I Totally agree with you Tampa, but HOW a person expresses themselves is as much a part of the personality as their DNA. To expect a person to tailor their comment, tone or delivery, would be like asking a person to give up a part of themselves. I would rather see the person for WHO they really are and appreciate their honesty. You will NEVER like everyone you encounter in the course of your life, and will also never agree with all of them. Yet your experience with them will color your life in ways you may not always realize. Eventhough Rockhard seesm to be one of the nastiest people on the boards, totally full of himself and so "above" everyone else, I have stopped arguing with him and learned just to read his comments and move on.. However, the impression he leaves on me is indellible.