SolaceSoul

I have been to Seven Cruising Bar in SP, and now I remember that there was also one in Rio that I chose not to visit. The official policy of Seven Cruising Bar is that garotos de programa are prohibited. It’s pretty much all over ever description on the internet of the São Paulo location, and looking at the descriptions of the RJ location, it looks like that’s the official policy there, as well. ”Sem garotos de programa.” ”’Garotos de programa são proibidos.” But just because it’s prohibited by the club, that doesn’t necessarily mean that some garotos and clientes aren’t getting away with it.

There’s a Seven Cruising Bar in São Paulo. I wonder if it is the same ownership?

It’s Sacha Baron Cohen. Speaking of spelling. “Please proceed, Governor.” https://m.imdb.com/name/nm0056187/

Yes, I absolutely would. Because I’m not interested in that at all. If he is, then he’s much better off with someone else who is, and I am much better off without him. Now, if it were something that I WERE interested in, that would be much different, As I mentioned, I’m just fine being single. Sure, a committed relationship requires some compromise, but IMHO, the compromise should never take more than you feel good about giving.

A total turn off for me, but I’m sure this kind of outdated stereotypical Castro Folsom Street attire appeals to a shrinking number of leather queen clients here who still listen to The Village People. His social media imprint is large, fairly permanent and very easy to find.

He is definitely Brazilian. I have seen his ads on Rentmen and other ad platforms regularly in Brazil (São Paulo) for a few years now. Even though I almodt exclusively prefer big muscle, I always opted to pass on this one. I could be wrong, but he seems a bit too overly dramatic and frou-frou for my personal tastes — although the body looks nice. I also doubt that he is still only 29. But to me, that’s neither here nor there — that’s just part of the escort game. He could be visiting or on an escort world tour. Regarding the English, I wouldn’t bust his chills over that, if Portuguese is his principal language. He very well could be a lawyer in Brazil. Attorneys make comparably very little in Brazil, and there are quite a few garotos I have met who are highly educated, or are in rigorous degree programs.

Having experienced them in a relationship, I can attest that threesomes in a relationship aren’t for me. But if they are for you and everyone involved is consensual and enjoys them, then go for it. No one has the right to define the four corners of your mutually consensual, adult relationship. But if I were in a relationship and the other party wanted threesomes, I would prefer to remain single —- which for me is preferable anyway, so win-win. Now, outside of a committed relationship, as in a hiring situation, I’ve also done a few threesomes. To me, they are only enjoyable when I am equally attracted to both of the other parties — which has been the case when it’s been two hires. But the others were usually situations where I’d rather leave out one of the others in the threesome — and that’s why a ménage a trois rarely interests me.

My decade of experiences taught me that buggarone is considered a slur when used in the face of the person it is intended for, and is meant to describe the street hustlers. I have also never heard the term buggarone used to describe a street hustler who has sex with female tourists for money. Sanky is viewed as less of a slur, but can still be considered offensive to the ones it is intended for. It doesn’t really describe a street hustler, but more of a working guy out to get money from unsuspecting female or male tourists by feigning love interest or having sex with them. Neither term should be used in polite company or to address a Dominican man, even if you think he might be one of these. Regarding the mentioned hotels, I agree. The webmasters probably gets a referral for bringing clients to Casa Sanchez. I don’t really have much good to say about Adam Suites. There are better accommodations in the area.

No, I have not, but the information and advice given is pretty solid.

Prostitution (meaning one on one exchange of sex for money, directly from client to sex worker) is legal, as long as the deal or the act are not done on the public streets. Working as a prostitute in a brothel is also legal. However, the tricky part is that owning and operating a brothel, and third-party pimping (a third party making the arrangements for the sex work between the worker and a customer) are illegal in the UK. What this OP tried to do by asking him to describe in detail the sex the workers will agree to do with the customer for money amounts to engaging the manager third-party pimping. Those are questions for the service provider, not for the manager of the establishment. The manager was right to keep his mouth shut about specific sex acts and show the OP the door. Villa Gianni has remained open for years in on a quiet, unassuming, residential block, and it stays within the strict confines of the UK laws on prostitution. There’s a reason it stays open.

@NoGagSuckerSF: You’re actually still looking for black or Latino dick in San Francisco? While the white gay population mostly looked the other way, the black and Latino population has been almost completely gentrified out / priced out of San Francisco, and the entire Bay Area is increasingly predominantly white and Asian. This includes the formerly African-American stronghold of Oakland. https://qz.com/quartzy/1638972/the-data-behind-the-last-black-man-in-san-francisco/ Since the SF Rentmen prices are out of your budget, I am surmising that you’re not one of the well-paid techies that have invaded the Bay Area and pushed out the poor and undesirables. But even the low-rent gays can’t afford the Gay Capital of the USA anymore. SF is now just a city for the well-heeled predominantly white gays and well-heeled techies. Your $20 - $30 budget might continue to serve you well in the DR, especially with your obsession with black and Latin dicks. You’d be a lot better served, however, leaving your leather / S&M fetish culture talk and gadgets back with your heart in San Francisco, where they belong. Culturally, they are completely out of place. Insert the phrase “when in Rome” here.

Requests for Information, Requests for Quotes, Requests for Proposals. And let’s see some Statements of Work and Purchase Agreements! After all, this is a “procurement” business.

I agree with most everything you say. However, let’s be clear: many of the American and European travelers aren’t making $100,000 USD / EUR a year. But your point still stands.

As one of the “pro visitors” who has done this before, and is also much closer to hiring what you like, I could probably give you a few tips, but you’d have to send me a private message to discuss. Since I’m a pure capitalist at heart, my payment for my services would be that you can privately share with me a few of your stories.

Very good report, especially for a first-timer. I have nothing to critique. As a fellow connoisseur of muscle, I give you an A on your report. Also, there are some very sharp garotos at the saunas. Some are entrepreneurs and some are students working their way through university. One of my favorites at 117 was the top student in his STEM major last year, and he is quite knowledgeable about many subjects, including world history and world politics. Another I know fairly well ran for political office (yes, while working as a garoto!).

The good news (for me, at least) is that the Higienópolis-Mackenzie Metro is only one stop from Republica, a convenient but dicier area where I like to stay and sometimes hang out. Republica, named for its park which is a mix of eclecticism, seediness and cruise, is big city living and it isn’t for the squeamish! The oft-mentioned Bar Fama is in the Republica area, plus if interested (I’m not), the Chili Pepper hotel / sauna . Also in the Republica area are the Danger Dance Club, the Seven Cruising Bar, The Aurora Lan House, the often seedy cruise street / park Largo do Arouche, and other joints, bars and adult establishments (straight, gay, and mixed). Of course, the obligatory warning: all of this is completely AYOR and only a fool would venture out alone around these places after dark.

I agree, and similar time periods. Scratch antiquing and replace that with something more carnal for me. The college admissions process now is even more brutal. I’ve interviewed kids for my undergraduate institution whom I thought were brilliant, and only a handful have gotten accepted. It’s brutal nowadays.

Now might not be such a good time to tell you that two of my schools are top 30, and the other is top 100. There are a total 1,400 universities that were included in the survey. Although these lists can be quite silly, one would be surprised at how much weight is given to them.

The complete list ranked by university is here: https://www.timeshighereducation.com/world-university-rankings/2020/world-ranking#!/page/0/length/25/sort_by/rank/sort_order/asc/cols/stats

That explains the old number I have. Also, explains his disappearance from 117. I have known of a few garoto-on-garoto fist fights. Some get permanently banned and others are just temporary. Those seem to be taken less seriously than a garoto attacking a client or a sauna employee.

Renan is a good guy! I have never hired him for a programa, but I introduced him to a friend because when I saw him, I just knew he was his perfect type. I met him at 117 last year but he disappeared from the sauna. It’s good to see that he has reappeared in ads (a quite common occurrence) with a new number. I will forward the ad to my friend.

Well, 1 out 2 ain’t bad.

And, just like clockwork, former Ipanema Beach garoto turned elected political activist David Miranda and his professional agitator American sugar daddy husband Glenn Greenwald put out this photo of the two of them kissing to protest the Evangelical Rio mayor’s bigoted move.

“The mayor of Rio de Janeiro ordered law enforcement agents to raid the city's International Book Fair and seize copies of a comic book that featured 2 men kissing. The festival's organizers took him to court and won.” Two Men Kiss in a Comic Book, and a Mayor Orders a Raid https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/07/world/americas/rio-gay-kiss-comic.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share By Manuela Andreoni Sept. 7, 2019 RIO DE JANEIRO — The team of law-enforcement agents deployed by the mayor to “defend the family” descended on the international event and scoured the grounds for their target: copies of a comic book featuring two young men kissing. “Books like this need to be packaged in black plastic and sealed,” the mayor of Rio de Janeiro, Marcelo Crivella, said in a video posted on Twitter. The agents, he said, were ordered to seize all copies of the comic book from the city’s International Book Fair because it had “sexual content for minors.” As it turned out, the police came up empty on Thursday in their two-hour search for kissing comic characters, though they did find “lots of books,” Col. Wolney Dias, who headed the raid, told the newspaper Folha de São Paulo. The raid also kicked up lots of backlash for the mayor — from festival organizers, publishing houses, comedians and, finally, the Brazilian courts. On Friday, a judge barred Mr. Crivella from further seizure efforts or any attempt to withdraw the festival’s permit, a ruling that was partly overturned on Saturday. The comic book in question, published in 2010 under the title “Avengers: The Children’s Crusade,” shows the superheroes Hulkling and Wiccan, who are boyfriends, kissing. The book, which had sold out by the time the agents arrived, tells the story of Wiccan’s efforts to control his reality-altering powers. Festival organizers tried a bit of reality altering themselves on Friday when they took the mayor to court, winning an injunction against efforts to bar the book. The judge cited the organizers’ constitutional right to free expression, but his ruling was partly reversed on Saturday when a second judge said that gay and lesbian content for children should not be publicly displayed. The brushback was more colorful outside court. The comedian Felipe Neto, one of Brazil’s most popular YouTube stars, said he would distribute thousands of books with gay and lesbian characters at the festival. The books, he said, would come with a red label saying they were “inappropriate for backward, retrograde and prejudiced people.” Then, on Saturday, the publishing house Faro set up a stand at the festival under the banner “Books That Are Forbidden by Crivella” and featuring a host of volumes on issues involving gay and lesbian people. The stand became a selfie magnet, the newspaper O Globo said. Mr. Crivella’s order also served to remind local newspapers and TV stations of other things the mayor could be doing, like fighting poverty. The local unemployment rate hit 15.3 percent in the first trimester of this year. “Crivella, This Is What’s ‘Inappropriate,’” read the headline in the newspaper Extra, atop a photo of a homeless woman and her children sitting on cardboard on a sidewalk. The mayor, who is also an evangelical preacher, was unbowed. In a video posted on Friday, Mr. Crivella said he was trying to protect families. “This can’t be induced, be it in schools, in a book, or wherever,” the mayor said, apparently referring to gay and lesbian issues. “We will always continue to defend the family.” But the mayor “forgets there are quite old Supreme Court decisions that say same-sex families also deserve protection,” said Rodrigo Azambuja of Rio’s public defenders’ office, which had joined with festival organizers in their court appeal. “Under Brazilian law,” he said, “all families are equal.