kjun12

I'm using it and don't notice any problems. What is/are the problem(s) you have found?

Have any of you ever been to China and engaged the services of an escort there? I was checking out a site today and it makes me want to try it. Check this out: http://www.chinaoutcallboy.com These boys look really hot to me.

KY Top, you're missing a major point. The man is a politician who is actively pursuing an anti Gay agenda and actually proposing anti Gay legislation. This places him in a different category from a preacher or gospel singer who is just a hypocrite or has a different set of beliefs. These are easily distinguishable.

Don't you dare try to get my job in Thailand.

Deleted as repetitive.

Without a doubt, most of what BiBottomBoy writes fits this definition!

We all want you back Lucky.

President Obama released his birth certificate today proving he is a citizen of the US. What will the republicans do now?

No matter. It is not an expensive place and I like the food. Especially the soup and salad special.

My love one and I just returned from a visit to China. The area we visited was around Guilin and Guangzhou. Not the usual areas but I sure learned a lot. The most serious problem we encountered is that virtually no one speaks anything but Mandarin or Cantonese. This makes it quite difficult to get around. On the plus side are the facts that the people are just like everyone else in the world in that some are very nice and some less. The country that I saw was clean except for public restrooms which can be really filthy. It was a big surprise for me to find the towns so modern. I had expected the old cities like we see in movies. Not so. The train system is second to none in the rest of the world. It is ahead of any in Europe and of course the abysmal system in the US. Did see some really cute Chinese boys that I would like to have gotten to know but language is a real barrier. A return visit to China is on the docket with the Beijing area is the goal.

Some things are just inappropriate and the heading of this thread falls into that category. BiBottomBoy you are basclas.

Unfortunately, it can only be used within the US.

You must use a different name on that site. I don't recall saying anything untoward about anyone called RA1 but you may refresh my memory if you wish.

Gay sex in Thailand comes in many flavors and in several ways. As long as you enjoy sex with Asians you will surely find what you are looking for here. And, if you are willing to pay for it then you will save your wallet much pain and suffering. Sex is cheap in the Land of Smiles. There are basically four ways of connecting with a boy to satisfy your desires. Cruising, two types of bars and massage parlors. The old time honored methods of cruising are all available. Whether you are one who enjoys working parks, toilets in many places, including some of the fine department stores or just walking the streets it is actually easier to cruise here than in the US. Many more boys are available and are easier to make a connection with. Even better if you are under 50. As said above, there are basically two types of bars where you will be able to pick up boys. The first is the old fashioned Gay bar as is found in the West. The two main ones in Bangkok are Telephone Pub and Balcony Bar and both of them are located on Silom, Soi 4. (For those of you totally unfamiliar with Thailand addresses, the name of the main street is given with the smaller perpendicular street or alley given the name soi and usually a number or name.) There are many others but these are the main two of this type of bar. Here you will go in for a drink and look around. Many freelancers work these places and will either approach you or you can talk to them. Usual fee is 1000 Baht ($30) for what is referred to as a short time, which is an hour or however long it takes you to get off. The second type of bar is a “show bar”. Here there will be boys dancing (term used loosely) on a stage. All will be wearing the same swim suit or underwear and will move around the stage trying to get your attention. Each of the boys will have a number attached to their clothing and you will either get the “mamas an” to get one if you want to talk to him or you can motion to him yourself and he will come to sit with you and try to get you to “take him off” (about 300 baht or $10. This means that you will pay the bar a fee to take him someplace for sex. His actual fee is negotiated directly with the boy. The fee they will try to get is about 1500 baht but you can almost always get him for 1000 baht. The downside of these places is the cost of drinks which is, in my opinion, outrageous at 250 to 300 baht. There is often a sex show twice a night but this is just not worth the cost of the drinks unless you are loaded or enjoy this type of thing. Some shows have actual fucking on stage. In addition there are discos and Karaoke bars but I do not frequent them and therefore cannot offer any advice. The last venue to discuss is the massage parlors. This is actually a recent discovery for me. While I certainly knew they existed, I had never gotten a massage for the sex part. They come in many varieties and prices. Being familiar with only one, it is only possible for me to give you some places to read about others. This site rates the places and gives specifics for many, including how they operate. Go to: http://shamelessmack.wordpress.com/category/2-venues/m2m-massage/. It would be remiss of me to not tell you to not miss Hero Massage on Sukhumvit, Soi 11. The boys here are top notch in looks and service. NOTE: While Pattaya is possibly the more popular destination for Gay sex, I don't go there much and am not qualified to give advice or information. Boys, come to Thailand and enjoy yourself!

Be careful BiBottom. You're on the verge of sounding like a repiglican.

Interesting and the Thai boys tell me that Europeans have bigger dicks than US men. I have also noticed that many French men are well hung. That was a big surprise for me.

Can't figure out what BiBottom's problem is. I've used 4 for several weeks on my PC with no problem and I'm not having any problems now. Perhaps you should try to reload it.

You have it!

You are, of course, correct. You also sound like a recording of what my Thai lover says.

Though I have a friend who does not like it, most foreigners tend to enjoy Thai food very much. It is usually made from very fresh ingredients and being cooked as it is ordered improves the flavor over foods which are prepared in advance as in most western restaurants. Don’t think that because of this you will have to wait very long for your food. The Thai method of cooking is very simple and quick and you will be served in a most reasonable time. While Thai food is known for being very spicy this should not be a problem for you because as soon as the waiter or waitress realizes that you are not Asian the spiciness is, usually, automatically toned down. As a measure of insurance you should learn the magic words which are spelled phonetically as “my pet” and means not spicy. Speaking to a Thai person can be somewhat challenging because they try to translate Thai to English in the same syntax as they speak Thai. We do the same thing when attempting to speak Thai. Do not speak English as they do. If you speak English correctly, slowly and clearly they will be better able to understand what you are saying as they usually learned English in school or from English speaking people. Just remember not to laugh if you or they make a mistake when speaking because they will think you are laughing at them and will be more inhibited in speaking with you. Thai people’s feelings can be hurt easily. Be cautious about being drawn into a political discussion about Thai Politics. This is a touchy subject because Thailand has been in political chaos for several years and the people are very much divided in their beliefs and, consequently, their political leanings. They are usually trying to find out if you are friend or foe. This usually begins with a question such as, “How you like Thaksin?” To say the least he is a very controversial former Prime Minister who is presently hiding in Africa to avoid arrest in Thailand but many Thais still support him strongly. They will not say anything harsh to you because Thais are non-confrontational but you will have left an impression by you response and it may be bad. Better to just say: I don’t know enough to answer the question. It is OK to talk international politics with them but as many say “politics and religion are tough subjects to talk about. The thing which drives me crazy about living in Thailand is how the people drive. It’s AWFUL. I have no idea where they learned to drive but you must be constantly on your toes while driving. I did not drive here for the first four years I visited and it was one year of living here before I started. If people in the US drove like Thai people do there would be blood in the streets and I don’t mean from traffic accidents. It would be from fists and bullets. They are the worse drivers I have encountered and this includes Rome and Mexico City and people in those places drive badly. This is not just in Bangkok but throughout the country. Whoever taught them to drive must have been blind and stupid. Lines in the road mean nothing to them. They speed, change lanes without regard to how close you are to the car in front of you, and often turn from an outside lane right in front of your vehicle. This does not even take into account the myriads of bastards on motorbikes who follow no rules or laws whatsoever. I get so pissed at them that sometime I wish I had a stick to hit them in the head. Enough, my blood pressure is up just writing about it. That’s it for this part of my ideas of what it is like to live in Thailand. Next time I’ll try to tell you what sex is like here.

Please avoid shopping at Target. In the past they have said they would avoid supporting anti-Gay persons or institutions but they have not done this. Most political contributions they make are to anti-Gay politicians or causes. See this latest report: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/03/08/l...t_n_833209.html

Woah, that boy can strip for me anytime and anywhere. I'd like to play with his "junk" and anything else he would allow. He's hot/cute.

Unfortunately, I have never seen Priscilla as a stage event. Only in the movies. If I go back to the states and it is playing I'll be sure to go.

Zipper, Yes, I am from the US. Lived in Louisiana all of my life and swore I would one day move to a cooler place. Well, I moved but to an equally hot and humid environ. My initial thought in coming here to visit was for the sex. It is better than anywhere else I'd visited. Then I found a mate and moved here to be with him. I'm 66 and he's 43. He is a really great guy with a good job. Not some money boy bleeding me for what little I have. As to my attraction to Asian men, I have always found them exotically attractive. As to sex with them,I can only address this issue as to Thai men. They are very much different than Westerners in their approach and beliefs in this area. Not as hung up. I have to go now because my taxi is here to pick me up to go to the dentist so I will write more later.

For all of you who have never been to Thailand: You can’t imagine what you are missing. On most Gay discussion boards all that is mentioned is that it is a sex capitol. While this is true, there are many other reasons to visit here. I’ve been living in Thailand, specifically Bangkok, for four years. During that time I have not yet learned to speak Thai but I’m now back on track with an instructor and hopefully will become somewhat fluent and able to talk to more people. While many Thais speak at least some English, it is patently unfair to expect them to speak my language while I’m in their country. And, I want to speak to many, like my neighbors, who cannot speak English. Their language will seem very strange to you and the written language is particularly mystifying. Not the characters we use. More like Sanskrit. Don’t worry, as a visitor, the population here will do their best to assist you in any way they can and you will not be lost. I would be remiss if I would fail to tell you some things about the people themselves. Thais are very physically clean people, many of them bathing twice a day. This has a bit to do with the warm climate but also, because they think body odor is a big no, no. This is personified by the fact that when you get a Thai massage they will always wash your feet first. The foot is considered the most unclean part of the body because it is closest to the earth. You should never point at anything with your foot. This is particularly taboo. Being polite is considered a very important virtue and it is very bad karma to insult another person. As an example of this I will relate the following: All of us were sitting around drinking and one of the non Thais was getting pretty loose and began telling some very tall tales. No one called his hand on this in even the most light hearted way. If anyone had done this he would have been considered to be the bad egg of the group. Non-confrontational is the Thai way. There are many other interesting things I would like to tell you and if anyone is interested I will follow this installment up with more things about visiting Thailand and what to expect. If any of you have specific questions, please ask and I will try to respond.