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So why do you say you are lost? I wish my desire was more fluid. This is one of the things I like the most in many young guys.

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Of course it was well meaning. The thing is that I am confused, because I find a quite abundant vegetarian offer, if you know how to order, even in the touristic places. Even if you are vegan, there is a strip of restaurant in Avda Cordoba and Callao. But anyway, beyond plenty of places where you can me your own salad, you can order almost in every place: pascualina, tortilla de papas, tortilla de acelgas, tortilla de espinacas, empanadas with countless vegetarian options, provoleta, berenjenas en escabeche, tartas (perhaps you would call them uncovered pies?) in countless vegetarian options, and those are just the popular ubiquitous non meat/chicken/fish options. If you mean restaurants with an exclusive vegetarian menu, you are right, those are hard to find although they exist. Just like in DC.

There are scary Grindr/on line hook ups stories everywhere over the world. Brazil does not deserve to be targeted.

Have you explored the offerings in all the different areas of Palermo? Your descriptions seem to be more suitable for the traditional touristic areas, like La Boca, San Telmo, Recoleta, Barrio Norte, and Puerto Madero. Tourists do not come to BA to eat salad, so the offering in those neighborhoods is tailored to the demand. But the locals do not go so much to those restaurants. I think you should explore Palermo in your next visit.

No. I am Argentine and know what I am talking about. It is correct, we are blunt and not fond of political correctness, and there are many expressions and situations that could be read as racists when they are not. However, there is a very strong racism, specially targeting mestizos and jews. Blacks is a special case. They used to be almost half of the population of Buenos Aires in the mid XIX century. They are almost extinct, and successfully erased from national history and identity.

And he is a whore, right?

Yes! And they think they are not! Before I was banned for ever in the Argentinean forums I had gotten a suspension for getting in a heated argument with a local because of this!

This is wise advice. Last July a multiple flight DC-Rio-BA-DC would have costed me more than twice than what I paid by flying to BA and, from there, purchasing a ticket BA-RJ-BA.

Argentinians vs Brazilians is not a good comparison. Both are huge, diverse countries with noticeable ethnic variations within. BA vs SP makes more difference. I cannot tell, as I told you my last visit to SP was 30 years ago. BA has immensely changed in these three decades, it is now much more diverse than used to. I am sure other friends here can make a good and updated comparison.

That is a question only you can answer. Our cycles when traveling are very personal. If sex is such a secondary interest, I would probably go to Buenos Aires. And you will have tons of good sex anyway, I just like Brazilians more. By the way, depending on the area you are checking, you may be surprise in both cities, specially SP. I remember that back in the 80s their Japanese population was considerable, I understand is even more now. Buenos Aires has had a significant Chinese immigration the last three decades.

It is a tough decision, I like @Walker's suggestion. If you have enough days, maybe you want to try both. I was in São Paulo back in the 80s, so my knowledge nowadays is through third parties. For Buenos Aires, perhaps you want to read this post in my blog with some resources. My understanding is that both cities are similarly attractive on culture and urban activities. If you are inclined towards theater and dance, perhaps Buenos Aires would score higher in your rubric. Similarly, São Paulo wins if you are fond of visual arts. Of course Argentina cannot compete with Brazilian saunas if you are mainly looking for sex. However, Buenos Aires sex scene has changed and depending on your age and fitness, you have very appealing options. Sex parties are not my thing, so I cannot really speak of them, but the most popular in the city meets twice a week and have a website. If you are a foodie, I do not know SP nowadays, but BA is a very interesting option. Not only there is a very diverse variety of cuisines, but the scene is very much alive with fusion experimentation and creative chefs, and furthermore, with the exchange rate prices are considerably lower then in Brazil. You have 10 days. If you can give 5 days to each city, I think you will have an amazing trip. Flying between SP and BA is easy, with abundant offer, and very cheap.

I have always used the same common sense precautions I use when I am at home. But indeed, your comfort is paramount. If you have concerns, stay with the safest option and only meet sauna boys in the sauna.

Another show I am surprised no one has mentioned before. If you are into hard science fiction, you will love it. Spotless production and acting. The first three seasons were SyFy Chanel, Amazon picked up the fourth, all of them are available in Amazon Prime TV. The first two seasons are excellent. The third one is OK. I am watching the 4th. Production and Acting are still impeccable, but the plot is very weakened, as the original premise went blurred. The original premise was very appealing. The game of diplomacy and geopolitics is taken from international to interplanetary. Mars and Earth are two industrialized powers, and the asteroids belt is a raw materials producer. The first two seasons played with those tensions. But the show was very successful and they had to force an "expanse" in the original scope of the plot, and of course they added aliens. Anyway, a must see if you are into hard sci fi. And for those who besides enjoy eye candy, you do have some. Check this up, @TotallyOz:

Best show 2019. Really good.

If during the discussion of the contract I detect any signs of "desperation", I move on.

https://ilikepinga.com/2019/12/29/best-sauna-rio-2019/

Well, WilliamM just posted in the other side. Yours seems to be a very unusual 30 days time out.

William? You banned? What did you do?

William? You banned? What did you do?

True, but that does not guarantee they will render a good service in private. I had very disappointing experiences in saunas. @Anthonyvan, I have not hired in Brazil from escorts website, but I did from Twitter and Grindr, and the quality I found was excellent. I think Brazil is a place where sex work thrives and is normal. Escorts websites, apps, social media, saunas, street, all have advantages and disadvantages. Try them all.

The age difference is not always there, and when it is, I do not think it is the major obstacle. It is really hard, almost impossible to successfully transition out of a transactional relationship. I have done it only once, and there was not "love" involved, but just friendship with benefits.

I am surprised no one started a thread about this show. Not only is exquisitely written and performed. The sound track hits you almost every single episode if you are in your late 50s like myself. Take special care to the episode about Looking Glass, the sound track has variations on one of my favorite George Michaels' songs. Besides being a exquisite artistic production, it is full of homo-friendly and sex positive clues. Dr. Manhattan's ex girlfriend relieves her nostalgia with a huge blue dildo. There is a long term passionate relationship between two of the super heroes (furthermore, interracial), the White rich one leaves his fortune to the Black Working Class one. The actor playing Dr. Manhattan is smoking hot and appears fully naked several times, showing a beautiful dick (of course perhaps it is photoshopped). I specially remember a long walk in the snow with his dick bouncing at each step. There are also some nudes in the scenes in Europa's settlement. Beyond the candy eyes moments, it is a beautiful piece of art.