I commend your efforts here. Actually listening to the members is the first step. Have you considered a big party with the escorts as the main attraction? I think that increased escort participation will go a long way towards increasing traffic. How to fund this is certainly a separate conversation.
I really like the "workingboys.com" angle better than the Boy Toy name. I'm not concerned about ISP issues, etc., but, this may exclude the older escorts? That being said, a site that attracts younger users might be a good idea.
The lack of escort reviews is probably related to the lack of mobility issues. When I started with Hooboy I was like 30ish. I really think the days of younger participants has stalled or even ended. The Erik McCalisters, Adler in his day, etc., added flavor the the site.
I also remember younger contributors, as well as more controversy. The "alerts" and "banning" have made any real discussions or an occasional argument impossible. Woodlawn, Doug69, Erik McCalister, Glutes, and many more have disappeared, and I'll probably be next. There are many on here and Daddy's that applaud banning and censorship. Clearly they are in the outspoken minority, in that all of the controversial closed and banned threads are ALWAYS the most popular.
A few examples of what I believe was a more interesting time:
http://www.message-f...9282#post389282
http://www.message-f...8670#post388670
http://www.message-f...7435#post387435
http://www.message-f...1315#post501315
http://www.message-f...1580#post381580