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Yes, indeed. I am a whore. I go where the traffic is. However, I have been working hard to make this website as valuable to me as the other one. My agenda here and there is out and open. I want as many websites as possible servicing us. I want them (us) all strong and healthy.
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I mostly agree with your post. Just let me point out to this fact: I have mentioned boytoy several times, link included, without suffering any consequences. I do not remember whether or not I capitalized it, so I may not be meeting your high expectations. However, I mentioned this forum (link included) in a complimenting way several times as an unchallenged resource for international escorts, I linked to the reports on my last trip to Argentina, I linked last week recommending everyone to join right now.
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I am sick, just decided to take the day off. Besides, I just smoked my pipe. This is to warn you that I am probably in a Love & Peace hippy mood right now. Sometimes it is about the momentum. Thinking of the socio-cultural-political context, of course we could be worse but we are already pretty low and perhaps it is time for a tide change. The political situation is horrible, I do not need to add anything about it, but we all are so focused on blaming Trump that we are missing the big picture. Beyond our routine mass shootings in the USA, we have now Americans killing other Americans because they are White, or Black, or (fill the ethnicity), or Christian, or Jewish, or Muslim, or (fill the religion), or gay, or trans, etc. It is not only in America, this reactionary hating trend started in Europe, all the shit starts in Europe. I am ignorant about the situation of the progressive field in Europe, but in he USA and in South America we have good reasons to be hopeful, despite our dark present of Trumps and Bolsonaros. I am feeling/wishing for a change in the tide, otherwise it would be like History going backwards. I do not think such a thing is possible. However, we (our tiny subculture) have a problem. A tide change does not guarantee anything to us. There is no shortage of liberals and progressive minded friends who are enemies of pornography, adult entertainment, and sex work. That is why I think it is of the upmost importance to be as united as possible, as visible and spoken up as possible. We should be trying to establish alliances with our mainstream brothers and sisters, with civil rights advocacy organizations, with the LGBQT lobby (they are not always our friends), with every open minded and sex positive social and political leaders. If we do not do that, the next wave could be worse instead of good news for us. That is why I am wishing that after diving in deep shit; McCain and Bush deaths are inspiring a reflection that adds to the hopeful Blue Wave of new women/minorities leaders. I am wishing that both Daddy;s and Boytoy communities are able to move on and work together when friendly competition must be put aside; that everyone associated with the adult entertainment, pornoraphy, and sex work industries is able to come together some way, to lobby for our rights to exist and thrive and service and contribute to Common Wealth. I am wishing for this to be the momentum when our voice can be clear and our listeners ready to learn about who we really are. As I said, I think I am going through a melodramatic Love and Peace momentum.
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That day I am moving to Merida.
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The situation has probably changed with time. I have mentioned several times boytoy at the other site, without any consequences. My honest opinion is that Daddy's is the best resource for American escorts related issues, and Boytoy has that place for international escorts. This opinion has been shared multiple times without suffering any consequences. I even recommended everyone to come and sign up here during the closing. It is true that over there there are not only admin but also members with a negative attitude towards boytoy, and viceversa here. However I think time is healing the wounds. I started my connection with our subculture through Daddy's, and was always intrigued by that animosity. I finally joined here to research the history and found everything somewhere in the sandbox. Sad. I am glad I was not involved in that situation. Otherwise, I would probably be in the same situation many friends are now, unable to move on. We are a very small community, stigmatized even by many LGBQT friends and always at risk of being targeted by law enforcement and policy making. I think it is time to move on and work together for our common goals. We should be looking for outside allies to lobby for a more sex positive, and sex work positive culture and legislation. Instead, we are bitching against each other. I am sure I have been guilty many times, but I promise I will try to make a better job.
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Indeed he was not perfect and I have never been a fan, but we should judge him for more than his alleged homophobia. The man presided over the end of the Cold War. With someone else in office, we could be still cleaning up nuked cities. As many commentators are pointing out, what makes Bush's life and contributions more meaningful is the contrast with the current commander in chief. Bush's death could mark the end of a political era, or could be the inspiration to return to common sense, rationality, and bipartisanship. Let's see whether Mueller may add some condiments to the momentum.
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Salve Divino Tomcal!
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It is very moving indeed, but it is hard to say it is not political. We are mourning the Republic, it seems.
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Hey, whether or not you like it, it is news in our little tiny slutty universe.
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That is new. He always takes a vacation and stops the reviews flow. I was expecting that, as the forums are down, he would also put the reviews website on a hiatus. However, new reviews were posted yesterday and today. I think I remember him talking about developing the code for a bot that would automatize the reviews vetting and publishing process. I wonder if that is what is going on.
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https://ilikepinga.com/2018/12/02/forums-closed/
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Smoking Hot Santo Domingo
Latbear4blk replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Perhaps they actually were too many visitors! Quizás tú eres muy puta, m'hija! -
Daddy shared in La Cabana (a forum with access restricted to those of us who support the site financially) a link to the upgrade he is working on. Nothing radical, but a significantly more contemporaneous design. He may also be baking something else in the oven. During the gathering in Palm Springs he shared about widening the scope of Daddy's Reviews beyond escorts. He was envisioning something like a yelp for older gay men (my analogy, not his) with reviews of spas, hotels, bars, restaurants, etc. This week he posted this in his home page: "Las Vegas, NV — Yesterday I told you that traffic is down about 20% and my theory of what is happening. It's time to start doing what I've wanted to do since I took over the website. If you look on the very first page it says: "Dedicated to reviews of interest to Mature Gay Gentlemen." I fit in that category, and all my life I've had problems finding good places to visit. When I first started out, being Gay was illegal in every single state and territory in the United States. Now that I'm an old and slow moving Gay man, I find that I still want to go visiting. But most of all I need to know that I'll be safe and comfortable. That's where you come in. I reviews on places to go. The resorts in Palm Springs. The infamous P-Town, The exciting Florida Keys. Your favorite Website. I know that the submit form is more oriented to our favorite hobby but just make it work for now and know that my plans are to have three types of reviews (or more if we need them) Escorts, Venues, and Websites. If we can start building a library of these types of reviews then hopefully I can start attracting the LGBTQ advertising that is needed."
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I just signed in to make the announcement, and was going to title the threat "BE READY FOR ANOTHER WAVE". You were faster.
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Any updates on Salvador...
Latbear4blk replied to Badboy81's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I will be there for Christmas and New Year. Of course I will report back here. -
I am a huge ass eater. I like playing with the image that I am actually kissing lips when I am rimming. In Spanish ass eating is called Beso Negro. A few fuck buddies were able to help out my imagination by contracting and loosing their ring at will, responding to my kisses. I miss them. But gargling and spitting??? I would marry that ass.
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Absolutely. What if instead of leaves, there is shit in your swimming pool. Would you drain it before filling it back for your next lap?
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Changing your mind is not weird. You may be a skillful ass eater.
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Experienced bottoms can relax their ring and let the water fill their bowels.
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Did you ever visit Argentina, @Tartegogo? You will love the bidets over there.
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@BiBottomBoy's premise is quite evident and right on point. I do not understand your premise, @RA1. I know of no immigrants who would do such a thing. Is there any chance Trump's agents infiltrated the caravana and caused the incidents to fire up the xenophobic trumpist mob in Mississippi? If so, shame on them. Best regards,
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Smoking Hot Santo Domingo
Latbear4blk replied to BlkSuperman's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
I will visit RD next year. You made me do it. -
Argentina: Mileage run and new years
Latbear4blk replied to JuanP's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
You are correct, you should skip all the first posts about Corrientes, and look for the ones towards the end of the thread, they are about Buenos Aires. The link to my blog is my signature here. -
Argentina: Mileage run and new years
Latbear4blk replied to JuanP's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Did you find the posts on my July trip to Argentina? You also have a bunch of information in my blog. -
SALVADOR, BAHIA, Dec 22 to Jan 3
Latbear4blk replied to Latbear4blk's topic in Latin America Men and Destinations
Today is November 23, exactly one month before my arrival to Salvador. Can I get now officially excited?