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Great question and one that I wish I could answer but I have never had sex in a public place, although it has long been a fantasy of mine to do so (in a covert way and not in front of a bunch of people, lol). I haven't had the nerve to ask an escort if they would be ok trying that as I suspect most would not be very receptive (risk of being caught). btw, I am sometimes very slow and I couldn't figure out why you had that video in your post but then after a few minutes it dawned on me..lol, very good And talking of that video, I am proud to say that for once my gaydar was right about Joe and when I saw him on that show I was getting strong vibes he was gay...which he confirmed later after the show was over and he had won.

Right as in a personal preference for the type of body that one would be attracted to in that outfit. For me, a jock type physique would be ideal and I wouldn't get as turned on by say a skinnier type twink in that outfit. But that is my personal preference and others may have their own. I know that I could never pull it off wearing it as it just wouldn't fit with my appearance/look. Again, just my own feelings about my body and what I look best in or out of

Wow...I'm not into the leather scene but if I were I definitely would want that. Very hot looking indeed, well at least on the right body of course

This Sunday is Mother's Day so just a gentle reminder to remember her, especially on that day, whether she is still alive or has passed. My mom is in many ways in between. She is in her 90s and has dementia so she is still with us but isn't fully the same person I have known my whole life. Nevertheless she still has many aspects of her self that I remember so well and I focus on that as much as possible. I have always had a great deal of respect for my mom because for most of my young life she was a widow raising a family of four on her own. During that time she managed to raise a fine group of young men (if I do say so myself), put them all through college, get her own college degree and still find love again. I have never come out to my mom but other than that I don't feel anything has been left unsaid. So I enjoy every moment I can with her and will spoil her this Sunday. I would enjoy reading others comments and/or special memories regarding their mom or how you may plan to honor your mother on that day, if anyone cares to share those.

I find these lists and rankings both interesting and useful as I will be, relatively soon, making various decisions about where to live for most or part of the year (although I focus more on the best cities to live in more often, the state listing is very useful). So many things go into such rankings and much of it is personal choice (as alluded to in the comment above about gay life) on how it relates to our own views. To show how things can vary, here is a comparison of two rankings of bests states for retirement showing significant differences (other than Virginia and S. Dakota). All comes down to their methodology. I prefer the AARP list (from 2012) Bankrate AARP 1 Tennessee Hawaii 2 Louisiana Idaho 3 South Dakota Utah 4 Kentucky Arizona 5 Mississippi Virginia 6 Virginia Colorado 7 West Virginia Florida 8 Alabama New Mexico 9 Nebraska South Dakota 10 North Dakota California tied with Texas

Somewhat off topic, but I have to express how much I dislike Nancy Grace. Few people annoy me as much as she does. No idea why really but she does for some reason. Now back to our regularly scheduled program (and thanks for letting me get that off my chest).

I really don't recall being bullied (we called it getting picked on, which is basically the same I guess). People pretty much were in their own groups and kept to themselves for the most part. The jocks were too concerned about sports and getting girls to care about anything else. The nerds (which I was and probably still am part of) were too concerned about getting good grades and avoided any situation that might get them into trouble. The JDs (juvenile delinquents) were too concerned about cutting school and getting high. The music geeks were too busy with practice for band or orchestra. The few left were just kind of flying under the radar. If you knew your place and kept out of the way of the other groups, you were usually fine.

Resistance is futile....

No, only two more episodes for this season. It has been renewed by A&E for a second season: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/04/08/bates-motel-renewed-season-2-a-e_n_3039230.html And I am very very happy that it has been renewed

Just wait until the parents are old and can't take care of themselves. Then see how their children will treat them. Absolutely a fascinating read and I will have to read it a few times. Thanks for posting it AS.

Definitely a cute couple. Not usually a fan of reality type shows but I might check this one out.

lol, no such luck hi....still searching for my big soldier or anyone in a uniform...oh heck, anyone really One other thought suckrates, have you had your testosterone level checked? I'm not a doctor but I recall recently reading something about that reduced testosterone when one ages is an issue for some people. Maybe it is a natural process of decline but some may have a greater decrease than others.

I would go to London. Lots of variety and I've never gone wanting when there previously.

As I am getting older I have noticed that my little soldier doesn't stand at attention as often or as tall as in previous years. I have always enjoyed spanking the little soldier often but I have found that to get the full enjoyment I have to curtail that activity to less frequently than before. When engaged with another person, which is usually planned in advance, I tend to abstain from self gratification for several days and that seems to help quite a bit, as one might expect. So my only suggestion beyond what has been stated above is to cut back some on masturbation if you haven't already done so. Are you still able to get a decent erection with some self manipulation while giving pleasure to someone else?

Totally agree. Without ability to make contact, all the profiles are is some nice eye candy. Interesting that phone numbers were provided in the past and wonder why that would have changed. I was thinking that perhaps a PM would trigger some type of email notification to the escort but that doesn't seem to be the case.

Perhaps you are thinking of Trey Thurston. It does, to me at least, look somewhat like him.

Are you referring to profiles of escorts on boytoy.com or in general? If you are referring to boytoy.com, there is the ability to send a private message to the escort on his profile page that pops up. The PM doesn't seem to be an ideal way to make contact and no profiles that I have seen here have email addresses or phone number listed, which is ideal (at least for me). I am assuming that for some reason the site does not allow for it or isn't set up for it. This relates to a thread I posted a week or so ago in which I asked if client has actually made contact with an escort with a profile on boytoy through a PM. I've tried numerous times but have zero responses (and I am very confident it is nothing I am saying in my PM that is an issue for them). So I am almost at the point of giving up trying to contact guys who have ads/profiles here. And if you are talking in general on the web, then suckrates response is probably correct.

I am optimistic too that things will change for the better and sooner than later those five things will be distant memories (hopefully in my lifetime).

For my sake, I hope that is true But just consider what Arnold H. Glascow said about excess: Your body is the baggage you must carry through life. The more excess the baggage, the shorter the trip. Arnold H. Glasgow

"Everything In Moderation. Nothing In excess." - Socrates vs. "Eat, Drink, And Be Merry, For Tomorrow We May Die" - Ecclesiastes 8:15 and Isaiah 22:13

The phrase "don't shit where you eat" comes to mind. If Walmart could figure out a way to package and sell that at a low low price (legally of course), the days of 200/hr escorts would be over. Btw, I endorse your self imposed rule as I share that as well.

Certainly in my dreams and fantasies they are

May the gay Brits.

And it is my impression that there aren't that many escorts that regularly post there anyway...maybe 4 or 5? I've known several escorts who have posted there for a time but were either driven away or just got fed up with the bs and left. With regards to the comment by Suckrates about get togethers, I've thought about the pros and cons of such events. Perhaps it is worthy of a separate thread but I feel that perhaps it creates a kind of clique that isn't that appealing to some. Just a thought.

I think you've just uncovered his legal team's strategy when he goes to trial...pack the jury with people that fit those profiles.