EscortJamahl

Fair enough. Unfortunently I didn't read your last post on puddies reviews as I wasn't able to give a final word. At this point, I'm just over it. But trust me, I've considered that. I've been doing that. However, I'll take your consideration of it and do it more on top of what I'm already doing. One of the things I'm realizing now, everyone in a service based business right now seems to be getting backlash for dealing directly with customers. People; mainly men, in America are just mad and overly entitled. Election Day/year should be banned because it's probably cost businesses billions in losses/productivity. I have witnessed too many times myself in resturaunts and stores, how men will use employees time to vent about politics, donald trump, or how and why it's bad customer service to run out of crispy chicken. I think about those same people going home and doing the same to us. Amd because of that, I realized I have to urgently make changes. They been made. For the first time ever, I'm enforcing and making it clear I'm charging hourly for texts, cancelling the same day or day of, and reviewing/blacklisting intentional flakes. No more free texts after 30 minutes. And people who bullshit will get fried like bacon, sliced like ham, and eviscerated like chitterlings for Christmas dinner (hyperbole). 0 tolerance for the crap from now on and going into 2017. Since then, even the most nervous client made himself show up this week. And all was good, saith the dude...

I agree. And it was unfortunate that such a thread seemed to have caused such a disagreement to transpire. I'm sure that was not the intention. I realize some people think they're reaping benefits off cutting someone down on the Internet. If it didn't cost so much, I'd have to break the screen of my 12.9 inch iPad Air pro with Retina display and 256 GB of data, and my foot would be across somebodies face sooner than later, and they'd be paying for me a new iPad. However, it seemed as though you were more invested than he was. We can't make people respect or feel the same about us by purchasing lunches and being their friend. My lessons from attending escort events in the past, and just in general in life...is people can put on a smile in your face, and curse you the very next day. Sometimes right in front of other people (won't name any names, but it's happened by you know who) I've learned that too many times, from enough escorts. That's why I have lost interest in attending any more luncheons or Palm Springs get togethers. If I do, it would be very reserved with no deep conversations or asking for advice or answering advice. Especially with other escorts...the bottom line is we are all competitors. It's that way by default. Ruth Chris and J Alexander can sit down and have dinner together, but they are still competitors. They may exchange information just to get ideas and clues from each other, but it's not likely they'll operate out of the same building.

That's really sweet of you to advise. However, I feel that contradicts a statement you made earlier in the week. You mentioned that if someone isn't a good enough entrepreneur in escorting, that they should "get a job" and have a boss tell them what to do. Is that not trying to change someone? There just isn't a job out there that wholly prepares someone to do the type of thing we do and the type of clients we come across. In addition, transitioning from a business like we do to the corporate world is not as easy a proposition as implied. Especially if one has been doing it for awhile. I also know more than enough friends who are struggling and doing awful even working normal jobs. They aren't getting enough hours, or they're underpaid, or going thru tumultuous relationships with their bosses and co-workers. I've met medication addicts or alcoholics because their jobs take so much out of them. Working Normal JOBS. So that piece of advise wasn't a grass is greener picture. It was more of you stepping out of your bounds to give unwarranted advise that was misguided and wasn't called for. Don't worry about that person. They were fine with or without your intervention. Maybe they are doing better off than they allude to, and take it more seriously than the the ones who contact do. Somewhere along the lines though, you allowed the putties from (the site that rhymes with putties) to warp your impression of someone who you know is a great guy with a solid work ethic and cares about only giving their best to their clients.

I'll be coming through Atlanta this month. Hope you're there during the week before Christmas when I'm passing through.