Olddaddy

The only way to find out if he is free and really likes you is to go to the bar and off/bar fine him from the bar, I would do it otherwise you will never know and regret it ! 👍👍 Life is short ,you have nothing to lose and more to gain especially if it's true love 💜

Bro it was a joke ! See the laughing emoji

Oh ok ...I thought you were picking on my precious loving beautiful sexy Filipino boys👍🤣

Non thais?

Filipinos are I think the highest World's outsourcing of workers . They even have a special departure area at the airport for them and the airlines have special flight rates for them with a "overseas worker" membership card . Filipinos are in the majority fantastic loyal to the boss workers, mostly into hospitality jobs,hotel front desk,cleaning and nursing/Carer type jobs .

My interpretation and please don't take it the wrong way .. is because you don't "look him" which means I guess talk to him / hire his services Obviously he is not in "love " with you ,he is a business man but he sounds a bit inpatient as you are not showing him interest. I guess this is a type of "psychology" to make you feel guilty? And I guess thinking someone "loves"or cares for you ( I don't mean you personally but that's what my interpretation is that he is trying to project ) sort of a guilt trip . He is using psychological business tactics😂 ( if there is such a thing)

Barry, how would you react say if you went to The Venue in jomtien and the cabaret was on, you notice it's busy ,would you be able to walk to a table with other farangs seated and sit there with them ? Or would u just leave ?

Your not to say that😂 , it's transphobic? Is that the word?

I hope they get your baggage right, I had the same thing and they sent my baggage to the first stop instead of the final as the plane was delayed 🙄

I think many with social anxiety can get hot sweats , etc when they get into crowded buses or trains

Have you tried the Philippines?

I may be wrong but I personally and I said personally find Filipino boys more loyal and seem to be into Daddy's ,that's my anyway

But the illness Social Anxiety makes you think people are watching you and judging you ,I know it's sounds weird. But yes your goal was to visit boys only,but if your a long termer or expat you would want to talk to other same farang sometime as well. A social anxiety person would find that difficult Can you walk into a crowded beer bar and strike up a conversation? I'm not talking specifically about you Peter ,but I wonder how many of you use this excuse ,I'm only there for the boys" because deep down you do have some aspects of social anxiety and scared others may reject you

I think social anxiety though can limit your life Don't take this the wrong way but I gathered you too Scott are more introverted type person , N ot that being introverted has anything really to do with Social Anxiety but it can limit your life because your sort of scared to say go to a beer bar and grab a seat inside among the crowd A few times I walked past the House bar in jomtien complex to see a few farangs sitting playing bingo , I really just couldn't bring myself to walk in and shout hello everyone I'm playing too or something so I just kept walking, it would be different if I was drunk of course 🥳🥳🥳

I want to talk about something which many of you probably have never noticed ....unless you have it . And that's called social anxiety. It's a term that the meaning for me is people who are scared to mingle, people who think others are being negative to them ,look it's hard to explain actually But I saw this a lot in the gay community in Pattaya compared to the straight community,meaning if you walk around the straight areas Soi Buckhao etc you will see many of the farangs together and mingling. Then walk around jomtien & Sunee you will see many farangs sitting apart by themselves at tables ,in fact The Venue stopped letting one person sit by themselves during a show I don't find the gay farangs as friendly as the straight farangs in Pattaya,in fact most of my 6 weeks I spent in Soi Buckhao mixing with straight farangs,now that could be my social anxiety kicking in and not really true !!!! Sure there was some friendly guys in a few bars in jomtien complex but even of a few seemed to have social anxiety. They were not talking,head down in their phones ,scared to look up ,sitting by themselves Even I have this previously and it's not easy to cure I still have it actually It's not meaning the same as introvert or extrovert , It means if one for example was walking thru jomtien complex he would think everyone is staring at him,he wouldn't feel ok sitting amongst these farangs ,some farang would look at him and he would think the Farang are judging him. They are thinking negative of him, a social anxiety person wouldn't go into busy places or like to walk through crowds . Look I'm going to be brutally honest, I had to have a few drinks to go into busy areas such as jomtien complex a few times ,I didn't feel relaxed to brave the crowds and music ,not that there was any crowds just I didn't feel ok. Music was loud , people walking past trying to bump into me, not moving out the way etc but I did feel safer say than Walking Street That first bar on the left as you walk into jomtien complex used to be my regular bar at the beginning of the night to have a few drinks BEFORE I walked down that complex before I braved that walk I know your thinking I'm crazy but it's a illness ,you thinking I never heard this before,but many have it just they cover it up by getting drunk or avoidance It's a illness many don't understand

I know Vinapu speaks a lot on weight control and overeating . Can I ask many if you as you get into your senior years are you still taking care of yourself And what I mean by that is ,you guys past 50 are you eating a good diet ,doing any exercise and no smoking ,limited drinking or have you let yourself go? Look I'm going to he honest ,if I was past 80yo I probably wouldn't care what I ate or drank but you guys going past 50 are you taking care of your body ? How many of you actually go to the gym to lift weights? Or do swimming ? I wonder how many runners are here or cyclists ? Or be honest you stopped exercising.

True 🤣 🤣🤣 They offered me free counselling at the sexual health clinic but I declined ,I'm too old now to change and I told the doctor my motto Grow old disgracefully 👍👍

I take it no baggage then? Saves you waiting at the carousel

Sometimes I think punishment really doesn't help stop people from committing crime Maybe psychological counseling would be better 💜

Last month when I was in Pattaya I walked around near the Pattaya police station in beach road Very interesting building,I wished I could of filmed it but I felt a bit apprehensive. On the top you see a big managers office with balcony all done up nicely inside however on the side road you will see what looks like accommodation rooms for police The building looks small but is huge .

I guess it also depends on where you live , you have a better chance at the age group eg over 30yo. Potential boyfriend can't he everything you want him to be ,that would be impossible,it would be fantastic if we all could find our soulmate I wonder if anyone ever had found a real soulmate ?

Yes I have had Covid twice in the last 8 months so I'm hoping it's a connection and not HPV,in the last month I have taken antibiotics doxycycline without success and now on Cilicaine VK... I'm just hoping it's not HPV . I sucked a lot of dicks in the last few months, really deep throated a few and swallowed precum and a lot of young straight guys and one enormous young half Filipino arabic guy who was a straight 19yo I met in a gym in Cebu who had his girlfriend outside whilst he mouth fucked me in the toilets ,some if them really throat fucked me and I tried deep throat but I also rimmed a lot of young guys .

Even at 62 I now prefer free sex over paid sex . I'm not always successful but I had the most luck in the Philippines so I'm going back I got a little tired of business arrangements with money boys in Thailand, negotiate a price ,timing it,etc and it all seemed to be robotic ,and I got no satisfaction. After the Philippines getting a lot of free sex I went back to Thailand and back to the " how much you pay me" boys again,it wasn't sexually satisfying . But I guess some farangs may have the fantasy of paying boys to do things they don't really want and I don't mean that in a negative way,but after the Philippines I just wasn't that horny to spend money on hiring the services of a money boy.

Unfortunately the Philippines gets a bad rap on many forums . The only thing is ,it's not for lazy gay people,and I say gay because the straight scene is your face in regards to lady Go Go bars etc but the gay scene is not,you have to go look for it ,either by using the apps for both money & non money boys or find the gay bars and gay saunas yourself. Thailand it's in your face,no need to look for it ,its there ,much easier obviously. But your all missing out on cute Filipino boys particularly if your a bottom . A lot of free guys looking for sex and of course many are seeking boyfriend type of experiences I hated Manila but there are gay saunas there but I'm lazy and stingy I prefer meeting free guys on the apps and I get much more a success rate in the Philippines particularly in the outer cities such as Davao etc .

May I ask what country your in Vinapu