Suckrates

No, not in this case MsAnn. I was not trying to disparage parisrio, although my post did come off that way. And I am certainly not waging any war with him.. I hope he understands that and we can continue to discuss this in a civil way... You have all seen me when I am UNCIVIL And Annie, I thought WE had something special going on, and to that end, you would know I like RUGALAH ?

I dont claim to be an authority on anything, except Big cocks, and even in that arena, I am still learning... So I am truly out of my element here commenting on the Brazilian escort scene. However, this thread has basically turned into a discussion of the hiring habits and practices of 2 members here, so my comments are focused on that alone... Parisrio, I am sorry for the tone of my previous post, but your comments were as unsettling to me as the pic I posted was to you. I am a bit uneasy about any person "vetting" another, especially when its simply for hire. I can understand if you need to hang onto the idea of the boys you hire being 100% str8, but as the Old saying goes, "if he were 100% str8, he wouldnt be shoving his cock up your ass"... Afterall, he's NOT in prison.... So for you to claim you KNOW with all certainty your boys are Str8 makes me chuckle... The mind is a wonderful thing, it helps us achieve what we need, even if its an orgasm, so I am OK with you seeking out certain types of boys. I'm just NOT as OK with the fervor in which you pursue them . To me its just a bit scary......

Yup, even if its just money.... As for the discussion OZ, sometimes the lines become blurred when people make statements about themselves and their activities. In responding, it just becomes personal by natural progression with No disrespect to anyone.... I hope you can see that ? And honestly, a reply is merely just an opinion of one person, and if its delivered in a manner thats not hostile or threatening, I dont see a problem. Basically, arent these sites or blogs just insights and opinions ????

No, then its just SICK..... You are borderline stalker..... and obsessive I might add. Running a dosier on a potential escort to make sure he is str8 ???? I truly hope you arent serious, and find something more constructive to do with your time. I try not to be judgemental, but you make it Very difficult for me here parisrio....

Another lesson you NEED to learn Sir is that not everything in life is Pleasant, OR about YOU !

Once again, its all Psycholiogical, since you really DONT know their sexual affiliation, you are just ASSUMING it to meet YOUR own personal fantasy. I am not putting you down for it parisrio, but you can see how silly this whole thing is... We create in our own minds the situation we want, and then we go try to manifest it. and we each have our own methods and styles, and TYPES. In reality, the boy you are paying and assuming is str8 could be the GAYEST cocksucker in the hood.... These boys are clever and know what their market wants.. And if they fill your Fantasy, its their job well done.

Catch it Now: ihp and Parisrio

Parisrio suggests he can get escort-caliber boys for FREE... Well then he is simply a fool if he is out there hiring, which also suggests theres something a lot more Psychological going on. Guys that HIRE do so for Control, they want the upper hand, they want to pull the strings and run the show. I have always said that I can get attractive guys without hiring, they may not be escort-caliber, but they are certainly easy on the eyes, and serve MY purpose, and my wallet stays looking very full and pretty . Giving up control is very easy for me when I am saving an average of $250-300.....

Parisrio, I dont tip my doctor or my accountant or my lawyer, in fact I dont tip ANY self employed professional where 100% of the fee goes into his own pocket.... Is just as simple as that... However, in escorting if the boy is working at a brothel type facility I might be inclined to tip him, but not necessarily, and I certainly wouldnt put a ton of thought into it. I would just tip based on my experience and my pocketbook.

Just a brief comment on your comment above. ANYBODY can get offered money by Someone. As they say "there's a cover for every pot" Even Grandma Sucky has been offered a few dollars by the guys at the Senior Center......

This always circles back to WHY people hire. The politically correct thing is to say we should treat people as people, but when you play in the "escort" pool, things are a bit different. It IS a business transaction in reality and the person becomes less human and more of a commodity, like renting a car, except the object has a cock and asshole instead of 4 wheels.... You rent it, use it and return it.... YES, certainly there are those people that hire and HOPE to find a personal connection, build a relationship and have it turn into something MORE, but that is NOT the natural intention of escorting... Overtipping and excessive genorousity is simply a veiled way of gaining the escorts attention and affection and to make him notice YOU. It should NOT be viewed as the same thing as overtipping in a restaurant for good service. There is a much more PERSONAL thing happening with escorting, a service where MONEY TALKS and is the name of the game. Just the very fact that you are paying someone for sex likens the situation to "treating them a piece of meat", truth be told, regardless of how you Consciously want to view it. So stripping away all the cultural and socio-economical stuff, whether you choose the use the word whore, prostitute, etc, it is what it is; one person paying the other to use/abuse his body for a period of time, and it really doesnt require a whole bunch of overthinking or analysis. How you choose to handle the financial part is your own personal business. . . KA-CHING.......

It just all sounds too complicated for MY tastes. I dont wanna think about anything when I go out to suck cock, except the cock, and all this "should I tip or shouldnt I tip" just hurts my brain and spoils the experience.... Cant we just "shoplift" them ?????? Grandma just loves to put the Boys up under her skirt and high-tail it out of the place

Somehow, with the new stars of Today, I have become less and less interested in the Oscars.... They just dont have the Glamour and excitement of Liz Taylor, Lauren Bacall, Cary Grant...... Those were STARS !!!

Its gonna Cost me the Shirt off my Back........

Wish it Were MINE..........

I know, that back pack totally throws me off !

EMPIRE !

I can't even think about it yet. Still getting over Last nights Finale of American Horror Story: Freak Show.... OMG

Is there a Hat in the picture ???