Olddaddy

I guess some of you got ..how do I put it ..." Too involved personally" with the boys ? Would that be right? You overstepped the professional boundaries of a money boy? You went beyond the business boundaries and made it personally for them, I have doubts though they had the same feeling as you and was more for business. Some of you I guess crave that boyfriend experience but your dealing with money boys Last month in jomtien I hired the services of a guy on grindr who I known for years ,he told me often of lonely farang who would be regulars who would just hire him to come over and eat with them or watch a movie together,they would call him their friend in which reality he wasn't , I guess you could say they overstepped that professional boundary

Yes I can't wait to read your report. I'm planning on Turkey next year.

You sound like a fit bod Daddy💜😉

Workout 2 hours a day ????😳😳😳

I noticed a lot of Filipino here in Australia working as aged care nurses in nursing homes,I would say at least 80% ,I guess some jobs the natives don't like 👍

Your right Max 😉 Many of the Filipino guys I had last month in the Philippines had as you say ,didn't seem to be cut professionally, probably done in the province by the head of the village 😂 I didnt dare to ask them ,I just wanted their young hard dick pumping my old daddy butt😉

Great point Peter 👍👍 I guess they want them because if their English language skills

No you bring up a good point !👍 But I absolutely love circumsized guys ,I'm not myself but I think it's much cleaner they are cut .🥒 I wish I was cut ,I have to constantly pull the skin back and wash even after peeing . Cut guys are much cleaner to suck in my opinion

The only way to find out if he is free and really likes you is to go to the bar and off/bar fine him from the bar, I would do it otherwise you will never know and regret it ! 👍👍 Life is short ,you have nothing to lose and more to gain especially if it's true love 💜

Bro it was a joke ! See the laughing emoji

Oh ok ...I thought you were picking on my precious loving beautiful sexy Filipino boys👍🤣

Non thais?

Filipinos are I think the highest World's outsourcing of workers . They even have a special departure area at the airport for them and the airlines have special flight rates for them with a "overseas worker" membership card . Filipinos are in the majority fantastic loyal to the boss workers, mostly into hospitality jobs,hotel front desk,cleaning and nursing/Carer type jobs .

My interpretation and please don't take it the wrong way .. is because you don't "look him" which means I guess talk to him / hire his services Obviously he is not in "love " with you ,he is a business man but he sounds a bit inpatient as you are not showing him interest. I guess this is a type of "psychology" to make you feel guilty? And I guess thinking someone "loves"or cares for you ( I don't mean you personally but that's what my interpretation is that he is trying to project ) sort of a guilt trip . He is using psychological business tactics😂 ( if there is such a thing)

Barry, how would you react say if you went to The Venue in jomtien and the cabaret was on, you notice it's busy ,would you be able to walk to a table with other farangs seated and sit there with them ? Or would u just leave ?

Your not to say that😂 , it's transphobic? Is that the word?

I hope they get your baggage right, I had the same thing and they sent my baggage to the first stop instead of the final as the plane was delayed 🙄

I think many with social anxiety can get hot sweats , etc when they get into crowded buses or trains

Have you tried the Philippines?

I may be wrong but I personally and I said personally find Filipino boys more loyal and seem to be into Daddy's ,that's my anyway

But the illness Social Anxiety makes you think people are watching you and judging you ,I know it's sounds weird. But yes your goal was to visit boys only,but if your a long termer or expat you would want to talk to other same farang sometime as well. A social anxiety person would find that difficult Can you walk into a crowded beer bar and strike up a conversation? I'm not talking specifically about you Peter ,but I wonder how many of you use this excuse ,I'm only there for the boys" because deep down you do have some aspects of social anxiety and scared others may reject you

I think social anxiety though can limit your life Don't take this the wrong way but I gathered you too Scott are more introverted type person , N ot that being introverted has anything really to do with Social Anxiety but it can limit your life because your sort of scared to say go to a beer bar and grab a seat inside among the crowd A few times I walked past the House bar in jomtien complex to see a few farangs sitting playing bingo , I really just couldn't bring myself to walk in and shout hello everyone I'm playing too or something so I just kept walking, it would be different if I was drunk of course 🥳🥳🥳

I want to talk about something which many of you probably have never noticed ....unless you have it . And that's called social anxiety. It's a term that the meaning for me is people who are scared to mingle, people who think others are being negative to them ,look it's hard to explain actually But I saw this a lot in the gay community in Pattaya compared to the straight community,meaning if you walk around the straight areas Soi Buckhao etc you will see many of the farangs together and mingling. Then walk around jomtien & Sunee you will see many farangs sitting apart by themselves at tables ,in fact The Venue stopped letting one person sit by themselves during a show I don't find the gay farangs as friendly as the straight farangs in Pattaya,in fact most of my 6 weeks I spent in Soi Buckhao mixing with straight farangs,now that could be my social anxiety kicking in and not really true !!!! Sure there was some friendly guys in a few bars in jomtien complex but even of a few seemed to have social anxiety. They were not talking,head down in their phones ,scared to look up ,sitting by themselves Even I have this previously and it's not easy to cure I still have it actually It's not meaning the same as introvert or extrovert , It means if one for example was walking thru jomtien complex he would think everyone is staring at him,he wouldn't feel ok sitting amongst these farangs ,some farang would look at him and he would think the Farang are judging him. They are thinking negative of him, a social anxiety person wouldn't go into busy places or like to walk through crowds . Look I'm going to be brutally honest, I had to have a few drinks to go into busy areas such as jomtien complex a few times ,I didn't feel relaxed to brave the crowds and music ,not that there was any crowds just I didn't feel ok. Music was loud , people walking past trying to bump into me, not moving out the way etc but I did feel safer say than Walking Street That first bar on the left as you walk into jomtien complex used to be my regular bar at the beginning of the night to have a few drinks BEFORE I walked down that complex before I braved that walk I know your thinking I'm crazy but it's a illness ,you thinking I never heard this before,but many have it just they cover it up by getting drunk or avoidance It's a illness many don't understand

I know Vinapu speaks a lot on weight control and overeating . Can I ask many if you as you get into your senior years are you still taking care of yourself And what I mean by that is ,you guys past 50 are you eating a good diet ,doing any exercise and no smoking ,limited drinking or have you let yourself go? Look I'm going to he honest ,if I was past 80yo I probably wouldn't care what I ate or drank but you guys going past 50 are you taking care of your body ? How many of you actually go to the gym to lift weights? Or do swimming ? I wonder how many runners are here or cyclists ? Or be honest you stopped exercising.

True 🤣 🤣🤣 They offered me free counselling at the sexual health clinic but I declined ,I'm too old now to change and I told the doctor my motto Grow old disgracefully 👍👍