Latbear4blk

If I order an ice home delivery in Bangkok, is one of the boys in the photo bringing my ice cubes?

I am trying to have my second expedition to Medellin this November if I can resist Rio's charms. Are you going to be around?

Those are the premium cam boys. I am not into IG-perfect-looking guys but into next-door guy types. When I do my research (so far, everything has been just talking, in my trip to Medellín, I did not have hook-ups started in a webcam), I avoid the boys with a lot of visitors. I usually find some hotty willing to meet at reasonable prices. It is not easy, though; you must be careful to avoid the platform's filters. Besides that, you may hook up with one without ever logging in to a webcam service. The only boy I picked up on Grindr was a Chaturbate "model." I remember we hooked up on my first night; he was working the night shift at a 24hs restaurant nearby. He kept calling me almost every night after, but I was always sleeping. Webcams are a job source for the local youth, and it is not so hard to accidentally hook up with a "model".

I have never been banned here, but several times on what today is CoM. When I was banned, if I logged in, I could not navigate the site, not even log out. When logged out, I could read the threads as anyone else with the same status (logged out). I heard that there are different levels of accountability. One of them would be logging in and being able to read everything but not able to post. But I only heard about it.

Use hashtags, and research the app recommendations.

@TotallyOz, do you not want to lock this thread?

Oh! I never check hotels. I plan a trip to Medellín in November; Airbnb prices are reasonable. Part of the problem is that the city's popularity has exceeded the infrastructure. There are relatively fewer "us quality" places to rent than in other cities. Of course, you can rent at incredible prices if you get a local agent.

Mi amor. You keep talking, and we keep learning.🥰

As I said, stupidly telling. But I see you are a follower! I apologize, even stalkers are good to give us clicks. I love even the most idiotic followers! ❤️

This is probably a case of half-brained projection. Stupidely telling.

If you wanted to place a complaint, you would have done it privately, as the regular protocol is. You are not a newbie. Your claim is bull shit. You wanted drama, and you are probably frustrated because, so far, you are the only drama queen. At this point, I think it is a mental health issue. I am honest when I share that I respect you, and even if often cryptic, I can enjoy your speech as poetic discourse. But I do not think participating in online discussion forums fits your current emotional balance. Please, take a break and look for help.

I offered to answer any questions, but you have all the answers. I wish you the best.

As I said, your overreaction is out of my control. If you are so sensitive, you should keep a lower profile or stop posting.

I am not apologizing. I did nothing wrong. I am offering you an explanation of my participation in that conversation. Whether or not it satisfies you, it is out of my control.

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I am José Soplanucas in Company Of Men. I used to be latbear4blk, but after the antiracist rise, I no longer find that nickname appropriate. CoM opened the table to change our noms de plume, and I took the offer. I did it openly and without intending to create a new persona. Everyone who is paying attention knows who I am in both forums. For instance, all my years of posting in CoM are now under my new name, and there is a clear and transparent continuity. I also requested the change in my alias here, but @TotallyOz informed me it was impossible. I would have to create a new profile, which I don't want. I remember the conversation you are referencing. I have told you directly; I often find your writing difficult to understand. I told you so at least a couple of times, and at least once, you did not like my comment. I had no hostile intention; I was sharing my difficulty. I found a poster in CoM that reminded me of your writing style, so I asked him whether or not he was you. No second intentions, but a simple and direct question, as you can see in the screenshot you shared. If you have anything to ask, you can ask me here. I do not bitch through PMs like the posters you are mentioning. What I say, I say it publically and take ownership of my words.

Thanks for the compliments. I want you to know that I did not miss anything. I am ignoring your (both of you) beefing. Both of you have things I like and do not like, but I believe you two are significant contributors to this discussion forum. I have learned from both of you. That learning has changed many of my points of view and attitudes. I am a better person today because I paid attention to whatever knowledge and positive thinking I could get from you two, ignoring the white noise and our differences. Unfortunately, you two cannot move on from whatever is happening between you. Please, try (harder).

I would add a few more activities these "travelers" enjoy: putting other cultures down from the perceived superiority of their own culture, judging other peoples from the expectations of their own, and bragging from their ignorant prepotency.

He may be planning to run for Florida or Texas Governor.

There are countless legit ways to enjoy traveling and sex tourism; the key word is respect. My beef in this thread is about the half-brainers (primarily American, but not necessarily) who travel around expecting others to learn their mindset instead of showing respect and curiosity for local uses. It is not just pointing fingers. Of course, I find it intolerable when someone brags about it, like the post that triggered my reaction in this thread. However, everyone naturally tends to cling to their own culture to interpret situations, forgetting that your social/cultural assumptions are not universally valid. But there is a significant difference between being a prepotent bully and an imperfect human able to self-reflect and learn.

I think you got it backward. Hollywood actors look like Brazilian prostitutes.

These half-brainers think that they appreciate the culture. Of course, in their US-centric way, as exotic and exciting, but not enough to learn the language and the ways. The rest of the world must learn to understand Americans.

Thank you! Am I repelling self-centered half-brainers who think that every man (of course, of Color) who stares at them wants to be their possession? That is a badge of honor!

I would believe your narrative if the guy were one of us and the plane was landing in Rio.