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Until it destroys his livelihood and he's banned from working in education. All it takes is one angry escort to call the Board of Education. I don't understand why any "teacher" would take such risks over the opportunity to blog about escort encounters. What is there to gain by being a "known" reviewer of escorts? Is Victor Powers happy with his review? Will Victor Powers be recommending the "reviewer" to other escorts? Why would any escort be interested in having sex with a "review" blogger? I suppose some escorts are dumb and might view the opportunity as free publicity. Smart escorts would run in the opposite direction, unless there was a guarantee of a great review. I just don't get it.

That's what all keepers-of-secrets like to believe. I mean no offense when I call that: denial. I apologize for my cynicism. It's based on life experience. People like to talk and gossip. It's human nature and it can't be controlled. The only way to control what people say about you behind your back, you must never show yourself to them. There are very few people in my life whom I trust 100%. In my circle of friends and loved ones, I think I am the most trustworthy. If you ask me to keep something private, I honor your wishes. I'm adamant about it based on all the betrayals I've experienced in life. I'm self-employed, and I have been for a very long time. I have the luxury of not caring what people think of me. However, my competitors can say what they want to say. They often make things up to gain the advantage. But my work always speaks for itself. To protect my business, I share no personal information. I made this decision decades ago when I left my corporate life. It was my corporate life that taught me the realities of human nature. When you have a "boss," all it takes is one liar, one enemy, one troublemaker, and you can find your business life turned upside down. Teaching can be a conservative business. It can also be competitive and political. It seems to me, the last thing a professional teacher would want to do is be associated with illegal sex acts. That's no way to introduce sex education into the curriculum. I understand the desire to speak your truth and exercise your inner Siskel & Ebert. When it comes to the subject of sex, that's where the word "anonymous" plays an important role in life. But I have a child, so I have very strong opinions about protecting livelihood. Whatever I do, whatever mistakes I make, it affects others I love.

Fall is always a busy time for me. Too much business travel. Never a dull moment. Halloween. Thanksgiving. And then Christmas. I hate how these weeks just fly by. My DVR is bursting at the seams. Too much to catch up on. Will have to let some things go.

I don't have time for this one right now. I had too many "firsts" to write one or two lines. I was a horny kid.

I work with a lot of college age guys. Interns and assistants. I wouldn't go as far you did, but the younger generation, particularly in larger cities is much less uptight than we ever were. Still, even bi guys get their epiphany.

Are you using an alias name on your blog? I tend to be more cautious than others, but I find that bloggers are very easy to identify in this day and age, especially if they're writing controversial thoughts. I suspect that far more people know who you are than you think. If I were a teacher, I'd be very concerned about that.

My balls hang plenty low, thank you. In my house, sparkling clean toilets trump macho bullshit. Women use more paper product. They are less likely to allow their bare skin to come in contact with the seat. I don't blame them. I do my best to avoid public restrooms, but when nature calls, the choices are rarely great. Unless you're in a luxury hotel. Of course, in public restrooms I stand to pee, and I stand to get my cock sucked. I never kneel in public. Ever. If you want your cock sucked, you'll need to be invited back to my place, or come workout with me at my gym.

For many years I stood. Then I experienced a few male house guests who were pigs. Some from my own family. I felt sorry for my housekeeper. I tend to keep a very clean home. I like luxurious bathrooms the smell of freshly clean. I don't like the stench of dry, stale urine. I'm not a cleaning fanatic, but I've been known to clean the house before the house keeper arrives. Even though she's been employed by me for almost 30 years, I don't feel comfortable with her doing certain things. I have since found that if the males sit when using the toilet, they make much less of a mess. The toilet smells better for longer periods of time. Our building conserves, so we're not allowed toilets with large water tanks. With less water, the toilet bowl requires maintenance to keep it smelling fresh and clean. I don't want to clean the toilets every day, so I now ask male guests to sit when they need to piss. It is amazing how helpful this has been. My housekeeper recently asked me if I ever use my toilets. My new system of sitting is working. I also ask guests to not flush in the middle of the night. My building is older, and the plumbing noise can disturb neighbors who struggle with sleep.

I've been wondering the same thing. I swear I recently saw uncut Latino cock in a thread. I think there was a video, too, of some Latino cock jacking off. What gives (other than a hard cock, of course)?

Coming out should be a party, an event wholly worth celebrating. IMO, it's so much more important, gratifying, and life-affirming than losing any friend or family member because that asshole is a homophobic jerk. If you're gay, I don't think you really know who loves you until you do come out. Coming out is an act of loving yourself. I wouldn't want to go through life not loving who I am. Times have seriously changed in this country. Perhaps change is taking place all over the world. Younger people seem to be more fearless, and I think that's a great quality to possess. Sure, there are exceptions. There will always be haters. There will always be bullies. Some people just won't be able to handle the EJ Johnson types. The world will always have homophobic assholes who wish to do harm to others because they hate their own fear of being gay. But change has mostly crushed those folks, and they will continue to get crushed. I was lucky. In my teenage years, I was surrounded by gay folks. I worked in show business from a young age. In high school, my best friend was out and in a relationship. He found love with another kid his own age. My friend's father was a trucker. His mother was a born-again Christian. He told his parents at a very early age and nothing could affect their love for him. I wanted to believe all coming out stories could be this easy. I was eighteen when I told my parents. My mother was easier than my father, but time took care of the details. Eventually, their love for me grew and grew. They truly enjoyed my gay friends. I think much of their initial concern was centered around whether I could take care of myself. By the age of twenty-five, they had no doubts. The act of coming out is a celebration. It's a commitment to loving yourself. Joy and laughter should be a part of the experience.

Speaking of hateful and bitchy... One of my favorite lines in the The Help is when Aibileen Clark finally confronts the racist, hateful, shit-eating-bitch Hilly Holbrook: "All you do is scare and lie to try and get what you want. You're a godless woman. Ain't you tired, Miss Hilly? Ain't you tired?" That's why I have no patience for Drag Race. Not one second of any of the Housewives. Hateful and bitchy are way to UGLY for me to enjoy.

I've met Bill Cosby on a few occasions. He was always holding court, pretending to be sitting on some throne. His self-importance and pride permeated the room whenever he was present. I did not bow to his throne because I was never a fan. But I was professional and polite. His early years with small children was the only comedy of his that made me chuckle, and it was the kids who made me laugh the most.

It varies. If I'm going to pay someone for a service and invite him into my living space, the more I know about that person the better. No matter what the service is. If we're hooking up in public, I set limits on what we will do, and I have personal litmus tests that I've been using for many years. So far so good. I respect personal information and privacy when shared. Most men who are with me for at least five minutes find out how serious I am about this. I don't need to know someone's legal name, unless when it's necessary, like paying for a plane ticket. But I appreciate honesty on all other details. When I ask someone his hiv status, I look him in the eye as he answers. It's not foolproof, but I've been studying human behavior for a very long time. I have a strong sense when someone is lying to me. When I feel that sense, I move on, no matter how hot the guy is. Liars are a turn-off. I don't want to share their company.

I am a man of the theater. So I can't say I disagree. I certainly know how to play hateful and bitchy. I've learned from some of the best. For an actor, or someone who needs to act in their profession, those roles are the most fun to play. But in reality, hateful and bitchy is an awful life. Wouldn't wish it on anybody.

Why does every issue have to be debated in the EXTREME? While not "25-and-under," I didn't abolish it, I simply refused to see it (or invest in it). Much to the dismay of several actor friends who performed in it. The play focuses on some serious angry gay men from the 70's, particularly gay men living in New York City. I didn't know any guys like this growing up, so when I originally saw this play, I kind of doubted they existed. And then I moved to NYC and discovered the truth. There was good reason why many gay men were self-haters back then. But they were not my crowd. And to this day, I have no patience for this type of gay guy. Hence, my reason for passing on this dreary, over-the-top gay play. Hateful addict gays tend to behave abhorrently. At least we know much more about addiction these days.

Emmy Rossum makes surprise announcement that she is leaving "Shameless." Emmy Rossum is a major talent. She deserved an Emmy. Her announcement is a bit wordy. I've always been surprised she lasted nine seasons with this show, and the show lasted that long. In spite of Shameless having the worst character on television (Frank), but a mighty fine actor in William H. Macy, Shameless managed to stay relevant with very devoted fans. Just when I thought I was ready to give up on the various plots, the writers took a fascinating arch and glued me in further. However, unless they show more man-ass like they used to, I can't imagine this show without Emmy Rossum. She was the character fans most rooted for. Everyone seemed to love Fiona, much more than Fiona loved herself. If the brother characters Lip and Ian do more nude scenes, especially together , I could see myself staying with this show.

I'm definitely not closeted. Not since age seventeen. Some people would be happy to live in one of my closets. I've built every one that currently exists in my Manhattan apartment. Lots of custom drawers for the underwear inventory. One closet looks similar to the one Carrie fell in love with, but I had it first. I've often said to friends, life begins with a fabulous closet. Oh dear, I can be so gay. No wonder I enjoy "Modern Family." The gays and the Pritchett Closets.

The software is acting up this morning. It wouldn't allow me to put this quote in the previous post. Anyway, why let someone "move on?" I realize that some trolls are a royal pain in the ass. A serious cancer on an otherwise decent board. Some trolls deserve to die a long and steady death. Never to be heard from again. However, some people turn a corner. Turn a new leaf. They change. And when they change, they may not want to return with the old name, because the old name has too much baggage and ugly sentiment attached. Is it not a good idea to re-consider someone who has had an epiphany? Couldn't that someone contact you and ask you to consider a name change? You seem like such a reasonable and tolerant man. I imagine you taking a minute to consider someone's rehabilitation.

You've written this before on the board, and I believe it to be true. That does seem to be an extreme case. I probably wouldn't recognize it if you mentioned it. I usually only pay attention to myself. I enjoy talking to myself. I find it great therapy. Ah, the old days. When I wasn't much around these here parts. After my last post at Daddy's in Jan 2013, I switched my focus to another favorite board. Woodworking. I'm a closet carpenter, known to build beautiful closets, too.

I'll be in Copenhagen soon for business. I enjoy blond bottoms.

I'm not happy I said this aloud. It sounds very mean-spirited, which I don't wish to be. I love motherhood. I am a parent. However, this supposedly religious, conservative woman is on international television defending a chronic liar, an admitted pussy-grabber, the boss of a New York City crime family. Her boss. If my mother tried anything like this, I would disown her. And I loved my mother very much. If by good, you mean in the sense of click-bate, I may have to agree. Some people seem to love stopping on the highway of life to stare at a bloody accident. She is laser focused. She can't have a normal discussion/debate. The only words that can come out of her mouth are an endless stream of talking points. She's famous for this style of obfuscation. The style is extremely polarizing. She refuses to answer a simple question directly. She speaks in SPIN, very much like the spin cycle of a washing machine. Even though I'm no fan, Chris Cuomo held his own against her. I did not think the discussion was worthy of anything other than a sports prize. They both wore equal amounts of blood, and Cuomo won as Surviving Anchor. I have written letters to television executives denouncing her appearances. I have encouraged friends who agree with me to do the same. Not because she's not pretty. Because she's a FRAUD. News in the USA is considered a public service. This woman does not serve the public at large. Her constituency is very small. In other words, that's the argument I make.

There you see, a gentleman reacts. 1. Narcissism 2. Self-importance 3. Ego 4. Pride 5. Vanity Not all flattering qualities, for sure. But most of us are imperfect. I just learned something new. I had no idea that was a rule here. I apologize for making a useless recommendation (even though I was pretty much kidding). However, what if someone tires of their username and feels like a change? Should they contact you to seek approval? What if a troll wishes to create trouble by inhabiting multiple usernames? Some escorts and members have been guilty of this tactic. How do you deal with that? Otherwise, if you're a courtesy flush fan like me, you could feel the full-on bidet effect, but with dirty water. Not fun. Very funny, too.

It's Friday, and I'm in the mood for a rant. Tired of cleaning up sawdust from summer construction. Am I the only board member who witnessed the latest 18-wheeler pile-up on CNN yesterday? Chris Cuomo took on Kellyanne ConArtist last night, and I've never seen a more demented "Drag Race" bitch fight on television. Watching this repulsive display of two people posing as "intelligent" was like watching a never-ending loop of test-car crashes from GM while being water-boarded. First, let me say, I'm no fan of CNN. But that's mostly because I don't like Jeff Zucker, the man who runs the show there. IMO, Zucker has a lot in common with Trump, except Zucker is a Jewish TV maniac. There are certain CNN contributors that I do like, such as: David Gergen, David Axelrod, Van Jones, Kirsten Powers, Bakari Sellers, and Tara Setmayer (even though I don't always agree with her). I also enjoy watching the two big lawyer egos going at it: Alan Dershowitz and Jeffrey Toobin, but Alan's teeth are so piss-yellow, I picture a lifetime of him enjoying a piss-drinking fetish every time he smiles. Gross. Why do some people with so much money ignore their teeth? Hate bad teeth. I can tolerate Anderson Cooper as long as it's not the NY's Eve show he does with Andy Asshole. But I find it difficult to stomach Chris Cuomo. When someone constantly refers to other people as "my friend," I instantly dislike them. On the other hand, if you watched this sad display of modern American political discourse, you might understand why I'm willing throw some props at Cuomo. I don't think there's another anchor in television who could go toe-to-toe with Conway and come out fairly free of brow sweat. Unfortunately, they spent most of their time talking over each other, but that's the only way to debate with Kellyanne, who is a master Spin-Jujitsu Jedi. If you mention the names Hillary Clinton and Nancy Pelosi, Republicans vomit endlessly the word "polarizing." But these hypocrites who are addicted to power and money, can't seem to acknowledge there is no one more polarizing in politics than Kellyanne Conway. I'll take ten Clintons and Pelosis over Kellyanne any day. At least I know Clinton and Pelosi won't try to talk over you. I know we who care about public appearance are not supposed to make points about looks. In honor of Trump's dislike for political correctness, let me just say that I also think Conway is a sight for sore eyes. The woman has no taste and she's not pretty. She has the ugliest hair on TV, with a color that looks as fake as her false eyelashes and the fake news shit that spews from her mouth. Speaking of false eyelashes, only a cheap street hooker would think that a blonde woman should wear BLACK eyelashes. I know this woman is someone's mother. IMO, too bad for them. At least her husband is willing to openly question and criticize Trump. Perhaps there's hope.

I hear the PSD was caused by all those "time outs" that deej approbated. Perhaps Lucky is trying to convey a check-out message in his unique and clever manner?

I seem to recall some of your flatulence posts as being quite poetic, if a bit foul scented.