator. Terrible things humans do to each other

Scott, don't take that personally , posters are just having a joke , and a bit of banter 👍😅 You must admit you found some of the posts funny too,the one where the front of the plane arrives first😂 No it's good fun , nothing personal 👍

Scott , sometime ago you wrote you didn't enjoy Pattaya enough to live there and I believe you stayed one year. May I ask you,only if you wish to share that is and are comfortable with sharing ,what your experience was in that one year.

Absolutely not boring at all 💛💙💚Respect & love to you

How true 🤣

https://www.pattayamail.com/latestnews/news/obituary-dolly-john-humphreys-400990 I hope that link works,The Dolly sisters to me were wonderful,always raising money for great causes especially HIV AIDS charities . Unfortunately both have passed ,sadly relatively young.💛💚💙

I wonder how many you came out to your parents? Or brothers & sisters? Did any of you,? Was you then shunned back in those times? My late father was a wharf worker,I doubt I would be alive if I had told him. Unfortunately my brothers & sisters found out I was gay in January 2015 when I took my ex BF to my mum's funeral,they have never been in contact since . I always remember when I was young my older brother coming home after a weekend (1970's) saying he had gone "poofter bashing" with his mates , terrible times for acceptance back then,even police participated in this in those days. At least most of the Asian countries are more accepting if our lifestyle,if not the younger generation are.

Fantastic advice ,hope you don't mind I will screenshot this and keep it👍thankyou ,

Interesting you say that ,I have a work colleague who is gay and his twin brother too😳 I was very shocked when he told me that

Peter may I ask what your career was ?

There's certain jobs probably you never sort of retire in, Doctor ,lawyer etc ,my local GP is 76 and works twice a week. I have a lawyer that does general stuff for me ,Wills,signatures etc ,he is 67